Modern humans have been around for 200 to 300 thousand years.

it wasn't until mere 12000 years ago that the majority of humans opted for agriculture (of course long before that proto-agriculture existed). after the agriculture became the default mode of subsistence, humans no longer had to risk their lives to hunt for dangerous animals, which enabled specialization, where the surplus of food enabled some group of people to become non-farmers such as soldiers and scholars, which eventually led to the invention of writings and the emergence of state, which then led to autocatalysis of technological improvements that lead to today.

Throughout human history, men were able to use the power of technology to surpass nature's flawed architectures and all the caprice and unfairness that comes with it.

the invention of writing and letters enabled us to store and propagate far more information than our human brain could ever remember or store.

the invention of automobile helped us to surpass the best mode of transportation that nature provided to humans: horses.

harnessing the power of electricity enabled us to create god-like technologies, starting with light bulb, then the transitor, personal computer, mobile phone, and we are on the verge of entering VR/AR era, which I believe will then be followed by transhumanism, where we merge with the machines to become cyborgs.

Likewise, I'd like to argue that men will soon invent technology that will surpass nature's current architecture of the male-female gender dynamics, where men have to compete for an attractive woman, court her, and then produce offsprings with her. (Biologically, due to reproductive cost, evolution has shaped women to be much more selective than men. )

Due to the emergence of social media and online dating, this current gender dynamics between men and women shaped by nature through its arbitrary yet flawed architecture have been amplified.

When you look at the process of a man pursuing a woman, whether in real life or through online dating, you will find striking parallel to how our hunter gatherer ancenstors put an enormous effort to hunt for food.

man has to go through hundreds of profiles to secure a date with an attractive woman, which may or may not lead to a relationship. the funnel is dismal for the vast majority of men. only 1/10 of likes turn into matches, and 1/10 of matches turn into 1st dates, and 1/10 of first dates lead to relationships, and 1/10 of relationships lead to marriage, and more than half the marriage fail in divorce. modern men risk their mental health during this process.

likewise, our hunter gatherer ancestors had to spend their entire days searching for food, sometimes going hungry for days until finding something to eat. similarly they sometimes had to risk their lives when their options for food were limited.

only a very handful of men can secure a date with very attractive women. just like only the most powerful group of hunters can hunt mammoth or bears.

the process of finding food is very arduous, where you have to spend the entire day walking through the plain, sometimes in the scorching heat or in the middle freezing cold, then when you encounter your prey, you have to fight it through a difficult process, risking your own life.

Likewise, modern men get ghosted most of the times out of the blue, and then they have to put an enormous effort to secure a few dates with a woman hoping it will lead to sex or relationship.

This flawed architecture that nature shaped through its caprice will be surpassed by the power of technology, as men have always done so.

I will argue below that future technology will allowe men to satisfy their sexual needs and eventually desire for companionship and intimacy with women without having to go through this arduous process, just as agricultural revolution allowed each of us to buy our meals at Walmart or through doordash. future technological improvements will eliminate any sexual frustration whatsoever and will be able to fulfill any sexual fantasies, when you can simply scan and replicate any physical object and assign interactivity to it with the power of AI.

VR porn and AI is only the beginning. in the next decade and toward the end of this century, new technologies will emerge, such as light field video, animatronics sex robot synced with VR/AR goggles, followed by a companion robot with full human level autonomy.

Some people will say that you can never replace the desire for intimacy and companionship, but remember that those desires are produced by a complex cascade of electrical signals in your brain that cannot be deciphered with modern technology but will be cracked eventually.

In the future, we will inevitable be able to reverse engineer the entire human brain and the day may come where we can fulfill our needs for companionship, intimacy, and sexual desires in ways we cannot even imagine today.