I hate living in the UK

Gunnery55 · 2023-02-25T15:49:19+00:00

Depending on how hedged they are into the cult it's hard to change someone's thinking without getting resistance from them. My advice is that whenever they say something against men or disrespects men without any context or is a generalization ( I.e. all men are pigs) challenged them why they think that in a respectful tone. Make them think on their stance. If they can't give a proper answer as to why well now you know that they just might want to be angry at something. I was in a similar boat as you and unfortunately I kept challenging the other person until they got fed up however they crossed such a line that tainted the entire group as they started to label other people for extrinsic factors like skin colour and gender. Group didn't stay together after that.

imperator285 · 2023-02-25T15:42:07+00:00

Tell them about Norah Vincent

Heavy_Grand2526 · 2023-02-25T19:20:52+00:00

I just don’t want to be judged for being male. Just as women shouldn’t be judged for being women.

Hitman322 · 2023-02-25T20:17:21+00:00

Let them buy cats and die alone. After a few generations, it might be understood. Meanwhile, I'm stacking money and investing in Chewy.

pearl_harbour1941 · 2023-02-25T20:09:13+00:00

The best thing you can do is something men can't do themselves:

Call out other women's bad behaviour towards men.

alclarkey · 2023-02-25T18:59:15+00:00

What can can I do more for men?

I guess, the best thing anyone can do, is speak up for men's rights whenever you see the opportunity, but do it so, that you don't get yourself kicked out of your social circles, one because I don't want that for you, and two, you can't do much good from being a wallflower.

Alarming_Draw · 2023-02-25T21:38:33+00:00

" Firstly in the law a woman physically can’t rape a man, it’s considered Sexual assault"

This fact alone needs to be shouted from the rooftops.

THIS is why statistics look as if women are rape victims more than men-because the law doesnt even COUNT men raped by women!

Oxoperplexed · 2023-02-25T18:33:56+00:00

Best you can do is arm yourself with info and speak out. Thank you!

Fantastic_Box3257 · 2023-02-25T17:06:29+00:00

You can't teach them ,they will say shit to you ,treat you badly ,isolate you and then you at one point will say fck it ,men are bad because I went through this due to them

Best if you understood that we are not walking atm or personal security guard then people who give you respect ,give them respect ( if someone doesn't respect you,hell with their gender)

Zeioth · 2023-02-25T22:33:12+00:00

Not been alienanted by polítical propaganda can be dangerous for you. Thank you for taking the risk of writing* your kind words here.

ERiC_693 · 2023-02-25T19:50:38+00:00

The irony is a lot of these laws were gender blind previously. For example in Ireland (republic) the age of consent is 17. So if two 16yo kids have sex both of them have broken the law or if someone 17+ has sex with someone under 16 they have broken the law. Feminists got this changed about 2006 to where only the male can be arrested and charged, the female can only be charged if shes an adult, where the male can be charged at any age.

This seems similar to the UK where clauses like "forced to penetrate" are added to sex crime laws, this is to appease feminists and their bigotry that the males have done something. It's not a female has done something; like 10 years ago when we saw lots of reports of female teachers being caught having sex with underage students (boys). They cannot be change with stat rape only things like "indecent assault" which mostly has no prison time and no signing as a sex offender. The titling of the laws is to jump through hoops for feminists and their lies, that they don't want women to be seen as perpetrators, only victims. It's scandalous how feminists are allowed to do this.

Nowadays we all know feminists want all women's prisons closed down.

nineteenletterslong_ · 2023-02-25T19:09:05+00:00

i would start with the incarceration rate and philip davis's inquiry into the sentencing gap (since you're british)

or pick the male issue you care about the most and ask for resources here

Equal-End7695 · 2023-02-25T22:38:33+00:00

If a feminist is actually a good human being, then this fact alone will make them drop the idea. "Do you think you're better than men?" They'll likely answer "yes"

Then tell them, "If a man thinks he's better than a woman he's a chauvinist. If a woman thinks she's better than a man she's a feminist. See the problem here? You're literally supporting superiority not equality .. the same core belief the Nazis and the KKK held".

That is how you make change .... you change minds. That's how feminism started and only how it will end. God bless ya mies

BewareOfThePug · 2023-02-25T18:57:05+00:00

Send them this playlist by Karen Straughan (Canadian female MRA)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4&list=UULPcmnLu5cGUGeLy744WS-fsg

In particular this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp8tToFv-bA

PrintMoreMoneyz · 2023-02-26T03:01:55+00:00

its the same thing here in most states in the US.
If I got raped by a woman and she made me impregnate her she would be able to have the kid then force me to pay for child support for the child born from rape that I never wanted

DougDante · 2023-02-26T12:40:42+00:00

What can can I do more for men?

You can contact your elected officials. Make a nice four paragraph summary of your views, send it to them, and post it here.

Look in the reference materials:

https://reddit.com/r/mrref

Search twitter for "from:DougDante1 @10DowningStreet"

You will find various appeals for justice for boys and men in the United Kingdom, most of which are also posted here.

You can also tweet and gettr your own tweets, or use the existing ones as sources to write your elected officials (or don't use them).

Extra points for replying to your officials' tweets with requests for justice for boys and men in a contextually useful manner.

Gather a basic familiarity of UK law. When you see unlawful behavior, provide that information to your fellow UK citizens.

