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Another good example of hypergamy

KomSaaDeHvie

June 28, 2021
1 upvotes
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Title Another good example of hypergamy
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KomSaaDeHvie

Upvotes 1
Comments 39
Date June 28, 2021 8:41 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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[–]Diligent-Education64 61 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So you lost a mentally ill girlfriend who you were scared might call rape if you weren't careful. You had some sexual adventures together, now she's gone and it didn't cost you a dime and you were not arrested.

Excellent news. When is the party? Get drunk, get over it and find someone new. It just takes two weeks... ; )

[–]AirSailer 21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Mentally ill for sure.... These days "Trauma" seems to be a catch-all term for any kind of adversity one experiences in life. I can't imagine how lame sex is with someone who needs reassuring multiple times in the middle of the act. I doubt she would reciprocate if he was the one with past "trauma"... She was really only using him.

[–]StareIntoDeath 14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

“For every 20 minutes of pussy there’s three hours of therapy”

[–]Jihocech_Honza 3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

really only using him

Friendzone with benefits.

[–]uh0bagels 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Word

[–]binkerfluid 7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

yeah to be fair OP got the best out of her anyway, now she is someone elses problem.

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[–]i_wind 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah, not mentally ill.

Just AWALT.

[–]Triplehhh00 23 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wasn’t your girl bro. It was just your turn. Turns up now.

[–]NervousShower 20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well the YouTuber is obviously going to ghost that whore

[–]Sajuck-KharMichael 6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

After he takes his turn most likely. I hope this guy isn't so stupid as to take her back after she eventually crawls back with a handful of fake tears and apologies.

[–]cleats4u 18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Any girl that has mental illness on meds or not...run like hell. They won't tell you this on the first date. They might not even tell you after months of fucking (it will be awesome sex). But the minute she says she has borderline, bipolar, depression etc. RUN/GHOST/DISAPPEAR. After the honeymoon phase your going to be in for some shit.

[–]binkerfluid 7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

borderline,

for real dont, even psychologists dont want to deal with them.

[–]GreenAbbreviations91 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol, true. I know women that cut their hair or slashed themselves with blades after a guy left em. Crazies are best left alone. They aren't wired the same way as normal people.

[–]ronht40 13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

SHE WAS NOT YOUR'S IT WAS JUST YOUR TURN.

[–]ToshinRaiizen 9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I truly hope he's going to laugh and slam the door in her face once she crawls back to him when Mr. Famous-Useless-Youtuber grows bored of her.

[–]hero_killer 8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She's never yours, it's just your turn.

Always focus on yourself, never maker her a part of your life.

Never EVER try to plan your life with her, because of stuff like this.

At least, he learned his lesson.

[–]Aishacryptomoon 8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This breaks my heart like he was my son. 😭😭 oh dear

[–]sicrm 7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

that YTer saved his life.

[–]felafelsmoke 6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I wonder if the YouTuber will be cock blocked by her ‘trauma’ 😂😂

[–]ofkarma 2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nah she’s gonna be his next clickbait on the hub

[–]FutureIsActuallyMale 5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

$20 says the comment section tells him to either just move on or flat out blames him

[–]Jakeybaby125 2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Comments are actually pretty based

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/o9q2e4/i_m26_gave_her_f23_three_years_of_my_life_only_to/h3d64ey?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

(Hope this is allowed)

[–]FutureIsActuallyMale 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Mostly impressive! Still some douches but I am surprised!

[–]thewindmillsofwisdom 4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That chick will be back in a few months! Just remember not to answer her calls lol

[–]Important-Elk4557 3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, this guy needs to get into the manosphere and learn his lesson. I really like Richard Cooper's book and youtube channel, entrepreneurs in cars. I do not agree with him on everything but one thing he is 1000% right on is when you spend time and money on women, it gets you nothing.

This dude here is pissed that he spend all this time and money on a woman and got nothing for it. Sorry, dude, I effing hate that too, but that is just the way it is. You spend $1000 on a dinner with a chick, you do not get an IOU so don't spend that kind of scratch if it is for anything other than a good time THAT night.

[–]Vozzl3r 3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would suggest you let her family know that the two of you aren't officially dating anymore and move on.

Also be clear to her family and her as well that you will not get back together the minute that youtuber has had enough of her as well.

[–]33or45 2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

they wont be together for long... he will pull that trick with another girl, attched or not...
but whatever you do - do not take her back... she showed her loyalty

[–]UnitedReality7002 2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

How long were you married?

She's "furious" she didn't get half your stuff and had your sperm running down her right leg.

Get over it. These hoes ain't loyal isn't just a song.

[–]AquaPiranha 2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She was never yours, it was just your turn.

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[–]--Reddit-Username2-- 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Watch Love Island (UK)….it’s free in Hulu. Holy. Shit. Hypergamy in real time. I detest these types of shows, but this is an interesting watch just for the human nature/hypergamy in action.

[–]SteveduCalais 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And you learned about who YOU are in a relationship, a super great guy, and you should expect no less from a person in the future. You know you didn’t f it up.

[–]SteveduCalais 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And I question if you GAVE her three years of your life. Sounds like you lived in a relationship that helped YOU grow. Sorry chap, but some 80% of our species just sucks. Half of them overtly. My apologies.

[–]1st10Amendments 1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If it’s “merely” sexting, blow it off. He’s not real to her until she holds his hand and he kisses her.

If they have met in person, cut her off. No “listening to her side,” no excuses. If she asks, tell her she made it plain she had moved on and you respect her decision. Moreover, you have no need for anyone in your life who doesn’t appreciate how much you have shown, in word and in deeds, how you are IRL. If she — strike that — since she has demonstrated exactly how much she thinks of you and your endeavors, you have moved on. Tell her goodbye, and delete her from social media, your Rolodex, your contact info, your phone, and your vocabulary. She’s a non-entity.

Do. Not. take her back. If you do, you will be showing that you will take her back if she “explores her opportunities” or whatever. Don’t Friend Zone her. She will see it as a foot in the door OR she will accept and then tell you about all the sex she’s having with Chad and Tyrone and expect you, as a friend, to congratulate her on getting past her past.

Exit, stage left.

Don’t retaliate. You might want to explain on social media about what happened, but explain it in ways that make her look like the hero for her growth and that you were happy to be helpful in what’re small way you could, and wish her luck and happiness in the future. But you are not available for her in the future. That would be enabling her to fall back and possibly lose the amazing progress she has made. It’s time - and best for both of you - that you not speak to each other again. Pump her up with that kind of language, and maybe she won’t file false rape allegations against you.

Good luck, my man.

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