I am done, today everything changes

directionalbias · 2021-01-21T23:28:20+00:00

Calm down. You were supposed to do that women chasing stuff at your age. Your genes dictate it.

As far as moving forward, educate yourself. Expand your content consumption beyond just forums though. Of course there's you tube also. However, expect such content creators to be silenced in the future if they don't conform to PC standards. That is the social media environment we find ourselves in.

In either case, seek out real men in the real world. Not modern sissy men, but real men. Get one as a mentor.

SilentQ2 · 2021-01-21T23:22:55+00:00

Pick something that is meaningful to you and your life and aim single-mindedly at that.

ELPwork · 2021-01-22T01:02:52+00:00

You can still chase women, just don't put them on that high pedestal they like to be put on. Don't get into a committed relationship with them, don't marry them. You can still have fun, just don't put yourself into a position where laws come into play.

Zombieboy066 · 2021-01-22T02:10:19+00:00

Well at least you found mgtow and the red pill at a young age of 18 use this knowledge and become the best version of yourself go to the gym lift weights get strong figure out a way to make money and start a business and Go Your Own Way choose your own path and by doing these things women will come to you if you choose to casually date if not you can go full monk mode

Cinemaguy1991 · 2021-01-21T23:23:53+00:00

Workout, expand your mind, focus on education and career, find your passions and hobbies. Women only take from men

lexsanders · 2021-01-22T00:25:23+00:00

You say this now but if don't truly mean it and desire it, you'll end up back where you started. If a rich, beautiful, interesting girl dropped in your lap tomorrow, would you stay with her and build a meaningful relationship together? Then you are not yet mgtow, imo. If you say no thank you, I'm fine by myself, it means you get it.

shivzuh · 2021-01-21T22:50:27+00:00

I was the same.

daproest1 · 2021-01-22T00:37:57+00:00

This is normal for your age. Don’t give up yet if u don’t want to. I’m 15 years older than you, and I’d kill to be your age again.

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-01-22T00:22:26+00:00

Stay calm younger brother. The good thing is hat you learned at such a young age. Others did not learn until they were decades older. Now that you know female nature, you know not to let women interfere with your plans. Sounds like you're in the red pill rage. Don't sweat it, and use the anger as fuel for self improvement.

mgtowpowerballz · 2021-01-22T00:55:27+00:00

Yup walk away hookers are cheaper

Sumfuc · 2021-01-22T02:43:22+00:00

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red-tea-rex · 2021-01-22T02:58:06+00:00

You learned it's a waste of time to chase women. You should congratulate yourself for learning this lesson so young. Men don't have success when they chase women, they have success when they attract them. They don't attract them by changing themselves to conform to what women want, they attract them by creating a great life for themselves:

Whatever it is that you desire to work towards in your life. Popularity? Money? Career success? Adventure? Mastery of a skill or art or craft? Work to become the best version of yourself, whoever will make you proud of you. Even before you get there, you will find contentment in the process. Likely happiness. And happy people are magnetic. Which means you will likely be attractive to women as a consequence.

But by then you will realize this is not as important as you once thought it was. Because here's a secret from someone who has had success with women. Not outrageous success, but just dating casually and seriously for years and years: good women (or people) will bring value to your life. Bad women (or people) will cost you dearly. But all relationships you form will cost you something. There are good trades and bad trades. You will be more aware of that as you get older, and likely become more picky. Especially since you're already realizing what's true about red pill philosophy so young.

mnomoto · 2021-01-22T00:35:32+00:00

Good on you. I went my own way much later than you.

Remember, women (even the mediocre ones) have tons of options because there are so many simps. They know it and will use it to their advantage at every opportunity. Don’t play into their games.

Work hard, build your wealth, and spoil yourself.

iwasanacidbaby · 2021-01-22T00:37:48+00:00

I wish I found this place at 18. I’m 21.

stocksyeah · 2021-01-22T03:31:19+00:00

Hey man, you are 18. It's good that you have this experience behind you at this younger age. It's truly great when the red pill rage phase wears off, you can start thinking about all the diferent areas of your life without delusional emotional attachment or hatred towards women. The rage phase is part of the process and it takes some time for it to wear off, but you will get there. There is great advice that you can gather across this forum and a variety of other sources, figure out what works for you.

throawayusedd · 2021-01-22T04:18:38+00:00

So this path is yours. Keep it that way. Take from whatever philosophy what you will, but make it yours. Take in information for the task of improvement. Leave all the other bullshit behind. Labels are for those who wish to be spotlighted. Just for reference, hunters spotlight prey at night.

