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| 3 | People who have happy relationships or a satisfactory dating life in general, how is it?It's calm and fun. We have the motions that serve as a blueprint for the day to day, and the exciting things that make each week slightly different than the last. We have our close friends - my best friend from childhood and her husband share a fence with his best friend from childhood and his wife (you can't make these things up) - and we spend time with them, and their children. There's nothing that makes me happier than bringing over dinner and hearing their little girl yell "Uncle R!" and ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you decrease your N in conversations with your SO?People lie. You choose who you trust. Or you trust nobody. But if you choose to trust liars that's your problem, not the liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you decrease your N in conversations with your SO?All men should assume all women have slept with more then 25 people Based on what? That's the stupidest thing. It's your prerogative to assume whatever you'd like but I run in a crowd of what I would consider to be fairly moderate women and of those who have shared their number I know only one whose number is even half that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: Do you decrease your N in conversations with your SO?No. I told him my honest number immediately (not that high by today's standards, but I wish it was lower) because I didn't want to get invested in a relationship to discover it was a dealbreaker down the road. That wouldn't benefit either of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 07:42 AM |
| 6 | Advice about in laws please!Hi there, and welcome! First off, per the sub rules, could you please edit your post to include the answers to these questions? I don't feel comfortable saying too much without that information, but to begin, How does your DF feel about his family's involvement in this situation and your relationship with them in general? What kind of wedding does he want? Have you both discussed and formed a mutual vision for the wedding? In general, I think if you accept the gift of a wedding from someone you … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/07/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Quick Update: It's about the marriage, not the wedding.Totally agree that is the key! If you have the money, do it! That's not what I would personally spend my money on, but guess what? It's your money and not mine, haha. What I do not get are the people who don't have the money but do it anyway. I have two weddings I'm in right now, one is a good good friend (bridezilla), and the other is my best friend (bridechilla). Bridezilla created a $7k total budget - I'm assuming based on parental contributions because she is an unemployed student gaining de… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/17 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: wtf is a "red pilled woman"?Speak for yourself. Lol they are speaking for "themselves". This is about what RP women think. Not BP. Nobody needed the clarification you don't think this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Share your wedding vowsThat is so cool!!! I love it so much. I've never thought about having a third party write personalized vows. There are a few things I could say as an argument against that, but the more I think about it the more I love it. I feel like it's such an interesting medium for the classic "get an outside read on the situation." How cool to have someone else verbalize their interpretation of your feelings (: | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 01:40 AM |
| 3 | LTR hinting about spending time with other menJust doing our duty to make sure ladies of the West keep shaving their legs | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR hinting about spending time with other menShots fired! | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Faux Pas Friday!Well the modesty is more of a sensory fringe benefit (as skirts/dresses should always be an appropriate length, and pantyhose does nothing to cover) rather than my actual qualm. I just find bare legs in a professional setting to be inappropriate fullstop - though I think your opinion is held by the majority, as evidenced by the fact I never see pantyhose at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Faux Pas Friday!So true! It reminds me of my grandmother in the best possible way. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Faux Pas Friday!It's true!! I actually wore an office dress on a weekend so I forwent the stockings...I did NOT realize how warm they kept me! It was a huge difference. I also didn't realize how much more modest they felt...I was like, hyperaware of the under-skirt airflow and had never properly appreciated the pantslike effect of stockings. Also, they make your legs look amazing! Why the resistance?? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 04:03 PM |
| 9 | Faux Pas Friday!I just went on a rant about this the other day - but the utter lack of hoisery in professional environments. I don't understand when women's bare legs became acceptable in the office but I find it very uncouth and distasteful. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/17 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Masculinity, The Male Mind, Male Behavior, etc. - What Would You Like To Learn More About And Discuss On RPW?Love this!! Thanks for sharing it with us - I can't wait! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/17 03:10 AM |
| 2 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"Same wavelengths yet again haha - I always ask myself when writing "Have I been practicing this lately? Is this fair of me to say if I'm slipping up?" The conclusion is always that it benefits me to put the words out there to keep them on the top of my mind, and anyone else who also benefits is just a plus (: Most recently, R and I had the smallest disagreement that I referenced in this thread and honestly it's been eating me alive. It really wasn't a big deal and it was resolved soo quickly, I … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | "I can't do it alone" or "Hi it's me... CoochQ. I suck at relationships without y'all!"But coming up against my husband with verbal aggression is like throwing a cup of boiling water against a mile-thick continental ice sheet. He just freezes. He walks away, sometimes he'll even leave the house, and he won't speak with me. He won't engage my verbal aggression. I have wondered in the past if I did need a man who was more aggressive, who would "put my in my place" as Camille has stated in one of her comments to you. I think that at some weird sick level I do crave this kind of boot-… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Married and serious LTR-ed women: How many hobbies and interests do you share with your man? How much time do you spend together in general?We are definitely not attached at the hip lol, I think such is the nature of masculinity/femininity depending on where each individual falls on the spectrum. For us, I feel like I would drive him a little mad with all my girly talk, and I would probably just zone out if he interacted with me the way I know he enjoys interacting with males. I know couples who fit the "attached at the hip" mold and have no judgements beyond different strokes for different folks - I'm sure each have their own pros/… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017Thanks again for this! I just read (honestly with some skimming lol). A few thoughts, First is I don't really disagree with any of it - though I also didn't do begin with. Again, parenting decisions should never be made without comprehensive resourcing. Some of the books start out dealing with gentle ways to encourage sleep; some advise partial extinction or controlled crying; but with few exceptions, they land on: just don’t go back into the nursery . . . no matter how desperate the screaming b… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I tried to find link to see how accurate my recollection was, no dice /: | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I think in between those ages but I genuinely don't know. I wasn't under the impression it was an infant but it's also not fair of me to make assumptions about information that wasn't included. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I think in-person with something written is a great idea. I would, however, caution against saying something reactionary to when she does it. It's kind of like a fight with your SO, you tend to have better results if you bring up the problem topic when everyone is in good spirits and not in a moment where they will be immediately defensive. Just a thought! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I look forward to reading it!!! Obviously this is something I've not done research for personal use on, and I don't really recommend anyone makes any parental decisions without comprehensive resourcing. I don't have time in the moment but thank you for sharing it and it definitely sounds like a fascinating read! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I'm not a parent and there's always 1,001 ways to do things, but I did read on a Reddit thread from someone who alleges his sister has the best behaved children. He said her strategy was - once they were of an old enough age where crying doesn't always mean "I need something" and might mean "I've learned this gets me attention - to stop rewarding attention crying. He said any time the baby cried, she did a full check (hunger, diaper, burping, pain, etc) and once she established nothing was wrong… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - May 20, 2017I think it's a good idea to say something for the sake of the child, that being said: You should probably understand it isn't your business, but you're making it your business (with conscionable cause)..so there is a good chance the backlash will not be rooted in intent (conscionable) but in action (meddling). I still support talking to her, but I think you need to recognize that. There is a reasonable chance it will result in your friendship being over. Again, unfortunate but important to recog… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | The Next Generation of Americans (Gen Z) May Be the Most Conservative Since WWIIThis is a short and sweet article, with a small religious plug at the end that's easy to ignore. Basically, the titles says it all! This is pretty optimism-inspiring IMO, and something I'm looking forward to seeing. I was recently considering in another thread (where Camille shared a clip from Bill Nye's awful show) - Being that generations tend to do 180s from one another, Millennials are spooky liberal...does this mean Gen Z-ers will be more conservative? It makes sense to me, being that some … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 05:39 AM |
| 4 | When was your last argument with your man? What was it about?Thursday morning, before that....I have no idea. We didn't communicate well about our itinerary (picking friends up from airport) which led to a disagreement that lasted maybe 4 minutes, or possibly less. We both got quiet all of the sudden realizing how dumb it was, and he says, "I'm sorry - you're right, I didn't time it correctly. I made a mistake." "No I'm sorry - you're right, they can wait a few minutes and I'm being rude to you which isn't okay. It's really not a big deal." "That's okay, … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/17 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Q4RP: Red-Pillers of PPD, how do you respond to the claim that evolutionary psychology is very thin, despite much "pop science" that invokes it left, right, and center?Yeah this is a great point. I wouldn't get in an evopsych debate with something to prove because 1) As being discussed here, the evidence is lacking, and 2) I haven't done any legitimate research on the subject. That being said, I personally subscribe to the fact that we can generalize behaviour and characteristics of most animals, and don't see why that would all of the sudden go out the window with humans. I recognize we're pretty extraordinary, but "idk lol everyone is different" doesn't sit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!Yes! So true hahaha - I love both of those monikers d: | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 06:21 PM |
| 2 | An Introduction to Home BartendingI love love love everything about this. Thank you for sharing!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!She's flounced several times and always come back with the same attitude you see here. She's never been told to leave (otherwise she would have been banned), but she's made several comments like "I'm leaving forever guys...I'm almost out the door...seriously....don't try and stop me....you'll never see me again..." If I recall, Tempy told her to cut the shit. It's all very self-aggrandizing. /u/stevierose345, nobody has a problem with you being here and participating. Your weird attitude like "u… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Dealing With Common "Low Dominance" Problems - Share Your Insights And Experiences!my anxiety jumps up and says "Oh no, he's stepping down from his dominant role! Now you'll have to be in charge and then you'll hate him forever!" Of course this is ridiculous, but a woman's mind is an odd place sometimes. If he's ceding restaurant choice to you but is still planning all the trips, handling all the finances, and asking you to iron his shirts, he is being kind, not being weak. Reminding myself of this allows me to enjoy his momentary bestowing of power as the treat it is, instead… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/17 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?Completely agree. R and I "dated" for 3 weeks before becoming exclusive, and in that time we would meet up and talk for hours about our life goals. How long we thought it's reasonable to date before engagement, whether or not we wanted kids, budgets for a wedding (silly sounding, but I think very telling of each person's priorities and how they align), career goals, having me in the home, homeownership, when and where we would consider moving, etc, etc, etc. It was very no-pressure hypotheticals… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Laura Doyle's book knowledge, is it that realistic?I know this probably isn't realisic at this point, but for whatever it's worth try not to be nervous. It shouldn't be difficult to talk about the direction of your relationship. If it is, that may be a variable to consider as you decide it's potential. You say you were solipsistic in thinking "that's just why people date"....tell him that! You can 100% have this discussion in a way that is lighthearted. Let me give just one example, I really appreciate you taking the time to talk with me today..… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/17 05:27 AM |
| 2 | So, you want maternity leave without kids? OK. Here's how that should go. (Response to the article /u/Zombies_InTheSnow posted yesterday)7 was my absolute favourite haha, I definitely laughed. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/17 12:31 AM |
| 1 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]You certainly won't hear me disagree with that assessment. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]My interpretation is that despite the fact women do more in the home, when you factor in employment/labour/childcare/housecare/etc/etc - it maths out very fairly. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:53 PM |
| 3 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]Interesting comment, thanks for sharing it. I don't know enough about Pew to take all those stats at face value, but those numbers are largely what I would expect - most specifically the fact that men's and women's household contribution essentially align when you factor like the variables in. I don't think most women are the martyrs they're made out to be. Another article builds on sexist heating by arguing that commutes are sexist. In towns where commutes are longer women opt out. The men work… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What does modern day love look like ?but I'm looking into a career in the Air Force now and he has already expressed his feelings about long distance relationships I don't blame him. This thread is of relevance to your situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:28 PM |
| 19 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids" [triggerwarning: entitled women]parents on staff left the office at 6 p.m. to tend to their children, while it was assumed co-workers without kids would stay behind to pick up the slack. This isn't a case for why women need a "meternity" leave...it's a case for why women shouldn't be in the workforce full-stop. But hey, that's just me. which is, to me, a sabbatical-like break that allows women and, to a lesser degree, men Lol of course. It seemed that parenthood was the only path that provided a modicum of flexibility. HAHA. W… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing or flirting with someone who is taken?This is a great comment! You've really hit several nails on the head. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how do you feel about kino?Yes I think that's a fair statement. Then to contrast, those who force kino with a cognizant agenda are going to end up coming off as weird, creepy, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how do you feel about kino?I agree with that 100%..but for conversation's sake, it also gets a little chicken/egg when you consider with someone working on being more comfortable initiating kino, that's (ideally) going to be symptomatic of a whole suite of improved behaviours as their confidence and self-image are raised. So no, the touching isn't causal, but the kind of guy that can do so naturally is probably going to be someone I'm more likely to be attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/17 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Women of whatever pill, how would you react if your guy expected you to buy the engagement ring and propose to him?Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope and noooppppeeee. If I wanted a girlfriend I would have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/17 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you think the mother was right?That was so heartbreaking to watch. I don't understand how you can watch your son cry like that, and deny him the most reasonable request to "go home". I mean damn. I hope he gets away from all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/17 05:11 PM |
| 5 | How big of a disadvantage in life is being ugly?I believe the point he is making is attractive people often have things handed to them, as either a direct or indirect function of their attractiveness. Man buys pretty girl drink (direct) Attractive man gets selected for a promotion (indirect) So it's possible for them to coast without much discipline, whereas unattractive people aren't afforded that luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How big of a disadvantage in life is being ugly?I've worked as a cashier too, I'm not making claims about cashiers, I'm making claims about people, some of whom work as cashiers. Generally speaking, people are inclined to be more polite to more attractive people. Not every person you meet will have this prejudice, and not every person with this prejudice will demonstrate it in every interaction. But overall, I think our physical appearance is a sizable variable in all our interactions and over time its effects add up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/17 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How big of a disadvantage in life is being ugly?Really excellent points. I will say many beautiful people are so beautiful though because of their discipline. Gym routine, hair care, skin care, diet, etc can really take a focused and goal-oriented approach to life. There are those that are definitely beautiful "just because" though, which may absolutely lead to a deficit in discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/17 01:21 AM |
| 6 | How big of a disadvantage in life is being ugly?I also think it plays a looming role in day-to-day interactions. Things where you have no opportunity to make a long-term impression. Your cashier, that guy you passed in a doorway, etc. There was a post a few years ago on /r/showerthoughts that said something like "Attractive people probably think the world is much more polite than it really is." (Edit: Found it). I agree with it, and think those things add up as well. They may not be incredibly consequential, but I have to imagine it would wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Who was the most masculine guy you dated?Most definitely my current SO, though my most recent ex was a close second...he was more the natural MGTOW brand of masculinity though, he just didn't like to take women's shit so it was keep up or fall behind. My current SO is amazing. I wouldn't call him more beta than my ex, but definitely less idgaf which makes for better relationship material. He's a personal trainer and I love that he's so passionate about heavy lifting. I think most women love the sense of pride when another girl wants th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?Those aren't the entirety of RP, particularly as it relates to female sexual strategy. There's plenty about relationship dynamics that aren't based on fact, but offer alternative perspectives when it comes to approaching how you interact with your significant other. The dynamics may not be for you, that's fine, but there's nothing "made up" about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/17 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?How is it so incomprehensible that someone can receive the same information and draw a different conclusion? Just because we formed separate opinions doesn't invalidate mine. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How do you handle budgeting, your finances?24 Female Committed and cohabitating. We keep our finances separate as far as bank accounts, but we go over all our numbers jointly. We total all our bills and half them and pay one another as needed throughout the month (Internet bill in his name, rent is paid by me, etc). Other expenses like food we budget and divide as appropriate..I pay about 1/3 of our food bill since he eats way more than me. Recreational spending we make it up as we go, usually something like he pays for movie, I pay for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/17 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop liking gossip?I think it's very normal for females to enjoy some good gossip. Similarly, I also think there is good gossip and bad gossip. Bad gossip is sharing things that aren't your business, stirring up drama in social circles, or being generally malicious. Aside from that, unless it's affecting your life adversely why fight it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/17 03:16 AM |
