So what are the practical differences between RP/BP in dating/behavior?

VarsitySlutTeamCpt · 2014-06-07T05:47:16+00:00

Bp doesnt stand for anything, they only make fun of RP

[deleted] · 2014-06-08T19:12:05+00:00

As BP has no ideology of its own, I'll refer to it as "the opposite of Red Pill".

In that case, I think there are several main differences:

1) Views on relationships and dating. Red Pillers see dating as "game": treat it as a competition, believe that there are hard rules you need to follow in order to "win", pride themselves on "winning" (aka "scoring the chick"), consciously use various elaborate tactics and strategies which they base on pseudo-evolutionary psychology. In general, they tend to favour casual sex instead of a relationship since it requires less emotional investment and they tend not to see women as worthy and interesting partners. They have negative views on marriage since they see it as a way for a woman to bind a man legally.

Blue Pillers see relationships as part of their social life, which means that there are no hard rules or foolproof keys to success; they mostly go with the flow and don't see dating in the same coldly-calculating way as Red Pillers do. I wouldn't say that Blue Pillers prefer relationship over casual sex or the other way around, but they tend to have a more positive view on marriage and see it as an equal union instead of one that clearly favours the woman and has no advantages for the man.

2) Views on male and female sexuality. Red Pillers believe that all men inherently have a much higher sex drive than women. They use pseudo-evolutionary psychology to back up their claims that it's great for a man to have as many sexual partners as possible, but not so for women. They are fond of slut-shaming and judge women mainly by their sexual preferences and sexual history. They believe that all women want a dominant-subdominant type of sex and are willing to be submissive partners.

Blue Pillers don't have strict beliefs about which sex has a higher libido but believe that societal standards and slut shaming might be factors that limit female sexuality. They in general don't see women's virginity as a value on its own, but rather a preference that some people might have and others don't. They believe that sex is not something that shames women and they shouldn't be judged by their sexual history or preferences. They believe that some male or female individuals like dominant-submissive type of sex, yet it certainly can't be said about the entire gender.

3) Views on life and world in general.Red Pillers see the over-simplified version of world and life. They tend to see things in black-and-white, use stereotypes and generalizations to neatly put people in separate boxes based on their gender, race, social standing (alpha and beta, etc).

Blue Pillers tend not to rely on generalizations and stereotypes, they realize that people are individuals and it's impossible to sort them into drawers.

4) Views on women. Red Pillers enhance the differences between men and women to a ridiculous level, sometimes almost making themselves believe that men and women are completely different species. Thus they can't see women the same way as men - as people and individuals with personalities and intellectual purposes, someone you can have a meaningful conversation on equal grounds or make friends with.

Blue Pillers see women as people first and foremost (and individuals instead of one single-minded hive) and only then as "women" as in sexual targets. They don't let their attraction to women interfere with meaningful and respectful interacting with women on an intelligent, platonic level.

5) Viws on social status and hierarchy. (might overlap with the others a bit) Red Pillers favour strict hierarchy in society, based on a few levels: "alpha and beta" status, also enhance the importance of a man's "social status" (his career, mostly). They also support gender segregation by insisting that men and women have completely separate roles and should stick with them,They also support a bit more extreme version of traditional relationships, the Captain & First Mate type where only the man has the right to make important decisions and the woman has only a complementary voice.

Blue Pillers believe that "social status" is vague and ambigous and is not a reliable measure while deciding if a person is worth their respect. They don't believe in "alpha and beta" hierarchy or the hierarchy based on gender. They also believe that one's role or occupation in life depends solely on the individual's strengths and talents instead of being predestined by birth. They support equal, democratic relationships where both parties have equal say and no one's voice is more important than the other's.

Of course, these descriptions will not precisely reflect the view of all Red Pillers, nor all Blue Pillers, since even people belonging to the same ideology or movement can have differing views. But these are what I noticed the majority of Red Pillers to subscribe to.

solastsummer · 2014-06-07T14:27:33+00:00

BPers actually like the person they are in a relationship with instead of viewing the relationship as affirmation of their masculinity. They wouldn't be as insecure or obsessed with the idea that their partner is cheating.

PublicallyViewable · 2014-06-07T05:56:45+00:00

Bluepill gives women what they say they want, Redpill gives women what they actually want.

mollymollykelkel · 2014-06-07T19:06:23+00:00

BP has no rhetoric therefore this question can't be answered.

Title	So what are the practical differences between RP/BP in dating/behavior?
Author	BrancoXIII
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Date	June 7, 2014 3:48 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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