Truth.

notreallybeingme · 2019-07-31T14:44:06+00:00

1 and 1/2 years alone I am very addicted to being alone. People suck and cause problems :-)

DangZagnut · 2019-07-31T14:35:51+00:00

A lot of people, early on, haven't learned to enjoy solitude, not loneliness.

Being alone or lonely is just having data starvation. And one needs to get over that.

Despite the bad reputation, staring and watching paint dry is relaxing. Watching waves on the shore is great. Clouds floating by.

People need to disconnect and relax.

SneakyRat67 · 2019-07-31T18:16:40+00:00

A lot of times, that desire for solitude increases with age.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-07-31T14:58:29+00:00

4 years in, don’t see any future with anyone intimately or otherwise. Live in a house with my brother and a dog. Ultimate bachelor pad, no reason to add anything else

GrisBosque · 2019-07-31T14:37:51+00:00

Thats me!!!!!

perfect__zero · 2019-07-31T15:19:19+00:00

The majority of the population don't even qualify as 'people'. They are more like Facebook avatars.

Anonymoose_wrex · 2019-07-31T16:26:07+00:00

I have been living alone in my house since around 2010. So yeah, roughly 8 years of peace, quiet, and everything right where I left it.

I have no intention of going back.

TheKnightRunner · 2019-07-31T17:41:15+00:00

I'm taking "alone" in this sense to mean not in a relationship. I'm nearing 4 months of not pursing dating, and 2 and a half years being single. Every day that passes, I become less interested in ever being in a committed relationship again.

CpuDoc67 · 2019-07-31T19:22:28+00:00

This is the damn truth!! I live in a house by myself and I love it. It is addicting indeed. I love the peace!!!!

I fully understand how and why people go live in the mountains.

Marc85z · 2019-07-31T17:15:46+00:00

It's a double edge sword like everything in life.

You have more time to work on urself and reflect on ur plans, problems and thoughts, strong justice warrior and idealistic, on the other it can be devestating, because you tend to disregard other viewpoints and you are more prone to selfdoubt, autistic stuff, rolling ur eyes, depression and general anxiety disorder.

If you are alone for a long time, it's a character flaw, or a looks flaw or you are so far on the bells curve right that u need to take a lot of hits. It's way harder for the average pleb to even approach u and make any sort of meaningful connection if we even asume he/she has good intentions which in most cases I haven't found so far. Most of them were goldiggers, emo-sociopaths and drama queens.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2019-07-31T17:20:47+00:00

So very true, I have been thinking I need to get out a little more so I don't forget how to interact with people, I mean I have to deal with them at work but outside of that I don't see people all that much and I am loving it, perhaps a bit too much.

QuadraticLove · 2019-07-31T19:47:11+00:00

Need to be careful with that, though. That helps destroy the sense of community. We are social creatures, and isolation is damaging to your health.

Joroda · 2019-07-31T18:30:30+00:00

That's me 100%

itstreasonthen1986 · 2019-07-31T16:26:05+00:00

I don't at all. I love being this content and zero strings. I have my kid and I focus on her and that's that.

redandnarrow · 2019-07-31T20:48:37+00:00

Not worded very well. Seems like they mean single. Isolation is death. Human flourishing requires community, it should be our default state whilst it taking intentional energy for solitude which is also important for reflection/meditation/prayer/recharging.

TheRealEyesWideOpen · 2019-08-01T00:33:51+00:00

6 years alone.

Home paid.

Late 30s.

Never going back to the plantation.

I have girlfriends; I see someone about once a week for the relationship experience. Then she leaves.

Will always live alone. No marriage, no cohabitation, no procreation.

robuks122 · 2019-07-31T22:22:17+00:00

It starts from understanding that being alone shouldn't count as being lonely because sometimes being with group of people makes you feel lonely. It takes some time to learn living in soltitude, but once you get it, life gets a lot better. Sometime ago I was desperate for company, but today I love to be alone, do things that I like, exercising, taking walks in nature, doing hobbies. You have to invest in yourself, know yourself. Once you learn to live in soltitude you will see how doing what you love and being true yourself makes you feel not lonely even though you are alone, the need for "someone" will be gone.

[deleted] · 2019-07-31T20:26:34+00:00

Especially if before you got your solitude you were nagged relentlessly by some ex cunt, you cherish it even more!

FlyinSideboardPl · 2019-07-31T20:38:59+00:00

Except it's just not true

Red_Pill_Philosopher · 2019-07-31T21:22:36+00:00

Exactly how I feel.

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-07-31T21:25:00+00:00

Oooh luckily I don’t have that issue

JCXRookie · 2019-07-31T22:58:07+00:00

At first being alone brought me pain. Now my pain has been turned into determination to push for something that I put off years ago. Onwards

Super_Saiyan_Jbob · 2019-07-31T22:58:19+00:00

Almost 3 years and my life is simple

propanehoepain · 2019-07-31T23:33:07+00:00

What should I do when I get really lonely? I like being alone most of the time , doing what I want. Not having to cater to someone elses needs. My music, my movies. No one there to complain about me eating like a pig. But somtimes I get this creeping feeling of loneliness, it builds and builds until I feel like screaming or crying for someone to help me, to save me from this self-built prison of loneliness. How do I revel in my solitude instead of being a little bitch and whine about feeling lonely?

Belly__flop · 2019-08-01T00:28:38+00:00

I’ve been living alone for about 20 years, with the exception of the annual visit to see parents. Also go see younger brother avery 3-5 years or so. I do have to deal with coworkers, but I don’t hang out with them out of work, also no friends and no pets. At 40 years old now, I could never go back to actually living with anyone, pets included. Casual acquaintances once in awhile to meet up and go fly fishing are cool, but I usually just go alone.

BonelessSkinless · 2019-08-01T07:08:25+00:00

Truuuuth

FritzLn · 2019-07-31T23:50:24+00:00

Na not dangerous at all

bobbiscotti · 2019-08-01T01:24:22+00:00

Give me a ranch, my shotgun, and my dog.

ThePaleKing777 · 2019-08-01T03:21:57+00:00

Isn’t this a Tim Curry quote?

Pwner_Guy · 2019-08-01T03:22:04+00:00

7 years in my own home and 5 years in a rental with a housemate before that. 12 years of no bullshit in total and mostly by myself even when I live with someone. Fuckin' eh I have no desire to live with anyone ever again.

3ddie89 · 2019-08-01T04:11:59+00:00

After being single for 8 years. I love it. I go on dates of course, but I dont have noone to answer to and I love it.

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perla-madonna · 2019-07-31T22:03:09+00:00

Living with internet and tv isnt being alone, it's being parasitic

Try to live without Entertainment made by other people and let's see how addicting it is lol

Or stop being a bitch and do something for your social anxiety

invario · 2019-07-31T23:53:55+00:00

r/im14andthisisdeep

Saddness404 · 2019-08-01T01:43:25+00:00

r/im14andthisdeep

Title	Truth.
Author	Brotherlouie100
Upvotes	1094
Comments	56
Date	July 31, 2019 2:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/ck9a2i/truth/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/truth.414021 https://theredarchive.com/post/414021

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