Here is a link to what she posted about me: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/yav5r/paternity_test_established_me_as_the_father_my/c5u9rbq
edit: She deleted the pictures, here is what is originally posted (Edited for my own privacy)
My reply:
"First off, I'd like to say that I am not only EXTREMELY creeped out right now, but I am terrified and feel very violated.
The girlfriend is my current girlfriend, and NOT the same girl and yes I DO love her. I am unsure where the idea of her being the same came from?
The job she has makes 200 bucks every 3 months, if she's lucky. I am a freelance videographer, yes, but it doesn't pay more than $100 a month.
I do NO drugs and never have, yes I film the rave scene but that does not mean that I do any kind of drugs or endorse anything of the sort. Kandi are bracelets made from pony beads and have nothing to do with ecstasy, that is like saying that studded belts mean that you shoot heroin.
You are doing the definition of judging a book by it's cover. I have NEVER had casual sex, never done any drugs (not even weed) and I posted to r/trees ONCE and I admit it was for Karma. That photo was also NOT pornography, but a free photoshoot I did for a friend to build a portfolio, and sex sells.
Next time, don't be so quick to judge someone...or else you'll end up just as bad as the system.
Also, I am the phone with my current girlfriend now (NOT the same as the mother) and she is very terrified and honestly considering legal action for emotional reperations. What you have done here, and not only posted online, is a completely disgusting thing and a huge violation of privacy. Please send her your screencap so that she may have your real name."
Honestly, r/mensrights I am terrified. My life has completely crumbled to pieces today. Today was my hearing and I have to pay $400 a month on a $1300 a month job. I don't know how I am going to ever afford moving out or going to college but damn it if I am not going to try to do what's best for my kid and keep making uninterrupted payments. HereforKarma has completely invaded my privacy and made me appear to be someone that I completely not and I really don't need that after today. I know that this isn't the correct subreddit for this question, but is there anything that my girlfriend or I could legally to her for all of this? My girlfriend has regular panic attacks and almost lost consciousness when I was telling her what I was reading...this has bean very disturbing...and after such a terrible day.
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They are not attatched whatsoever, and my Facebook is completely private, I am not sure how she was able to get all of this information unless she added me as a friend and I blindly accepted it. She must have done some real deep digging. I am too flustered right now to do anything about this though, I need to back away from my computer a bit...sometimes you just need a night on the phone with your girlfriend laying in bed talking about sweet nothings ya know?
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