Matt Forney, over at Roosh's mouthpiece, Return of Kings, wrote an article titled Why “Men Going Their Own Way” Is No Way For Men To Go: The creeping cult of male loserdom
Return of Kings is an ad-revenue wordpress style e-zine, so I don't recommend going to their heavily ad-laden site. So, here's a transcript, for commentary purposes for those interested in discussing, quote:
Why “Men Going Their Own Way” Is No Way For Men To Go The creeping cult of male loserdom
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In the past few months, Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) has completed its devolution from a sensible philosophy of masculinity into a cult for lonely virgins. While I never identified as MGTOW myself, the old-guard MGTOW blog NO MA’AM (whose owner, Rob Fedders, has become so embarrassed by what MGTOW has become that he’s wiped almost all mention of it from his site) was a huge influence on my thinking; indeed, it was my introduction to anti-feminist thought in general.
The men who created the MGTOW philosophy a decade ago—zed, Ragnar, Rob Fedders etc.—were learned men, who’d seen the horrors of second- and third-wave feminism first-hand. They rode motorcycles, banged girls and read books, sharing their findings via blogs and forums. MGTOW was deliberately conceived as an “anti-movement,” in response to the impotence of men’s rights’ activists, and the “marriage strike“—the most recognizable part of modern “migtow” bleating—wasn’t even mentioned in the original MGTOW manifesto.
As it exists now, MGTOW has become a lonely hearts’ club for the refuse of the male species. Not only are most Virgins Going Their Own Way personally repellent losers, their “philosophy” is completely wrongheaded. Men Going Their Own Way will never appeal to anything more than the rejects of American society because it’s a philosophy that denies the fundamental nature of human beings. “Lack Of Sex Can Drive A Man Crazy”
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One common talking point of “migtows” is that their beliefs represent a completely new take on masculinity: the rejection of male subservience to women, or “pussy worship” as the permavirgins call it. This shows how historically illiterate—and arrogant—they are.
Spiritual and philosophical movements focused on celibacy and the denial of base urges have a long pedigree in human history, from early Buddhism and Jainism in India to the Catholic priesthood, monastic orders such as the Trappists, and quasi-Christian off-shoots such as the Shakers.
While it might inflate the bloated ego of the average “migtow” to be compared to great religious movements of the past and present, MGTOW fails even on that front. Monks and nuns don’t take the vows because they’re angry at not being able to get a date, they choose their lifestyles because they want to become closer to God.
Aside from avoiding women (in actuality being rejected by them), VGTOWs indulge in every vice available to them, from Cheetos to video games to masturbation. Their lifestyles are the very opposite of self-control.
The “migtow” aversion to interacting with women also has a less pleasant parallel to radical feminism. In the 1970’s, extremist feminists such as Andrea Dworkin argued for “political lesbianism,” where feminists only had relationships with other women, regardless of their sexual orientation. Dworkin’s logic was that since men were oppressing women, feminists who dated men were literally fraternizing with the enemy.
I wouldn’t be surprised if some “migtows” start advocating “political homosexuality” in the future. After all, since women are evil, ball-cutting, divorce-raping succubi, the only safe relationships are to be had with other men.
If you bang a dude, he won’t jam you for child support or falsely accuse you of rape, and you certainly won’t be “worshipping pussy” if you pack fudge (You’ll just be exposing yourself to HIV and drug-resistant gonorrhea, but hey, you gotta take the good with the bad). The Masculine And The Feminine
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More to the point, MGTOW will never catch on for the same reason that political lesbianism never became popular: they both deny the fact that men and women want to be with each other.
“Migtows” redefine all male-female relationships into male servitude of women, much in the same way that radical feminists recast relationships as men oppressing women. The problem with this is that the relationship between men and women is one of the most fundamental aspects of human existence. As Jack Donovan stated in his book No Man’s Land, masculinity and femininity are defined in opposition to each other; without one, the other cannot exist.
The idea that men can go it alone or that any form of relationship with women is “pussy worship” is a perversion of the flawed libertarian belief that the smallest unit of society is the individual. Both libertarians and VGTOWs ignore that humans are fundamentally interdependent, with countless relationships—laws, customs, family connections etc.—binding us. A society of atomized, disconnected individuals is no society at all. The smallest unit of society is not the individual, but the relationship between two individuals.
The reality is that as frayed as relations between the sexes are, men and women still fundamentally want to be together. Even the most Instagram-obsessed, passive-aggressive, narcissistic Millennial girl desires a man to take her. And despite their whinnying, the average Doritos-munching “migtow” would go “pussy worshipper” in a flash if a cute, agreeable girl was dropped in his lap. MGTOW, Will You Please Go Now!
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In the end, Men Going Their Own Way is a passing fad, limited to a few bottom-feeders who would have been shipped off to die on the battlefield in epochs less squeamish than our own. The de facto Marxism of most major “migtow” YouTube personalities—as evidenced by their pathological obsession with bashing “TradCons,” their autistic term for anyone who acknowledges the natural place of men and women—also renders them useless.
reddit, ancap-biochemist's note: if Matt Forney ever reads this, then I'd just like to tell him that I would prefer being useless in your view. What you're selling - I don't want. I would suggest you enjoy your "neomasculinity" and kindly fuck off, but keep getting the acronym of MGTOW out there if you want.
Despite their claims that “there’s no difference between the left and the right,” “migtows” almost never attack the misandrist, feminist left, even though it’s the left who holds all the power in the West.