| 9 | The wage gap is real, and isn't because women are less capable.women being more likely to pick lower paying jobs, the "motherhood disadvantage" (can't work as long or network as well due to motherhood expectation), women being more likely to pick lower paying majors Soooo there's not a wage gap because this is a difference of choice on the women's part - not a gap between people doing the exact same job or taking the same life path. Also re: workplace discrimination....I'm sure it does happen but I really don't believe it's on any scale that would make a si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: How much harder (if at all) is it to be an unemployed/underemployed man vs an unemployed/underemployed womanYeah but the stigma would make it more difficult on them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Mainly because it reduces me to something or someone who has no control over my actions because some uncredentialed liquor salesman says so. But see I don't agree with that at all - I think awareness of our natural inclination gives us more control over our actions and not less. Being aware of your hypergamous nature can help you identify and avoid certain behaviours; the same applies to a lot of AWALTy characteristics and allows you to position yourself strongly depending on your goals, most ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Thank you I very much agree. I'm not over-personalizing it (as a woman) and I'm not saying it from a place of doubting my own relationship and projecting, or anything silly...I think you can be very happy and very fulfilled and use this information to be more aware of pitfalls and avoiding them. Which, I think this equally applies to both genders and their own distinct challenges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?In my opinion - which, thank you for phrasing genuinely and I completely realize this is all speculation on my end - it's delusion but I think the discrepancy lowers immensely over time to the point of virtual nonexistence. If you click the link I included in my original comment, I think the longer a relationship genuinely deepens and forms greater connections (which I don't think is the same as "time simply passing", some couples may never truly connect) then the more they approach the axis of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?But if they are predisposed to lacking that support, then all roads lead to the same place. I think those predispositions are different based on gender. Women are quicker to reach out to friends, more likely to cope effectively and seek resources, and I do believe in the Tomassi iron rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Yes, I think compared to a more mutual or reasonable or whatever breakup...sure. But as compared to a man, I think women recover quicker and do not experience heartbreak as deeply. I do think it's related to gender differences. Let's back up from the point I drew to Rollo's rule, and just look at male vs female grief: The issue of gender differences in adaptation to widowhood has long been debated. The evidence does suggest a somewhat greater vulnerability for widowers (Stroebe and Stroebe 1983;… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?how does this mean that men experience heartbreak on a deeper level/in a deeper way than women, exactly? Do you not agree with me or do you not understand the point I'm making? I don't mean that as harshly as internet speak makes it appear, I just can't tell. If a woman's breaking point ('conditions of love') come before her counterpart's, and she leaves him, and he realizes she didn't love him as deeply as he thought or expected...how would that not contribute to a deeper heartbreak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?as a woman Lol you'd help perpetuate a falsehood like that. Well I don't think it's false..that's the thing about differing opinions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Haha it sounds like your parents have a great relationship. Well, in the spirit of the question - if something happened between them (purely hypothetical, they sound very happy): Who do you think would hit their breaking point first? Who do you think would be more "deeply heartbroken", before moving on? It can mean financially, or behavior wise or status wise. Definitely, thanks for making that point - I meant status/behaviour and more "a low quality person" which I don't think is at all directl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?My mother married my father when he had nothing so my view can be very skewed. My grandma still married to my grandpa even after he went bankrupt. I don't think the affecting variables need to be financial...they probably most often are, but they don't need to be. I don't think "poor" = "abandon ship" all the time every time. I think a perceived lack of potential is far worse than the actual resources (or lack thereof). a low-quality woman will stay in a bad situation longer than a quality one. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Hypergamy; the more his (or the relationship's) circumstances move away from the ideal, the more the woman will be tempted to stray until she eventually does so. Gross incompetence, for example, is something that would dampen the attraction of either gender; but, I think men will put up with it for far longer than women. A woman will quickly leave an incompetent male that can't provide for her, whereas a man will likely provide for the woman longer before making his exit. One variable that influ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Do men really get their hearts broken deeper than women?Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. I believe this and think men become broken-hearted when they learn it. As women, the best we can do is make a conscious effort to love him the way he wants, even if it's an unattainable goal. Here, have a terrible visual metaphor. The Tomassi blog explains it pretty concisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/17 09:26 PM |
| 5 | College girl with strong more values worried about datingYeah that's a great point, I alluded to it in my response by saying "it's not his business on the first date" but thank you for bringing it up so directly. OP, you do not need to tell a man that the first date. In fact, I think it's inappropriate and a bit off-putting. It's just too aggressive. I think that kind of thing only needs to be brought up when either sex or exclusivity is approached - and by approached I mean openly inviting you to either - not a passing comment. Right now I think you … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/17 03:13 PM |
| 10 | College girl with strong more values worried about datingIt sounds to me like you have a great foundation for being a quality woman and partner, but you're just going nuclear with your attitude and your approach to dating. Try taking a step back and separating yourself a bit from the situation. However, I have very strong morals that I have NEVER gone against. Okay, such as what? No sex outside a relationship is very reasonable and not at all strange - we promote that a lot around here. Are there any other examples of things that may be less kosher? I… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/17 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What is your feminism score. Take the test84% Traditionalism 53% Liberal Feminism 10% Radical Feminism 10% Marxist Feminism 14% Cultural Feminism I was a little surprised by the Liberal Feminist score, until I read their given definition. It was so basic it made sense ("equal rights, meh not terrible"). I don't think that I believe individuals are entitled to so many rights that they would really be segregated by male/female rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP?It sounds like this is exclusively geared toward men, but from the female RP perspective - yes, I'm very grateful for finding RPWi and it's improved my life immeasurably. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/17 04:20 PM |
| 4 | I had a baby!Awwww congrats Kitten!! So happy for you and hubby and little one <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/17 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Would you rather be beautiful or smart in this world, and why?Beautiful. I would rather not be smart enough to understand the full implications of being unattractive. Conversely, I would rather be good looking and too dumb to realize I'm dumb. I hope she'll be a fool -- that's the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/17 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Disney Part 1: Introduction, and AppearanceThat's sort of wild to me, because despite my younger age I've seen all of them! I'm sure that could be attributed to family culture or really a number of things, but I can't imagine a childhood without Disney Princesses. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/04/17 07:24 PM |
| 3 | It Is Possible To Say "Thank You" Too Many Times!So great and true!! I think it can somewhat dilute the power of your gratitude too, if it's expressed over every little thing over and over. Again that's no cause to stop thanking your SO entirely, but something to think about making sure you stay sincere and don't accidentally annoy your man haha (: I know I am guilty of that! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Femininity PersonifiedI am watching now! I love this movie so much. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/04/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017Haha I don't know, wake up - grab his coffee and water, lay in bed and snuggle and give him head scratches. Get up, offer food, more water or just see if there's anything I can help him with. I guess just general pampering lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you have fair/sensitive skin how do you maintain your eyebrows?Oh awesome! I'm on my last razor and about to restock - totally open to trying another brand (: | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/17 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, if you have fair/sensitive skin how do you maintain your eyebrows?You get white heads from threading?? I get them from waxing so I was going to sugggest threading...that is simply wild. Maybe you could try shaving them with one of those personal facial razors? It wouldn't be incredibly precise but I use them for tidying the area above the brow. Here is the video that introduced me to those razors (definitely use the brand she recommends, not another one). Also if you want to cross-post this question in that sub, /r/femininenotfeminist then you may get more hel… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/17 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - March 31, 2017Is that normal behaviour for him or just the one time? If it's at all frequent, then it may be a flag indeed. But if it's only rarely? No it's not weird at all. R and I have been living together for about 8 months now and in that time maybe he's come home past 3am on two occasions, and I've stayed out until 1am probably twice as well. When he was out, he was definitely getting sloppy at the bar with a few old friends. When I was out, I just lost track of time drinking and chatting with girlfrien… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/04/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Q4 RP Men & Women: How exactly does submission work? Can you give examples?For me it's about electing a team leader who makes all the final decisions, except there is only one vote in the ballot box and it's mine. I don't submit because some dickwearer is my partner, I pick a partner whom I find capable and worth following. I trust him to make decisions for our mutual benefit. In some instances, his decision may not be what I want most - but I trust that he's making a decision based on our longterm best interest. In other instances, I know he's making decisions against… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/17 04:22 AM |
| 6 | I feel like a provider in my relationshipI think that's completely fair, but I do want to point out the classic "why buy the cow?" can be mitigated (not completely resolved, but mitigated) by having extremely clear and agreed upon expectations...which this couple certainly doesn't have. Pardon my solipsism, but I can somewhat relate to /u/m_vassone in the sense that I do not plan on remaining in the workforce and fully intend to prioritize the home just as soon as it's an option. I also (very probably) want children, and marriage is an… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/03/17 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Would You Rather Be A wealthy male or attractive femaleAttractive female. Atlas makes a persuasive argument for the wealthy male....but ultimately I can't and don't want to imagine being male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Haha I don't know, it's not an exact science with rules or expectations. He's my man and I like him to know he's thought of...sometimes it's with little notes, or dropping coffee at his work, or whatever. I just do it when the inspiration strikes really...in all honesty it's not like he pays it too much mind either way. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Haha you're fine (: it's a very sweet idea. Umm lots of things! If he hangs up a new white board for work, I'll wait til he's out and write something like "Thank you for all your hard work, my love!" This morning he had to wake up at 5am, so before I went to bed I set the coffee pot and weight 25 grams of his protein powder and wrote a note letting him know the coffee was set and his protein was ready and wished him a good morning. Once in his bathroom I cleaned the mirror and then used eyeliner… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/03/17 01:50 AM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?I have never scrapbooked before so we will see how it goes!! I can definitely share my trials and many many errors when the time comes haha. I love the idea of boxes! That is much more my speed hahaha. I think I will borrow it for sure :D | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Hahaha we live together so I'm thinking of how funny it would be to get mail from me d: I do leave him love notes around the house though! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Great point! I actually keep a running list of these things for gift-giving occasions but I'm not sure why I never thought to get some "just because". I guess R is getting a new belt very soon (: Also that t-shirt sounds awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?It does all revolve around food!! That's a very sweet gift (: I hope you tell us how he loves it! R and I love together too (actually we both have R's if I'm remembering correctly haha) but I also have a secret project I'm working on. I've been saving every little scrap related to things we do - movie stubs, notes left around the house, photos, small trinkets, and I'm going to make him a scrapbook to give him on our anniversary. After I do a "Year One" scrapbook I'm going to switch to a "Year 1-… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?That's so freaking cute I love it <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 05:18 PM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?I am somehow the absolute worst at backrubs (seriously how is it even possible to be terrible at that?) But footrubs are a great idea! He's on his feet all day too so I'm sure he would love it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What non-food treats and acts of kindness do you do for your man?Hahaha this is awesome! I am already working on something just like that. I've been writing down one reason I love and appreciate him every week, then next NYE I'm going to give him a scrapbook or jar or whatever with all of them (: | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Tips on improving communicationI just wanted to throw in this was an awesome exchange to read (: Perhaps you'll find it helpful, but several moons ago I wrote this post "Reminding Vs Nagging" - I find it to be an effective litmus test for these sorts of things! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 07:54 AM |
| 10 | [FR] When my husband made a huge mistakeBeing a "fresh adult" with < 5 years experience paying allllll my own bills and taking care of allllll my own boring phone calls for mandatory services/needs/etc....it is alarming how one tiny lapse in judgement, or just plain ignorance to the nuances of so much red tape, can result in total catastrophe. I forgot to update my mailing address and ended up with a suspended license and $1k in fees for a fix-it ticket that went to collections. My friend made the same address mistake and one of her s… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/17 07:44 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with jealousy/insecurity in a new relationship?Pro-life tip: send him a naughty pic during his dinner and see how fast he runs home! Yaaaaas d: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/03/17 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Meeting SO's family (and extended) in a few days for the first time! Any advice?If it's not hosted in a restaurant, do dishes. They will likely brush you off after one offer, but a small laugh and a lighthearted "nonsense, I appreciate you graciously hosting me" will usually get the job done. If appropriate, bring a small gift for his mother. A great way to do this is to phrase it as something you do or plan to enjoy yourself but saw an easy opportunity to share with her. "You know, this is my absolute favourite wine and there was a deal going on at the store so I stashed a… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/03/17 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or is female N counts/promiscuity/'sluts' one of the most contentious sexual/relationship gender issues between men and women and women and women?I've always understood it to mean "notch count", as in the cliched notches on the bed post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is female N counts/promiscuity/'sluts' one of the most contentious sexual/relationship gender issues between men and women and women and women?I've always understood it to mean "notch count", as in the cliched notches on the bed post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Happy International Women's Day!I love this and think it's great <3 I'm not sure anyone here would ever tell another woman they can't or shouldn't work in a specific field, and it's amazing that you love your career...but it's even better still that you acknowledge the love you have for it while also being honest with yourself about priorities that are no longer part of The Script™. Having a job is great, but letting it run your world at the expense of your romantic and personal life...not so much. This is a sad truth for way … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/17 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Website calculates how narrow your dating pool isThat sounded fun so I did it too. Now I have empirical evidence he is truly one of a kind lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Last name change?Because you have to write them both down every time. And heaven forbid one legal entity says one will suffice, or doesn't have room to input both so you use just one (fine), or perhaps they just use one without your input, but then on a later date another legal entity tells you your names don't legally match. Now you are tracking down your birth certificate, your marriage certificate, and possibly something documenting a name change as well (I'm not too sure). My mom has gone through all that at… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Last name change?If that's what you want to do then I suggest doing that..just beware of legal documents. My moms name is like that (first name, middle name, maiden name as second middle name, married surname) and she hates it. It's proved very inconvenient and she regrets her decision. My last name is too traditionally Italian sounding to stand on its own as a middle name Why does it need to stand on its own? It's just a middle name. Besides legal documents it doesn't affect anything. My last name won't "stand … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Last name change?I am quite attached to my last name as well, but I feel very strongly about taking my man's name. It's such an honour to be asked to bear it. I will be erasing my current middle name and making my maiden name my legal middle name. I am already 100% committed to that course of action. This way no hypehenations, I take his name, but also keep mine in a manner. Anything stopping you from doing that? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/02/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Rate the attractiveness of the following men1: Objectively not unattractive, but I would rank him a 5.5 at best...he probably lost a point for the flower and stupid expression. 2: Niiceee. Probably an 8. 3: 4...dude looks like he needs some sunlight and a self-help book on how to make friends. 4: 6.5, he loses points because he looks like the type to wear too much hair gel but he's decently good looking. Also his brows are more manicured than mine. 5: Eyebleach please. 1/10 because I'm assuming we can't do 0. 6: Such a hard picture to rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/17 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Excellent Boy BooksReading this was such a coincidence. I read that book in school maybe 15 years ago and haven't thought about it since...but somehow it came up in conversation about 2 weeks ago and now this thread! I never thought about it from perspective of giving to a young boy but now it's totally obvious why it would be a great read for them. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/02/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together?That's unbelievable depressing. I didn't read the whole thing but I skimmed and closed at the line that was something like "because we are the gender with the button 'here to serve' eternally pinned." Ugh I need relationship eye bleach now. