I feel responsible for the recent outbreak of self diagnosed bpd in mrp wives.

There are solutions which are advertised to fix your bpd relationship. Guess what, it boils down to extreme ownership, fixing your own codependency and taking good care of yourself (as in lift, read sidebar).

There is a page I found today, https://www.reignitethefire.net/how-to-improve-your-bpd-relationship/ . I am not affiliated with this guy anyhow. He does not seem to be a "red pill" but as you read his articles, written in totally different language than this sub, you will see the core ideas are the same.

Your relationship, bpd or not, depends heavily on your leadership. I fucked by allowing her to walk over myself, by not accepting her wanting divorce and then by passive aggressive behavior as fucking other women. On the other hand I would not be where I am now if I didn't, so I really don't have an opinion. I still like myself, my life is sweet and sour.

Fucked up women need borders. If your wife is fucked up in the head and you have kids, show her borders. Learn your own borders. Fix your own codependency. There is no borderline relationship without a codependent, sex craving, small boy inside having hopeless beta.

Grow up. It is not about her.

Tldr: we will not blame anything on borderline personality disorder here as long as I am around. There are some situations with bpd women that require immediate actions like leaving relationship, but I bet many of those relationship may be fixed as long as the man shows some qualities, borders, and behaves in a way that commands respect.