Their impotent rage against anything deemed “TradCon”—even though “TradCons” have virtually no influence in society—indicates that “migtows” are just as opposed to the natural order of humanity as the average pierced-lipped, easily “triggered” Tumblrina.
“Migtows” are the social justice warriors of the manosphere: hysterical, intolerant of criticism, and driven entirely by emotion. Their vision of masculinity is one in which men turn inward, refusing to accomplish anything of value or engage with the world beyond crying on the Internet. MGTOW is no place for men who are proud of being men.
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May the digital millennium copyright act, revised edition have mercy on my soul, as commentary on materials in the public sphere is protected. All hail Zeus.
It's a circus, watching these tradcons lash out at anything that threatens their fragile sense of tradition.
That's all the commentary I feel like giving.
6,129 readers on this sub, 37 here now. I fail to see why people feel threatened by perpetual bachelors who enjoy being bachelors. I would rather MGTOW be a ghost-community, like a secret that people outside of it don't discuss. I just want to be left alone to build my life as I see fit, personally. Meh. Just more tradcon nonsense, shaming language, and noise.
edit I don't actually want a ghost community, I think "secret brotherhood" is more accurate. Though I do tend to ghost. Also, MGTOW are intolerant to criticism, as Matt Forney suggests, which is confusing because here I am reading ad hominem fallacy after ad hominem fallacy, trying to sift through it to find the critical element, for critical analysis... finding nothing but a naturalistic fallacy, or "the argument from human nature" as the moral standard. By that logic, it's perfectly natural for women to be gold diggers, therefore, gold digging is moral (by that logic). It is also moral to shit.
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Egads this is too funny... I love this part for example:
That's right. We are now informed that these three "uber wise men" -- bad-ass motorcycle riders for gosh sakes (I mean you can't top THAT can you?)
They CREATED this -- this unique never before (ever in the entire history of mankind) seen "philosophy", they did so ex nihilo (literally out of nothing/nowhere), with no prior precedent, etc etc yada yada blah blah...
ROTFLMAO.
Oh, and then the "movement" (or was it "anti-movement"? "bowel" perhaps?) part.
Every guy who recognized that this "new" thing was actually something that he himself had already been doing for several decades... yeah, see he didn't realize it, but he was in fact just a "disciple" of one of these "marvels" of the universe. Ignorant and uninformed until they came along and created this... well, this "hashtag" label.
And then there was this part:
Anyone here ever SEEN a photo of the dude who wrote this whiney arsed little rant?
If so, you know he's no one to engage in any "ad hom" attacks. Because well, can you say ugly-ass fat fuck? Seriously, you can SMELL the BO emanating from the dude's fat-folds and the never-washed tshirt-sweatshirt (and the shaved head and scraggly little "Van Dyke" beard, yeah just about every guy I've ever met who grew one of those... did it because it's all they could grow {well, with the aid of some shoe-polish or mascara}).
LOL.
Oh if you haven't seen a pic of him... well, here he is in all of his Guru-glory.
Gawds what a steaming pile.
Take it for what it is... an ad-revenue based website that is now PANDERING for a wider audience -- just like a magazine or newspaper panders & sensationalizes to get more readers, or Oprah brings on bullshit guests to get more viewers.
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I have that beard... It's all I can grow... Damn.
I'm also in significantly better shape than that fat fuck, with a full head of hair, so I'm keeping it. Fuck you.
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I always found this attitude that some of the PUA derelicts take towards MGTOW to be particularly laughable. Suppose for a moment that their description of the movement was 100% accurate. Then why would they care? Surely a bunch of men who both can't and won't compete with them for the pussy they need to be validated by are so far removed from relevance to their daily life as to not merit comment, much less countless poorly structured essays. The reality is that the impetus to attack is because it inspires doubt in them. Seeing a group of men capable of prioritizing their own happiness over pussy forces them to confront whether or not they've made the right life choice and what that'll translate to in another ten or twenty years of life.
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Good thing these people will never have any power over my life whatsoever. If they weren't bottom-tier scam artists preying on the naive and vulnerable, I would wish them all the best in their projects.
Does anyone remember the PUA movement from the early 2000's, and how full of clowns and scammers it was, with their 'merchandise' and $5000 'seminars' teaching the 'secrets of attraction'? It eventually morphed into a vague 'self-help' movement, before it became conjoined to the manosphere. These neo-traditionalists are the heirs of those initial profiteers and opportunists, seeking to make a quick buck by co-opting and parasitizing any movement they are allowed into. This isn't really about traditionalism, or feminism, and certainly not about men's best interests. It's about forming a captive audience of shmucks who will buy their books, click their ads, and support them through donations.
You can tell by the aggressive language how desperate these people are to convert the very people they're attempting to shame back into compliance. Nearly every sentence is an attack on the male ego in the form of virgin-shaming (projection much?).
I agree with this, if by 'catch on' he means 'being adopted by the majority of men'. The majority of MGTOW today are MGTOW by circumstance, because too many men have been burned in divorce court and the word is getting out. Very, very few men have the constitution and the temperament to adopt MGTOW as a personal calling. If life ever becomes difficult again (say, after some economic catastrophe) and our current social arrangements break down, women will flock back to traditionalism and marriage 1.0, and most men will enthusiastically take up their provider/protector role again. As the immortal barbarossa saying goes, most men are a blowjob away from jumping ship. In a recent barbarossa video, he talked about how feminism and traditionalism (or its 'neomasculinity' variant) are two sides of the same coin, complementing and bleeding into one another, competing for the prize of male labor. This is what it at stake here.
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