I think it might be easier to give credence to TRP through examples for explanation or anecdotes.. So I'm sending an open request...

I would like people post arguments that they've had with their SO[So can be LGBT as welll] and then how they were resolved. Preferably and SO that you are with, or have broke amicably. Not one that you have negative feelings towards. Then it would be up to posters to decide whether the resolution fell within in Blue pill ideas, or Red Pill and then if one those people should of used Red Pill or Blue ideas.

I'm not sure this will work.. but try as descriptive as you can. I hope this makes sense and try to be as descriptive as possible..

Example:

Situation: My SO has been playing video games all week. But he we have these some family gathering planning i would like him to with. But all he does is sit and play video games. He keeps telling me that he will help me, but he just doesn't. The deadline is coming for all these things, this just makes me feel very unappreciated. So we got into fight over it.

Jenny: "WTF, we have this family get together with your family and you're doing anything. Do you think it's ok to just blow me off when ever you want. What happened to how we used to be?"

Bob :"Well, I figured you would get to it. I don't' care about this family gathering as much as you do. "

Jenny: "that's absurd. Sometimes i don't even know why i'm with you, that's an absurd comment."

Bob: "Well you don't have to be, you have do any of this crap, i just don't care family stuff as much as you. And you're trying make care. I'd rather sleep then any of that.

Jenny: "So you think i'm supposed do all this stuff for the house and for your fucking family, and you can just blow me off, lie to me tell me you're gong to do something and just not do it? Is that what this about?"

Bob "If I don't like doing something, i don't want to have to do it."

Resolution.

Bob and Jenny have a heated argument that goes around everything relationship. Jenny gets more heated cause bob is blowing her off, and lying to her about when he would help. Bob resolves this by talking to Jenny the next day, and helps.