Reliving life at 44 !!!

NoSignalCharlie7954 · 2021-06-21T21:41:42+00:00

but I need to let go of Toxic Family , Friendships that really didn't mean jack and to just move forward.

Best advice: Keep your mouth shut about your plans and intentions. Crabs-in-a-bucket, brother. They will undermine you.

WeAllNeedLoveRespect · 2021-06-21T20:53:41+00:00

I wish you the best brother.

Crafty-Tackle · 2021-06-21T22:15:46+00:00

Yes, this is the way to go. Booze is especially dangerous when you are on your own. You need to be sober all of the time, because you are the only one there for you at any time. Focus on financials and investment. At 44, you do not have loads of time, but enough if you play it smart. Good luck!

Electronic-Jump3205 · 2021-06-21T21:02:51+00:00

You’re in a great position. Now go get rid of the toxic people in your life. They are a greater burden than most realize. It’s only after they’re gone that you reap the benefits. I wish the best too.

Judas_priest_is_life · 2021-06-21T22:28:05+00:00

Good luck buddy, I'm doing the same at 40. Working out well so far!

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-06-21T21:51:32+00:00

My plan now that I'm debt free is to save as much as possible, alcohol free, work out more and move out of my state and start a new life else where

These are not easy decisions, bro. But I promise you that you're doing the right thing, esp with avoiding the alcohol. Stay strong and hang in there. Best of luck to you. I know you'll land on your feet and be better off than you are now. You're doing great, keep it up.

burnett-lignon · 2021-06-21T21:46:01+00:00

As a person who's done it, I think you'll find it much easier than you think, once you take action. Take your time picking a destination and enjoy the new beginning.

Diligent-Education64 · 2021-06-21T21:03:18+00:00

What is there to lose? If you work and save, you may be ready to retire or downsize in ten years. Buy real estate. It will be your retirement.

Moving won't bring you peace but a change of place can spur personal growth. Try things new that you were afraid to do when you were younger.

NoMarriageNoKids · 2021-06-21T21:06:10+00:00

Go for it! Godspeed!

Micro_Peanuts · 2021-06-22T00:05:19+00:00

Awesome brother, I've done similar things. One thing I would point out though, if you haven't already seen it is the life change index, which I've found to be very true. Basically, you don't want to make a lot of changes all at once, since it can really take it's toll on you. Have a look at this as you're making your plans:

https://www.dartmouth.edu/eap/library/lifechangestresstest.pdf

viktorq_ · 2021-06-22T00:11:50+00:00

Good move, here is toxic, everything is about materialism and instant pleasure.

pavlikmmm · 2021-06-21T22:36:11+00:00

Gl, bro. Tho id say never forget your homies, after 4 years of my ex isolating me from them, andy lofe going to shit after drig posession charges(life was shit ennough for me to prefer hard drugs to reality so it was only a matter of time till i got fucked by the pigs) Thos fucks didnt even ask me wtf was up and invited me back toxthose sweet years ive spent in heaven w my crew.

And quitting the sauce still prooves hard my crew is still there qnd loyqlity like that costs alot so dont just blow off your homies since they will be the ones who will scatter your ashes, once tour wormfoof

Nemesis23456788 · 2021-06-21T22:17:39+00:00

Best of wishes

MeGoingTOWin · 2021-06-22T00:29:42+00:00

Great that you have done a critical review and realized you drink too much, move to little and have friendships that arent really friendships and family that bring you down.

Nothing worth having is truly easy to attain and choosing your pain leads to responsibility whereas most of the world wants no responsibility thinking it will bring them no pain but it brings both pain and a life of nothingness.

A relavent quote by Naval: Three big decisions - what you do, where you live and who you're with.

Seems you have realized that where you live and who your with are not correct so as you decide to make a change in these be sure to choose wisely. Your first is where you live. Picking correctly will really help you attain your maximum happiness.

Lazarus277 · 2021-06-21T22:13:51+00:00

Thank you you all for taking a moment of your time to reply. I wish you all the best and I'll keep following the group as it is very informative and will help me along the way. Thank you all for your time.

40moreyears · 2021-06-22T02:53:32+00:00

You’re the man for this. Find some land you can own that’s off the beaten path and you’ll have a base of operations sort of. Godspeed.

PoeticPoltergeist · 2021-06-22T07:31:57+00:00

Vaya con dios, my friend. I know this journey will be a fulfilling one for you.

athvellos22 · 2021-06-22T07:50:36+00:00

Best wishes to you mate. Keep moving forward.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2021-06-22T09:45:49+00:00

You're on the right path. Anyone who's bad for you and lives a harmful and fruitless life must be kicked to the curb. Surround yourself with positive people who are making moves and focus on progress. I'm happy for you, man. Go get it!

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-06-22T14:59:31+00:00

Sounds good, man. Fresh start.

Title	Reliving life at 44 !!!
Author	Lazarus277
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	June 21, 2021 8:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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