Lets start with "Audentes Fortuna Adiuvat". Fortune comes to the aid of those daring. The first thought that comes to mind when I say this is simple. If you want something to happen you have to make it happen. In other words, you make your own luck. Forget about destiny, signs, it was meant to be, if it will happen then it happens. No.

Frame control is one of the most important tenets of all RP levels, including MRP, and not one only to dabble and experiment with. You begin making things happen by centering the world on yourself. This truly begins, and the maybe the best description of frame control, is holding your head together when the shit hits the fan. To be bold, you must show courage, and courage is bravery when facing fear.

Boldness makes you seem more powerful when you are weak. When you are weak you are timid, and timidity shows prey. Your LTR/Wife is the greatest man hunter in the world. When she sees you are prey she will exploit your beta qualities. Her weapons of choice are shame and duty sex. Boldness is the defense against this. When you feel like you are about to crack, and she has very valid points to shame you with. Double down on your boldness. She will find this incredibly attractive.

Switching gears. Last night was an incredible real life example. No matter how "alpha" you are, AWALT rules the day. Depending on her cycle and what time of year you find yourself in. Even the most experienced captains find themselves in the middle of a hurricane. This moment is iconic because I have not uttered the words I am sorry to her since March.

When I came home I got in a little later than usual. Put my coat on the rack, glanced over at the packages on the table. Like a panther stalking her prey, she pounced. Immediately screamed at me "Why are you looking at the mail, its christmas time and you arent expecting packages". From 0 - 100% bitch in a quarter second. I replied cooly but boldy "If you dont want me to see the mail, hide it". She got pissed and went off to the kitchen to do something and I walked by to go upstairs. As I climbed the stairs I heard his snottily say "You aren't always right". Whew, truly I thought those days were over.

I went upstairs and did the chores waiting up there. She came up and told me we needed to talk. I replied no, we will talk when you calm down. She insisted so I relented. Basically, I am not allowed to speak that way to her, I am not always right, and I needed to apologize to her right now. With a smirk on my face I replied "You started it, I corrected it, and now you come here to start again". Then she went on a long string of things about how I was wrong, and I didnt need to yell at her, and she has all these things to do when she gets home. She can't just run upstairs and hide them because I came busting through the door. At this comment, I couldn't hide my laughter. I A&A with you are right, and I will start kicking the door next time. Maybe a low kick like this, or should it be a high kick like that.

She laughed, and she apologized to me and explained she was upset that I might have saw where the package came from. I told her it was alright and gave her a quick kiss and went to get my workout clothes. She cornered me in the closet and blocked my exit. I laughed and asked her if she was going to rape me now. She grabbed my hands and told me she was sorry again. Doubling down on my boldness I said thank you and kissed her.

Her: Aren't you going to apologize?

Me: Come on baby, dont make a mountain out of a mole hill

Her: You should apologize and be nice to me for once.

Me: I admit I shouldnt have looked at the package, but I am owning it and moving on

Her: I am just saying its nice to hear.

With that she turned to leave and I smacked her on the ass and hip pulled her to me. Whispered seductively in her ear and told her you know what else is nice to hear? Then I started singing let's get on by Marvin Gaye and we did.

Frame control is about staying inside your mind and not letting yourself start thinking about how you should make her feel. You decide how you want to feel and judging your own actions. She does not get to do this for you. You maintain this mental posture when she sieges you from all sides. Don't DEER. The attraction is when you don't budge.