/u/GoatKnows had a post where he used the term as a replacement for "divorce rape".

I think it more encompasses the relationship experience as the negatives aren't only for those lucky studs who found their one-and-only unicorn.

Many elationships with women for the vast majority of men are net negative. A lot of women can pretend to pay on a date for their own shit, but that's only at the beginning it will quickly devolve to you paying for everything and they use a variety of manipulative mechanics to get you to do that, and I've seen them all.

Divorce rape doesn't even begin to explain the huge amount of "emotional labor" necessary of having any form of LTR with a woman, God forbid you live with her. That's a nightmare in and of itself.

Divorce rape certainly describes the legal and gynocentric issues in marriage, which is important, but these days anything beyond (and including) a pump & dump is a dumpster fire with landmines in it you have to dance through. And you truly lose a lot of yourself in a relationship. "I" becomes "We" and you damn better give up your weekends, your dreams, and anything that makes you, you.

So I just thought I'd socialize this a bit.