How old are you and how familiar are you with RPW? I am 27. my Husband is 28. I had a hard time with Low Libido for a year. But that is dealt with. But now my Partner changed.
How long have you been together? We are together for 8 years. With two children age 4 and 6.
Is your relationship long-distance? No
Do you have an active bedroom life? Unfortunately I was LL due to problems with my hormonal BC. I was not able to provide Sex more then once a week. My Libido has made a return 4 months ago and we have had sex every second day or daily at minimum since then.
What is the problem? I fought hard to get my Libido back. Never did I accept it. But it did take time to find a solution. But this period has been over now for 4 months. He went to the nightwalkers and has not stopped even after my Libido returned. I refused to have sex without condom until he has stopped nightwalking and got a STD test. I will not budge on this. Two months ago he changed. He began to distance himself unless I provided Sex daily. He all but demanded I give him an attest when I was ill and felt poor. I told him that it might be better to forego sex in vagina that day. He made a paternity test after the birth of our children. Ok, but why do it again twice now? Did he expect the result to change? Our children are both atill his. He called me a bad Wife in front of our Son. Told me I was disrespectfull. He accused me of being unfair to our son. This is absolutely not true. My son is a troublemaker with boundless enrgy. Unfortunately he also gets pretty violent and lies often. Most of these lies are obvious when investigated.
How have you contributed to the problem? I was the one with missing Libido. Ok. But I did everything I could to change it. I have never considered myself to be disrespectfull towards him. But I will pay more attention. I feel put of by his resentfullness. Our ressurected Bedroom is like a sword dangling above my head. Wenever I want something or we have an argument he brings it up. To me it is in the past where it belongs. I treat my children as fair as I can.
How long has this been an issue? Two months now.
What have you done to resolve this problem? I to provide sex at least every second day. Most days daily. Whenever I have my period I do BLJ. I suggested counseling. He refused.
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