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Question backfires.

DAVKAI

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Date July 1, 2021 4:46 AM UTC
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How many romantic partners did your EX have before you?

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[–]SkynetSpaghetti 774 points775 points776 points 5 years ago (54 children) | Copy Link

My wife's a workaholic. Works two jobs because she wants to and is actively working towards her second bachelors on top of her masters. I wish she'd fuckin chill.

[–]RikerT_USS_Lolipop 283 points284 points285 points 5 years ago (34 children) | Copy Link

A friend of mine in highschool told me his mom was a workaholic. She had some office job and also was a bartender on the weekends. They already had plenty of money. She gave him her ~4 year old Mustang and she bought herself a brand new Firebird. Later he told me it turns out she was a spending addict and their family was hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. Welp, see ya.

[–]HeliaxPrime 86 points87 points88 points 5 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link

How the fuck do you end up that deep? I have a hard time just getting Capitol One to increase my credit limit beyond $500! I make ~$80K and my credit score is in the 700’s.

[–]Waterbuck71 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I’ve got a friend who just got a loan for a car, but because whichever company searched for the loan asked like 8 loaners at once, his credit took a drop of 80ish and everything just got more expensive for no reason.

[–]HeliaxPrime 21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I learned that the hard way. The dealership just blasts your shit out to a ton of different banks hoping they get a bite. Always start at your own bank, get an approval amount and go shopping from there

[–]VanillaGorilla59 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Used to work at a few dealerships, that was something dealerships do to PITA customers. They do a ton of "hard pulls" on their credit app and then when their rate allowed is 8-12% they get mad and leave only to find out their credit has been shot to hell and can't get anything better. I didn't last long there...

[–]Kimchi_boy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s fucked up. Dealership should rise above such pettiness.

[–]VanillaGorilla59 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Should, but don’t. This is all too real. Nobody pays cash anymore and dealerships make their money on the loan and service mostly. I occasionally go look at new cars to see if I’m tempted and to see the changing tactics and the first thing they do, while “getting a car ready to test drive” is have me fill out a credit app. Then they have you on the hook. Is despicable but true. I always deny so they never have my info. If anyone is reading this and thinking about going to buy a car, don’t do in house financing unless it’s 0-2% just go to a credit union you belong to and don’t get fucked

[–]Fleethebluenorth 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That is exactly what happened to me My credit went from exceptional to good. I was pissed as I never asked them for financing, it was a cash deal so they were up to something. It took a couple years for it to normalize.

[–]Waterbuck71 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You’d think we’d have a better system set up by now.

[–]sdp1981 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Credit pulls shouldn't even affect your score, it's stupid.

[–]moonunit42 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Jesus how? When I started my first job, I had basically no credit score and was make just less than that but yet Capital One gave me a credit card with a 5k limit right of the bat.

[–]HeliaxPrime 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

You’ve got me dude. Haven’t a single fuckin clue

EDIT: for fun I was gonna see how to request an increase and noticed after paying my balance off in full they bumped me up to $750 limit. I’ve had this card for a year and a half with no late payments.

[–]shadus 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Apply for a credit card in another company, You have an established credit history now and an established payment history It's far easier to get a decent value credit card from a new company than it is to get your limit increased adequately at Capital One.

They're absolutely stellar about giving people cards who otherwise might have difficulty getting them, but they are not the best company to have cards with... Their rates tend to be a little bit high and they often dislike raising your credit limit adequately.

With decent credit I might recommend Chase or Bank of America.

That said keep your Capital One card, use it once a year and pay it off... It helps give you a longer credit history, a second card at this point will increase your total amount of credit available and make it easier to get larger quantities of credit and take less of a hit when using any of your credit.

(By and by, capital one will probably increase limit further too after you've got more credit.)

[–]almighty_ruler 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been really happy with Chase. One thing I like, that has nothing to do with credit cards, is it seems like there is no such thing as a bad check there. Say a friend of mine and I have checks from the same person and we both deposit them at the same time. The check they deposited at their local credit union won't go through but Chase always gives me my money

[–]sdp1981 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wells Fargo amex gave me a huge limit by comparison to my other cards Idk why.

