I’m getting so tired and depressed.

Maxwell1138 · 2023-02-06T14:45:52+00:00

Mind if I ask where in the world you are located? Depression and social isolation are serious problems. You should try connecting with other men in your area and forming some bonds. Probably not over this specific issue but there should always be some options for positive social interactions not influenced by feminist collective ideology. You need to get off campus and out of that cesspit of an echo chamber.

Its been so long since I was college age I don't know what to recommend anymore. But there must be options. I hope you are able to find something. Friends are always the best medicine for depression, in my opinion.

heeroena · 2023-02-06T15:52:28+00:00

hit the gym. Seriously! it will make you feel better and if you go regularly you will likely see the same people around and you can start building some connections and get to know people that would at least share some good time with

Early-Department-234 · 2023-02-06T17:53:37+00:00

I felt the same way almost a decade ago when I attended university in Canada.
The Big Red virus was a phase of my life that I regret I didn't avoid. You will end up wasting your late teens and twenties being attacked by the feminist.
By the time you reach 29, you're worse off than the high school dropout who went to work at a factory at 18.
I am trying to catch up in life, but it's like it's too late traditionally speaking.
Economically, I'm just like the high school dropout starting out at a factory, but with student loan debt, and a few years wasted away doing nothing and lived off my retirement savings, all because of the feminist attacks and subsequent social isolation.

mjuntunen · 2023-02-06T14:37:08+00:00

Welcome to feminism. You just need to take pride in your toxic masculinity. Don't let your self image be dictated by third parties. When they try to attack you just own your faults with vocal pride and make obnoxious jokes.

hehimCA · 2023-02-06T21:24:18+00:00

I understand your frustration. It’s been bad for a while and getting worse.

I can only say a few things. First, I would suggest that you focus on your self, your own well being, your career path. You are in school to focus on those things. I know it’s hard but if you don’t want or have the energy to get politically involved against the current, which takes energy and support, I think it’s best to avoid it.

A lot of college kids think they know everything, hence the term sophomoric. A lot of these people are just parroting things said by super left wing professors and the academic echo chamber.

I went to a school that sounds similar to yours and also had a tough time. I bet there are a lot of folks that also just want to chill and have fun in college. Seek those folks out.

When talk gets too antimale, either disengage from those folks or change the subject.

Anyway, you’re not crazy and you’re not alone. Good luck and hang in there.

Largest_Half · 2023-02-07T00:10:06+00:00

I left college over a year ago and i had the same experience. Now im out of college i dont even want to do anything because the world of the west supports this agenda.

Equal-End7695 · 2023-02-07T00:46:13+00:00

There was a recent study showing that more and more men are dropping out of college for the exact reasons you just stated.

You aren't going to change anything so move. Send a letter to a couple local news stations as well as a couple mainstream channels telling your story. This shit is real my man, be part of the solution.

the-lone-squid · 2023-02-06T16:58:11+00:00

And they wonder why fewer and fewer men are going to college. Try to find friends off campus perhaps?

VindictivePrune · 2023-02-06T21:20:13+00:00

If you hear people saying this, report them to the title 9 dept

Nice-Play-5018 · 2023-02-07T07:00:57+00:00

Don’t take that shit seriously. Do the degree if you absolutely need it to to achieve your goals. Consider working in the field you want to be in first to be certain it’s what you want and to find out the best way to get qualified.

Glittering-Review-72 · 2023-02-06T22:05:13+00:00

There will always be losers and haters, live a fulfilling life for yourself and in time you will have more control over your environment. I'm an electrician and have worked in construction since I was 16. I don't know or understand the world you live in, but do see why it would be very upsetting to many young men. Being stereotyped and blamed for things you have nothing to do with is exactly what people had been taught not to do for decades but has seeped back into society under the disguise of equality. Unfortunately places of learning now seem to be places of beliefs. In my world I can tell anybody how I feel at any time in whatever words I see fit because it's grown men that put their lives on the line to build this society not destroy it and we all have a certain level of respect for one another.