SirCatX · 2021-01-22T04:41:17+00:00

You left simphood my brother

remember freedom is the true wae not pussy

almost_strange · 2021-01-22T04:47:52+00:00

Seriously, your problem is not that you were chatting women but that you didn't know how to do it. It's about your status in your circle not about what you do.

scientificevidence · 2021-01-22T04:48:41+00:00

If you get fit, make good money and very importantly are fun and sociable, you wouldn't have problems with women and could enjoy them.

Remember that all kinds of people are here, including really awkward, boring, physically dirty and physically ugly people. They wouldn't get women interested in them anyway, even in a "normal" society. Their advice is given from their skewed POV.

PS - I support mgtow 100 pc.

Uruborosjose · 2021-01-22T04:56:22+00:00

You’re young and you should definitely try stuff out still. Just stay away from anything that will compromise your future and you’ll be fine.

Scantraxx12 · 2021-01-22T05:15:14+00:00

I think the best approach for dating is that you have to lead and set boundaries. If a girl doesn’t like you ignore and move on. Never put any woman on a pedestal.

mitchivantaylorov · 2021-01-22T07:29:06+00:00

..best advice you will get all day..and this is from the coolest guy i know..never chase women..chase the money..eventually the women will start chasing you..then you can be free to pick and choose..ijs

Comfortable_Refuse_7 · 2021-01-22T08:04:36+00:00

No offence but you are not a man, you are still a boy. They were not women, they were girls.

virginslayer694200 · 2021-01-22T08:46:20+00:00

dude legit practice self love. treat urself right, cook for yourself, clean for yourself and love yourself. i've also recently turned 18 and I've bought some self pleasuring toys because i know that i have all this sexual frustration that i NEED to get out.

You will never be able to control other people or their feelings but you can try to understand your own better. :) hope this helps

(edit) also buy one of those woks they are so good like legit if you want a recipe, like just a basic guide or list of spices :))

Impossible-asset · 2021-01-22T09:57:23+00:00

At 18? I'd say education education education. With a side order of rigorous physical training.

Find a mentor in a field that can't easily be automated (a good trade), and learn it well, with a mentor if possible.

retal1ator · 2021-01-22T10:08:29+00:00

The greatest virtue a man can possess is being calm in the face of the greatest challenges and failures.

You're incredibly young. You're a fountain of hormones and excitement, so don't be too hard on yourself if you ashamed yourself chasing women. You're also so young and unexperienced, you'll probably laugh in a few years thinking back at this.

Focus on yourself. What do you want to do in life? Find something that makes you daydream and chase it, with all yourself. If you want to get women, make them come to you and stop chasing them. Take care of your body and work out - building a nice attractive body is simpler than it is usually portrayed. Avoid sugar and industrial food, and workout with cardio and bodyweight exercise. You don't need nothing more, trust me.

Regarding finances, learn how to save and invest. Saving always comes first, because you should be paying your future self first and foremost.

EfficientComputer5 · 2021-01-22T08:25:58+00:00

You seem to want your problems to be bigger than they actually are. Are you sure women here are a problem because this sounds like pure drama. I'd take this question seriously because this type of behaviour will destroy a person's life very easily, as well as anyone dumb enough to go along with it, and it's for the simple reason of feeding a megalomaniacal ego.

As for direction, it usually presents itself as simply as stuff you just gotta do. It's not all that special or dramatic. If anything it's what not to do that's usually important. The stuff you should not do usually falls under any of the 7 signs categories. This problem is a vanity problem. Trying to walk some delusional self righteous path to end up as some idol among the trendies and preach the gospel of the trendy pilgrimage so that you can seem cool in some sub culture group.

Honestly, this is feminine psychology feminizing the overall greater culture and mass psychology at a level that simpletons and followers could never understand. Simply put though, men don't create drama and distort reality for the sake of inflating and distorting their social status or worth, they are utilitarians essentially and dont need to create an alibi to con other people into believing a false alter ego because they're inwardly insecure and vain.

Title	I am done, today everything changes
Author	Yosh1220
Upvotes	1
Comments	47
Date	January 21, 2021 10:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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