Does anyone here ask their girlfriend or potential girlfriend about who they have slept with?

Guestschwifty · 2024-02-20T04:43:33+00:00

She'll tell you some of it on her own but never all of it even if you ask.

OGsunglasses · 2024-02-20T06:47:21+00:00

Absolutely. I ask every girl I deal with, very early on. And I can tell if they’re lying too.

Don’t let women try to shame you for caring about body count. Yes, it “matters” it always has and always will, regardless of what feminist propaganda garbage tells you.

NEVER accept a woman with a high body count for a long term potential relationship. Those women go into the recreation use only category. Respect yourself and get you a woman who respects herself.

calmly86 · 2024-02-20T05:00:22+00:00

You will never know the true answer. You will likely not want to know and have those thoughts of all those other men putting it to your girlfriend/wife, which will drive you crazy. What’s important is properly vetting her in every single way you can about what matters without having to outright interrogate her on a subject she is going to downplay.

Peachysweetpea · 2024-02-20T07:13:02+00:00

I am personally upfront about it. I am a virgin and it would make me uncomfortable if he is flippant with sex. I value it, so should he🤷🏼‍♀️

sethL93 · 2024-02-20T06:32:21+00:00

They will lie bro, and somethings you probably dont want to share. I will respect a woman who does not keep close “exes” around but the research says otherwise.

Stay single king, pump and dump.

PossibilityNo8765 · 2024-02-20T05:30:11+00:00

You must be young? I promise you. You're better off not knowing. Plus, i would never tell anyone all the disgusting things I've done.

BetSuspicious6989 · 2024-02-20T06:08:59+00:00

Bro I feel like you’re in a bad spot already. Girls love to talk if you decided to move things into a relationship it should be clear how many guys have boned her.

I wouldn’t hold back on any truths here. There is plenty of good insight here. The advice you’re gonna get might sting a little buts it’s the damn truth. Stalking a bro on instagram and asking him if he shagged your gf is not a good idea. I’ve gotten random texts like that before and it’s awkward as hell and I had no idea the girl had a partner and a lot of the time it was a while ago.

Syckobot · 2024-02-20T06:12:37+00:00

What you are doing is weird and insecure and will push her away. What benefit could you possibly gain by knowing this information? If you were this obsessed with such an insignificant thing I would dump you. This is not a men's rights post either, this is a man being controlling post.

CrimsonCupp · 2024-02-20T05:52:57+00:00

Nah that’s weird, # of bodies eventually can be discussed, but who? Hell no I wouldn’t want to know and I wouldn’t want her to have to think of each one to tell me. Weird weird weird.

bigdickk71 · 2024-02-20T05:16:20+00:00

It’s about respect. lol what bullshit

https://damesthatknow.com/never-reveal-body-count/

Hp651 · 2024-02-20T05:15:19+00:00

Why do you have a right to know? No, nobody "deserves" to know this information. This isn't an issue about rights. Asking guys on Instagram about whether they have slept with someone is very intrusive. You clearly have serious insecurity issues that need to be addressed.

UglyDude1987 · 2024-02-20T07:38:26+00:00

No. Don't care to know. I rather not think about it.

Findingmyway91 · 2024-02-21T00:51:33+00:00

A woman in her late twenties early 30s are still youthful. Other than brain development, there is not much difference developmental wise (unless she abused tf out of her body at an early age). If you’re looking for factors like body count, it’s not the youngest that will have it nowadays bc of how indoctrinated the youth have become. But that’s besides the point. We live in a culture where promiscuity is glorified and it makes me sad that i have yet to meet a girl that’s in her early 20s and has a body count below 10 :( I’m 32, I’ve been with two men and i shouldn’t have a lower body count than the average Gen-Z female. It’s mind blowing to me. But I realized it all comes down to her values and upbringing. You need to look for a woman of God, not just a girl who claims to be Christian, but an actual believer. There are many beautiful young good girls out there . Also, the last thing you wanna do is settle down with a sorority girl lol I was in a. Sorority at the university of Rhode Island…one of the biggest party schools. there’s a reason why I never fit in lmao. That’s just a recipe for heartbreak dude. And also, don’t say that you’re missing the organ or bone that make people right. I’ve seen the worst of men completely turn themselves around and have that light back in their eyes . I don’t want to come off as a preacher or shove sh*t down your throat but it was all because of Jesus. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or what you think of yourself when you start tapping into your spirituality . The ruminating Thoughts will leave and the urge to fill that void will fade away.

“But I was given mercy so that in me, the worst of all sinners, Christ Jesus could show that he has patience without limit.” 1 Timothy 1:15-17

I wasn’t trying to be hurtful earlier either and I’m sorry if I was. I’m not perfect either and need to work on my temper. Sometimes I get so frustrated with how perverse this world has become that I say things I don’t mean. Just do me a favor and don’t think all hope is lost. Take it day by day and know that there were men far worse than you that have completely changed and have inner joy and peace . That’s what you need. You can have all the money and women in the world but if you don’t have the joy of the lord, you will keep chasing after things that only lead to dead ends. I’m here if you ever need to talk and want a woman’s perspective

Title	Does anyone here ask their girlfriend or potential girlfriend about who they have slept with?
Author	DeathGun2020
Upvotes	2
Comments	50
Date	February 20, 2024 4:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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