Why Do it? Just curious.

5gil135 · 2020-07-06T14:21:13+00:00

I was raised by a single mom who never warned me about the dangers of divorce rape. Even more than that, when I was getting my divorce I spoke with my mom who told me, "Just let her have the kids son, every child needs their mother."...... and I stupidly listened. I was young and dumb and online forums like this didn't exist back then. I think back now about my own father and how he was basically kicked out of my life. I think of how I haven't seen my kids in years. I think of my own mother and how she had the choice of sticking by me during the divorce but she basically betrayed me and stuck by my ex-wife for no reason other than she was female.

Divorce raping my father ended up good for my mother but she eventually got bit back when her beloved grandchildren disappeared from her life. She kinda apologized about 14 years after my divorce. I think after losing her only grandchildren she finally realized how her horrid beliefs were hurting men out there, specifically my father and myself. I don't think she truly even considered how much it hurt us before she was hit by the same hurt. It had never occurred to her.

But anyways, to answer your question, men keep marrying women because they haven't been educated about the dangers properly. Media purposefully distorts reality and makes it seem like a goal in life, when in reality it's only a goal for the women. For men, it's nothing more than being able to see your kids for a couple years before she gets bored and then your life of slavery begins.

009VDETT · 2020-07-06T12:11:19+00:00

Most men still get married in modern culture because they generally don't know any better. We're taught and expected at an early age to a find a woman, settle down and have kids, and gather material assets—even if that means becoming an unconditional workhorse and sinking into severe amounts of debt.

Even worse, the idea of "Manning Up" or "being a man" has long been accepted to mean sacrificing everything for the betterment of any woman without question, or be psychologically abused into compliance. Ignore the blatant contradictions that make up such a ridiculous idea.

TL:DR being a martyr towards female nature and established social structure is programmed into males at childhood.

After_Way8809 · 2020-07-06T10:52:47+00:00

Even Indians are here bro.

You don't even realize 88% of dowry cases are fake, over 30% rape cases are fake in INDIA.

Heard about Mohammed shami? How his wife used him, if not search for it. Rohtak sisters, sarbjeet ,these are only famous cases I have eye witnessed cases of principles being accused of rape and removed from their post only to reenter after the court trial(at least this is good in India)

And you don't know anything about internal affairs married women have in India, I don't know about bigger cities, but just spend time with various waiters and dhaba people and ask them how many others wives they have banged (really mean it) you will be shocked, and IT field where I am from , am personal been approched by a senior who is married. She was really hot though, my neighbor who is a doctor, well earned with a amazing looking husband with whom she had a love marriage was caught in another city having affairs with a famous business man from our town who was married too.

HERE WE DON'T SPEAK, ONLY THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE

Planesrule56 · 2020-07-06T10:47:44+00:00

I wanna know too.

Indian-Punjabi-Goth · 2020-07-06T15:22:22+00:00

Simp supply is high.

splifficated2019 · 2020-07-06T11:58:45+00:00

It's the same in India, it's couples tired of each others shit but not being able to separate and that's worse in the long run, divorce laws aren't as fucked up here but it's still bad, one of the many reasons I'm living a life of celibacy atm.

DonMelbourne · 2020-07-06T11:11:51+00:00

Hi Indian-Punjabi-Goth. I hear stories about how marriage is for men in India now: namely, bad news!

I know India is a big place, but what's the view among men there now generally with regards to the need to getting married?

Jake4523 · 2020-07-06T19:46:00+00:00

I think it's because of two very simple things:

Guys aren't taught this, and either find out the hard way, or are literally forced to witness it in some form or another, whether that be by watching their father, or a couple friends, they can only sit and watch as those guys get destroyed without any support, or well anything really.
Very simple idea but still a very valid point but misery loves company. We have been told, and I mean beat the fuck into our heads that "WE MUST MARRY, WE MUST HAVE KIDS, WE MUST WE MUST", we are just now seeing the devastating effects of legalized abortion, the divorce laws, etc....its all coming to bite us in the ass. Look at Soutg Korea, or Japan, they will never ever EVER recover, but they gotta gets the wahmans a monthly check!

Swmando · 2020-07-06T16:11:40+00:00

Not all US States screw over the man in a divorce. After a decade of marriage, similar incomes, one child, my divorce divided things exactly down the middle in terms of assets and parenting.

