7 months in, just wanted to share some success and hopefully some wisdom. I became Red Pill aware in January, a mumbling bumbling supersoft beta king nothing provider of a wife and 4 kids. 30 y/o. Like many others, i was inspired by Rollo and TFA to get my fucking act together and be the man I'm meant to be.

And fuck me did I push for it. Head first into the sidebar, got a home gym from craigslist, started losing weight and started noticing noob gains on my arms, chest, and legs. First thing I did with family matters is stopped raising my voice at the kids. Second thing, started STFU and owning my yard and house.

Definitley Rambo-ed until recently I know now that the anger phase is behind me.

As the weeks and months rolled on and I digested more books, it started to really make sense. Every piece of red pill lifestyle and theory works together. You can't push one aspect any harder than the rest, and you certainly mustn't let any one aspect fall behind. You lift in order to experience your natural manpower firstly, and the side benefit is you get ripped hence more attractive. You read at night and on rainy days to figure out why you'd been so faggy for so long and to develop the mindset you need to work thru it and improve. With your new knowledge and your body getting transformed, you can start getting your wardrobe together.

Meanwhile, your wife is starting to actually respect you because you're keeping your word and being firm with the kids thanks to your new mindset. You're having more sex than ever and she's even initiating half the time! What!? I thought she was asexual! Nope. She was married to a guy who thought it was ok to grow manboobs and be sloppy.

I noticed her energy and cheerfulness levels have been through the roof lately. She acts like a carefree little girl now that her man has taken the reins. I've retaken my seat at the head of the dinner table, among many other examples of leadership.

This is all pretty surface-level shit and I know there'll be choppy waters ahead, especially when we get to the real roadblock on my mission. I'm going to remove us from the church we grew up in (which is very important to her and her parents) but that'll be another field report.

Edit: fucked up my age and added some spacing