I should have posted this a while back:

http://marriedmansexlife.com/2012/07/how-do-you-get-past-your-anger-about-women/

I don't hate women because I understand them. I know they are not men, and I am no longer mad that they are not living up to the male standards of behavior, logic, reason, and agency.

Women are women; men are men. I know that a lot of the anger on the male side comes from watching women pretend to be men, but being flawed men. Perhaps a lot of female anger is from women being released from gender roles and expectations and not understanding why men aren't "behaving" right.