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support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinity

gamerlololdude

September 10, 2022

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Title	support programs for developing healthy holistic masculinity
Author	gamerlololdude
Upvotes	9
Comments	36
Date	September 10, 2022 11:19 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/xb31nd/support_programs_for_developing_healthy_holistic/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/support-programs-for-developing-healthy-holistic.1131477 https://theredarchive.com/post/1131477

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I don’t know what ideological bias you claim this website had. I share a website that helps with men’s issues and people here attack it for what the words it uses? The words describe a concept. Be curious to try to understand what the website is about.

Talking about the way men and boys are portrayed in psychology does involve acknowledging masculinity. gender roles and stereotypes and assumptions surrounding masculinity.

Patriarchy is a concept in sociology. It isn’t whatever people on this sub think it is. Yes there is a patriarchy. Even if laws changed the soft power of those past beliefs can prevail. Like just because now gays have equal rights doesn’t men’s homophobia is gone, heteronormativity still prevails. Just because women have equal rights doesn’t mean sexism in the form of seeing them inferior to men isn’t gone. Also patriarchy is related to default gender being male. Which is leftover in langages like French. Just because slavery was abolished doesn’t mean racism towards dark skin people doesn’t exist, white supremacy and relics of it still exist today.

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Please disregard the other responses. You're absolutely right. We see so many of the types of people who replied to you commit suicide.

Their refusal to work through toxic masculine behaviour makes them progressively more hateful until something snaps and they have a breakdown. They up harming themselves and sadly, others around them.

You meant well, but its hard to help people. Many men prefer to just stay angry at women and modern society while the world as whole moves on and forgets about them.

This sub is a place where they can encourage each other by making up statistics for others to agree with. And as toxic as it all is, it makes them just a little bit less lonely.

Hope you've heard of the "village idiot" effect... Back in the day nobody would listen to the village idiot. These days the village idiot just hangs out on reddit where they can get validated by other village idiots.

Not saying that people on here are idiots, but you get the point.

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