If a man ends things because he isn't feeling a connection, why do women suddenly conclude he was "using them for sex"?

wtknight · 2022-04-25T15:10:49+00:00

Removed. No excessively leading, non-neutral discussion questions.

DivineWakaloon · 2022-04-25T15:11:26+00:00

Because women hate men.

They'll deny it, but they do.

They use men, that's the lens they see things through. Women exploit men for personal gain. It's written in their DNA. Provide Chad genetics. Provide money. Being a human doing not a human being.

So when a man isn't willing to commit his money for her to spend how she wishes, clearly he was just using her for sex, because she was using sex for money and commitment.

So she has some self-hatred because she chose wrong and this cad bypassed her genetic selection filter. That's her primary evolutionary job. And he snuck through. He must have tricked her by denying her money she craves and commitment of his time, resources, and genetics.

Why wouldn't she be mad? She hates men already. She tolerates the ones that give tingles and treasure. The world today looks like it does precisely because of this. 1 billion women on social media are telling you straight up, be Chad, be useful, be rich. Don't want sex. All day every day. Are people not reading and listening to women? It's not like they aren't straight up telling you what they want and their goals.

So yes, they assume the man used them for sex, because they were using him for money.

Women accept money for sex and vet men based on their ability to pay. They aren't freaking out about 50/50 splitting-the-check and making it a red flag if they weren't.

Orange_Paisley · 2022-04-25T15:16:03+00:00

Usually because he "isn't feeling a connection" only after the sex has already taken place, meaning the woman concludes that sex was all he was after, he got it, and is gone.

cuckedalt · 2022-04-25T15:05:39+00:00

'allowed'

What does this mean exactly there's no laws against are you looking for some kind of medal

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IHaveSalesQuestions · 2022-04-25T15:11:23+00:00

Fragile egos that men are accused of having are just as prevalent in women.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-04-25T15:11:51+00:00

To save their ego and make a plausible explanation for it. Tbh a lot women don’t want to admit their not good enough, so you get the “used me for sex” trope.

mistgivenveil · 2022-04-25T15:17:41+00:00

That's what people do when they're emotional, make accusations. Don't respond to people when they're very clearly upset and speaking from their asses, guys have this tendency to try to jump in and defend their actions immediately and most of the time only succeed at digging a deeper hole.

Title	If a man ends things because he isn't feeling a connection, why do women suddenly conclude he was "using them for sex"?
Author	rattlesnake_suitcase
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	April 25, 2022 3:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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