[–]Mydeaddadsweed 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Weird I had shit credit but six months of on time payments after the probation period and they raised my limit to 2.5k. I don't even work.

[–]HeliaxPrime 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol wtf?? Thanks Capitol One, I guess I’ll just stand over here and FUCK MYSELF!

[–]_Praise_Gaben_ 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Its more to do with the rates you want. They won't increase your limit due to them not making as much money on your debt. If you don't care about the rate (like those crazy 35%+ interest rates) you'll see lots of shady companies will give you lots of money.

If your already on a high rate (like the 19.99% cards) and they won't give you a higher limit just switch CC providers. If your salary is really 80k with a 700 credit score I would expect you to be able to get something north of a 30k credit limit ~10% interest.

[–]HeliaxPrime 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for that info. Could you point me in the right direction or offer any suggestions? If it makes a difference my credit is in the low 700’s. Around 715-720

[–]anonymouseketeerears 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I have a high 700, and $25+ limit on my Discover. Rate is around 12-13% (including prime).

Been with them since 2007 though, and it took years to get to the limit I have now.

[–]fr0nksen 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait. Are you saying, you can borrow money for 12-13% interest? This is really awful and I would really stay away from that.

Hell, the Mafia might be doing better rates than that!

[–]anonymouseketeerears 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You understand how credit cards work, no?

You only pay interest if you keep a balance.

You will have a hard time finding any card that is less than 15% for a new account with no fees... and provides any perks. I have tried and regularly ask for interest rate reductions with all of my cards.

I have cycled nearly $60k through that card in the last year, and regularly wind up with 0% promos. How much did I pay in finance charges for borrowing this amount? $0. How much did I make in cash back? Around $1200 (at least 1% on everything, some categories at 5% back).

So, no... This is far better than Tony Two Toes loaning you money through the mafia where you get to sleep with the fishes if you don't pay up. If I were irresponsible, you would be correct.

[–]rearden-steel 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That doesn't strike me as too bad for a credit card rate, considering this is unsecured money. However, as you point out, one ought not be using credit cards for significant loans (although I'd argue it's a better option than the mafia). Pay your balance each month.

[–]_Praise_Gaben_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Could you point me in the right direction or offer any suggestions?

I can't be of much help. I'm Canadian so what banks offer what in the US I am clueless about. But if you want to build credit use your CC for daily stuff like gas, groceries, etc and pay it off same day. You build credit but don't incur any interest fees. Also if you are sharing a bill with someone (like Cell bill or something) make sure its in your name and being paid ontime. Thats how I helped my roommate get his credit sorted. We put everything into his name and made sure no payments were missed.

[–]chakan2 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Go buy a 300k house and 2 new cars in 4 years. That'll do it.

[–]verisimilitudesque 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My buddy's wife (now ex) would run up his credit card and since she "managed" finances, he never knew how much debt she was accruing until she started asking him for more money each month

The entire thing was insane. This woman was spending 2k a month on workout supplements/equipment/food

[–]Syphox 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I’ve been turned down from a credit increase from them twice now. Finally said fuck you and got a chase

[–]HeliaxPrime 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How was your experience?

[–]Syphox 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s great I applied and got a $5,000 increase and transferred my balance plus 0 interest for 15 months

[–]HeliaxPrime 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sweet deal. I’m gonna look into that. Last question, how exactly does one “transfer their balance” and what does that entail?

[–]oneeyebear 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, I was approved for a credit card the day I turned 18 while in high school with no job. Limit was $800.

[–]Sinborn 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mom still runs her business @72 with no signs of stopping. It's no desk job either. She also has a pension from her late husband and all his retirement savings earning interest. Doesn't matter, she loves to teach dance.

[–]ca_kelly 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mom got our family into over $500,000 in debt

[–]ChrisInDetroit2020 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hol'up!

[–]Ed-Zero 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hol'down!

[–]238bazinga 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whenever I complain about how shitty my work environment is my fiance's first instinct is just "I'll work two jobs". I'm like "no, I'm not quitting" but she would work every hour of the day (within reason) if she could.