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017THEY ARE SO CUTE!!! My friend and I totally just fawned over them..also love the names :D I named mine Jynx d: | /r/RedPillWives | 25/02/17 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017THANK YOU!!! In a bigger house I would loooovvveeeee to raise a litter!! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceCertainly, my SO is a personal trainer and I used to bodybuild myself - so I definitely agree. To reiterate your point, my SO (according to BMI) is on the cusp of overweight/obese and there is hardly a shred of fat on him. He sounds much like your buddy. That being said, you can visually assess a person's bf% far better than their actual weight so for all intents and purposes that is the subject of the discussion and I haven't seen anybody confused on that point. Thank you for clarifying! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017Luuurrrveee <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017Hahahaha giraffe is my SPIRIT animal - totes diff gf d: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017I don't think it's more expensive...but also I think what I use is less obvious? The smelly stuff is like, the standard for rodents so I think it's what people just automatically purchase. When I had rats in high school that's what I used too and it definitely smelled more. I did a lot of research this time around and I decided on Yesterday's News because it's dust-free and the smell helped. I mean it's $20 for a GIANT bag that I think will last me easily 3-4 months. I've changed her cage out on… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017HAHAHA bless you for linking that video. Omg best movie ever. And okay well fair enough then cuz I have owned mice (worst pet ever), rabbits (not the worst but not for me), and squirrels are my fave animal d: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017Ew that sucks...Um honestly I haven't noticed a smell (but I totally know what you are talking about), and if there was one I know R would complain (he has 0 interest in the rat haha). First off I keep her in my living room, so I think it helps that she's in a really wide space where it's hard for a smell to accumulate. I've had her for maybe a month and a half now too so I think enough time to notice. Also I am vigilant about cleaning her cage. It gets deep cleaned every weekend and I think tha… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017Yeaaaaah I told you like a live hand grenade d: Ugh I just love them, and now that I have one I've learned 3 out of my 4 closest friends have also owned them lol. They are so smart and personable. I would be shocked if a few girls on the sub didn't have them as well. I mean not that I'm trying to convince you, but domestic rats are like entirely different from gross gutter rats or whatever hahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Free Friday - February 24, 2017100% not worth a post but... UNEXPECTED COMPANY No, it's not what you think. Any homemakers here (even if you're not SAH!) can understand sometimes it's nice to have a companion. Depending on your living situation, a dog or cat might just not be feasible. Enter: Pet rats. This probably sounds as appealing as a live hand grenade to some of you, but I would also bet several people here have had a pet rat or two. Rats are amazing pets. They are intelligent enough to train, and they are pack animals… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/02/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceOh it is directly damaging. That "energy" (ATP, enzymes, substrates, etc) could have otherwise been used to survive cold winters, make heartier sperm, or grow larger in size. Yes but it also helps them to reproduce and visual cues for reproduction are very common in animals, so what would be more harmful - having the tail (and facilitating reproduction and species survival) or not (and increasing individual survivability but decreasing reproductivity)? I don't have an answer it's just difficult … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceI'm definitely seeing a misunderstanding here, and I do apologize. That's okay, there was hostility coming from both ends and while it's easy to get heated in the moment...even a disagreement feels better when it comes from a better attitude lol. My point was that fat as 'attractive' is a lot more on the lines of 'fashion', as it indicates wealth, not health in the countries that encourage or force over-eating. Yes I don't disagree with this one bit. I was more trying to address visual cues that… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceOh, thank you!! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceI added an edit to clarify where I think we may be misunderstanding one another - I hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceWhat books point to obesity indicating health? I'd really like to read it as cultural anthropology is a hobby of mine and my former teachers would be very interesting as well (so would r/history and r/anthropolgy). No books I've read, no courses I've taken, and no teachers with masters in cultural anthropology have shown obesity is an indication of health. I truly can't tell if you are being willfully obstinate or you genuinely don't think obesity indicates the health of a human (ergo their abil… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 07:41 PM |
| 3 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceI believe that whole-heartedly. I don't think the average man finds this attractive for that reason precisely. I think I actually mention it in the post (vaguely)...hang on (lol as if you are sitting here with me while I search). Okay I didn't find it but I know I've said it in a comment in the past, at a minimum. I do think there is a "healthy range" of weight and most men will find most women attractive who fall into that range, and women who fall too far out on either side will never be favou… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceLol I have no idea how you interpreted any of what I said as "not calm", but putting that strange perception aside... Heels were cultural, nose piercings are cultural, tiny feet (with mutilated millions of women) were cultural, pants were cultural for centuries, hairstyles have been cultural since there were records of hairstyles. There are tons more differences, too. Hats, heels, nose rings, etc etc etc are fashion. I really don't think it has a place in this discussion. (By the way, did you kn… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 06:33 PM |
| 2 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat Acceptancereinforces that beauty is a cultural and sociological concept for the most part That's not cultural. Their CULTURE doesn't value their obesity, it's a physiological cue that becomes useful due to external circumstance (ie lack of food). humans, like most animals, find attractive what is genetically advantageous to pass along to offspring....Weight, being an indicator of health, is a biological factor in regards to attraction If you live in circumstances that mean you might not even HAVE offsprin… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 05:18 PM |
| 3 | [X-Post /r/FeminineNotFeminist] HAES / Fat AcceptanceHaha! Great point!! I'm not sure those two things run counter to each other (as a bright tail isn't inherently damaging to the peacock, but rather elevates external risk) but still interesting and fun to include!! Now I'm trying to consider if there are similar traits in humans...haha! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/02/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Would you rather date someone smarter than you or richer than you?Richer. Someone doesn't need to be smarter to be savvier, and I would prefer savvy over measurable intelligence. I would fit my current SO in that camp..I'm quite sure I outsmart him, but in practical application he will outperform me every time. So at that point...money would be good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/17 10:26 PM |
| 3 | an engagement, and the biggest thank you:D :D :D :D :D :D | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 05:53 AM |
| 7 | an engagement, and the biggest thank youTo the point I love it! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 05:52 AM |
| 10 | What do you think of Tinder - is it purely for hook ups?If you are going with dating apps (which I think have their place for filtering), I suggest Bumble over Tinder. The basic premise is that the woman must engage first with the man. There is absolutely no way for him to talk to you first. So un-RPW but hear me out. I noticed immediately that the pool of men was immeasurably superior to Tinder or OKC. I never bothered with those two after looking at the users. Bumble guys are more attractive and in more respectable careers (on OKC I saw a lot of lo… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/02/17 01:35 AM |
| 6 | I need some help motivating my husband.Thanks for reigning everyone in - it's easy to get caught up in the (biased) "I'm the breadwinner, the housekeeper, and etc etc etc" and neglect to ask the questions that warrant asking. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 05:46 PM |
| 5 | I need some help motivating my husband.I don't think you're biased, or if you are I am too lol. As long as he is making a full-time effort doing something, I would feel less alarmed. While, again, in my personal opinion men shouldn't be homemakers...if he was doing that full-time I would still feel less alarmed. But having her earn the money, do the housework, and him say he's "too busy" while having been unemployed as long as he has been. Yeesh, that's no captain. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 04:02 PM |
| 3 | I need some help motivating my husband.I'll admit it..I snorted | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 03:09 PM |
| 4 | I need some help motivating my husband.That being said, I can't wrap my head around wanting to have kids with a man you're not married to. It sounds like being a fancy plate. He could walk out at any minute with no consequences and taking your best/highest SMV years with him. How well did 19-year-old you vet this man? I agree with everything you said up until this point, and here it's not even that I don't agree per se....it's just that I don't really share their view nor endorse that route, but if it's their decision and if it was m… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meOh!! Hahaha I did not understand the tact you were exercising d: I appreciate it, though it's common knowledge I'm the same person..even by our lovely friends in TBP d: | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meOmg I'm dying. My username was /u/BeautifulSpaceCadet but LovelyRocketeer is amazing. Way more amazing hahahaha. I now 100% regret choosing BellaScarletta.... It's good he took things into his own hands and that's a huge sign of a real man (instead of falling back) but it's good you recognize it shouldn't have happened. You guys will all be fine if you keep striving for the next rung on the ladder of life. Just be honest and self-aware with your tendencies and hopefully equilibrium follows an ho… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/02/17 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meThank you so much for responding and I am sorry for my unfair assumptions about your situation. I can completely admit that I am biased by my experience dating an alcoholic. It is still a difficult decision to advise on when I still don't agree with you steamrolling him but I do understand protecting your kids. Your example with your friend was perfect because it had nothing to do with his drinking or your kids, and I think you should start doing work there before getting into the complexity of … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meIt very well may be - I did add an edit though! If you want to elaborate a bit. There definitely are degrees of alcoholism. Also this subject may indeed be outside the range of what the sub can really help with, but I hope in general you'll still think of us as a resource for less clinical (as alcoholism can be) topics of advice. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meYeah this is just a can of worms. I disagree fully with you telling your husband when he can and can't interact with his kids - he is your husband and you had kids with him, you shouldn't have kids with someone you can't trust fully with them. However I don't think he should be interacting with the kids drunk (at least outside of irregular but understandable social events - i.e. I saw my parents drunk once or twice as a kid but that is it), that's just common sense; they are kids and their fathe… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meCan you maybe share a bit more about the conversation you were having, what boundaries you were trying to communicate, and why he said he feels "powerless to say no"? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Husband feels "powerless to say no" to meI'm not sure why you say this but I majorly contributed to it last year. I had a friend who was taking advantage of me and he wanted to step in and correct that. I repeatedly asked him not to and told him I would deal with it myself. I did attempt to deal with it but it was too little too late. And then follow it up with this I'm not overbearing and I am respectful of his advice and opinions. You are overbearing and you are not respectful of his advice and opinions. Being "respectful" isn't 'not… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Valentine's Day!I think Valentines Day is generally dumb and love should be celebrated every day. That being said, I don't mind it as an excuse to flex our budget a little bit doing something fun together or buying something maybe we usually wouldn't. I don't care if R does anything for me. Again, it's not a crazy holiday in my world and I would probably be turned off if he ever went full beta about it like some men do. On the other hand I'm looking forward to doing something small but sweet for him. I bought a… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/02/17 02:49 AM |
| 3 | What little things do you do to show love to your SO?This is such a fantastic insight...I really agree. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 05:40 PM |
| 2 | What little things do you do to show love to your SO?Excuse me while my heart melts. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/02/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed: Female receptivity (sex life)When you feel like you can get to a place of...being sexual without being the aggressor and pressuring him (as what I think Tempest said is SO important about first establishing), try this trick that I love: Instead of you engaging him, try being so alluring that he can't resist engaging you. The caveat is, also practice outcome independence..I do use this trick but hopefully I can spare you the MASSIVE EGO BRUISE the first time you do and it doesn't work. Just remember that his rejection may ha… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/02/17 08:22 PM |
| 3 | I'm baaaack - and ENGAGED!!I'm so happy you're back!!! And sorry for exploding all over you in FNF but I am very excited!! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/02/17 11:32 PM |
| 3 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?That's a really beautiful thing to hear, especially from someone in such a long-term marriage in great standing (: How great it is you recognize these contributions and the value they've brought to your life (and relationship, I'm sure)! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?Oooh I resonate far too much with this one. R sometimes feels like a broken record the number of times he needs to tell me "you can't always wait for a 'perfect' time that won't ever come." I get so frustrated with his messyness and many similar things you're describing, but then I think about how frustrated he must be with me sometimes in my perfectionism! It is far too easy to get caught up in your own perspective and it's wonderful when our men draw us out (: I love your point about being a g… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 10:29 PM |
| 4 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?Ahhhh that is a great one. Thank you for sharing it - I recall many bits and pieces about how this came to pass and its effects from older posts you've shared. At the same time, I can absolutely understand that ultimately she's a new ray of sunshine in your life that would be hard to feel anything but joy over - also children in rain boots are so precious (: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?This is such a good one! Completely the spirit of what I had in mind when asking, but absolutely unexpected. It can be very trying on your patience when you feel likes are not moving at a reasonable speed...but as someone who has suffered from more than one "sloppy error" I'm sure this trait in your husband is easy to appreciate when it really shines (: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | But like...I don't want to be offended.Agree wholeheartedly. There is a difference between "I don't find this funny" and "They shouldn't be allowed to say that". Outside of direct calls for violence or other actionable harm (which would no longer be comedy anyway).....get over it. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | But like...I don't want to be offended.That was my hands-down favourite line, as well as his follow-up! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The Futility of Gender-Neutral ParentingThey claim it's because trans women can't truly understand what it is to be women and could always regain their 'privilege' by transitioning back to being men. I also think it's because they can't tolerate the thought of "males" gaining access to their space, which while they claim represents "the equality of both genders"...well, you know...doesn't. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 08:42 PM |
| 9 | In your relationship, what are your "Blessings In Disguise"?My answer (that inspired this question!): I had a very difficult family situation with my brother yesterday, it's been going on for a long time and will likely continue as well. Ultimately I am at a place where I need to set boundaries, step back, and accept whatever outcome comes to pass is not something I can control. That being said, it was a very involved day yesterday with too many family members engaging and a lot of back-and-forths, trying to reach peace, and more than one "well, this too… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/02/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you fake flirt? If so, why?Constantly. I flirt with men I have 0 attraction quite regularly just for the humor of watching them decide how to react. I would never flirt with someone I actually was attracted to because I'm in a happy and stable relationship and don't feel dumb enough to play with fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/17 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Would you date a short man?I am 5'6" and I have dated 5'8" but I would not do so again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/17 10:03 AM |
| 10 | Simple Questions - February 04, 2017I love plain brown paper! You can get rolls the same as wrapping paper and it has a charming simplicity that's still very masculine. You could easily pair with a hemp bow or similar! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Simple Questions - February 04, 2017I love sweater tights! So many summer outfits immediately become winter appropriate. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Do you ladies have any ideas on how to pull of dresses/skirts in the winter without getting too cold?SWEATER TIGHTS!!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/02/17 07:55 AM |
| 2 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?It seems to me that these women want to live in a society where they don't have to feel responsible for their action at all. There is a WONDERFUL video by feminist Camille Paglia explaining precisely that mentality. Essentially, she says that feminists originally argued for the right to choose (in this case, the right to choose the risk she of an unprotected lifestyle in exchange for the risks); however, the argument is now for the right to choose free of consequences, which is a reality that wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/17 05:43 AM |
| 2 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?In a positive light, taking a stance and being willing to argue for it is quintessentially American. I really respect your will to find silver linings in this mess! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?You should try!! Maybe not even frame it as you being an established member (so she won't be worried about your investment in her response) and instead saying you found this online community and it seems similar to what she says? Idk! Thinking out loud (: It is always nice to have new girls though haha | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 10:12 PM |
| 8 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?but like...they wore vagina hats...so credit... | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 10:11 PM |
| 2 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?She met every single one of those comments with facts demonstrating why these things were all myths, but acknowledged that their experiences were valid and that there is always an exception to every rule. She was very kind about it and expressed sympathy for their experiences - but was very clear that while she had been catcalled and experienced what many people would consider to be misogyny, she never experienced a single real problem due to someone calling her sweetheart or asking if she was s… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 08:18 PM |
| 14 | [Free Friday] What are your thoughts on these popular posts circulating around Facebook?Here are some of my initial thoughts... Say thank you. Say thank you to the women who gave you a voice. Say thank you to the women who were arrested and imprisoned and beaten and gassed for you to have a voice. First off, what feminists were gassed? Thank Margaret Fuller for your equal education. Margaret Fuller was born in the 1800s and there are documented schools for women in the 1700s...I know for my family personally, even my great great grandmother was college educated. Thank Ruth Bader Gi… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/02/17 07:47 PM |
| 2 | New Sub /r/FeminineNotFeminist For Women To Discuss Beauty Without Worrying About Being Politically Correct!So excited for this new community! I am over the moon about expanding our network and encouraging broader ranges of discussion, without the fear of straying too far off-topic (as many of the FNF posts would be if they were shared here). What a great addition to the RPWi corner of the internet <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 07:30 PM |
