So It's not as big of a deal as so many other stories, but it's still upsetting me to no end.
This girl and I got drunk the other night together, then we started making out, she initiated it by kissing me and not stopping. I was perfectly fine with this. This continues for a long time, and we were in my bed laying down when she stopped kissing me, to whisper in my ear "Fuck me", which i said no to because we were both drunk and I didn't want to have to face any accusation of taking advantage.
I talked to her the next day, and said I kind of took advantage of her, which left me bewildered, and after talking to her about it I thought she understood that there is no way I took advantage of her....she starts going around telling all of my friends that I took advantage of her, she's not implying rape or anything, but it sounds bad nonetheless.
I'm just really upset and shocked that this girl, who was my best-friend, is accusing me of taking advantage of her. And it's over kissing too...how dumb can this get.
TL;DR Best friend and I get drunk, she kisses me, we make out, she wants to fuck me, I say no, she says I took advantage of her the next day.
[+]dregofsociety [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Refute her claim by stating that she cannot handle her liquor and you rejected her desperate sexual advances because she was drunk. Warn all the men about her and her tactics of handlng rejection. The fact that you did not have sex will raise more eyebrows about her accustions. The stigma of being a false accuser of sexual activity will definitely cause more damage control on your end.
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