So, I am typical loser

ProgrammaticallyMeal · 2018-12-28T16:00:03+00:00

only 1 problem in life, women don't want me.

While this very much feels like a curse, I know, it is also a blessing. Perhaps it is a blessing more than it is a curse and that led you here. Your self worth as a man is not determined by the number of holes you put your wiener in. If you want to put your wiener in a hole, have fun with some hot prostitutes.

Your self worth must be the worth you give to yourself. You can improve in your looks and be MGTOW. Go to the gym and have fun. But make sure, you do it only for you. Because you deserve to get treated kindly by yourself.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2018-12-28T15:56:33+00:00

It's up to you. Women are easy to get, you can learn what they want/like.

I've been married twice, lived with various women etc etc.. But at the end of the day, none of them were it.

Edit: you're not a loser, please stop thinking like that.

TaiYongMedical · 2018-12-28T16:02:22+00:00

Sorry, but you can't become MGTOW.

If you still want to be in a relationship with a woman (with all the risks that come with it), then you might as well join the PUA or the incel communities. Either will do. You still worship pussy, and belong with the community of pussy worshipers.

You clearly have no idea about divorce statistics, divorce rape, child support and false rape allegations that come as a direct result from being in a relationship with modern women.

As long as you dream of pussy, or of finding "the one" that will accept you, you will never be free. And if you can't be free, then you can't be MGTOW.

Good luck to you.

mongolian_usa · 2018-12-28T16:08:28+00:00

When you stop caring about being with women is when they'll take notice of you. Remember this above all else. If you weren't worth their time before, then they're not worth yours as you focus on improving yourself and your overall life.

ProclaimTheRepublic · 2018-12-28T16:50:42+00:00

FFs, this is why people think MGTOW have anything to do with incels. Get ready for some very literal interpretation of the no hug box rule, because I'm about to say some shit you won't like.

only 1 problem in life, women don't want me.

That's your problem. You think of this as a problem, you're predicating your self worth on it, and are calling yourself a loser because of it. You've stated you're happy with your job, income, and external activities, so why are you a loser?

Because you think your social status comes from someone else and it's something someone can give you. That's pathetic, and the only thing you described that actually makes you a loser. It's actually why you don't get girls as well, because nobody respects a man who doesn't respect himself, least of all women who are evaluating your potential as a SO.

Until you learn to stop seeking affirmation from other people, don't expect to get women, and certainly don't expect to be a MGTOW.

MobTilliDie · 2018-12-28T16:16:52+00:00

Reject them back, Improve yourself, Make monAAAY! Ha! Ha! Ha!

lifeonvacation · 2018-12-28T16:45:18+00:00

You should continue to improve your appearance for a few reasons outside of women, mostly:

You’ll feel more confident in yourself regardless of attention from women.
Halo effect is very real and this helps you in business and every day encounters
If you do happen to want to fuck a chick, you’ll have the ability to get sex as you need it.

I’ve personally sworn off marriage and long term relationships, but wanting to fuck is just part of life. Being a slave to pussy ain’t though

easeanddelight · 2018-12-28T16:54:46+00:00

Pay for sex. Problem solved. All women are hoes who want resources anyway. Hookers/escorts are honest hoes. You can also get a sex doll, some guys tried it and they say it's close to the real think if you warm it. Or go monk mode. MGTOW is about freedom and options..

UmbrellalikeWetness · 2018-12-28T16:16:50+00:00

Buy some sex. You'll get over it pretty quickly.

Let-It-All-Go · 2018-12-28T15:59:56+00:00

Far from it mate, you alone are greater than an army of thots, GYOW.

eduardkoopman · 2018-12-28T16:04:08+00:00

My rejection count is way higher, must be at least over 400. At least, if I count not ending up having sex as rejection. ( I still ended up with a few lays, and long (4years) relationship. So I didn't feel totally optionless. )

I don't like the idea of a man going mgtow, because women don't want to date a man.
Because, it would mean that a man would stop going mgtow as son as a woman does want to date that man.
That doesn't sound like a strong foundation or reason to go mgtow.
In that case, it's better I think to state/know one is still open to a relationship if the opportunity arises.

Older_Miggy · 2018-12-28T17:11:48+00:00

You're not a loser.

