Outcome independence means knowing who you are.

It's not important to me to do that because I know who I am. I'm writing mainly for anyone who wants outcome independence.

I believe the world, your woman and your goals are very much like a gigantic war elephant, that runs around the earth at high speeds. Some people see the elephant and just give up. While it tramples over everything.

Others take responsibility, gripping onto the elephant. It drags us around, sometimes we subdue it. We get stronger, but the elephant keeps us going.

Eventually we all catch on to certain tactics. We get smart.

Ultimately though, the elephant knows it has us captured. We're captured dealing with the world. Once you know who you are, the elephant doesn't matter anymore.

Suddenly you are somebody the elephant can trust. It stops running and sits calmly by your feet. The minute you begin to forget, it begins again.

Outcome independence and abundance doesn't come from having things or achievements. Those achievements or things must be something that connects you to the reminder of who you are.

That sense of who you are takes many forms, but has one thing in common. A sense of unending. That unending has many grades, confidence, abundance, etc. However these are reductions of what it really is and who you really are.

Until you know who you are in this way the elephant always has you. But if you can find a well of reminding, then the world is not something that is anxious of you.

I want every man here to find that sense somewhere in himself or in the world. Something past an achievement and goal. It doesn't have to be correct, but it's probably unique to you. Something you touch that helps you remember that this is all not so serious. If you can remember.

The only things is it can't be the elephant.