[–]memewatch90 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I’m there with you, my gf has started a new business which pays very well and is still working 3 days a week at her old job which doesn’t pay in a week what she earns in half a day now, while she is still building a client base and has time she will work for whatever as long as she is earning! I want her to also chill.

[–]stovetopzzz 45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Onlyfans?

[–]memewatch90 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That wouldn’t be very lucrative for her lmao, she does fillers and semi permanent tattoos eyebrows and lips.

[–]Potatobat1967 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My ex wife worked three jobs.A full time job during the day,a part time job in the evening and the same part time job on Sunday.Needless to say we didn’t see each other but for a few hours on Saturday before I went to work because I worked second shift at the time.I personally think she was trying to out do her mother who also worked three jobs.Her mother worked for the state during the day full time and then worked for a survey company in the evening after work and also sold Avon.I talked to her about slowing down and backing off one time..I might as well have been talking to the wall.

[–]duck1300911 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy Crap are our wives related?! Just got her masters, going for her doctorate, works full time and refuses not to work on the farm when she’s not at her main job and never sleeps and is he mother to our four children. I feel you man. She refuses to relax

[–]xdMatthewbx 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sounds like she deserves a break

[+][deleted] 5 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Kazahkahn 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And no sex life.

[–]Turnontuneindropout7 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At home that is

[–]BohrInReddit 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Uhh.. assuming he’s not being redundant being workaholic is really not healthy both physically and mentally. I know people’s limit are different and juggling 2 works and 2 studies are ‘possible’ for some, but still, balanced work-life is still the best regardless of gender

[+]Ayrab4Trump -6 points-5 points-4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Masters in what? Better not be a bs humanities degree.

Also how much debt y’all incurring?

[–]triplepeniseanis 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Masters in working

[–]Ayrab4Trump 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol!

[–]Cauliflower-Easy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Your wife is a fucking beast you should be proud of her

[–]SkynetSpaghetti 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh i am. I just fear her working herself into an early grave.

[–]Cauliflower-Easy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t worry bro and talk to her about it

I’m sure everything will work out

[–]ivanoud 85 points86 points87 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A compulsory cleavage shot with a face so edited she has no nose.

[–]CartNip 211 points212 points213 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

If she’s not working she better me raising my kids or barefoot and pregnant

[–]DorenAlexander 121 points122 points123 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

If you're not working, you need to be taking care of the house. Doesn't need to be maintenance level work, just cleaning 45 minutes to an hour a day.

I let my wife take a year or two off between jobs because we can afford it. Her income is disposable.

[–]YouDoNotKnowMeSir 110 points111 points112 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Husband or wife, it doesn’t matter lol. If you’re unemployed while your SO works, just do what you can to lighten the load. Even if it’s simple shit like making them coffee, it makes a difference

[–]Matthewmoffo19 points 5 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I used to have a flatmate who was in and out of jobs quite a bit and I can honestly say the feeling of doing a 12 hour shift and then coming back to a complete mess is just depressing , I couldn't imagine having additional spare time and still leaving a mess everywhere. It's common decency for the people you live with - and if you're both working adults then you negotiate responsibilities. Granted I wish I had the backbone when I was younger to actually say that!

[–]Durty_Durty_Durty 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to live with 3 people, a couple who never cleaned and a kid who was working 2 jobs and going to school. I was working 60 hours a week and it’s absolutely soul sucking getting off work and coming home to a house that’s a depression nest.

[–]DorenAlexander 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I have never been unemployed. I mentioned my wife because she job hops.

[–]crankyblanky 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not even for a day? A few hours?

Bravo, Champ.

[–]DorenAlexander 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I started my fist job at 16, I'm 44 and still there. Worked two side jobs over the years.

It's nothing to be proud of. I gave up a lot of opportunities in life, not to mention a lot of shit, just to keep the job.

[–]crankyblanky 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's fair, I rescind my sarcasm.

"I've never been unemployed" just hit me like one of those phrases that people in the dystopian future will be totally confused by.