But how many hundreds of women are you willing to piss away time, money and energy on?

Forget chasing and focus on yourself. Maybe you'll have better luck then. Let them chase you. And if they don't, to hell with them.

MarketWatcher9456 · 2018-12-28T18:03:39+00:00

Forgot to add you are NOT A LOSER. Do not put your self worth in the hands of others.

Sol_Install · 2018-12-28T16:26:49+00:00

If you define your worth by a woman, a woman will be your downfall. If women don't want you, find out why. Because women freely fuck men they desire and so on.

hominid_mgtow · 2018-12-28T16:34:46+00:00

But why do you want to keep on trying?

stoopididoit · 2018-12-28T17:21:11+00:00

Sometimes not getting what you think you want is the best thing that can happen to you. The day you see this for yourself will be the day you're ready to go your own way.

ginD4C · 2018-12-28T19:23:36+00:00

Start living for yourself.

Your entire statement came from a perspective of these females that rejected you. You're placing pussy on a pedestal and trying to live up to the standards and expectations of others rather than your own. What you ask in your form of improvement, is improving to meet the shallow vapid standards of these individuals that have placed you in this predicament to now be accepted by them.

Women don't want you? Yeah? Women don't want 90% of men. Think that keeps us up at night trying to audition to be accepted? Do you think we compromise our lives solely around how to be a good utility or court jester? Some might, but not here.

Your life is to do whatever you want with. You call yourself a loser only because you are playing a stupid game, with stupid rules, and a stupid prize. The only winning move is not to play. Don't concern yourself about the perception others have of you. Stop trying to conform to be accepted and stop letting these females validate your existence to how much value your life holds.

Understand that, and come to appreciate it yourself, without giving a fuck to what a surface level onlooker that has not been in your life for more than 2 minutes has to say in regards to who you are and what your life amounts to.

PrometheusAPK · 2018-12-28T19:34:54+00:00

Troll post, but w/e

Listen mate, no matter how attractive a woman is, someone is tired of fucking her. Quite comical too, that is. The fact that a woman really only has her looks and fertility to offer (while a man has literally everything else in the world to offer, you’re not a loser) and yet, someone is tired of having it.

Humans are unusual creatures. We want what we don’t have and once we get it, we want another shinny thing.

Don’t have much else to add, seems like the community has provided plenty.

MarketWatcher9456 · 2018-12-28T18:00:37+00:00

So you have negative 99 problems and want to have a bitch become a plus one? Ok. Now you have negative 98 problems. Then comes the DV charge and you are up to positive 1000 problems.

Biology is a bitch, but don't let it ruin your future.

AbsoluteMonkeys · 2018-12-28T16:04:23+00:00

As long as you rely on external validation you'll never be mgtow, not that you couldn't try but you'd fall into the beta mindset as soon as you get your pee pee touched. One blowjob away from the plantation as they say.

[deleted] · 2018-12-28T16:38:48+00:00

You could, it depends on what you want.

You don't go MGTOW because nobody will have you - there genuinely is a lid for every pot.

You go MGTOW because once you realize what that actually entails: her being skinny and happy long enough to get the relationship or that ring, she slowly raises the temperature of the pot. First is 25lb weight gain. Then somehow you're paying the majority of the bills as she quietly transfers them into your name or otherwise argues that she's performing "emotional labor" (e.g. shopping for the curtains she wants) instead.

Then she will want a huge party in which she is the total princess, where she shows up to be the center of attention amongst all her friends to watch you in a rented tux promise to buy her a house and pay for her kids even after she tires of you and walks out, leaving you in a rented room somewhere spending most of your money on hostile indifferent people you never get to see. And going to jail if you decide not to play along.

bizguy4life · 2018-12-28T17:00:08+00:00

Why ?? Something has to be off.....you need to figure out what that is?

Hygiene? Appearance? Immature? If all your other areas are in check and you're a normal decent clean guy I don't see why you would be rejected by 100 chicks unless you're a 5in you're going for 10,s At which point I would tip my hat to you

Become the best version of yourself and you'll have no issues buddy stop saying that you're a loser that is not true you are the prize!!

bdf39 · 2018-12-28T17:03:57+00:00

If you are in the US you could run up to Canada and check out a nuru massage place. Once you pay for sexual service you realize sex workers are the closest you will get to an honest woman. Way less work, way less money.