CM_4321 · 2023-02-07T02:57:58+00:00

Ya college was a liberal cesspool of bullshit. I know how you feel. Hang in there man

csgardner · 2023-02-07T18:12:58+00:00

Dude, your school sucks, transfer to a better one. I know they love dudes at all the Utah schools. Why are you giving money to these leeches?

On the other hand, it sounds like you are a junior, so you only have to put up with these people for another year. But you do really need better people in your life. I don't know what's around in New Hampshire, but it might be fun to just go around trying out different churches/religions. I know they are considered passe, but part of the whole point of a church is to love and support each other.

9pmt1ll1come · 2023-02-06T16:11:58+00:00

If I was in your shoes today (I was in college in the mid 2000s), here is what I’d do: 100% focus on yourself as becoming a psychologically strong man. Become as knowledgeable as you can in your field of study (assuming STEM. Pls don’t waste time on anything else). Become bound by logic and remove all emotion from the decision making process as much as you can (absolutely let logic define your life). Understand that women (specially feminist women) want to make noise more so than they want change. DO NOT take what women say at face value, instead pay attention to their actions (this is a far more accurate, objective view of their character). Understand that at the end of the day, being born a male is a blessing. Modern society wants you to think differently because they are scared of the power men hold. We hold that power for a reason and while we modern men didn’t create the issues we have today, we get held accountable as if we have. And lastly, take comfort in knowing that men age like wine and women age like milk. They hold all the power over you on their 20s. But as you get older, you hold all the power over them.

Wise men spend their 20s setting themselves up for their 30s and onwards while stupid women live their 20s sabotaging their 30s and onwards selves.

rationalguyforsure · 2023-02-06T15:26:16+00:00

Yeah I just defended men against the use of the term “neck beard” on r/Catholic by some feminist who called the followers of Jordan Peterson that term. Liberals would have no standards if they didn’t have double standards. I’m sick of it.
I never read anything by JP, I’m not a “follower”of anybody, I really don’t even know exactly what a neck beard is, but I’m sure it’s not a term of endearment. From what I can tell JP has touched young men who are demoralized and tapped into something they need, without attacking anybody in the process.

Staysic96 · 2023-02-06T18:05:13+00:00

First of all I think there’s good advice from others here, make sure you’re taking care of your mental and physical health, it’s important!

This is what college has turned into, your experience is worse than mine but your east coast school is probably a lot further left than where I went. Every campus has been over (to some degree or another) by toxic ideologies like you describe though. This is why men are increasingly saying no to college. I don’t necessarily encourage that, but think about your degree. What are you trying to do in life as a career? Are you happy with that? If so, power through the bs. Keep your head down and don’t engage in the politics because as a non-Marxist feminist activist protester you will not win those fights. It sucks but that’s the easiest way. Get your degree and move on.

Focus on your health, career, and surrounding yourself with good people.

Upsidedown_Sammie · 2023-02-06T18:46:22+00:00

Same man. I have good grades and work out and am honestly fairly attractive and just have a hard time finding a girl to be my girlfriend. I'm giving up.

randomran838 · 2023-02-07T00:00:32+00:00

I can tell u now it’s not all men and it’s likely not u u seem a genuine nice person and I’m a woman saying this so I hope u realise there are some good women out there who won’t hate u for simply being a man I promise we aren’t all like that

Guyonstockmarket · 2023-02-06T22:32:58+00:00

99% of people are not like this. There are plenty of men and women who are nothing like this

Edit: well your in college. Try and find a friend that isn’t like this, even one will do Also don’t bother arguing with most of these people. They are either stupid or ignorant or both

iluvsaintrodger · 2023-02-07T00:01:03+00:00

What r u taking? Unless it's some bs like gender studies u can usually just avoid them

PheonixJ · 2023-02-07T06:01:20+00:00

Do regular workouts.

