I'm an average, slim woman. I thought being shallow was bad so I dated ugly guys. I slept with short guys for years. The sex was awful. Either painful and gross or at best boring. I never had an orgasm. Just being with them was always stressful and miserable too.

Then I dated a guy of average height, good appearance. He was not Chad, but compared to the fuglies I dated before him, he was good-looking. He was a slim, average guy. The sex was mind-blowing. He could make me orgasm multiple times with just his penis or tongue. It's not just that he was better-looking, but it's also that he had a positive attitude. He seemed to actually enjoy the sex with me and to actually appreciate me. The other ones made me feel like they were extremely thirsty or frustrated to be with me. This one was better-looking and seemed much more appreciative of me. Being with him made me feel so relaxed and happy.

Did I learn my lesson? No. I went right back to ugly, selfish lovers. I taught myself to have an orgasm after that, but it was always a struggle. It's like that taller guy was so loving and happy, he could just make me have orgasm naturally, but then the next guy was another frustrated guy who was unwilling to provide any help with my orgasm so I had to dig deep to force it.

I conclude that it's really not worth it to try to make fuglies happy. I think there's a reason why shallow exists and it's because things are truly better with at least your looksmatch. I could have had good times with fine guys instead of bad times with fuglies.

I still wouldn't go for Chad because that doesn't appeal to me, but I think an average guy with good appearance is the sweet spot for me. Sex with anything below that is consistently sad and awful.

PS. I realize this sub is horrified at the thought of women who have an n-count higher than 1, but consider I took this experiment in the name of Science.