[–]BillBuckner88 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah he’s just letting us in on his personal situation. Pretty obvious it has nothing to do with gender and just their own dynamic. But thank you for stating the obvious.

[–]Tony100876 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm unemployed since the pandemic started, which doesn't really matter because my dad, who is loaded, is helping me out and giving me more money than my wife earns. But I go to the supermarket and cook every single day (I'm a chef when I have a job so I'm good at it), keep the kitchen and dishes clean, make the bed and on Saturday mornings I clean the whole bathroom. I would also wash the clothes but my wife refuses to trust me on that lol. Also the missus refuses to learn how to drive so I take her to her job and pick her up. And of course I take care of our six year old daughter all day. I'm a model husband 😀

[–]xizlaar 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can we have a meme gif for this? Need to show some people

[–]Lone_Wolf_2021 45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Where's her nose lmao?

[–]SatrangiBhaijaan 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lady Voldemort

[–]Miserable-Lemon 86 points87 points88 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

The question should rather be "Why wouldn't your woman work?"

[–]sweepdefloor 43 points44 points45 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

So she can stay at home and look after our children, and cook for when I get back from a hard day of work.

[+]Miserable-Lemon -21 points-20 points-19 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Maybe 50 years ago, today it's laughable

[–]vicbot87 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why? Someone needs to take care of the children. Whomever makes the most money should be the one working, regardless of gender

[–]Jinora- 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

today it's still the fact in most households. it's all about preference.

[+]hohenheim-of-light -53 points-52 points-51 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This isn't the 1950s anymore.

[–]stockcomics 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But it’s the least you can expect from someone that is living off of your expense. Either you work or you care about the person that is working. That’s how it should be done in a relationship. Also it doesn’t matter whether the woman works or the man

[–]cheesysnipsnap 113 points114 points115 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She's a clever, strong independent woman.
She doesn't need my money.
She may earn more than me.
She can buy her own car and own clothes.
She's got this! And she makes me proud.

[–]BrandonOR 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T

[–]arbys-sauce 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

My wife works her ass off.

She homeschools our 3 kids and keeps our home in order.

In addition, she's doing all of that while I'm away in Korea for a year.

[–]Lord_Shisui 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's one thing I never understood about US. Why on earth would you homeschool your kids? Sounds like a great way to fuck them up in the long run.

[–]Asangkt358 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

The US public school system is a fucking train wreck. Spending keeps going up, while grades keep going down. There are whole public school districts in the US where not a single student scores proficient in math for their grade level. The Baltimore system, for example, just graduated some kid with a 0.05 gpa. The Washington DC district gets more than $30k per pupil in funding, yet still has the lowest student proficiency scores in the entire nation with average scores well below proficiencies.

Home school can be a great way to learn, but you have to have a dedicated parent to really make it work.

[–]bkuziojr 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Spent 2 years in the Baltimore school system and can confirm its effed. The principal put pressure on teachers to give kids good grades so she could hit her bonus. Kids would need to actively try and hurt each other or teachers to be suspended for the same reason. Some public school systems are little better than glorified baby sitters.

[–]Knight_of_Inari 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh school fucked me up a lot, I don't know what's so bad about learning at home, I would go that route if I had the chance to choose my path again.

[–]arbys-sauce 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How? They're happy, they're well adjusted, they get plenty of social interaction via co-ops, sports, and friends, and their education is superior to what public schools offer.

Sorry you think needlessly exposing your children to the government-run mindless worker farm is a good idea. The rich don't send their kids to public schools for good reason. I won't hamper my children either, even if I have to sacrifice for it.

[–]brubeck5 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're not working then you better tend the home and if you're not tending the home then you better be working.

[–]Redditartedededed 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Idk if it backfired, just looks like the person wanted to see what people thought

[–]Bull_Winkle69 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

She's ugly. So much makeup. Looks like she doesn't even have a nose.

[–]Compressorman 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Its those stupid filters that women use on their pictures now. They blur themselves to the point that their nose disappears. Look at an online dating site and that is mostly what you see, blurred fake looking women

[–]cometpantz 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

they use those filters because they are mega insecure

[–]Bull_Winkle69 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women arent man enough to face the world without a mask.