| 3 | How this feminist found herself sympathising with the men's rights movement (The Red Pill Film article)I was lucky enough to watch a live screening and participate in a Q&A with Cassie Jaye. I just skimmed so there may be some exception, but this article moves relatively chronologically through the film. Actually, it does a good job of addressing one point I didn't feel the documentary did: In the beginning of the film, she talks about the offensive language used on Paul Elam's AVFM site. At the end, she explains one article and how it's actually a satire, but she doesn't explain the entire rest … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/02/17 05:05 PM |
| 5 | 7 Ways to Turn Your Husband's Bad Day Into a Good OneGreat post! I know I am definitely susceptible to wanting to "fix everything" and then smother R with "what do you want?? TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT!" - okay, a little dramatic..but the point still applies. I've gotten a lot better at going into his office and saying once "I'll be in our room reading, but please let me know if there's anything you would like me to do..you know I don't mind." then leaving it alone. He likes to be alone a lot but it's good for me to sit there and shut my hamster up, an… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/01/17 10:43 PM |
| 2 | "28 Days Of Romance" Challenge For Women In Serious RelationshipsThis is exciting!! It fits in perfectly with a personal challenge I've been doing, which is write down one amazing thing per week that R and I experience together. I save all my notes for the year, and then plan on scrap booking them together in 2018! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?I appreciate the reply (: I think it's common for people to perceive an intonation - from media of many varieties - that isn't necessarily there; this may be due to personal biases, commonly pedaled mantras, or many other variables. One of the things I love most about this sub is our willingness to challenge these things, whether it's just our own reactions or a commonly-held belief in societ. It's even better when we can answer why we have the reactions we do. I definitely agree with people pin… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?This seems like a very willfully cynical interpretation of what the author stated. I didn't take away what you are suggesting in the slightest. The article is not AT ALL saying the recipe to a happy life is be ignorant to how to provide for yourself and be economically well-off as to find a breadwinning husband and - tada, a happy marriage you shall have! However it is addressing the disturbingly common occurances of women who devalue the fulfillment a relationship offers and even encourages hos… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?I did not in the slightest interpret the article as encouraging women to "put all their eggs in the basket of marriage"; rather, it's cautioning against putting all your eggs in every basket except marriage - which is disturbingly common. Additionally, if you strive to be a woman of quality and value, you shouldn't personally concern yourself with society "not valuing marriage enough". You are not marrying society, you are marrying your partner. If you are not certain about his marriage values..… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?THANK YOU!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Are Women Being Raised to Fail?I don't agree with your interpretation of the article at all. Nowhere does she suggest women shouldn't know how to provide for themselves - even her dream example of her babysitter could suffer the tragic loss of her husband...then what? This article is far more addressing the misplaced priorities of modern women - there is a massive difference between "know how to fundamentally provide for yourself" and "Relationships not working. Priorities out of wack. Lack of balance. Workaholism. Unhappines… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/01/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How did/would you handle the end of the honeymoon period with your SO?I actually don't feel like we ever had a honeymoon phase? I'm not sure if that is strange to say. When we began courting, we very much had the mentality it was going to be real and right or it wasn't going to be at all. We spent 3 weeks meeting in odd spots and just talking about life and expectations. By the time we had the "let's do this" mentality...we already felt so old together. We always laugh because as a descriptor, I don't feel we've ever lined up with the actual amount of time we've b… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?he deserves better Sums up how I feel about anyone Rory dates | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | [Hi-First Post!] Buzzfeed's "Plus Size Fashion" video is cruel and stupid [little long, but hilarious]No please share hahaha | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?There's absolutely nothing you said that I disagree with at all. Particularly everything in terms of Lorelei's relationship with her parents. That ended up being something I loved about the show though...Exactly how bad Lorelei and (to a lesser extent) Rory are. They aren't terrible people with malicious intentions...but they are very very self-centered and deeply, deeply flawed. The show shouldn't work with them being paraded as the kind of people they are despite them usually acting like the e… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?The Dean-Logan parallel thing MADE ME SO MAD. Is character growth not a thing we are doing??? Cool thanks for the memo! That mistake made zero sense to me because she already made it and suffered consequences. Also the pregnancy thing would have been unlikely for all the reasons you said in the original series, but it's WAY less likely now. She's 30! We have soooooo many ways to ensure people who don't want babies don't get babies..and again, Rory in particular would be hyper-vigilant about it..… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed by FT work and houseworkYeah I've heard the same thing too in work - it was phrased "You need to recognize when 'good enough' is good enough". If you do a task to 80% of your ability, the other 20% isn't always "Making it BETTER!" sometimes it's "You just wasted company resources instead of moving on to another task." | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?As a side...there's probably a zillion things to criticize with this...but if ASP was so dedicated to her big surprise like that..here's what I think should have happened: I think Rory should go home having the job troubles she's having, and rather than being like a twenty something being like "I'm a vagabond!" instead make her homeless for a legitimate reason (in between jobs, etc.) and instead not wanting to be a vagabond and desperately trying to get on her feet. Then throughout the show Lore… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?I loved the LDB scene!!! So many people hated it and Idk why. They said it was too fantastical and I was like "uh, yeah so...standard LDB stuff." NO IDEA ABOUT THE PLAY THING. I literally texted my friend who knew I was watching "why am I still watching a play".....I didn't fastforward because I kept expecting it to end. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?I also have a theory that's why Lorelei's mom's revival story arch is so amazing. Because Richard died ASP couldn't continue her old plot and had no choice but to write something new for Emily that addresses the death. And for all my loathing, ASP is an amazing writer so her new content for Emily was a stroke of genius. I love Emily <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?Yeah I don't entirely disagree, but I still think his upbringing showed itself in his character, and had the series continued so would that trend. But by the end, I can say I didn't hate him as much as when he first showed up. I'm actually just going to quote WD cuz I think she nails it: I like Rory best when she is with Logan - she, in the original series, was just a better person overall when she was with him. She actually cared about him, whereas I don't think she ever really cared about Dean… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?Oh it's SUPER worth reading about. It's the reason the show went to absolute shit. They told ASP they could only afford her one more season and she said the story couldn't possibly done in less than two. They told her sorry...so she quit. The entire last season was written by a young writing staff doing their damndest to keep the essence of the characters but failing terribly. Also they had no idea how the story was supposed to end. The best example I can think of was the scene during parents' w… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?Well, considering my rant to Iris, here is my answer. I really can't factor the revival into my answer because it makes Rory into the worst character ever for all the wrong reasons. If I was going to do that, I would say she deserves to be a plate forever. That is what her character deserves. But as far as the Rory I love and knew goes...I was always Team Jess. Particularly after that last episode he appeared in toward the end of the series. He was a great intellectual match for her, but nowhere… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Gilmore Girls: who should Rory/Lorelei have ended up with?I'm mad at Rory, I'm made she became the person she did. I'm mad at ASP......she destroyed the show by having a decade-long tempertantrum. You work in show business. You find out you only have the resources to do one more season. What do you do? Right answer: Do one more season. Wrong answer: Throw a fit and quit while refusing to tell anyone your vision for the show's ending. A decade later you're give the opportunity to do a revival series. What do you do? Right answer: You creatively fill in … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/01/17 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes Megathread!I just made spaghetti squash for the first time tonight....LOVE! (Am currently eating right now). Super easy, I kept it simple and did it with a plain marinara, which I've actually come to regret. The squash was so good I'm sad I drowned it in tomato. Next time I'm going to do something wayyy lighter - I'm thinking chicken and garlic sautéed in butter plus a little parm (: Mmmm I can feel an obsession coming on. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/17 06:49 AM |
| 6 | Brag About Your Man!I was just thinking about this today. I can't say enough about how genuine R is as a person. He's so kind, caring, and thoughtful..but always bold and low tolerance of nonsense. I love the way he treats my friends. He's so willing to get to know them and their partners. I love how he fosters friendships with the attitude these people will be in his life forever, and demonstrates the same mentality when he introduces me to his friends. I think one of the coolest things that has come from this is … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Brag About Your Man!Oh yay! Are you guys official?? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Not being TOO politeThis is a great report (: I had a similar experience as well...a new acquaintance I've met through a good friend is well...super liberal. Like, she went on a rant about the date rape song..........BABY ITS COLD OUTSIDE. Ugh. Anyway she invited me to a Woman's March of all things, which was frankly very sweet of her to think to include me. I went back and forth about making excuses, but didn't want to set myself up for doing that for the remainder of our interactions. Finally I just said "Thank y… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 06:31 PM |
| 0 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismHonestly my immediate family is fairly safe - the only people at risk are people who genuinely use drugs and people with enemies. My extended family definitely falls into both of those categories - the Philippines still very much resembles a caste system, and a pedigree will get you almost as far as money will. Our last name still swings a lot of weight over there. But it's like vigilante justice. Any civilian can kill anybody they want, and as long as they place a sign on their body that says "… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 05:48 PM |
| 4 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismYeah I agree with that fully, looking at it from a strictly cause-and-effect scenario...you and the article are on the money. As far as the real-life implications of the 6k+ killed so far during his 6 month presidency, including children, I'm incredibly biased on this topic and I'm sure it's affecting my ability to approach it from any semblance of neutrality. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismThat's a good point! I referenced it in my reply to Camille (: | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismI think as far as cause-and-effect goes, it's pretty much on the money. And /u/whitebunny87 made a great point about the article being fairly descriptive rather than actually specualting as to whether it's "positive" or anything else. I don't disagree with it, but it's difficult reading things like This leads to chaos. Out of this chaos comes men of strength that create a new order. The desire for strong men to cut through the feminist globalist bureaucracy is akin to the story of Alexander usin… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:23 PM |
| 8 | The Masculine Reaction Against Feminine GlobalismI definitely agree with attitudes like this being problematic, Sexual harassment has slid from “sex or you’re fired” to “someone asked me if I lived with a roommate or a boyfriend“. But I shudder at any mention of Duterte portrayed in any positive light. My family lives under his rule and it's tragic and terrifying to watch. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/17 04:43 AM |
| 2 | GratituesdayThat's sounds like it would be so fun to train with your sister! What an awesome thing to share (: | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayCongrats on your anniversary!!! <3 <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 03:18 PM |
| 2 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017We are all about improvement after all (: I can definitely say it took me a looonngg while to feel comfortable posting, but once you start getting inspired it gets easier - try a field report just to begin with! That can be as simple as sharing a sweet story (: The weekly reflections thread is also a great place to dip your toes in the water! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017This is great! I love when couples get involved with RP together. As someone who naturally feels RP, I hope you'll write up some posts and share your marriage wisdom (: | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 03:02 PM |
| 2 | LURKERS and NEW WOMEN Come say Hi - January 18, 2017Welcome aboard! We love hearing new voices around here (: I hope you stick around and can't wait to see what you have to say! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | The Formula For Developing Deep GratitudeI love this article and when perspective-challenging pieces are posted here. Thank you so much for sharing it (: In particular, I really liked this way of framing the topic Gratitude is not like the shade of sunglasses that guards against the intensity of light. Rather, it is like the neck that turns your head in the other direction so that you can look at something less damaging. This is not the same as ignoring a problem. Especially the last sentence. It can be easy, especially when we are fee… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Helping another RPWI've 100% gone through it. First off, please know in this day and age breast cancer is more like a bad virus than anything else, especially being stage one. It's not at all likely to be fatal, though it will difficult. My mom got diagnosed Feb 2013 and finished treatment Nov 2013, she was diagnosed at stage two. She's been clear ever since. One thing I enjoyed was that the crappiness of it was confined to a single calendar year, call me superstitious but we had it as our mantra "by 2014 this wil… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 01:40 AM |
| – | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?It's not an "attempt at shade". It's a genuine curiosity about what legs you think you have to stand on giving advice in this arena. We've all watched you try and fail time and time again to find or keep a man. I'm impressed by your "one two year relationship and a break up what's your problem" revisionist history, but you've shared far too much around IRC and the sub for that to be believed by anyone other than a newcomer. I don't have ill wishes for you, but your so-called strategies are terri… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/01/17 01:25 AM |
| – | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?It's not any less RP to get a man through being a plate and then convincing him to marry you as it is to date a man, hold off on sex until commitment, and then convincing him to marry you. Perhaps not less RP, but certainly a different brand of it. Try /r/redpillwomen perhaps. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 10:38 PM |
| – | RP Advice on relationships vs marriages?One thousand times 'Yes' to everything you said...including what you had to delete. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Q4WOMEN: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?No. Historically most guys I've dated are more invested in me than I've been in them. The few that this did not apply to still didn't P&D me, it was more a mutual lack of commitment that fizzled out on it's own accord after the excitement was gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/17 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Bullet JournalingYou should make an unidentifiable IG just for your bujo pics (: | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Bullet JournalingRight? This is why I gave up the second she showed me haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/01/17 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Bullet Journaling/u/Camille11325 told me about it and showed me a few pictures! It looks so adorable. I'm not artsy AT ALL and can screw anything up. I'm also a perfectionist so between the two I feel like it would just lead to failure and self-loathing.....If I can find a style I think I could imitate I would love to give it a shot! Edit: Also I just found /r/bulletjournal/ (: | /r/RedPillWives | 16/01/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: would you date a guy that shows weakness and vulnerability as much as a normal woman?I would never be attracted to a man who cried, got emotional, pouted, or got moody as much as I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/17 09:38 PM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017RIGHT! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/17 03:20 AM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017Here's my funny contribution: When you think it's satire but it's not ): And my not funny contribution: Blood is literally boiling | /r/RedPillWives | 14/01/17 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - January 13, 2017I had that thought but it's even better knowing someone else noticed hahahaha. Also I am totally scheduling an appointment with my lady doctor and asking about the possibility of candida. I definitely don't have any other associated symptoms so something low level could make sense! If anything at least she can check the position of my IUD which definitely couldn't hurt. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 3 | My mother died on MondayI'm so sorry for your loss. I can't honestly say I relate in any way. I can only imagine how emotional of an experience this is for you. To me, it sounds like you're mourning a mom you struggled with deeply, as well as the mom you wish she could have been. Those must be intensely conflicting emotions, and I can't fathom how complex it must be to make sense of every piece of it. As far as your husband goes, now is not the time to worry about being feminine. He's your husband. He wants to love you… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 07:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] You can't pour from an empty cupDrone away darling! I love hearing it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!I've never ended up with just the outline so I haven't experienced having the tattoo one way, then finishing it a totally different way! All my tattoos, even if I want to add more but then don't, I always push through the outline phase because I don't want to be tempted to leave it unfilled d: You should share pics of yours if you're comfortable (: I'll see if I can scrounge some up of mine! Edit: Found them! - these pictures totally span like 6 years. The only one not in that album is my newest… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - January 13, 2017I'm wondering if maybe the first problem is contributing to the second problem? I've had the same suspicion and I'm not sure, it's definitely a theory. I just hate being able to so easily identify that it's happening, but have so little clue as to why. I don't normally have a particularly crazy libido, but it's definitely high enough that 3-5 times per week is all bueno with me. Recently, I don't think I would care if we didn't do it all. Obviously I'm taking care to ensure that does not happen,… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - January 13, 2017Yes there are definitely positions that are better than others, and one where it's like "DON'T DO THAT!!!" It's definitely been improving, which I think is related to me taking care not to tense up...but it's hard to lose yourself in the act when in the back of your mind your like "Oh god oh god oh god oh god". Also, it's not exactly a turn on for R when I randomly yelp and he feels insanely guilty even though I keep telling him there's 0 chance it's his fault since this is an all-of-the-sudden … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - January 13, 2017This is a bit NSFW and weird but I have two (not graphic) sexy time issues that are entirely new and I have to imagine someone has dealt with before. The first is pain! We've probably all been "punched" in the cervix before and caught a bit off guard. I've been having a similar issue but it's not my cervix. Whatever the offending target area is seems to "move" too. Sometimes it's a really large surface area that's easy to strike and we've even had to stop because of it, and other times it's much… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 02:54 PM |
