Mens rights are human rights as much as womens rights. Every human deserves human rights, after all, and as far as I am aware both men and women are part of the human species.

But I am worried. I am worried, because feminism has become more hateful over the years. And I am afraid that the movement for mens rights becomes the same. And I dont want both sides to fight like its some sort of gender war. I am a feminist. I also advocate for mens rights. These movements are not suposed to be antagonistic, but rather support each other in the search of true equality.

I always thought radical feminism was wrong, that it was excluding, discriminatory. But, you know, the left kinda tolarated them (I am a leftist, by the way. I am not gonna say that the left is evil or something). But then they messed with trans people, turns out, radical feminist were huge transphobes, who would've gessed it? Well I guessed it.

Because they hate men, and we are not going to pretend they dont. And they see trans woman as men, and thats why they get so mad at them. Because they are men "apropiating woman spaces". First of all, trans women are women. Second of all, even if they werent, isnt that, I dont know, exclusive? Imagine the same scenario the other way around. We have a mens club and they dont let women I because "they are invading mens spaces". Isnt that what feminism was fighting against?

And refuges for victims of abuse more often than not exclude men, and I sit here wondering, dont men get abused too?

But of course we cant let a man in. Because men an inherently dangerous I guess. Because they will take every chance to harm women. May I remind you that these men are also victims? Like, are we going to ignore that?

We should be consistent about stuff, alright? Trans men are men. Then why do the left treat them different than men? If we are men (and I mean, we are men), then treat us equally! But of course you wont do that, because it would be treating a minority like trash. And you cant treat a minority as trash.

The key thing here is, you arent suposed to treat anyone as trash. Not even cis, straight, white, middle class men. Sure, they've got "privilege" for some things. Well, guess what? Women have some of those too! Women get less jailtime for equal crimes. Women are most likely to get custody of their kids, even when they are abusive mothers. Heck, they are most likely to be abusive towards their kids and get away with it, belive me I know (love ya mom, but you kinda threw me down the stairs when I was 9 and I am not fine with that).

What I am trying to same, lets not become what we are trying to destroy. Dont negate the privilege have in ceirtain contexts, dont negate the privige men have in ceirtain contexts. Dont say woman dont struggle. Dont say men dont struggle.

Lets be consistent. Nobody is beyond criticism. If we are getting equality, we are getting it for everyone.

And thats it. Thats what I wanted to say.

(sorry if my grammar or spelling are bad. English is a hard language alright?)