What has happened to nice guys? Why are nice guys always treated like shit? 100 years ago it used to be that when a guy was nice,he got the girl. When a girl saw a guy that was nice to her(a gentleman) she thought that he would be a great provider and a loving father. Thats why she went with him. When she saw that a guy brought her flowers,opened doors for her,paid the bill and been a gentleman, she thought that he would be a great guy to have a family with. Now we went the opposite way.The bad guys are worshipped, the nice guys are boring. Can u guys tell me what has changed to make this happen? Why are girls more attracted to assholes than nice guys in this day and age?