| 7 | [FR] You can't pour from an empty cupWell done WD <3 I've heard you discuss soooo many times your love of music and I couldn't be happier you found a place of fulfillment in your current area! I can only imagine how overjoyed your SO must be seeing you this happy (: I can't wait to hear additional developments in this new niche you've carved out for yourself! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/01/17 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Attachment Style Test!!!Love it! <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Bucket ListsGet married Become homeowners Make baby (if we decide to do that...but def before thirty if so) Transition into SAHW/M role Pay off student loans as well! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!That's how I feel about several of my tattoos! I intend to add or do something later, and then I just grow so attached to them the way they are (: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 3 | My nightmare on the pill - BBC NewsI had a terrible experience with the pill as well. Not as long lasting though, it was honestly just a few weeks. I turned into an apathetic monster. If something happened, I would feel an intense flash of emotion - rage, depression, joy, etc....and then within 60 seconds...nothing. Literally nothing. It only took a few weeks for me to realize the pill was the culprit and I stopped taking them on the spot. Within a few days I felt like myself again. I now have the Skyla IUD - I've had it since Ju… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Attachment Style Test!!!I had that exact same thought, that so many of those questions were circumstantial based on your partner. Which, to a degree, does reflect you...but not entirely - so you'll get different results depending on who you are with. I actually considered taking the test from the perspective I would have had when I was HB, because there were quite a few questions I knew I would have answered entirely differently. I'm interested in how your present partner can affect what's supposed to be your attachmen… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 04:45 PM |
| 2 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitThe money to purchase it is prioritized over earning the money honestly. This may include black market services or theft or what have you. I think a lot of people do this. Side "jobs", etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!That's awesome!! Are you a fan of the outline tattoos or are you going to add more shading and colour later? I always hate asking people that because it sounds like "wow, your tattoo doesn't even look done" hahaha, but the minimalist tattoos are completely their own style as well! I have some friends from school with some really cool pieces in that genre. I love looking at tattoos, it's so cool to me how differently people can approach them and I love that you and R designed it together (: (: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Attachment Style Test!!!Also for shiggles, I asked R to do it and these were his results - though I was much more in the extreme range of my quadrant, whereas his plot point was a bit closer to the middle axis. Like mine, I also italicized the sentences that I thought sounded particularly descriptive of him. Relaxed-Avoidant (Dismissive): Individuals in this quadrant often take a dim view of others, preferring to keep their distance and guard against invasions of their autonomy and privacy. Relaxed-Avoidant personaliti… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Attachment Style Test!!!Relaxed-Engaging (Secure): Relaxed-Engaging individuals tend to have good self-esteem and typically find it easy to share their feelings and opinions with others. They spend less time fretting and second-guessing themselves than individuals in the other three quadrants, and they generally find it easy to ask others for help or support when in need. They are usually straightforward and trusting in their relations with others, and their usual state is one of being open, approachable, and relaxed. … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 04:46 AM |
| – | Time Capsule LettersI do need to add that "convincing" my SO might have been a bad choice of words. That was definitely the yellow flag haha. I read it like "girl if he doesn't want a cat and you do, and you have to convince him...ya might be in the wrong sub" lol. Trust me, I am with you all the way haha. I want a dog sooo badly, my SO had to ask me to stop talking about it. I definitely have stopped since he asked, and now I get so much more excited when he brings it up (: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/01/17 12:16 AM |
| – | Time Capsule LettersLook how great your skin looks now that you’ve got that awesome new facial routine! Please share (: | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!Post a cropped version here! I want to see! I know my tattoos are classy as fuck because HB HATED tattoos on women and always complimented mine. He definitely would not have held back about it either. I think I just exhausted the list of things I can thank him for...ah well. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:52 PM |
| – | Time Capsule LettersConvince your SO to get a cat with you Does this seem like a good goal to you? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:47 PM |
| 3 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitThey just...prioritize it. To greater and lesser extents, but it's all the same. Excessive weed use? The money to purchase it is prioritized over food/gas/bills/clothes/etc. To a person that already has a lifestyle of mediocrity and going without, it won't be that noticeable to have a little less of something in order to have a bit more drugs. Something more serious, like hard drugs? The money to purchase it is prioritized over earning the money honestly. This may include black market services o… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 10:45 PM |
| 7 | What's your strongest opinion about something non serious?Leggings are for indoor use or for layering during cold weather. It is not an acceptable form of outdoor pants. Unless your butt is covered...right? RIGHT??? I heart leggings everywhere, but my butt must be covered by a long shirt/sweater/dress/etc. If you can see the butt they automatically become not-pants. That's my logic. Let me be happy. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 08:45 PM |
| 5 | [Singing to the Choir!]Stop Taking Pride In Not Knowing How To Do Basic ShitI shared it on mine 2 hours ago! So far only people agreeing with it and nothing sarcastic, surprisingly haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.Here is my updated advice to you OP, in light of all the discussions and updates. I don't know if your dad was being genuinely thoughtless in the name of keeping the kids at home, which to me isn't an unreasonable request (though it was unreasonable to assume how you and your husband would want to handle that). I also don't know if was indeed some kind of play against your husband, or if there is any weight to the theory /u/whistling_dixie posed about it being a competition between them. Your da… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I noticed that as well...mesuspects something else - I think that assessment about it being a competition is likely pretty accurate. Except it shouldn't be because she should have squashed any possibility of that long ago. This is a weird problem to have at however many years of marriage, and I can't imagine it cropped up "all of the sudden" either. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.Agreed, /u/whistling_dixie had this theory which I wonder if there's any weight to... To me it almost comes off as a one-upsman kind of thing, like they're trying to fight for who gets to be #1 Man in your life. I could be wrong, but that's the impression I get. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.To laugh it off now would only make her husband more upset. Yeah I hope she doesn't think that's an option. At this point it's irrelevant whether her dad backpeddled or genuinely didn't want her husband there or genuinely did want to save them babysitting money....she already did the damage by agreeing to ditch him, regardless of whether the family's motivations were misinterpreted or not. That's now between her and her husband, not her family...so, I guess I wish her luck undoing that hurt. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.It sounds like this isn't the first time. It also sounds like the OP created a huge drama out of thin air instead of clarifying her dad's intentions. I agree with the thin air part, but the other executive decisions sounded definitely inappropriate of her dad..but not malicious toward her husband (ie the life jacket thing). Basically I think her and her H need to have a talk with her dad for sure...but the topic of the talk isn't not accepting her husband, since that really isn't the problem. Th… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!I wonder how those same girls would react if we vilified an entire ethnic group based on the actions of a few...OH WAIT. Hmph. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!Stop the obsession with labels - feminist, gay, trans, cis, black, queer, genderfluid, whatever stupid labels you can think of. They're a way of dividing people, and that's extremely stupid when you talk about wanting unity. THIS BOTHERS ME TO NO GOD DAMNED END UGH I DONT UNDERSTAND I DONT UNDERSTAND I DONT UNDERSTAND | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!Similar thoughts go for the popular twitter trend '#WasteHisTime2016' where girls post stories about how they waste guys' time, example: 'lead him on for a month and then never reply to his texts again'. I'd never heard of this but now I'm sad I did /: | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Trends To Ditch In 2017!but my personal favorite came from a friend of a friend FB: I'm a militant pacifist!... Oh honey... DEAD! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.See! 100% thoughtless, but not malicious...in the future, I think you should take care to avoid over-reacting. It seems to me as if you got oddly worked up over what already sounded like - and subsequently proved to be - a fairly benign situation born of a miscommunication. That being said, I'm very happy this ended with as little fuss as possible, and realizing your husband was not being snubbed by your family. You should edit this into your OP. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.If it's for the simple reason you stated, I would ask him not to make assumptions like that in the future. If your dad is just making executive decisions and left out DH, I would tell him I wouldn't be going Yeah this seems like 100% the most reasonable reaction | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.Or if it weren't the first time my dad had excluded my husband. It is unlike my dad to play favorites. If this is the first time he's reacted like this regarding your husband, that really only stands to suggest this is more thoughtlessness on his end regarding who would be watching the children. Do you have any reason to believe he has an issue with her husband? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice - My siblings SOs were invited to my mom's birthday dinner, my DH was not.I can't quite tell but it doesn't seem like there is any reason to believe her dad has an issue with her husband. It really seems like just thoughtlessness on his end rather than any malice. My gut is that he just doesn't want small children there, which IMO isn't unreasonable depending on the venue or their plans. It's her mom's birthday so it's not out of place to assume they are going somewhere nice. That could easily be solved by getting a sitter. I think the dad just assumed her husband wou… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Christmas Day FROooooo don't tempt me. That sounds dangerously amazing... | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Christmas Day FRMaybe that's something /u/BellaScarletta could think about if R runs his own show too? Could your side-gig be supporting R's business? Would literally love to do that. Once I have more time freed up I plan on devoting all of it to R being the priority. Whether that's supporting his business or just going to bed at 2am with him instead of always missing him because I need to get up at 630. I just can't wait for these days to be behind us. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/01/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does a guy being overly hot ever compel you show interest much more aggressively than you usually would with other hot guys?Well then the real mistake is conflating TRP guys with the rest of the general population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017I want to see if by me taking a step back and nurturing my own femininity and allowing him to be himself, if we will have the dynamic that I'd/we'd be happy with. Can you clarify what you mean by this? This is something we always encourage. Stifling him will (as I referenced in earlier comments) set a poor tone for the remainder of your relationship. It's far easier to establish positive habits and dynamics than attempt to rectify poor ones later. I'd like to get to know him a bit more both to f… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Christmas Day FRthat is me and, I think, most women who did not marry and have kids immediately after school. I think my whole generation of fellow women find it hard to disengage from those corporate dreams that I took for granted as my dream for the future. It's so true /: I consider myself very fortunate to be involved with this community and their openness regarding what's now considered "regressive" goals...I love being able to be honest about my SAH dreams. I do have to admit, I also become a bit melancho… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Christmas Day FRThank you! He's wonderful - though I'm biased, of course d: When we were vetting/courting, we discussed a timetable of dating/engagement/marriage to ensure we were on the same page regarding expectations. Both of us were of the mind 2-3 years is a reasonable but maximum dating period before an engagement. At this point we've been together just over 6 months, and while I wouldn't be surprised if he stuck to his guns on the 2 year time frame....I'm beginning to suspect it may be closer to the 1 ye… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017I mean, I think it should be at least decently clear. This is a relationship you're entering into. Would you be excited to be his girlfriend? Could you envision yourself marrying this person? At nearly a month, you should have a very good sense of the answers to these questions. I personally don't see the point in spending time with someone you can't envision that with - that's the point of dating, after all. As far as vetting goes...the appropriate length of time on that is going to vary person… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does a guy being overly hot ever compel you show interest much more aggressively than you usually would with other hot guys?I think strategy varies from SMV value to SMV value. A girl who is a 4/10 probably won't use the same strategies as a 7/10. I don't think there is "a" strategy. Best I can do is share mine. First off, your SMV obviously changes from niche to niche. A 7/10 to one guy may be a 4/10 to another. That being said, I'm probably an 8/10 in the niche of "generic people you will meet in a normal day". I'm not some crazy makeup guru and I wouldn't call myself fashion forward. I dress well and look presenta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does a guy being overly hot ever compel you show interest much more aggressively than you usually would with other hot guys?There's definitely a "come hither" smile. Nobody is conflating generic smiles with being hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/17 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017For your last question, I'm talking about where you said When I am turned off I end up making more snarky/bitchy comments (although its still all playful and said with a smile). It's almost like I'm shit-testing him :S If you shit test him, give him attitude, snark, resist his leadership, etc - one of two things is going to happen: If he's self-respecting and has the confidence, he will leave you. If less so, he will sink to your low expectations and lose the confidence, particularly when it com… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Christmas Day FRI'm tearing up here reading this. Once you mentioned you posted a FR relating to this, I had to immediately come read. We're definitely on the same page here... It's hard! It's so difficult to explain how demoralizing your general life can feel as the result of a poor job situation. It's worse when you know your life is objectively going well, and you're fortunate in so many other ways, and you just feel like you have no room to complain /: I switched to my current employer at the beginning of S… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Questions about motherhoodMaybe I'm just having a quarter life crisis, haha. You and me both sister /: I just want to enjoy my job....actually, this conversation is eerily on point with the FR I just posted. R is being so supportive, I just want to figure out how to find a position I'll enjoy. The pay is so much less important, though it definitely needs to hit a certain threshold. Where do people find the amazing jobs! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Questions about motherhoodSorry for delayed response! I'm curious about your natural inclination towards motherhood as a child, but then that point where you steered towards being childfree. I think it had a lot to do with liberal/feminist agendas where I felt like if I wasn't breaking the molds of womyn then what was even the point lol. I think that was about 30% of it, enough to get the thoughtball rolling that "I don't have to be a mother". Beyond that, I think the rest was motivated by a fear of scarcity. I'm very sc… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017Let me offer a slightly different opinion that may put your mind at ease - you will have to be honest with yourself though, otherwise it could be easy to use as rationalizing. I agree with what everyone is saying about it not being a good sign that you aren't excited in the "honeymoon phase", and for probably 80-90% of cases, it wouldn't mean good things moving forward. However, you do say sometimes you are excited to see him, though sometimes you're not. Are you guys exclusive? It doesn't sound… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 05:53 PM |
| 2 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?Only in the very most technical use of the word...haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 01:38 AM |
| – | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?I'm not sure how that relates to the topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 05:56 PM |
| 3 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?This is super interesting. It makes perfect sense to me as I definitely understand that bond, but I can't understand how it can be forged or broken by polyamory. I'm glad you guys reached your equilibrium of fulfillment and happiness (: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?We have to have a virtual birthday party!!! Happy birthday!!!! I'm sending a picture with a celebration cake for you :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 05:49 PM |
| 2 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?I like a fair bit of alone time and being not the only partner to my partner/s means that I get it. This is funny, I like your pragmatic approach to it and that's something I can relate to. I definitely wouldn't see polyamory as a solution for it, but I think all people need alone time and I would feel less guilty about some things if my SO had another person to spend time with. Again, I don't see polyamory ever fitting into our lives, but I can definitely appreciate the reduced pressure it offe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 05:48 PM |
