Wisdom

TheLastMgtow · 2018-11-18T22:08:35+00:00

Just mess with them by asking "Do you feel like there was anything you could have done differently to save the relationship?"

Gr8bellsoffire · 2018-11-18T22:39:11+00:00

The 12 dudes my ex has exposed to our 4 year old kid in less than a year, in violation of the court order, believe it every time.

None of them understand it until they are sitting in the court waiting room looking at carbon copies of themselves do they get the message.

I wish I was joking

Beeinkc9 · 2018-11-19T01:12:53+00:00

You will never hear a woman say "I had a good man and I screwed it up."

They are incapable of admitting fault or short comings.

wathon2 · 2018-11-19T02:41:21+00:00

Isn't funny how every woman's ex bf is an abusive asshole.

CanadianTurt1e · 2018-11-19T03:06:29+00:00

I literally had my ex-gf's new boyfriend try to pick a fight with me because my ex kept telling her new boyfriend that I was an asshole. Everyone who knew my character obviously didn't believe her. But her new bf didn't really know me so he sent me a text telling me to "leave her the fuck alone and fucking apologize to her." LOL

I called the number back and had a friendly conversation with him. No yelling or anything. I think he was really taken back by how kindly I was speaking to him. I told him how my ex would always do this with her new boyfriends. She would lie about her exes being emotionally abusive just to garner sympathy.

I look forward to him getting the same treatment. :)

VerboseQuestion · 2018-11-19T01:13:26+00:00

"If he was such a prick then why did you date him for 7 months?"

"MmMmmMm he forced me into iiiittttt..."

DocHolliday226 · 2018-11-18T22:34:36+00:00

I believed it...

But in my defense, I was young and dumb. With age comes wisdom.

I can only imagine the things she says about me now. I'm sure I was a right devil, despite the reality.

Whirrlz · 2018-11-19T00:00:07+00:00

Every girl I have ever talked to said the their past relationships were bad because of the guy lol. I was so stupid that I believed it. Blue pill is engraved in us so early.

juggernaughtish · 2018-11-18T22:02:05+00:00

That’s so freaking true.

DangZagnut · 2018-11-18T23:44:37+00:00

That explains why they always keep communication with these horrible people.

elementalwalruss · 2018-11-19T03:03:19+00:00

My parents split up when I was 3. My entire life my mother told me my father was abusive and an alcoholic. Turns out that was a lie.

HierEncore · 2018-11-19T03:22:43+00:00

Yes I fucked his brother and blew his father, but he was the asshole, not me.

MGTOWJayJay · 2018-11-19T04:41:57+00:00

“No matter how hot she is, someone somewhere is sick of her shit!” -unknown

binkerfluid · 2018-11-18T23:20:46+00:00

yep, exactly. I shit talk my ex but usually I try to acknowledge that I was a dick too, but I still maintain I was a dick in response to her insanity.

RunawayGrain · 2018-11-19T04:44:44+00:00

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LiveTheTruth321 · 2018-11-18T22:35:32+00:00

No one ever thinks to look at maybe she's lying

JanzqX · 2018-11-19T02:26:19+00:00

That's my mother talking about my father. And my sister talking about her ex. AWALT, I guess.

realChebz · 2018-11-19T00:27:49+00:00

Simps want to believe

owninfools007 · 2018-11-19T00:51:34+00:00

Sometimes they just really date asshole/deadbeats all the way down. Either way: who cares.

Senip69 · 2018-11-19T04:47:54+00:00

“If you keep telling people lies about me I’m going to start acting like the person you describe and the only one who’ll know anything has changed will be you bitch”

Toshiba1point0 · 2018-11-19T01:36:19+00:00

Just my ex who praising me at work not one month before. Idiots fell right for it. Suddenly I’m a useless flake that she has been with for 10 years.

ChiefWarBear · 2018-11-19T01:02:50+00:00

My life right now but not for long.

Bastinad · 2018-11-19T03:15:40+00:00

Spend enough time with her, and that story will be about you too!

BlackBoxInquiry · 2018-11-19T05:14:14+00:00

Yup, everyone is always the bad guy in someone else’s story...

But but “Believe women!”

Fuck that, how about believe the truth??

Browser2025 · 2018-11-19T05:16:39+00:00

Not being happy that she's cheating = abusive, unsupportive.

Harrybud07 · 2018-11-19T01:04:15+00:00

That is why, when a female tells police she was abused by the male, the male goes to jail FIRST, until they can sorted out. Now a days you will lose you job, reputation and even freedom and its up to you to fight and get them back... growth of MGTOW direct response to the ever growing danger of getting into a contract/marriage with females, rewards of marriage no longer worst the risk or fulfillment for a Man.

Thizzlebot · 2018-11-19T03:58:41+00:00

lol I was telling this to someone the other day because this is how my ex gf views me. I know I'm a cunt but her side of the story is she's an angel and im the devil lol

therapeuticnihilism · 2018-11-19T04:16:55+00:00

Upvoted for truth. Doesn't work the other way ofcourse. Anytime someone calls me an incel I remind them I've fucked more women than they ever could. So i know women are trash

"Well than it musta been something you did!"

HMMM let's see. One I was working six days a week to take care of because she was autistic and she STILL left me.

Another I gave lots of gifts too and she basically lived with me despite how I hate people around me constantly and she stole a lot of money from me.

Most just either ghosted or grew totally ambivalent after a while and they drifted from me.