Zachjsrf · 2018-12-28T17:32:44+00:00

This annoys me so much. I am Going MGTOW because "insert stupid woman related excuse here" You're a loser because you derive your self worth from relationships and will only MGTOW until you get a blowjob.

Go to a PUA or incel forum. You and those like you are unwelcome here with your fake MGTOW bullshit.

Happy FRIDAY!

selfism_mike · 2018-12-28T19:01:58+00:00

The problem is not that women don't want you, the problem is that you want women.

So you are working in the wrong direction: instead of deminishing and reconditioning your want for women you are trying to accommodate what they want.

Even if you find someone eventually, with your current approach that will extremely likely be a woman who does not care for you, who will just use you for the goods you provide. You will be friendzoned by your spouse and you will never experience the closeness and companionship you dreamt of.

abhilash1991 · 2018-12-28T19:22:10+00:00

Definitely not a loser. And no matter how much anyone tries to make you understand, I know how are you feeling about getting rejected constantly. I was in the same boat for years and years until I just gave up. I'm not kidding, not caring worked and I am in the dating pool since 4 years now. But I never get serious with anyone and will never be. I am never going to marry. I was in love with a girl 7 years ago but she chose another guy and now has a kid with him. They're happy. I'm happy too. So basically, all you need to do is keep enjoying life and try to read more about MGTOW and see if you would be comfortable with this lifestyle. I can guarantee one thing though, if you keep doing your thing and become more successful, you'll get women's attention too.

rejac218 · 2018-12-29T03:26:52+00:00

Take the red pill sir. Open your eyes.

Snakerspug · 2018-12-29T04:53:09+00:00

How you get the income fixed?

ManyRoadLessTraveled · 2018-12-29T17:06:59+00:00

You’re not a loser. Women are difficult and unfair. I’ve been rejected by 1000s of women. I can get the desperate ones, but rather be alone than settle for drunk whores.

Easier said than done as far as forgetting women. But working at it makes it easier.

Media has been women dating up, seeking power, and hashtagging us. Do what you have to do to keep your sanity.

greenleefs · 2018-12-30T16:04:48+00:00

Some people call MGTOW MSTOW, Sent their own way. For the great majority, this is incorrect.

You've got 2 types in your situation: Incels, the ones who are super mad and probably have severe mental problems that they were probably born with. Psychopathy, borderline, etc.

Then you have the FA, ForeverAlone types. They're like incels but they're just sad about it and hate themselves more.

You don't seem angry, so I suggest checking out Foreveralone. Put a /r/ in front of it. I don't like doing the linking thing.

Your primary issue is bluepill. You're pretty old for a bluepiller too. I'm going to suggest something rather creepy: Check out what some of the earlier women are doing now. The ones you approached before. How many dudes have they been with? What did they do with their lives? In fact, don't just do it with those women, but with ALL women in your life. Bosses, colleagues, family, everyone.

You'll see trends. You'll see AWALT.

For example, I've trained many women at my job and all of them became stay at home moms the moment they snatched a guy who could provide them with money or alimony. None of them work. The ones I didn't train. The ones who were trained by a female coworker, they too all became stay at home moms who don't work.

They also all become fat.

I didn't check them out myself. I thought all these women had jobs and that I had trained them well and that I had helped humanity move forwards. It was my female colleague who kept track of them. There was a huge networking event and I suggested we get all the old interns together and she laughed at me. "None of them actually work."

I've stopped training interns since then. I refuse to waste my time on women since women don't work. They get a degree only to catch a dude who is in higher education because those dudes are weak bluepills most of the time and they are reliable ATM machines.

You don't need to read books or listen to prophets like the feminists and religious people do. Just open your eyes, observe, make notes and you'll see.

Mindfulness can be of help here because mindfulness makes you stop applying your own disney biases.

King_INTJ · 2018-12-28T18:53:43+00:00

Don’t change anything about yourself for a woman. Do want you want. Follow your dreams. Work hard to make your life the way you want t to look.

Title	So, I am typical loser
Author	whywhyomgggg
Upvotes	20
Comments	41
Date	December 28, 2018 3:50 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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