There are a few action opportunities here which demonstrate the use of UK law:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/search/?q=United%20Kingdom&restrict_sr=1&sr_nsfw=

https://www.reddit.com/r/MRActivism/search/?q=UK%20author%3ADougDante&restrict_sr=1&sr_nsfw=

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-02-25T21:58:07+00:00

Cassie Jaye might be a worthwhile starting point:

MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights movement | Cassie Jaye | TEDxMarin

The Red Pill (1080p) FULL DOCUMENTARY - Men's Rights, Feminism, Politics - YouTube

TraumaticImpairment · 2023-02-26T00:22:04+00:00

In America i am a man I was held hostage by emotional abuse for 7 years raped assulted snd the one time o ollllll said enough and threw her drunk ass on bed and yelled om chsrged with assault by strangulation because I had grabbed her neck which is one step away from attempted murder and now I'm a criminal I'm bad guy literally never started a single fight never threw a single punch and never hit or did anything like that always the take her whenever the aggressor. She was drunk and had no physical damge no need for doctors.after driving drunk to her stepmom's drunk not injured not assaulted.

k her stepmom drives her drunk ass to the cop shop cuz she hates me. Where a drunken statement is given. I'm subsequently arrested jailed threatened with prison given a monstrous $100,000 bail , no contact order of protection. No contact thing wasn't so bad because I literally was being held in a relationship against my will and I thought maybe that would be the end of it but she contacted me of course which isn't a crime for her but it is a crime for me to respond once I realize it was her calling but I did and she told me she was really sorry and she had written letter to the prosecutor explaining that she was really angry and drunk and that pretty much everything she said was fabricated she left out 95% of the story which is very relevant to what happened and exaggerated grossly anything that I may have done and did not want any charges to be filed or follow through with it was promptly ignored of course and the state would pick up the charges with her without her so I was stuck in a rock and a hard place go to trial possibly do 7 years in prison plus I was probation for a theft from 5 years previous and they were talking about consecutively stacking my sentences were told 12 years so I ended up taking a "deal" for a six and a half months in jail $10,000 fine three additional years of probation with counseling in anger Management domestic abuse classes. for that and now it'll go on record that I am the violent bad bad guy..... How in society with intelligent people who know better. How and why do we allow this to happen to so many men like me. Why aren't we getting the bottom of these situations and actually finding out who the aggressive abusive one is in the relationship and punishing them for that instead of just punishing guys. .. +

that I've known every single person I know that has a domestic on the record was not the one being abused or abusive it was quite the opposite but because what men say doesn't matter when it comes to stuff like that they get ignored and laughed at long time they don't even say nothing cuz they're embarrassed cuz they know they shouldn't put up with it and they've been so taken down by society and women together that they just don't have much fight left in them anymore and as soon as they do have fight left on them they're criminals so my rant is over and the moral of my story is that this all makes me sad not only has to happen to me but worse has happened to other guys just like me that get shit on abused manipulated tortured really by these girls.

now I am not only afraid definitely afraid of women in relationships posttraumatic stress when using abuse I'm now afraid of my own law enforcement community and judicial system as well. Anybody else excited for the robot sex workers cuz I want to buy one and never have to deal with another human being again when it comes to relationships it'll be very easy to outdo todays modern woman...

Dependent_Skill_9924 · 2023-02-25T18:59:56+00:00

Please inform them the very house theyre living in was made, engineered by MEN, please inform them there nothing but spoilt little brats to us men anyway and we certainly dont respect them. Also their phones and other things they take for granted, But at least we can take pride in that weve actually acheived things, look at all the things created BY MEN, sports, which women constantly leech on btw, like how men created boxing, ufc, then women come along as allways and need to leech of a man made thing and now there female versions, why not go and make youre own sports if youre so great and everything, then they complain they dont get paid as much as pro males footballers, u dumb morons, BECAUSE NO ONE GIVES A SHIT, FEMALE SOCCER IS TRASH. urgh, i hate them so fuckin much, i just detest entitled, priviliged cunts that they are.

Sports is just one little example, im pretty sure a man even came up with those fanny sponges they put between there growler lips between there legs.

Cranium_Internum · 2023-02-25T15:13:20+00:00

It's a weird topic to juxtaposition genders in.

Rape and sexual assault is horrible and the number should be zero. If you want to compare men with women then:

https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/statistics-sexual-violence/

1 in 4

women

have been raped or sexually assaulted as an adult

1 in 20

men

have been raped or sexually assaulted as an adult

Most survivors of rape don't report it to the police

5 in 6 women who are raped don’t report – and the same is true for 4 in 5 men.

Why make this a battle between genders? Especially when women obviously are victims a lot more often.

sunzi23 · 2023-02-26T02:59:46+00:00

You can start by teaching that equality doesnt mean equity. People should be treated equally, but we're are not all entitled to same things.

BananaSquishy · 2023-02-26T10:14:50+00:00

https://www.gov.uk/government/news/rape-response-overhaul-delivers-progress

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/300270

MattR9590 · 2023-02-27T22:46:10+00:00

The UK just seems like a mess nowadays. It’s sad to see what’s become of the once mighty empire.

Title	I hate living in the UK
Author	ProudIdeal9412
Upvotes	182
Comments	47
Date	February 25, 2023 2:54 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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