Now, I will definitely never marry again, but the legalities were not the problem in my marriage/divorce.

madhatter42069 · 2020-07-06T16:24:29+00:00

There is no reason and privilege is just an excuse for people to make themselves victims.

IH31C · 2020-07-06T16:27:03+00:00

Because a lot of men still believe in the fantasy and don't have enough experience with women. I was there about 2 years ago until I slowly started to ingest the Red Pill after at age 38 was heartbroken after a failed relationship with a 39 year old Korean woman. She was fucked up, unstable but I was in love with her. I didn't know any better because I had the wrong information. So fucked up but I can understand how men still fall into the trap because I was there.

Gokusayan1 · 2020-07-06T16:55:27+00:00

Don't worry leftist and feminist think Chess is a 'racist' game. You can't win an argument with people like these.

2020-07-06T19:34:31+00:00

Indian here, even though divorce rates are low in India as compared to west I would not marry.

Indian-Punjabi-Goth · 2020-07-06T12:23:25+00:00

Shami one was heart breaking.

Sarabjeet case was gut wrenching.

2020-07-06T14:55:43+00:00

In Brazil there is a pension for dogs. I don't know how it is in the west.

BitsAndBobs304 · 2020-07-06T16:46:04+00:00

Because most people dont thinkm they just do what they are told, what it's expected of them, and what they think is expected of them. "Life script"

avtarius · 2020-07-06T12:47:22+00:00

You're from India, you have it much worse when it comes to females than "the west".

kriskros18 · 2020-07-06T19:51:50+00:00

Front row seats to her BPD drama is indeed a privilege.

IBudgetForIt · 2020-07-06T19:57:12+00:00

Men in the West still marry because during the dating phase they *finally* get the companionship, physical affection, and sex they need. They think if they get married they will be to continue to get those things for the rest of their life. Little do they know it's likely to only last about another 3-4 years, then they're trapped in a situation where they can't get those needs met without going through a life-shattering divorce.

goodboy3245 · 2020-07-06T23:24:18+00:00

lol I have seen guys so desperate for sex, they are willing to sell their soul for it. Of course everybody regrets once the deal with the devil is made. That doesn't stop people from making the same deal. Human beings aren't as rational as you think. Most are impulsive and lack prudence. Sadly the system is tilted in favor of the female gender. Don't play a rigged game....that's wat I'd say to any sane man. But you'll find many still playing rigged games. Betting on roullets with magnets in the bottom. You first win something and then lose everything.

billybibby69 · 2020-07-07T12:21:45+00:00

Ikr (also a non-western), it's really weird to marry after all the conditions they put onto a man while the wife gets on other men.

guessnorman · 2020-07-06T20:03:33+00:00

Privileges of any sort are just myths and excuses for predators to attack a given target and manipulate the gullible audience. No one is privileged

THEOPINIONPLACE · 2020-07-06T20:03:43+00:00

I think some of its mens natural inclination to be a provider some is the instinctual want to have a child.Some of it is cultural indoctrination some is ego,and some is ignorance

RedditUK1900 · 2020-07-06T22:46:38+00:00

I guess people do it because ‘why would you care about divorce, we are together for life baby’

NauticalPhoenix · 2020-07-07T04:59:35+00:00

Some people find cool partners that they want to spend their life with. Shocking, I know.

Khanluka · 2020-07-06T21:36:28+00:00

Well love/lust makes blinde really.

iwanttheblanketback · 2020-07-07T02:04:32+00:00

The privilege is a mantra in the marxist community.

TrashyFBR · 2020-07-07T03:38:19+00:00

There’s no way I’m getting married. Western women are such sluts who are in it for sex and your stuff.

jazzy3113 · 2020-07-06T21:33:53+00:00

You’re viewpoint only makes sense if you a man choose poorly in marriage.

You see, who you marry is the most important decision you can make. Yet, men marry for lust, money, social pressure, family pressure, and even boredom.

Marriage only sucks if you marry the wrong person. If you marry the right person, you’re life is a hundred times better.

And in India, it is such a mess over there, I’m sure it has turned you off to the idea of marriage.

Every time I visit, the stories I hear from friends of adultery, cheating and rape are so prevalent, I would never feel like marrying if lived there either.

Title	Why Do it? Just curious.
Author	Indian-Punjabi-Goth
Upvotes	1
Comments	63
Date	July 6, 2020 10:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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