“You’re making my life hell”

leftfulrhys · 2019-10-25T09:44:04+00:00

Mate. You have to leave her. Surely it can only get better. Like what the fuck are you doing. Wake up

BadWardrobe · 2019-10-25T11:37:42+00:00

I'm not going to try to convince you to leave her like everyone else is. I don't know your situation or your options. I'll just tell you a story about one of my best friends. He was one of a group of guys I went to school with and have known for just shy of 25 years.

He was a hardworking man, if not the sharpest tool in the shed. He got up at 4am every day to work a shit job that he loathed so that he could feed his kids and keep his ungrateful, fat, nagging, whining bitch of a wife "happy". Long story short, she cheated on him, like how your girl is cheating on you. He knew she was doing it. She knew he knew she was doing it... And yet, the stupid fucker wouldn't leave her. He couldn't leave her. He hated her and loved her in equal measure. She had him in the palm of her hand and she knew it, like a child torturing an insect with a magnifying glass. From an outside point of view it was both heartbreaking and, honestly, pathetic to watch.

They argued and fought all the time. He was sleeping on the sofa in his own house and would constantly be woken up by her coming back late at night after having just fucked some guy. His mental state was deteriorating, he was losing weight, like you, and he just looked totally fucking haunted. And that is the word for it, haunted.

I told him to pack up a suitcase of his essentials and leave her. All his other (male) friends told him to do the same thing. I offered to put him up until he could find a new place. He wouldn't take me up on the offer. He said he would save up some money and leave her "in a few weeks". I suggested until then that he get out the house as much as possible, come over and have a few beers, accompany me on hikes, whatever, just to spend as little time around her as was possible. He wouldn't take me up on the offer. He told me he was going on a week long camping trip with her and the kids to "patch things up". Stuck in a tent with her for an entire week with no where else to go. We ALL told him NOT TO GO - he didn't listen. He could not say no to her. He could not leave her, he was trapped. Until the day he couldn't take it anymore and finally decided to free himself.

The details of that camping trip I still don't know about, but the day they returned he was back in his usual emasculated place: sleeping on the sofa. It was late at night and she was in bed upstairs. He decides to go into the kitchen and take a knife from the drawer, and also gather a hammer from his toolbox. He goes upstairs, kicks the door in to the bedroom and proceeds to crack her in the skull with the hammer and slash at her arms with the knife as she tries to protect her face. Fortunately he didn't put his "all" into the attack, and she manages to get free and runs out of the house and down the road screaming, covered in blood, waking all the neighbours up. He flees the scene, considers throwing himself off a bridge. He later told me he spent a whole hour stood on that bridge feeling 50/50. Thankfully he talks himself out of it and instead he turns himself over to the police.

This is a good man who'd never committed a crime in his life. She drove him to the point of insanity - and none of it, NONE OF IT would've happened if he'd packed up a suitcase and fucking left, stayed in a hotel for a few days, stayed with friends for a few more. He's served his half his sentence now. He'll be out in another 4 years. 8 years of his life *poof* gone.... and what kind of future when he gets out? He'll likely never be able to see his kids again with a stranger present at all times. The newspaper articles all said he was a monster, and that she was a poor little lamb who could do no wrong. This is how he will be labelled for the rest of his life.

I can't rule out that the guy won't go back to that bridge one day and decide to throw himself off it this time.

EfficientBadger · 2019-10-25T09:46:18+00:00

You need to get out now. It's not worth it.

DJ878787 · 2019-10-25T10:35:46+00:00

See young MGTOWs, this is the alternative they are selling you. Learn from this guy‘s mistake.

To op: how to hell did it come to this??

digolbick777 · 2019-10-25T10:57:36+00:00

Wait, you know she's fucking other guys and you're still with her?! What is happening there? Bail, dude, there is literally nothing that could justify staying with her at that point.

79johnsmith · 2019-10-25T11:15:43+00:00

2 weeks? Buy a plane ticket, backpack around South East Asia, rack up a considerable body count (goes without saying, use protection). When you get back, you'll view her (and most women) very differently.

MrMagtow · 2019-10-25T10:40:41+00:00

You know what you need to do.

Morphs_ · 2019-10-25T10:33:04+00:00

Whenever a woman says something, it's always projection and you should inverse the "you/me", so what she's actually saying is: "I'm making your life hell". As if you needed a verbal statement about that.

Anyway, she's definitely not worth it to commit suicide over. Suicide will mean she wins, and she won't shed an honest tear about it, because suicide means you're a weak man. So how low you feel, know that things will get better.

I've was in a similar boat in 2016. Caught feelings for a friend with benefits, got hurt because I was an emotional idiot and wanted to commit suicide. I did have some therapy the year after and realized that loving a woman is truly the most stupid thing a man can do. You can have some fun with them, but you can never love them.

Your best revenge is to forget her and her miserable life and build an awesome life.

MisterPengus · 2019-10-25T11:39:50+00:00

Get the fuck out ! Your lizard brain will try to stop because it is always easy to stick with something you have and hope it will workout than letting go and do effort to move on!

