Has anyone else noticed this? Nowadays something might seem innocuous.......until someone creates an analogy to the situation that involves a man. As in, if you visualized a man doing the action, its now suddenly wrong.

Example: Someone might make a remark about a woman being scantily dressed in public. And then people will get upset and say you're shaming her.

But if a woman was at the same level of scantiness, it now suddenly occurs to you how inappropriate it would be.