| 2 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?I agree fully with this. Not every man would be okay with it, but that visceral reaction of disgust isn't going to be anywhere near the same as their woman sleeping with another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | People in non-traditional relationship dynamics, why?We've chatted in IRC before! I don't think I realized you had this arrangement with your fiancé. Why do you think he's comfortable with your hall pass, but doesn't care for the same? Thanks for answering! It's definitely not a situation I can relate to, even if given the choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/17 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Questions about motherhoodSo, how old are you, roughly? You don't have to be exact if you don't want to. 24 years, 6 months, and 2 weeks old....I went for exactness d: What's your relationship status? Also, how many years? LTR, 6 months. Do you have kids already, and if so, how many, how old, etc. How old were you when you had your first? Feel free to elaborate on your kiddos, any way you want. :) Negative, negative, negative When you were a kid, how did you view motherhood? Did you play with baby dolls a lot and talk ab… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/01/17 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Question for American WomenYes. 3 out of my last 4 partners fit that description, the most recent two moreso than the third. Full disclosure: Hot normie extro girl signing in, Captain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Advice Requested: How can I help my forgetful partner without nagging?It's always a warm and fuzzy feeling to see one of your posts mentioned <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Something Funny To Brighten Your Day :)I haven't been on this sub enough (damn me for living life), and I just re-fell in love with you hahaha. Beautiful, simply beautiful. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyLol I am not the one here who doesn't know shit. I'm offering 3 examples of 3 individuals who do not juice. That's not up for debate. Do you think these 3 people juice? One Two Three At least try not to spew ignorance while being a walking cliche. Bigger than me? "Juices." Leaner than me? "Speed." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyPerhaps, but I'm still quite sure my brother isn't one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyLol he definitely doesn't. We don't have that kind of relationship. He seriously considered it for a while and didn't hide that. He went to a natty show and fell in love. He competes in tested stage shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyWhoops sorry I totally missed creatine question. I'm confident they have all taken creatine at some point in time. I don't think my SO takes it consistently, but we definitely have it in the house. My ex didn't take it until he started talking to my brother, and I think my brother takes it the most consistently out of the 3 of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyDo you think any of these look like they juice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyI really disagree with you. My SO, brother, and ex look extremely similar to him and all are natural. This comment for pics of all 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyOkay I think everyone is speculating out the god damned wazoo about #1's legs. All you can see is his calves which IMO is no indication of anything at all. I would say all 3 of their calves look very similar to his. Seeing as none of us can see his quads...speculation is pointless. There's no way to say if he is taking roids or not but as far as his visible physique goes, I think there is no reason to say it isnt naturally attainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyI just edited to include pictures, let me go look at #1 again and give honest assessment of legs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyI agree with you. My SO, my ex, and my brother are all bodybuilders, personal trainers, or both. All are natural, and all are bigger and sometimes (depending on bulk/cut cycle) as lean as Guy #1. I'll find pics and edit this comment. Edit: My Ex (guy on the right, obviously) My Brother My SO None of them roid or have ever roided, and I think they are all extremely comparable to #1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyMy SO? Yes he definitely is, I don't think there are many natty men bigger than him at all. Even in his own words, he's basically reached his natty limit. My point was only that the original commenter asked if he was "more toned" than #2 in OP - by "toned" I'm assuming he/she meant lean, which he isn't at this moment. Guy #2 is less muscular, but definitely leaner than my SO. Guy #2 has at least decently visible abs, and my SO probably has 10-15 pounds to drop before he would reach that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 10:01 PM |
| 3 | A quick questionOne thing I'll say in defense of his point is I think RP has more idiots than BP. This is just a personal hunch, but I think non-idiot RPers are of above-average intelligence, and much more so than your average BPer...but I think socially awkward weirdos end up in RP because they need it, whereas decently competent people do fine with the opposite sex and then become disgusted by TRP (usually as a result of not understanding nuance lol). I do think idiot RPers ponder basic questions and black/wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 08:16 AM |
| 2 | A quick questionHmm you raise good points, and those are also things I can (to some extent) agree with. It feels different from both camps, I'm having a hard time putting my finger on it, but I don't think it's the same skill lacked here. One area I see BP nuance-failings in constantly is specific inter-personal interactions. Not big topics about the population at large, but a fight between a couple Bobby and Susan. They are just like /r/relationships in the sense that they pick a victim and then demonized the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 08:10 AM |
| 2 | A quick questionIntelligent input darling, care to elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 07:48 AM |
| 3 | A quick questionFair. That logic applies in too many every day situations so it's not a stretch. We are all guilty of becoming defensive because we were in the wrong, or remaining steadfast and adamant about something better cut as a loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyYep SO is personal trainer. He is definitely much more muscular than #2 but he isn't as lean (no visible abs, etc). He just came off a long bulk and is currently cutting down to compete..he's 6ft and around 225lbs. He wants to cut to sub-200. While I understand his goals and definitely support them, I really like how he looks as-is. Here is a pic. Not great quality but you get the gist. Also don't judge for the gym selfie or he may sense a disturbance in the force...I basically had to beg for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The reason so many women get upset when men express their attraction to younger women is because of jealousy, plain and simple.While I don't entirely disagree with what you said, it also rings a lot like this article which I've seen shared on TRP. Look at this section in a similar light: Women, no matter how old, were young women once. Often they were subjected to the advances of sometimes much older men and made to feel uncomfortable or were even (in their opinion) "taken advantage of". Women have younger sisters, daughters, nieces, etc. The anger they express is often at the thought of their loved ones being put in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 06:32 AM |
| 3 | A quick questionI've noticed this so many times in interaction. It drives me absolutely wild. I'm not sure why BPers have a proclivity for being completely unable to register nuance, but I do think there is a very interesting explanation for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, if you only had to choose between TWO men on SMV, which of these two would you choose and whyGuy 1 looks like someone I would have on a poster hung up in my room when I was 14. Now he looks like someone I would probably want to punch in the face if we talked for 5 minutes. I choose Guy 2, definitely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 02:15 AM |
| 2 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!But. I DO have a resolution: to stop nagging (or, as I call it, "pointing out important information") HA! I love this. I think that's a rationalization a fair few of us are guilty of engaging in d: Please keep us updated in the weekly reflections thread!! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 05:59 PM |
| 3 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!I'm glad you had fun! Shame about those 12 year olds...there's a reasonableness threshold of "kid shenanigans" a person just has to expect but that falls well outside of it /: I can't imagine thinking that was a good idea. I'm with you on NYE being a poor motivator to make a change. Well done on the weight loss though! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 05:57 PM |
| 3 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!Im sick too! No fun at all /: I ended up enjoying the mellowness it forced me into, so I hope you did as well. With your push up, try working up to it by doing a push up with your hands on the wall (0 resistance), then a table or bed, then chair, basically gradually get your hands to the floor. I've never tried that but I've seen suggestions like it thrown around /r/fitness so maybe it will help! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 05:54 PM |
| 3 | New Years Eve(ish) MegaThread!!!I had a great night! R and I originally planned to only meet up for the midnight kiss, as he wanted to take advantage of the uber rates for the night (he drives really inconsistently, but I would absolutely recommend it for anyone who likes an easy way to make money whenever convenient!) I went to a friend's house to paint canvases and watch Bob Ross d: R's plans changed a dozen times over and he ended up calling me at 1145 to see if I would just come home to be with him. We ended up having a re… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Ha! No somehow I missed that guy... this is first exposure! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 11:47 PM |
| 4 | End Of The Year Letter<3 <3 <3 I love every member who makes this community what it is, and thank you all for helping me give myself the gift of happiness. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016HAHA! What in the heck kind of bot is that?? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Ha! I didn't realize you were doing it on purpose but I still feel like a winner right now. I won an imaginary contest. Go me. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Your ratings are so great 😂 9/10 7/10 with rice. Thank you for your suggestion. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Shameless <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Please help me learn how to forgive my husbandI feel like it's been just a touch too long since hearing you drop some reality and it's more refreshing than I even expected (: | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesYeah wtf is that.. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Power of the BoobiesHAHA! I literally did this once as a kid. It was just a nap on his arm and not boobs haha, but I'll never forget the man either. I kept falling asleep on a plane, I was maybe 4. I tried not to lean on him but the power of the kid slumber got me good and I fell asleep on his arm, he was wearing the comfiest leather jacket ever. I jerked awake a cool 4 hours later apologizing (because still trying for manners despite my nap haha) and he laughed and told me it was quite fine. I guess my mom had see… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?they can. In fact, these women tend to attract a more wealthy man who would like a wife to mold her life around his own. I agree with your first and last point, but I don't agree with you here. For one, not every woman is worth a wealthy man's time. That's just a fact. In fact, most probably can't. And I think a lot of those woman would choose to be a SAHW/M given the choice. So there goes that theory. But for two, even those who are in a position to do so often will not put material resources o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How many of yall are on the spectrum?My score was 12 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesWe will! I kept making puppy jokes the way some women make engagement jokes lmfao. He finally said "Look, I want a dog more than you. Guarantee it. So no more mentioning it until I do, k?" So patiently....I wait.... | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesI'm her handler when we run agility and train. That sounds awesome! Gah I want a dog so much. R made me cry because I TOTALLY thought I was getting a dog for Christmas. It was really a hilarious joke gone terribly wrong (he never dreamed that was the conclusion my brain would drum up hahaha), but when I realized my mistake I called him crying on the commute from work "I -sob- just -sob- thought there -sob- would be a -sob sob sob- puupppyyyyyyyyyyy" while he said he was sorry a billion times thr… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/12/16 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesWell then ignore that aspect of the above comment I just left you (: But that's fair, the stress you're exhibiting seems super Type A to me but I can understand it being purely finance-driven as well. Just resign yourself to the fact that money is gone. It's accounted for, it won't be less, it won't be more, and in the end it'll be spent on your marriage...no matter how the wedding may look. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesIf we get to the wedding day and it's all a mess, at least we'll be married in the end. This is totally the correct attitude. Seriously, who. cares. People will not remember your wedding more than they remember their own, and with enough time you can laugh at anything. I truly don't know why I am planning so many details. I guess my anxiety and my dislike of wasting three thousand dollars, which is a huge amount of money, is part of it. If it weren't so much money I think I wouldn't care so much… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesHaha well I can totally empathize with her depending on the roots of that. I think it's either The wedding IS important to her. Type A don't sleep. The second one...I would be so guilty of. I could micromanage the daylights out of something I didn't even care about just because the idea of mismanagement would kill my soul.....I'm uh, working on that hahaha. So as much as that makes sense to me, if she really doesn't care I think the answer is breathing exercises and reminding herself she doesn't… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning IssuesHe's either got it or he doesn't. Literally the moral of this story lol | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Advice Needed: Wedding Planning Issueshe believes they would be offended if we eloped. I love his family, and I would never want to take away something he's obviously thought about, so I agreed to a small wedding. Well, at least you offered your own answer there. But now, the brunt of planning has fallen on me, despite me having been to one wedding in my life and not really being into this kind of thing. Even after reading The Knot's checklist and doing research, I don't really understand what I'm doing. I don't know what kind of as… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Moving In TogetherWe also moved in together pretty fast after becoming official - we were 5 hours apart prior to that. It just seemed right considering the long drive to see each other. That's awesome - that you followed your instinct and it's paid off so wonderfully for you (: We knew each other for several years before that though, so that's how I told myself that it was okay. This isn't exactly like us, as I really only first started talking to him in May (I actually asked him to housesit for me so I could vis… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Moving In TogetherTHANKS LADYFRIEND :D It's been almost 3 months of loosely living together and 1 month of officialness and every day I only become more sure we made the right choice (: My IRL friends know how difficult of a decision it was -signing a lease with someone you've been dating 4 months? Especially when you've never lived with an SO before? Smaarrrtttt, haha. But I just knew it would be okay for us and I'm so enthused seeing those instincts pay off <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Moving In TogetherL and I just moved in together, finally. AMAZING!! You guys have been together a while now right?? And we have so much stuff. I mean not really but it feels like whenever one little corner gets done suddenly three new boxes appear. Lolol this is TOO fresh in my mind. By too fresh I mean 'borderline still in progress' haha. We will both get there (: Do you guys own or rent? We rent and I feel like that is kind of exhausting too...like I have so many decorations I don't want to put up because well… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!THE ELECTRIC TRIANGLE!!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Moving In TogetherBut by then we had already been living together just not officially if you know what I mean. Totally know what you mean haha, that was R and I from September to November. It was about the kids and keeping them in a routine while in school. Then when the summer came BAM they lived with us for the summer. it was wild. That's awesome! And yeah that's an element that I obviously don't have to consider at all. I can only imagine how things would have changed if it was, and if you didn't have them it … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Well there has to be SOME solutions but people seem to think mine are delusional. We could have a household where both partners work 25 hours a week and have people get paid more for fewer hours. If people were paid based on how much was completed compared to how many hours they put in, things would be a lot better. I don't think that's delusional. I'm not sure it's any more likely than mine to actually happen, but I think both are different ways to address the same issue. I think it's families … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Thanks friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Moving In TogetherWe are sooooo going to have "that box" hahaha. When do you guys move in together?? I remember when it happened but I don't recall how much time had passed since you began dating when you took that step! And it is, it is! It's really special to me that R and I are both sharing this "first" together (: I've been in 5 different year+ long relationships (1 during high school, 2 during college, and 2 after college - HB and R). The first 3 we were definitely too young to consider living together or an… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 04:53 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Nuance is really escaping you isn't it? I'm not suggesting love is the answer or that going without is the answer. I'm saying society puts us into a position where neither money nor love is abundant. You are applying my logic to society as it is. I'm describing a hypothetical society that would be (IMO) an improvement. I'm not advocating for just dealing with poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?I agree with this and it's definitely the heart of the point I meant to make. Now I guess the real question is "can we return to that?" and on that note I'm very skeptical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 03:08 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Women are over-saturating the workforce and cheapening the value of a day's labour. As a consequence men aren't paid enough to support a family and the women's work is reinforced as necessary. I agree fully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Well organic foods aren't the answer to avoiding cancer either but that's an entirely different discussion. No, I don't think "love cures all" but I do think it's a prerequisite for providing a fulfilling life. Also, what you're saying sounds like it's in response to an argument for women to just exit the workforce willy nilly and then just love all their problems away which just isn't correct. If that was the case I would have quit my job yesterday. I'm simply indicating that it is a huge probl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 03:05 PM |
| 5 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?I don't just mean logistically keeping a house running - I mean creating a home, a refuge. You completely missed or chose to ignore my point. I do not mean perfect looking, and if you want to have an actual discussion (which I am open to) then you can drop the condescension. A house can be messy and still be a home. The menu of that house can still be pumped up with all the antibiotics you want and still be a home. Or better, a house can be perfect looking and not be a home. The menu of that hou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 06:33 AM |
| 8 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?Honestly I'm over-stepping my understanding of economics if I pretend to appreciate the cause/effect of those actions..though the same can be said about my original proposition. Your point is well felt though. I'm open to the how part of what we accomplish, but I think living in a marketplace that virtually requires dual labour per household is madness. Then by virtue of my pill association, my bias is that women are best suited to tend to the domestic sphere. In any case, I don't understand how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 06:06 AM |
| 10 | What do you think is the long term solution to the sexual marketplace?I think if more women were in an economic position to return to the domestic sphere that would be a good start. Right now most have to "do it all." Or at least (IMO) should do it all, lest we run into these problems. Look at keeping home like a job. Let's say we each have 112 conscious hours in a week. A minimum of 40 of those are dedicated to work. It's probably closer to 50 once you factor in prep time, commute, etc. Many people work more than 40 hours anyway, so it's not an unreasonable avera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Moving In TogetherI just got real lost in /r/oddlysatisfying...whoops! Ugh love that sub lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Thank you, that means a lot to me...I just scrawled that out 15 minutes after getting home from the whole affair to try and get some weight out of my heavy heart. I'm not sad to be rid of them in their current state...they've been nothing but unsupportive and even quite insulting. And while I don't think the quantity of time a friendship lasts is any reason to continue one...we have almost 17 years of great memories and it's hard watching them post pictures of the 5 of them to FB saying "Somethi… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 12:28 AM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Phew girl, that's a lot...and it really sounds like you're championing through it. It sounds like you're partially cutting yourself slack for feeling your feelz, but also a little bit like you're beating yourself up about it. It's awesome to try and set the bar a little higher for yourself and what we all strive to do....but at the same time it's not about disengaging from hard feelings. Immature or not, they happen and I think that's so fine; it's how you handle them is what counts. I think you… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/12/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!This is not at all within the intentions of this thread but I see that word "vent" there and I'm grabbing it. I grew up on a street of 6 girls all within very close age. Friendships ebbed and flowed but there were 3 of us that always held together. They were my best friends from age 8 to nearly 25. One of them I even went to college with..we literally carpooled from third grade through undergrad. Anyway we had a massive falling out in October (well, I did..everyone else is still besties). It was… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/12/16 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Awesome!! Thanks for sharing that (: my Twitter use is inconsistent at best d: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?This is going to be harder than I thought 😂😂 | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Oh I love the idea of older romance novels! Very sweet - I've definitely never dabbled in that genre at all, do you have any title recommendations?? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Thanks for the wealth of information! I have both Hoff Sommers books in my shopping cart already so doing something right (: A lot of antifeminist thought goes hand in hand with criticism of the left. It's so vast though I wouldn't know where to start. I generally look into individual people and their timelines. And A LOT of it has to be your own conclusions of feminist thought you read first-hand. So it's really important to know its main ideas and waves. A very popular criticism is about it be… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Oh perfect! I'll check it out and add it to my book list! (: (: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016Omg. Great. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016LET'S GET READY TO TUMBLLEEEEEEE Installments One, Two, Three, Four, and Five - for the uninitiated waaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. Hey check it out! A meme for the plate school! They're for slenderman Damn't. Gets me every time... too much! Who is this guy? Let's be friends. I could be friends with him too... There's a reason we advise dating within your class/culture/etc.... Fake? Real? Fake? Real? I can't decide. LOOKIN AT MY IRC PEEPS! (ps so sorry I haven't been in plz forgive me..) ugggggghhhhhhh Wat j… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Hair So Shiny It Will Blind a BitchLOVE IT. It was my favourite product! I got that one + the glaze. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016That comic is too accurate!! So I've actually started playing Skyrim since that last check and it's awesome! I do totally have to quest and kill things but it's way more fun than I expected. R comes home the other day and I'm playing and he asks how it's going lol, "Alright I guess..my companion Lydia died and I was trying really hard to keep her alive. It was really sad because we've been a team for a while now." "Well that's okay babe, you can get more companions later. She's not the only one.… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DAbsolutely - welcome!! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 05:22 PM |
