I've lurked Red Pill for a long time. I discovered it while married, read The Game and then it took off from there. I was getting more pussy from the misses than I wanted, but we had other issues; issues that lead me to leave. I hooked back up with the high school sweetheart and didn't look back. Everything was cool, she was draining my balls until shortly after we moved in together (huh, ain't that some shit? Wonder why). Since then I've been working on this issue with her. Well, I've been working on it, her, not so much. We have been in couples counseling for about the same amount of time (she has other issues with her mother). I've been supportive, but still somewhat Red Pill (just about halfway). I've been pretty clear with her that she's not the only one out there with a slit. She doesn't like hearing that, but hey so what. If I'm unsatisfied I'm willing to walk. She gave me dutiful sex once every three days. Recently I told her this just doesn't do it anymore. I need some enthusiasm in our sex life. So I went about trying a bunch of different methods to bring novelty back to the bedroom - she just wouldn't participate. I described it as trying to make a sculpture out of mush. I ran across the original conversation that led us to seek a counselor and saw that all the same issues were still there. I finally had enough. I emailed her and the counselor and said "I'm done! I'm done working on this issue. It's your issue and no amount of me working on it will fix it." I also told her I was going to spend that energy working on myself. I'm going to join a gym, drink less, eat better, read more. Her hamster started spinning. I needed to elaborate on all this but I held frame. I joined the gym that night! She joined too because she was "worried about other girls" (her words). That was Monday, since then she's initiated sex three times. Even though I told her there's other women out there and was confident etc, etc...there was no change until I started REALLY working on myself. Work the system boys! I'm here to testify!!! Halleluiah!!!