i've noticed that when it comes to men's issues, there seems to be a catch 22, where on one hand, theres the message of men not bottling up their emotions and actually expressing their emotions, but when they do, there's also another message being sent that men need to stop whining about their issues and that men just have a fragile ego or whatever. I can't wrap my head around it, and frankly, it straight up pisses me off to no end.