| 5 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DI think there are more than a few of us who are our own former worst enemies d: | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Q4women: What are the worst parts about dating as a woman?If a guy goes about pursuing me the right way (I don't mean any specific formula, just with basic manners and respect) - I always take care to reject him as I would want a woman to reject my brother in the same circumstances. Women complain men don't put themselves out there, but then will turn around and make a man feel like shit for doing so. What do you think will happen if you do that enough times to enough men?? Beyond hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016I had one yesterday for the first time in like forever and it was sooo mediocre which was basically soul crushing. I only at 1/4 of it cuz it was so sad it wasn't even worth the calories ): | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 08:28 PM |
| 6 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DHi there everyone! I hope at least a few new friends come out and play (: This sub is a great community that can result in friendships that extend beyond just the sub - many of us chat outside of here, in the IRC or through other mediums. It can definitely feel a bit tough love sometimes, but we've all had moments on the receiving end of it, you're not being singled out! Our subreddit banner is the most accurate, "Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie." Stick around and you'… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016BEAUTIFUL! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | A Military RantThank you for sharing an alternate point of view! Again, I'm not very familiar with the military so I'm hesitant to say too much out of place. It does sound thought like some of the hardships you're describing don't run counter to the "pussification" (lol) the man in the video was making, and instead are just examples of red tape and poor bureaucracy? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016White Privilege Christmas Don’t sing this one in public. My fave ahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016I feel like a kid begging for sweets BUT PLEAAAASEEEEE! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Mods!!! Someone PLEEAAASSEEE make one of these a flair!!!!! I vote this one or this one. THE LLAMA FLAIR OF SHAME! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Can we give that to people post-roast? YOU DONE GOOFED, NOW YOU GET THE LLAMA FLAIR OF SHAME | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016That was totally it, she told me when we were talking. Google "Churro Boy" - that was how I saw the picture of her haha. I'm not even a social media person but if I was a legit Disney princess I would die not sharing photos haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016I'll fix it!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016Wee Woo! Got it right! But for real who comes over unannounced at 3am for breakfast. That would totally be a post on here. How old are you and how familiar are you with RPW? 32, fairly familiar - I lurk a lot but this is my first post, be gentle! (: What is your relationship status? Married to a wonderful man who I never have any problems with! Except recently I guess....which is why I'm posting! What is the problem? (Don’t badmouth your SO!) Well, it's just that I think we didn't establish heal… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016It really is!!! A teacher (middle aged) told me he once went as a child, and him and his sister snuck off to buy gifts for their parents. They settled on a cutesie salt/peppershaker set and ran out of the store excited....and promptly dropped and broke them. They went back into the store crying and the cast members immediately went "Oh no WE forgot to wrap them the unbreakable way! Silly us!" And got them a brand new set wrapped "magically". He said Disney lost $15 that day and made thousands mo… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016MRW I find out my IRL friend is literally Rapunzel at Disneyland. I found out through GOOGLE! Literally no mention of it anywhere on her social media. I just saw a picture and was like "woooaaaah no way" and immediately texted her. Why is she allowed to be that perfect? I want to be that perfect!!!! Envy levels are through the roof. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyHey there, I'm going to read your comment but I think you accidentally wrote a reply to yourself when you meant to reply to me. :0) Oh man. Off to a strong start I am lol. Oh, I didn't understand from your initial response that she specifically wanted to bring those things to the community. Yeah I failed to explain...well frankly a whole lot lol. But she wasn't saying it with the intention to participate here, but she was addressing it to me as an RPW so I meant to draw the distinction that Men'… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Healthy recipes that can be easily bulked upAnd yes, the food you sneak when you're making the meal counts. Slowly grabs pitchfork. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyThis may be true in some areas and social circles but that doesn’t change the actual legal benefits that marriage affords to a couple. And there are far more people who still view marriage as an essential right of passage for adults, they just aren’t represented as well on the internet. I mean, I completely see it that way lol. But I do feel nostalgic about a certain reverence that it doesn't command so often anymore. I'm sure it depends where a person lives but unless your community is very tra… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual StrategyRegardless of historical and current ‘treatments’ of marriage - it’s still the highest form of commitment. Right, which I started off by saying in those words exactly, and then just suggested it's sad marriage isn't what it used to be..which is in no way opposing Camille's post. Just sad is all. I think this is misleading, because some of the MRA concerns really aren’t trivial. Parental rights, stake in parenthood, financial obligations, being ignored on the abuse front, being minimized on the s… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Has beauty preferences? Doesn't like you in potentially unsafe and compromising situations alone? ASSHOLE!I think it's totally fine if your SO has beauty preferences or doesn't want you to out to clubs/parties without him. But YOU have to be okay with that. Accept that these are his preferences. I wouldn't put those on the same level (not that you're necessarily trying to) because hair length is a genuine preference. Going to clubs/etc has a lot more to do with safety and appropriate behaviour. But yes that being said, very true. For example, my boyfriend prefers short hair (I literally hate him for… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 08:54 PM |
| 2 | A Military RantEdit: By the way, at my college class participation is 20% of my grade. So yes, we are handing out good grades just for showing up. Is it just for showing up? (i.e. 'participation' vs 'attendance') Not a rhetorical question, I'm actually curious. I know I had the participation section of my grade, but I think it was for genuine participation and engaging with the class...basically it made sure kids weren't quiet all the time even if they could pass a test on the material. Which, I can see the va… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Because the promiscuous behavior gets passed to the sexy son. In the long run, it passes her genes (through her son, not his promiscuous father). It's interesting, and just an animal theory by the way, but I like to see how it parallels with what I know. AH! Way more sense- thank you (: Women and men's strategies are at odds so it's interesting to explore. On a side note, keeping it on the abstract also functions in favor of female communication even on here when we're anonymous, because otherwi… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Has beauty preferences? Doesn't like you in potentially unsafe and compromising situations alone? ASSHOLE!all he asks is that I call him when I get there and when I'm about to leave and always send pictures of the taxi number plate if I'm getting into one he's more concerned with my safety more than anything else. This is such a great idea! Like in general for anyone, I'm completely stealing it. I'll never forget the time I practically had to drag one of my best friends off this guy she was kissing I had to remind her Fiancé you know the one who's at home with the baby and how much she'll regret it … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 08:41 PM |
| 3 | A Military RantMy brother-in-law recently retired from the army, and he would agree with that rant 100%. I have heard him make some very similar comments recently. Women in combat roles and the recent proposal to draft women ate hot button topics with him. That's good to hear, on balance I agreed with what he was saying...but those opinions don't exist in a vacuum and it didn't feel fair for me to have opinions on something I can't really appreciate or understand. Also, can we just take a moment to appreciate … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:55 PM |
| 2 | A Military RantI believe in streamlined processing. For example if you are between 18-22 (male or female) there's a standardized set of tests (physical) and appropriate 'pass' ranges. The standard should be based solely on the original male qualifying ranges (which I know vary depending on the age of the person in question), it should not be altered or lowered to accommodate women). If women can preform to the same level physically as a normal man - awesome! I AGREE WITH THIS. And I don't understand how some p… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Just going to firstly say that arguing my position is not arguing 'for' cheaters or defending cheating (I know you get it but for anyone else reading that might interpret it that way). Yeah I keep seeing that lol. Disclaimer is never a bad idea for those just looking for reasons to get hung-up. The other type would be sex on the side because of variety. As a woman you just can't be more people, lol. Role-playing started to satiate this (I don't actually believe it's women being adventurous for t… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexual StrategyI know I'm incredibly late to the party, but I didn't have time to give this behemoth the due attention it deserves lol. It's definitely inspired several thoughts, observations, questions, etc...some of which more tangential than others, but I'm going to go ahead and share anything incited by the thread! Changes in the economy and culture have made it possible for women to support themselves financially, but we cannot escape these instinctive drives. Let's begin with something tangential lol. Th… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Sorry I took so long to reply to this comment! I wanted to have time to actually do it thoughtfully. but the majority of long-time married women would be alright if it was discrete enough that it never became known. Not that they would openly advocate it, or like it, and would still officially condemn it if someone asked. I think understanding the distinction between "WOULD NOT ADVOCATE IT" vs "WOULD BE ALRIGHT" is where we are losing several of the people who are knee-jerk disagreeing with this… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 06:48 PM |
| 8 | "Wearing a veil and hiding the body is a form of protection"I only watched the first half but I agree with your assessment. It only makes me retroactively more angry with the Lauren Southern SlutWalk videos. Quotes like these were far too abundant: "So why are you out at the Slut Walk today?" "Ummm to like, protest the rape culture of our society and protect women...you know?" "Do you really think our society has a rape culture?" "Oh yah definitely yah" "...but aren't rapists punished, and isn't rape condemned? In what way is that condoning rape or rapis… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 06:25 PM |
| 2 | A Military RantShots. Fired. What do you think of this? I, for one, am excited to see more people speak out against the era of offendedness and political correctness. This only feeds into the feminization of males and the complete lack of favours it does anyone, and shines light on yet another facet of our culture degrading as a consequence. Participation trophies (and the ensuing developmental damaged caused) happen in many arenas, but the military isn't one I've previously considered. Now, I can freely admit… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!The world has enough of those, SHAME ON YOU! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Has beauty preferences? Doesn't like you in potentially unsafe and compromising situations alone? ASSHOLE!Guy friends, as opposed to acquaintances, are something I would always feel weird about. Friends are people you bond emotionally with and it just seems like a bad idea where cheating is a big risk. Preaching to the choir, sister. I think there are some exceptions but I wrote this post about why, on the whole, it's not a good idea to engage in that sort of inter-gender dynamic. I realize the above sounds like i expect myself to cheat or something, and nothing could be further from the truth. I do… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Has beauty preferences? Doesn't like you in potentially unsafe and compromising situations alone? ASSHOLE!Agreed lol. Add in the fact when someone says "Want to go out this Friday??" what I actually hear is "Want to be completely exhausted Saturday and wake up with a headache and an empty wallet?" .....no, no thank you. What kills me in this comic is that it says "can't go to the clubs without him", not "can't go to the clubs end of story"! I mean I wouldn't be opposed to the latter either but the former is SOOO reasonable! Think about what kind of environment that is - one, why bother with the temp… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I think you just triggered /r/thebluepill | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!It was really sweet! I loved that he just had a genuine and spontaneous thought and ran with it <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:43 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewThat's totally what I expected! Was floored with my luck lol | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 01:01 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewYeaaahh!!!! Very cool!!!!! I'm so glad you liked it. After I messaged you and you gave it your endorsement (I was going to save my money if you said it was garbage lol), I checked to see if there were any showings in my area...my hopes weren't high BUT, there's one walking distance from my apartment! I have to mail in the money to get tickets so I'm going to do that tomorrow (: (: The showing isn't until January so I have some time to wait, but I'm so glad it's worth viewing and really excited t… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!Yay you!!!!!! That's so wonderful and I'm so happy for you all!!! I can't wait to hear more about your adventures with him (: | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I know some women are anti-Ugg and I totally understand the sentiment but I'm unapologetic. Literally. Every. Day. I hate winter and being cold. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I WEAR UGGS EVERY DAY SUE ME! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Grati-WEDNESDAY!I'm grateful for my friend, A. She was my first friend when I moved to where I consider my "hometown" (I was 8 when we came here). We were never best friends growing up but we never had drama, never fought, and the time we spent together ebbed and flowed but we always kept in at least loose contact. When I moved back to the area after college (when I started dating HB), her and I really started re-connecting. She's one of the most exemplary people I know. She's so naturally-RP I envy her so much… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherMy mom is, in short, not a good wife. Granted, my father is an extremely difficult man, but my mother lacks any patience or compassion to deal with him. Comparison to my experiences with parents: Check. My mother is a pusher - she will poke and prod until you cave, in whatever way she has to. Check. and is definitely a narcissist. I don't know much about narcissism but I don't think I can relate to this one. From my understanding, that kind of disorder tends to affect ALL relationships (so I wou… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 12, 2016My job is a constant source of stress. All I do these days is keep my head down and stay out of my boss's way. I've started actively looking for my next job, which is giving me some hope (and my SO is being very, very supportive), but in the meantime... just trying to keep my chin up. This is me ): | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!AHAHAHAHAHA bye productivity | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 05:00 PM |
| 2 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?Haha glad you like! This is a great community to be a part of and it's all too easy nerding out on it when given the opportunity d: I think these posts will definitely be enjoyable for you to read, and don't be afraid to ask questions if you have any! We are definitely a tough-love sort of place, and you'd be hard-pressed to find a more supportive group of people....but who will also occasionally bite each other's heads off d: Happy reading! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Share your Favorite Picture, Meme, or (SFW) video!Okay so I just found this gif and being the HP freak I am....I laughed so hard and now it's my favourite (it's SFW but it is a lewd gesture, fair warning.) I always laugh irrationally hard at this meme and this meme hahahaha. So this one isn't technically a meme but it's become a huge one between my friend and I. We've been best friends for 16 years and now we both work together in the crappiest company ever. Every time something facepalm-worthy happens, we send it to one another. The joke is th… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:45 PM |
| 3 | [AskRPW] First time poster - Two years single, how do I start dating again?Hi there, welcome aboard! I'd like to start with my reading list recommendations -There are definitely some repeats other users have said already! But these are my personal favourites: First, I think it's important to cultivate the right mindset about yourself and your expectations. For that reason, I would start here and here. The first is a lesson on 'being woman' and the other is on partner selection. If you think you could stand to improve your SMV (after all, who can't?), here is a great pe… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 04:33 PM |
| 7 | What kind of dating advice do men and women give each other that is actually terrible?Yeah also I think there is also a lot of nuance being lost. Is the key to male happiness putting meat on the table and in your mouth? Nah. But is it a hell of a good start to participate in an age-old practice of caring for your partner and doing it through acts of food and romantic companionship? Of course. Taking the time and energy to prepare life basics, as well as regularly and enthusiastically showing affection and attraction will always be at least part of a strong foundation for a partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: why are you you're Pill colourRed because I think the nuances of femininity/masculinity are lost on most women(/people), and the idea of 'submitting' to a man is immediately taken at its worst connotation and as a personal assault. In reality, I think given the chance to understand, most women would be happier with a male partner who they trust to lead them in the dark. Conversely I think most men flourish when given full faith from their partner. I also think society is so sick with obsessing over being progressive we are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 06:07 AM |