[–]iWasAwesome -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Ugly? Yikes. That's rude and uncalled for.

[–]Bull_Winkle69 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

I think it's rude to wear a mask and expect people to think you're attractive.

[–]iWasAwesome -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Then you're too sensitive, which is ironic for someone who blatantly calls people ugly.

[–]Bull_Winkle69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Found the ugly person.

[–]iWasAwesome 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

An ugly person probably wouldn't mind that you people are calling a pretty girl ugly. It would probably make an ugly person feel better. You found the empathetic person, dumbass.

[–]Bull_Winkle69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why have empathy for women?

They have none for men.

If 90% of us were slaughtered they wouldn't shed a tear unless the checks stopped coming or there was a dirty dangerous job, but no man to pigeonhole into it.

[–]iWasAwesome 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus man. I like seeing pussy passes get denied but I'm not anti-woman. In fact I love women and I love my gf. Women have the same amount of empathy for men as men do for women. If 90% of [the world] was slaughtered, the other 10% wouldn't shed a tear unless it affected them directly. It's not just women. Some individuals have more empathy than others though, and you're clearly near the bottom.

[–]Bull_Winkle69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Most women are ugly once you remove their mask.

They need cosmetics and filters because they aren't man enough to face the world without a mask.

[–]iWasAwesome 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Most women are ugly

Wow, alrighty buddy.

[–]Bull_Winkle69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Why else do they cover their faces in makeup and use filters on photos?

Not only are they not that attractive but they have fragile egos as well.

[–]iWasAwesome 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Are you suggesting that pretty girls don't wear makeup or use filters?

[–]Bull_Winkle69 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You are misunderstanding me.

I haven't come to this conclusion based on my personal opinion.

I merely need to look at the behavior and choices of women.

If they thought they looked pretty would they cover their faces with makeup? Would they use all manner of filters on their photos? Would they wear yoga pants that smooth out their cellulite and makes them appear more tone and youthful?

You seem to be angry at me for acknowledging the behavior of billions of women.

Women can't stand the way they look. They think they are so hideous that they can't face the world without a mask.

[–]iWasAwesome -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's just normalized social etiquette. Using makeup to cover a pimple or two doesn't mean they think they are ugly, they just prefer to cover small imperfections. Wearing yoga pants doesn't mean they have cellulite... They're just cheap, appropriate in almost every setting, and sexy. Filters are fun or make them look like perfect barbie dolls, it doesn't mean they think they're ugly.

Yes some girls use these things because they do think they're ugly, but plenty of girls know they are hot, or don't use much or any makeup, or use filters.

Saying every girl uses these things because every girl is ugly is pretty harsh.

[–]Mayo_Kupo 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If I were married, I would love to provide my wife with a life of leisure.

But that would be a big gift, and absolutely not something that can be assumed or expected. (Or for that matter, something that I'd force on her if she wanted to work - obviously not.)

[–]MadLaamaDisease 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Secondary question,should she work on streets.

[+]Trollberto__ -13 points-12 points-11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We talking about your mum?

[–]MadLaamaDisease 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe if someone likes necrophilia.

[–]stillwaitingforbacon 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fantastic skyline. I love a great city shot.

[–]Will-the-Archer 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought it said “work out” and I was like “How was this a pussy pass denied.”

[–]BlackBoxInquiry 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Equality, wouldn't that imply all areas, including work?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I want a trad wife so my answer is no.

Your job is to be a homemaker and family manager and take it really fucking seriously. Kids aren’t meant to raise themselves

[–]Nanteen666 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If they don't work.

The house better be perfect, and dinner should be at least 6 course.

[–]morencychad 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So short-sighted. What's she going to do when she doesn't look like that any more if she has no work experience?

[–]PlouffDaddy 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not even close to hot enough

[–]thechrisspecial 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This one is backwards. Honestly, if you’re in a long term or marriage and you want to have kids, the woman shouldn’t work. But she better take care of her man.

