Seems true enough

007MGTOW · 2019-07-29T16:26:29+00:00

Took me years to realize walking away from arguments and drama was the only solution. Trying to be the NiceGuy^TM and being the perfect boyfriend is a pipe dream. They want a guy with issues to match their issues. I figured out being an asshole is the only way to deal with them in every aspect.

miketrance · 2019-07-29T16:23:15+00:00

Not true. This implies they need a reason. In my experience the sort of woman being referred to here doesn’t need a reason, making one up is good enough.

westnblue · 2019-07-29T15:20:22+00:00

lol.

All relationships fail even the seemingly good ones are just going through the process

Chaos1990 · 2019-07-29T17:08:50+00:00

"Im bored."

All the reason she needs.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-07-29T14:57:02+00:00

Very true. My ex was like that. Always argued just for the drama, I gave her the silent treatment and she would hate it and would shut up. It’s all about attention

TheLastMgtow · 2019-07-29T17:22:15+00:00

False. They hate good guys, because they feel attracted to bad/violent men and also enjoy the drama.

Dont forget nice guys and the bluepill are the reason societies ultimately fail, because they are the biggest enablers of bad behavior from women.

The bad man are bad only from our standards. In nature, a bad man ultimately is free and a survivor.

Ultimately, women dont want their offspring to inherit the genes of men who work, are honest, and pay taxes. Because they rather have the kids from a violent dangerous man that risks everything for a chance at success, than a nice man who is submissive to the system, plays along, and is basically a slave.

Raider_Scavver · 2019-07-29T18:41:44+00:00

Women hate good men. Solution: never be a good man to women. Let them stew in their own self inflicted misery without help, aid, or a shoulder to cry on.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-07-29T17:40:20+00:00

Usually they don't need a legitimate reason. They'll just invent some shit. Plus, they are delusional by nature.

GRIFFITHdor1230 · 2019-07-29T16:56:35+00:00

Didn’t stop my ex from breaking up with me and continuing her ride on the CC. Any reason will eventually be a justified reason as they lower their standards to what is deemed “breakup worthy”

Mgtow_troaway · 2019-07-29T19:08:01+00:00

Have you not met women? If they want to make you look like the bad guy, you will look like the bad guy.

harv1966 · 2019-07-29T16:18:43+00:00

I agree.

Ice-Berg-Hermit · 2019-07-29T18:42:10+00:00

How about the classic

“It’s not YOU it’s ME”

😂

As if that makes things better

warrior_up · 2019-07-29T18:49:41+00:00

False. Just takes em longer to ruin them.....throw in a couple kids with marriage, these guys leave with nothing but the shirt on their back.

MikeRocksBoat · 2019-07-29T20:32:11+00:00

Nice guys are the fuel that gaslighters sniff

GuntherPrien · 2019-07-30T00:02:47+00:00

That's funny...I distinctly remember one woman who was enraged because I was so nice to her she was feeling bad about treating me in a crappy manner...so naturally it was "my fault" for making her feel this way. But she was the one who chose to behave in such an atrocious manner, and she was the one who was responsible for her own feelings...but....somehow it was "my fault"....and that was just a platonic relationship that ended badly (her doing: not mine). But I was very young, I didn't understand any of it...it was very confusing to me at that time. Now I know women better than when I was young. I know how their minds operate and the disconnect between what they publicly say they want and what they actually want on a subconscious level, and how they resolve this conflict by shifting blame and rage on the man in question, followed by rationalization for piss poor behavior on their part.

charvo · 2019-07-30T03:35:15+00:00

Nice guys used to be more highly valued because women were living in an age of scarcity rather than the abundance we generally have in the West. Women want the CC because it is exciting. What was needed from men in the past is not the same as is needed from men now. Decadence in society leads to moral degradation of females. That is quite evident. Parental abdication of responsibility in the upbringing of their daughters have led to women picking the bad guy and wanting the excitement. The decline of the West has led to many nice guys going MGTOW because it is really the only option unless you want to deal with the threat of divorce rape. My cousin divorce raped her husband of 25 years. He was a nice guy. She's going to go back to her bad boy boyfriend when she was younger. Game over for the husband.

pacman47 · 2019-07-30T03:10:56+00:00

My girlfriend in college one time got pissy with me asking me “Why don’t we ever have fights?” And began to get argumentative and started to through shit at me. Ended it the next day.

russian_bot_01 · 2019-07-29T20:17:45+00:00

Apparently I was too defensive.

Gemjab · 2019-07-30T00:12:49+00:00

True...but I'd like to make a distinction between a "good guy" (ie a guy who has his shit together) and a "nice guy" (ie a guy who does all the "right things" but does them in a disingenuous manner because he expects a reward).

I'm convinced that women have disdain for genuinely good guys who have their shit together because it puts the onus on them to get their shit together and that's something most women aren't willing to do. Think about it...if you're an alcoholic who's dating a meth head you're the more responsible half of the couple and that allows you to play the role of victim/hero at will. Women out men with flaws that overshadow their own flaws so they can appear noble on comparison. That's just my personal theory.

JeremyMG84 · 2019-07-29T16:40:14+00:00

Just seems like this guy has had his whole heart broken.

Tissington · 2019-07-29T22:40:52+00:00

They will just make up reasons and probably even believe their own lies.

Mastodon120 · 2019-07-30T00:08:08+00:00

I'm 19. Shy of 20. But the more I went through it, I thought "I'm getting too old for this relationship nonsense".

davisyoung · 2019-07-30T01:44:15+00:00

This goes to the heart of why women and society in general are trying to redefine the term nice guy.

charvo · 2019-07-30T03:40:20+00:00

I wonder if Johnny Depp was a nice guy. His wife took him down bigtime with her accusations. Brad Pitt seemed to be a nice guy as noted by his children, but his wife Angelina was vindictive and spiteful against him. Trump is no nice guy, but the dude is well respected by his former wives.

Mintoxicatedlyace · 2019-07-30T05:59:54+00:00

They don’t care, they walk away anyway, unless it’s a douchebag, coz then they just can’t leave.

tilnewstuff · 2019-07-30T07:06:31+00:00

Not really accurate. Even the best of guys will not be described as "good" by a woman who wants to walk out on him, because he she will twist reality and find a way to malign him. One of the common ones is "neglects me emotionally", which is so vague and subjective as to mean literally anything, including not calling every day and not responding fast enough to texts.

U-94 · 2019-07-30T11:07:18+00:00

Clearly the solution here is to never be boring. Everyday you should be surfing, hunting, rock climbing, closing that big real estate deal, operating a food truck, hitting the gym, doing a verse on your buddy's mix tape, building a boat, playing in a band, looking for a bigger house and meeting her for happy hour.

STOP BEING BORING YOU CUCKS.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-07-30T12:41:47+00:00

Nah they'll already have justified everything in their simple minds. "He doesn't love me enough" is their go to usually.

MrMagtow · 2019-08-02T01:14:56+00:00

The guys are bored? Chuck needs to learn how to make proper sentence structure to avoid ambiguity.

ppp123ppp · 2019-07-29T21:47:16+00:00

To be fair nobody needs a reason to leave a relationship legit or not

nomadg4l · 2019-07-30T07:28:52+00:00

You don't need a reason to leave. Pathetic

Title	Seems true enough
Author	munt4life123
Upvotes	1249
Comments	104
Date	July 29, 2019 2:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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