Skaib1802 · 2023-02-09T01:31:13+00:00

I understand the frustration.

I’m currently in school to be a music teacher/band director and i hear all the time from other students that men can’t be good teachers or shouldn’t teach young kids because no man can be trusted with children. It’s hard going for my passions when i’m constantly being put down for wanting to make a difference in children’s lives.

No_Original_2063 · 2023-02-09T19:32:15+00:00

You deserve love because you are a human being. And stop paying attention to those assholes.

pappo4ever · 2023-02-06T21:54:38+00:00

All I hear every day “I hate all men”, “we should lock men up”, “men cause the worlds problems”

It's just a shit test, to discourage weak men. Women are wired to do that, weak men will just abandon the race, the strong and smart realize the test and laugh at it. We are the masters of civilization, we created everything, not them.

DivideDangerous6713 · 2023-02-06T16:05:38+00:00

I'm at work, office of 75% ish women and hear nothing like that. Where are you mate that all you hear is this?

Positive-Aerie-4504 · 2023-02-08T01:37:49+00:00

This is all happening as a result of a comfortable Society that hardworking men spent years sacrificing and building to give women their illusion of power and comfort to where they now have enouph time on their hands to respond to this way in society. When things get easy in a society the culture becomes more left, when things get hard it becomes more right. Right and left are really just subsets of the masculine and feminine. When we have another disaster in the world, women will naturally begin relying more upon men because they just do not have the genetic disposition to handle building and strategy and maintaining modern engineering feats that make them so comfortable and power driven. It will take a disaster to reset the world, but it's coming likely in your lifetime. You are not alone! Women like this don't realize that they are creating the very monsters that they despise. We good men were raised to believe that if we worked hard and treated women with respect, that we would be rewarded with a good life. Now that this is no longer true, it is creating a dangerous and destructive masculine dominance to push back. And you will see more and more men revolting this I have no doubt.

TricksterOfFate · 2023-02-07T01:40:19+00:00

Its blue pill propaganda from the corporations of the illuminati elites, the people that fall for it are weak minded drones. Do not concerne yourself with this blue pill lie and its bots, focus on your studies. If you know how to screen, you can detect which woman is brainwashed and which one have a real personality.

2023-02-23T04:53:02+00:00

What program are you in? I was in engineering school, and the time was great. I hung out with my guy friends, went to the gym, and we had study groups all the time. Find a new place to be, engineering school is definitely not like what you're describing.

Background-Fox-517 · 2023-02-07T17:58:24+00:00

College is major waste of money. The returns are not worth the 100k+ one pays into it.

Look into a technical school (electrician, plumber, welder, etc) Get paid to learn and have a guranteed job and make decent money.

Look into becoming a developer which can be learned for free or cheap within a year and the pay is around 100k for begginers.

Look into becoming a blockchain developer where it's either free or very cheap to learn this within 6 months to a year with an average salary of 156k per year.

You could also go into the real estate business and become a real estate agent within a couple weeks at spend less than 1k to get started. and if you live in a rich neighborhood then you can do very well for yourself. You can also be a loan officer or a home inspector. It's quick and cheap to get into these fields and eventually you can run your own business if you desire.

Lastly, you can become an influencer (instagram, tiktok, YT, FB, Rumble, GAB, etc) free and can start instantly.

College costs more than everything else takes 4-8 years to complete, no guarantee you will even get a job and if you do it will be in another field and this costs 10x-200x more than everything else I listed.

Colleges are for minority's and females to boost their egos but once they get out they have no real skills to contribute to society unless they're a doctor which their number one skill is to kill people as they're now the number 1 cause of death.

I know of thousands of straight white males committing suicide daily due to the college's hatred towards them.

Title	I’m getting so tired and depressed.
Author	ArticRex
Upvotes	115
Comments	60
Date	February 6, 2023 2:20 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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