[–]Illegal-Plant 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's a very traditional old view

[–]thechrisspecial 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I guess you can see it that way. Just with what I’ve seen in the western world of relationships, with 50-60% of marriages ending in divorce, and 80% of those divorces being initiated by women, this new norm doesn’t seem to be working well for most. I’m not say a woman shouldnt be able to enter the workplace if she truly wants that, but there’s no shame in wanting to be a full time mom imo. Being a mom or truly good wife to a supportive man comes with responsibility too. Ideally for me, I the man would be the breadwinner and my wife would take care of the house and kids, and if she wants to pursue something on the side that contribute to both of us while not interfering in the livelihood of the home or children’s up bringing, or if she want to help with my work on the side, that’s all fine. I know this doesnt flow with Feminist ideals, but I just believe the man, the natural leader, should lead or at the very least the man and woman should be equal in bringing in the money. I do believe the equal relationship can cause issues when bringing a child into the situation. Btw this is not coming from a religious POV, it’s just from personal experience.

[–]TheGameChallenger 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

she also tried to fish for simps lol

[–]FeistyAdhesiveness21 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She can work this dick

[–]Hondanazi 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Can she suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch? Can she suck a golf ball through 30 feet of garden hose? If so, I’ll think about it.

[–]Visual-Food-9400 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

decisions. .decisions. . if she's faithful she ain't gotta work. . .just wait for me to get home. . if she's a regular female. .yah what else are you bringing to the table?? . . Moral: Faithful women should be treasured

[–]Nanoodler 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Eh. Faithful is a basic requirement anyway. While it might be rarer than it should be, it is by no means enough

[–]Giozos1100 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, that's a low bar to set for yourself.

[–]Columbia82 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who hurt you?

[–]throwaway314159g 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean given the state of the economy, a single income household would face some limitations when it comes to disposable income...

So yeah she should work

[–]Chafrador -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny how a while ago, actual feminists (those who actually we're useful) wanted women to be other things than just stay-at-home mothers that only cook and clean. These people fought so hard so women can have the same jobs as men and they women can finally be independent individuals. And now, today's feminists want to regress and want women to stop working and want men to make them live for free... It's fucking ridiculous

[+]5shuumi5 -7 points-6 points-5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well, In fact she only asked a question, didnt say women shouldnt work

[–]ghetterking 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

at best this is 50% points saying yes because they're men and around 25% points each among women saying yes or no

not exactly denied, but i guess my aims are a bit high, considering the social media this is from and what kind of audience is being attracted by it

[–]Zabuzaxsta 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about that special group of women who want to work but get pissed when you suggest hiring housekeepers with your own money so they do the house work anyway but gradually get pissed at you?

Asking for a friend

[–]AestheticMirror 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she wants money then yes

[–]deplorableMainer75 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes y'all should and lots do because they screamed they wanted equality so guess what princess you've got your equality

[–]ARoji100876 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, if she's not going to work she better be a sex goddess and be willing to spread her legs whenever I want.

But seriously, a whore is a way better business because you can get rid of those once you're done having sex with her.

[–]Jackman_04 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My girl graduated earlier than me (im still studying) and she's looking for jobs now. Can't be any prouder, she's hardworking as hell.

Never understood the mindset of 'the man must be the breadwinner', why not both? Twice the money and twice the bling

[–]Fleethebluenorth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Especially if that is all they have to offer in body and looks!

[–]Yipsta 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What sort of basic bitch question is this

[–]Deadass-Boi 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pass: denied

Good post.

[–]Phuckingidiot 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would not have married her if she didn't. I ain't no freeloaders meal ticket through life.

[–]MamboFloof 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't want no broke bitch in my house

[–]fr0nksen 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would never date a girl who doesn't insist splitting the first couple of bills. I don't care if she doesn't make very much money but she still has to insist to pay her own bill. Otherwise I'm really not interested. I want to date a girl who strives for bigger than me.

[–]Visual-Food-9400 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

my parents mostly. .but why does that matter?

[–]kubistonek -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Question: gets anwsered

r/pussypassdenied: yess!!1 stupeid women bad!!! /+!!!

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