You are stronger than you think, focus on yourself, and put your priorities in your life! We got you

Hakaishin_Vegeta · 2019-10-25T12:04:17+00:00

Bro shes a hoe. Decide you dont love her anymore. It's an empty well, no water at the bottom. Just pour some mother fucking concrete in there....fill it to the top and walk the fuck away. Shes a hoe

Obermarschall · 2019-10-25T09:50:39+00:00

I know everyone will say that you need to leave her, but probably it is difficult for you to do so. Try to get help and go to counselling. I am afraid that there are deeper issues that lead you to be how you are. Keep strong but please go to counselling and remember you have self-worth. Don't end your life because of others and give it a try...life can be a bliss.

fuddubandha · 2019-10-25T10:54:58+00:00

OP, Keep in mind. These monkey's they back flip after they see the grass is fake on the other side. Prepare your mind for this. Listen to videos from Darius M, coach Greg, the 33secrets. Believe me she will reverse monkey branch when she will see how happy you are without her. Silence kills the woman

CutterPillar · 2019-10-25T10:58:03+00:00

Why are event there? You could nailing 10/10 hooker at that time, not giving a single fug about your ex.

kruggerand · 2019-10-25T11:31:20+00:00

You have to learn to treat LOVE like any other obsessive destructive addiction. Would you continue doing heroin, crack cocaine, nonstop gambling at the casino, or daily gorging at the all you can eat buffet for the short time pleasure you experience? Or do you learn to control your addictions and lead a healthy lifestyle? Your life, your choice.

BlasphemousMGTOW · 2019-10-25T17:10:18+00:00

For extra precaution , be nice to her until you leave, don't want a lunatic hurting herself and framing you.

BetaBeGone · 2019-10-26T03:21:57+00:00

If she can make you out to be the abuser by falsely accusing you or provoking you to anger then she can tell the next sucker that she was a victim and needs to be rescued rather than tell the truth and that potential sucker realize her past relationships failed because something was wrong with her.

I would email to myself evidence of her abuse so that it is documented and time stamped.

Hopefully she wont murder you in your sleep.

[deleted] · 2019-10-26T09:18:11+00:00

If you're on MGTOW you know what to do. Otherwise wrong sub.

klim_milk · 2019-10-25T15:43:42+00:00

I admire your courage to commit to this weight loss program. But lifting works just as well, bro. GTFO of there.

meltw4ter · 2019-10-26T04:03:13+00:00

Record this vile cunt use a PI take no chances.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2019-10-25T13:04:08+00:00

Clearly not a healthy relationship. You have a LOT of work to do on yourself. This gash is clearly not a good or healthy person. When you attract bad and unhealthy people into your life that means you are not a good or healthy man. End this toxic relationship immediately, look in the mirror, and start asking yourself the hard questions. Work on yourself and get healthy, body and mind.

thehedgehawg · 2019-10-25T13:24:37+00:00

Dude, you gotta kick her ass to the cub.

Anonymous-Samurai · 2019-10-25T13:43:34+00:00

Kick her out your place ASAP. That behavior is totally unacceptable

ayzedesbe · 2019-10-25T14:10:44+00:00

You think she’s gonna let him go that easily? I doubt it. If a woman has a man who (with all due respect) let’s her walk over him, and she can go out and fuck other men? She’s not going to wanna give that up. Get ready for emotional manipulation, blackmail, her telling your friends and family false information, the works. She’ll try anything she can to try and keep you. If you were really “ruining her life” SHE would have left YOU a long time ago, she uses you “ruining her life” as a justification in her own mind to go and get something else... because “she deserves better”. And don’t be surprised if she admits to being the toxic one, and if she does don’t take that as a reason to get back with her. Good luck to you, bro. Good fucking luck.

souris101 · 2019-10-25T14:49:51+00:00

to be blunt, sounds like you're a total cuck and don't mind being treated like total shit lol. wtf dude.

Double_Cake · 2019-10-25T14:55:34+00:00

Perhaps you get off on being treated like shite?

Are you in a relationship with this woman?

jstrockmeyer · 2019-10-25T15:25:11+00:00

Dude, cant you get a hotel/hostel for these two weeks?

You push her out of sight, you recover by yourself in that room, and when the appartment becomes available, you already go in with some soul cleaning done!

PS: Minus the fetish site, your story sounds like my ex wife

MuleFool42 · 2019-10-25T15:59:15+00:00

Get out. Why are you still there?

Professsor_Q · 2019-10-25T16:05:26+00:00

I wanna say you are posting this on the wrong sub because most people here are like fucking leave you putting your self in this situation. But I feel like this is the sub where you will probably get the support you need because we have been there

anubhav23 · 2019-10-25T16:46:37+00:00

Is she ur wife? Or gf?

SilenceIsGolden321 · 2019-10-25T20:46:53+00:00

"You're making my life hell"

Holy shit. It's like you're not even human to her. Glad you're leaving her.

ajcf7349 · 2019-10-26T21:21:46+00:00

Kick her ass out of call the cops

HelloItsMev1 · 2019-10-25T12:09:10+00:00

Sorry to say this but you are a fucking simp man up and dumb her

Title	“You’re making my life hell”
Author	DJ878787
Upvotes	85
Comments	76
Date	October 25, 2019 9:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dmv0nl/youre_making_my_life_hell/
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