Oh and than there was the one i was with for five years and was so aggravated with wasting five fucking years with i bullied and harassed for another good two years before she made me stop via a court order.

But yeah sure it was me... I mean maybe. The pattern? Women don't love men who love them.

2018-11-19T04:54:56+00:00

If all her exes are assholes/abusive/losers.... then she's the problem.

notsogreensalad · 2018-11-19T01:09:31+00:00

The mgtow way is the saviour of men

vices2virtues · 2018-11-19T05:32:04+00:00

You Fucking rock Bro! I am so happy for you, I hope you learned your lesson with women

mount_of_jack_squat · 2018-11-19T08:38:17+00:00

I used to think like this, now I think twice before agreeing with women

Onsen_ · 2018-11-19T11:44:00+00:00

I know buddy who has abusive girlfriend. Recently he tried to do suicide, and now are on antidepressants. I know family(mother and sister) of his girlfriend as well. And you know what - they don't even consider possibility that it is his girlfriend's fault. They just blaming him nonstop what a fool he is and he can't get his shit together.

Women will never take responsibility.

DatBoiGames · 2018-11-19T12:55:26+00:00

Basically. Father left when I was a baby, Mother claims it was because of excessive drinking etc. Father claims it was because she cheated because he worked too much.

Alekhine82 · 2018-11-19T10:31:06+00:00

There is always to side to a story. Her side or the truth.

footloosemonk · 2018-11-19T10:51:42+00:00

MGTOW sub. Because men share their experience and then they can relate it and form the collective wisdom.

I sometimes wonder whether we are also a type of echo chamber- but then the last girl I ghosted repeated the exact sentences in this pic when describing her bf. Add to this 'I truly didn't love him. He manipulated me to do things'.

robowriter · 2018-11-19T11:23:32+00:00

True, their ex always the bad guy. If you hear it, it's a red flag. And she'll gaslight him and it's never, ever her fault. I heard countless times before as she'll try to virtue signal herself into your favor.

If you know this you dodge a bullet because your next. Once she starts this tactic, whatever she says you'll find were predominately lies.

GizmoRazaar · 2018-11-19T13:02:35+00:00

Now I look like a villain at my high school, thanks to my ex.

LavochkinSocDem · 2018-11-19T13:51:29+00:00

Just think, in two weeks or two years time, the same story could feature your-name as the evil arsehole!

tyronwind · 2018-11-19T10:12:37+00:00

"Plausible deniability" as they say. Every women does this, but most guys until they pass through the anger phase are like that as well. The difference is that we do pass it and go through the self reflection needed.

2018-11-19T10:45:07+00:00

So-called light-switch effect.

reaper555 · 2018-11-19T13:06:18+00:00

Me ex said the same thing about her ex bfs how they were terrible. I expect her to say the same about me.

2018-11-19T13:57:26+00:00

Women agree because they will gain her support when they say the same thing about their next ex-boyfriend,.

Men agree because he is trying to get into her pants.

teslaistheshit · 2018-11-19T14:19:42+00:00

Thankfully, my soon-to-be-ex-wife publicly degraded my humanity enough that literally everyone supports my leaving and only thinks less of her.

So I got that going for me.

fortunaaudentesiuvat · 2018-11-19T15:42:17+00:00

That's how I lost most of my "friends", after shit hit the fan. She made sure that her version will reach them first. I did not bother to explain. Now she has them all.

teslaistheshit · 2018-11-19T15:59:23+00:00

My ex (after I filed for divorce) spread the typical "he's a cheating abusive alcoholic" to all my family and friends. Not one shred of evidence and she admitted to our marriage counselor that she drank too much. To this day I can't believe I paid to be someone's emotional tampon and financial sponge. Fuck that noise.

EnditAll4me · 2018-11-19T09:12:53+00:00

she’s probably telling this to some chump whose buying her drinks and telling her he’s a male feminist. Women are the remora of the world

squidracer · 2018-11-19T14:11:11+00:00

I've made a few ex gfs stutter over this. They would start ranting about how horrible their ex was.

I would always reply, ", so your saying your perfect and nothing is ever your fault?"

Put them on the defensive every single time. I'm sure they told the next guy about how awful I was lol

Dank_Meems · 2018-11-19T14:15:59+00:00

Every girl with an ex in 2018 has been "abused" and is a "survivor". women are a meme.

TigPlaze · 2018-11-19T14:30:09+00:00

"Cool, now she'll see the light at go for a good guy like me." <==== Thought be every orbiter.

gaia2008 · 2018-11-19T19:27:10+00:00

Wait until the silver bullet restraining order, the Wife puts on you as she prepares for the divorce, it’s to have you marched out of the house by cops and you having no access to anything even your kids, she decides what you get there on.

NoMo_NoMo_NoMo_NoMo · 2018-11-19T21:02:28+00:00

Turns out I'm an abusive alcoholic who cares more about my job than her or the kids. Told everyone that'd listen that I'm verbally, mentally, and physically abusive and that she felt trapped and scared whenever I came home. Unreal.

Jarin01 · 2018-11-20T15:12:38+00:00

Most women I have known have all had a string of bad relationships that they just love to tell you about. It was always the guys that were assholes. But the one thing she will never admit is that the common denominator in all these relationships that went bad was her.

EmaDaCuz · 2018-11-19T03:59:38+00:00

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oprahsbuttplug · 2018-11-19T04:28:06+00:00

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Title	Wisdom
Author	screwston281
Upvotes	1273
Comments	98
Date	November 18, 2018 9:51 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ya75a/wisdom/
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