there are 2 ideal societies where both genders can thrive

  1. traditional gender role society
    - similar to sparta
    - men are raised to be soldiers and to do he dangerous stuff
    - masculinity is glorified
    - femininity is also glorified
    - women support men every step of the way
    - they are raised to offer emotional support for men and be the mens sex object (feminists have soiled this term. they are still treated like humans but part of their role is to help quench the male sexuality)
    - women are loving, loyal, and nurturing
    - this society is built off the idea that both inherently different and they should play to their strengths and fulfill their roles
  2. the egalitarian society
    - both men and women are equal
    - women fight in wars alongside men and female construction workers are commonplace
    - things are exactly 50/50 but it is far from the 1st society structure
    - traditional gender characteristics are present to an extent but the roles can often be taken up by the other gender (men can be emotional support and women could be the fighter)
    - both genders respect each other equally. rules are applied equally. no "privileges" or "benefits" for either gender aside from their biology

currently, we have neither. women, reject the traditional roles of the former but fail to take up the responsibility of the ladder

i personally prefer the 1st one, but there are some interesting elements of the 2nd

theres also a 3rd of male supermacy or "white sharia law" (the world incels fantasize about) which could theoretically work, but it wouldn't be as strong since women also need to be nurtured in a good environment

so, what society do you want?