Will marrying as virgins be a thing of the past. It looks like nowadays there is an unwritten rule which says you have to date and engage in all acts of immorality in what is called exploring the field before you get married, 'settle'

Like the immorality present in campuses and colleges.

What always surprises me though is someone expecting a person who came out of this lifestyle, dating, having 'fun' etc; you never found them a virgin but think they will stick to you the whole marriage.

I came to realize modern marriages are secretly open marriages. Modern people who need a high stimuli and also claim they want to live a happy life will crave variety; they will get bored of one patner, because majority of them were living that lifestyle anyway before they got married. I have seen people (men and women) who are good; raise the kids well, are good parents etc have affairs. You'd be surprised to realize that person who looks righteous, that person you respect got bored of their marriage patner long ago and is secretly having affairs.

Looks like marriage is a thing which has no place in the modern world. People are in it just so as not to be the odd one out or just see what's in it just so they don't miss anything. Otherwise in this modern world people would love to party, date, meet new partners, play mind games, flirt etc till they are 80 years old and can't do it anymore.