Can anyone explain why it has been necessary to create an "Are we dating the same guy" Facebook page, and not a "Are we dating the same person" Facebook page?

If it's to create a safe space for women, it has instead become a space that exists to be unsafe for men, with countless defamatory posts, false accusations and often just general belittlement.

In a day and age where women have to proportedly break there way into men's spaces to keep society safe for women, why are we so casual about this double standard?