| 1 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Trust me, I'm not disagreeing with you. I don't think it's a good law, I don't think it will be enforced, I don't think it accomplishes anything it's meant to, I don't think it would accomplish anything even if it was enforced, and I think it's hollow legislative pandering which really says something in Argentina where most laws are "guidelines" anyway. My comment really just meant to provide some context because from an American POV, it's hard to understand how different the catcalling culture … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Lessons From My MotherBriefly: I love my mother, and I've learned great things from her, but I've also learned a TON of things not to be or do... Completely. Looking forward to hearing from someone who can relate! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/12/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Lessons From My MotherNot sure how much of that makes sense, but I see a lot of people that have the mindset that once things are settled, and they are successfully tied to someone - they have 'earned' the right to sweep them into the 'relaxed' and 'lower effort' box that generally goes along with the home environment. It makes perfect sense, particularly in line with sentiments like this and this (top post of all time from this sub lol). It's common to the point it's been rationalized pervasively. At a certain point… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherSure thing, here's a recent example: My boyfriend and Stepdad go out for drinks together; I'm on board because familial bonding and all that - fantastic. My Stepdad gets home and he's pissed at my mom...because R mentioned to him my mom offered to buy us a dining room table which he thinks is a frivolous expense (and I can't disagree). My mom's motivation for offering to buy us a table is that R and I work hard, and we can afford a table, but she doesn't want us to purchase something cheap that … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAhahaha, I can hear it now: "Hi my name is Tempy and I survive a Realtor Catholic upbringing..." "Hiiiiiiiii Tempy" | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My Motheryes. I am a recovering catholic. Youth Prayer Camp and all. I'm laughing so hard at how much I can relate. Allow you mom to win. Even if it just a tiny tiny tiny microscopic bit. I think I sometimes do this....but it's intuitive rather than any conscious strategy, and much like you described...the second I kick into overdrive it's "IM GOING TO MAKE MY POINT UNTIL YOU UNDERSTANNDDDDDDD." Not helpful for anyone lol. It is so hard for me to tell my mom to go fuck herself with her 2 failed marriages… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Lessons From My MotherAlthough imperfect, I think it's really great that you can have honest conversations about your mom's relationship and your own (to an extent). I have to credit her with instilling that willingness to mentally approach that topic with myself. I remember once (and this is hilarious now because it's so RP) she point-blank said "I date men I can control, and then I don't respect them." That's something, in hindsight, I can really really relate to with my previous relationships. This sub is what gav… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherI came to this conclusion about a year ago with my mom. It was a moment of "holy shit my mom is trying to sell me on catholic school for my daughter like she would sell me a house!!!". Total mindfuck for me. Omgggggggg you have a realtor mom too? AND YOU WERE RAISED CATHOLIC? I feel like those are two formative experiences nobody can understand unless they've also lived them. We need a support group for people raised by Catholic Realtors. I bet it would be shockingly well-populated hahahaha. Wha… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAlso being in Real Estate you have to understand that her job day in and day out is to sell. My mom does that shit to me all the fucking time. Do what you have to, to get the other side on YOUR side. It is a salesman mentality to always convince other people to come into your frame until you are proven wrong. That's a pretty astute assessment and something I hadn't at all considered, but thinking about it now I can almost guarantee you're right. it isn't so much a bad thing to have it when you a… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:49 PM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I have very little faith that a court in a country that passed stupidity like this into law wouldn't find a comment like that to be sexual. They would not find it sexual because it would never end up in court. This law is really hard to understand if you have no experience in Argentina...it's easy to interpret it as some SJW-win, when I can't imagine in a million years this legislation will ever amount to anything. If you're interested, check out this comment chain that offers a touch more conte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Yeah I think that's waaayyyyyy more accurate, it's all very hollow. Their whole inter-gender dynamics really fuel a lot of the catcalling culture too, which only reinforces it as a symptom and not at all the problem..but that's a whole other discussion I wouldn't really consider myself an authority on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAlready lost me. lololol He he he, sorrryyyyyyyy. I'll take this as a sign to not look into becoming a playwright lol. I build up in my head how things are going to go, how great they will be, how everyone will look at me and just applaud for my awesome planning and execution skills (not that I'm saying your mom has this mindset. This is me thinking) I think you're probably very much on the right track (that, plus much more..obviously haha). I was actually going to say, but then realized maybe y… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Maybe anywhere else it might...but I have a hard time imagining that in Argentina, which is why it's a bit weird to me they legislated it at all. The government and law enforcement are so unapologetically corrupt, and in a city with as much crime as there is, I doubt they would expend resources on a murder let alone a catcall lol. My friends were robbed at gunpoint, and it wasn't like a back alley thing....the bandits fortified an entire Starbucks starting with the staff, and then robbed every s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 06:29 PM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I commented above to describe what it's actually like over there...and the catcalls, while obscenely high in volume, are RARELY sexual in nature. So I don't see the new law helping anyway. To actually describe the catcalls...it's typically nothing overtly inappropriate (though sometimes it is) and seems innocent enough. But the volume is something I still can't wrap my head around. The most typical things that were said ranged along the lines of: How beautiful you are Hello my angel Oh my god, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 06:19 PM |
| 8 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I'm partially responding to this, Do you think it won't reduce the amount of harassment women face when they go out in public? Or do you think harassment, in itself, is not a problem? But also partially hijacking one of the top comments to offer a bit of insight, having lived in both the US and in Buenos Aires, Argentina. I don't really have a solution or definitive answer, but I think if you haven't experienced there yourself...you're bound to look at it through your own lens which probably isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsSorry it took so long, but I did it!. I'm sure you'll find it to be a sad example of exactly what you were describing. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My MotherAs it should....as it should....(sad laughter) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Lessons From My Mother100%, and I don't fail to recognize that she gives the best support she can give in the ways she knows how, which I touched on in an added comment: She genuinely LOVES R, and she only ever roots for me to have a better relationship than she did. Even the quotes this post is about.....I only have them because it was so important to my mom to help us get all moved in together. Any essential items we were missing, she bought to make sure we were set up well and she didn't have to worry. She takes g… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Lessons From My MotherThe sad thing is that so much of what your Mom is doing and thinking will be reinforced in the media by 'you go girl' culture, such as R not getting a say in how you decorate. 100%, you hit the nail on the head. And I see that attitude in her interactions with other woman. My brother (K) was dating this girl who was very similar to my mom (and my brother is very similar to my dad....so not a recipe for success) and my mom and her would sit around and tell man-bashing "jokes" etc. Things like: Br… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Lessons From My MotherAlso for fun, here are some of R's thoughts on my mom: We once visited them at their home, so R had a weekend-long exposure to their relationship dynamics. It actually lead to a very sweet conversation between him and I while lying in bed one night, where he said he understood much better why I have the views I do on relationships (RPW ones, he is loosely aware of the content we share on the sub) and why I take it so seriously. We talked about how important it was to always nurture our relations… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Lessons From My MotherSo my mom is not unaware of how she behaves as a wife, but she is completely unaware she has an ability to fix it, and instead has just 'accepted' it as a permanent character flaw. She told me in my early teens (just after my parents divorced) that her divorce was the hardest decision she made, because she realized both my dad and her came from a long line of spousal mistreatment. This is completely true; the dynamics between both of my my grandparents are completely toxic and ripe with resentme… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - December 10, 2016Ahahahahaha I love! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: ugly-but-hot and weird tasteI agree with this, and to me that's what breaks the "ugly-but-hot" threshold. I dated a guy in college for a substantial period of time who was by all objective yardsticks...ugly. Half Chinese, Half Irish - 50/50 down the middle. Oddest combination ever, and not in a good way. I don't feel the need to go on about how good looking I may or may not be over the Internet...but let's leave it by saying most people commented on how far "up" he was dating when we were together. I fucking loved that guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/16 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?I shared this thread with a super naturally RP friend the other day, and she told me a story of when she asked for extra cheese on a meal order in a restaurant and ended up getting it for free by being nice and playful, etc. Her SO was standing right there with his jaw open and afterwards goes "YOU JUST FLIRTED FOR CHEESE!" At first she was like "what the hell are you talking about??" and then after running through the interaction she totally clued in that he was right and was playfully yelling … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?I'm pretty much with you here. I wouldnt want my SO or H to hire an escort, but if they did it would be a completely different issue to me than being seduced by another woman. It's different knowing she performed a business transaction vs actually tried to poach my man. Now I definitely wouldn't say "Ohhh she was an escort? No harm done! Pass the milk, dear!" But it would be a fully different discussion. The part I would be upset about would be the why he sought it out as opposed to what actuall… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 05:54 PM |
| 3 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outYes to this. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 03:43 AM |
| 9 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outOk...in light of this information (and Phantom's comment)...here is my assessment. Side note: I implore you not to delete your post in an emotional reaction to what she said above. You married someone you don't really know. Here is something /u/PhantonDream09 said to me in a post a while back that I think very much applies here: Be aware of exactly how much you don't know about them and are still trying to figure out. Be aware of the fact that you've never gone to their place of work, have yet t… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outYeesh. Lots going on here, before an actual response - I have a few follow-up questions if you don't mind? Were you LDR the entire time before marriage? Parts of it? None of it? So you only lived together and had sex after marriage? You waited on both the whole time? (That seemed pretty clear but I just wanted to double check, particularly in conjunction with above question). Assuming I'm interpretting that correctly, how would you characterize your intimacy under normal circumstances? What you … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 11:22 PM |
| 5 | How Do You Define Cheating?my instinct would be to kill the offending woman You and me both sister hahaha. Common thing in our house: R mentions girl that's attracted to him Me: "If she even thinks about touching you the streets will run red with blood like the rivers of Babylon." R: "...I can't tell if this is hot or just batshit insane." I even kill his NPC wives in video games. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Well fwiw I meant open communication insofar as defining cheating in your own relationship, since interpretations can clearly be gray. Best example being "looking at other women" or porn; I saw your comment above and agree fully. That's nonsense IMO and will lead to resentment. As far as this I'd rather be blissfully unaware that anything was going on and not have my relationship dynamic changed. I'd also prefer to avoid being embarrassed by news of the infidelity being made public. I categorica… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?This is off-topic(ish) so decided to add it as a separate comment. Similarly, my friend and I were just talking a few hours ago about "things you tell your SO vs things you don't" -- not in the sense of keeping secrets, but more what is 'obligatory' vs what is 'neither here nor there'. The context for our discussion was a random (thirsty? lol) old school friend messaged me to say hello and then mentioned a few too many times he used to have a big crush on me. We don't even live remotely near one… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?I think there is a difference between 'cheating' and inappropriate behaviour. It's 100% valid to break up with someone for behaving inappropriately, but that doesn't necessarily mean it was cheating. I would consider any form of physical intimacy hard and fast cheating, and anything emotional as inappropriate...I don't think I would say I was cheated on, though I may end the relationship as a result. But also I'm not sure cheating is the worst thing that can happen, black and white. Some inappro… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016Hello other me. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 09:05 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Bring your captain your problem.This whole story is great (: Probably 30 minutes passed between him texting me and me responding, which probably felt like an eternity to him. While I really did need that time to think it through this time around, in the future I’ll make an effort not to leave him hanging for so long. I would not worry about this. You can't spend a ton of time training for a marathon, go out and do it, finish in spades, and then say "but I should have done it faster." Maybe one day with more maturation you will… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Sharing the load when it comes to making and running a homeWe divide tasks based on the convenience of the day, at least for now. There are definitely some activities I usually do or he usually does, but for the most part we delegate as needed. I worked 8-5 M-F, standard as it gets. He works a day job with shifts ranging from 10-7 to 3-midnight. He also has inconsistent days off, and then couple that in with running his personal training business...his schedule is hardly predictable. He takes care of virtually all the "office hours" type tasks. Aka need… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/12/16 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on interracial relationships?I don't think there's any moral/etc reason why one should avoid an interracial relationship. Practically, if it's just a matter of ethnicity I wouldn't bat an eye. However cultural differences (depending on upbringing) may very well play a role within the relationship itself that could pose avoidable conflict. I'm not talking about societal opinion; it's really no different than any other lifestyle divergences that could make for incompatibility (socioeconomic class, religion, etc). If those are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/16 03:31 AM |
| 5 | FR: RPW and financial independenceAMAZING!!! I have company over now so I can't read and absorb quite yet but I can't wait to (: (: (: Thanks for writing it!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/16 12:37 AM |
| 2 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!I don't even know enough to know what questions to ask! A lot of the women in the sub strive for the opportunity to be homemakers - you've taken an admirably proactive approach that could benefit anyone to at least be aware of. Here are at least some initial musings, you don't need to address them all but hopefully they can guide you getting started (: How did you first become aware of FI/RE and how did you educate yourself? What are some of the lessons, dos and don'ts, etc. that you would share… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsAlso, I find that often women like that (she sounds like a friend of mine) often marry men who they wouldn't have married if they were looking for a Captain. They drive the ship because they don't actually believe their guy is capable of doing it, and frankly he might not be. Hang onto your hat. My mom is one such woman and I have an FR in the work she about it. I'll try to have it out tomorrow! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsThis deserves a long comment but there's not much to say aside from well done. I love it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:42 AM |
| 4 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!Hahaha sass warning, not unnecessary d: | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:39 AM |
| 2 | First time poster here, I think I'm actually really RPW!There is this concept of financial independence and retiring early (FI/RE) by investing enough money that you can live on 3-4% of vested returns every year. Like you, I always knew I would like to be SAHM. I chose to pursue FI/RE my first real job out of college (before I met SO). I didn't want to leave my dreams up to chances so I was building a portfolio that would ensure I can at least stay home for a couple of years no matter who I would choose to spend my life with. I didn't want to limit m… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016YES YES YES. I loved her so much. I especially love that they didn't demonize her for being feminine and lovely. The only thing that made me snort was who she fell for (idk if that's considered a spoiler) - that rang a bit like a BP movie trope where the unattractive guy/gal gets the attractive guy/gal because reasons. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!So I feel like I keep making suggestions and he is not really trying to find a solution At this point, he's probably burnt out of discussions on the subject honestly. Something about a dead horse being beaten. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016LET'S GET READY TO TUMBLLEEEEEEE Installments One, Two, Three, and Four - for the uninitiated These hoes be thirsty SOUND THE SNOWFLAKE ALARM Beautiful, simply beautiful (reasons people have broken up with SOs) I...actually felt that perspective shift But like....I wrote it on my skin....so like...that makes it deep.... DAE look at countrysides and lament their lack of abstract bright red light configurations? ahahahahahahahahaha i quit AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I unquit Shorter list but enjoy :) | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 12:59 AM |
| 2 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!I don't doubt you love one another but I think you missed my point entirely. And I wish he'd set that pride aside and think about how this impacts me. He is thinking about how this impacts you - your family is judgemental and critical, you've said as much yourself. How do you think it will impact you and him as a unit if he swings the door wide open for them to judge and criticize him as a man, husband, and father? He is being prideful because he cares what your family thinks of him, and he care… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 11:27 PM |
| 5 | I'm angry but I don't want to be!I think Phantom hit every nail on the head so I don't really have more to add - it was a very leveled and measured response. But to add, I know he's nervous about being alone with the kids, and I think he's afraid my family will judge him on how he performs with them alone. They probably would. First you say this, where you really acknowledge your husband's concerns, but then steamroll right through them and dismiss thim without really appreciating how valid they are. Then you repeat again, And … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Monthly Caption ChallengeI'm laughing so hard right now. Bless Google images for leading me to this goldmine of RPW hilarity. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | From r/sex "My wife and I made up a 24/7 [sex game] that keeps things spontaneous."Sameziez d: | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Tips on being a better housewife?I think that's true of a lot of things and we likely all succeed/struggle fairly equitably. One may housework, another may be exercise and nutrition...basically all responsibilities that can lack fun or excitement d: | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips on being a better housewife?Haha thank you. It's all par for the course I suppose. Ultimately I want to transition into working part-time doing a variety of useful and interesting jobs (fitness instruction, babysitting, dogwalking, being a landlady, etc). It's easier to put in dues now and set up for long term success, but god damn if I don't hate my job/schedule lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/12/16 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Me time/u/whistling_dixie is being a killjoy...you come over here and we will get all the blankets and binge <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Any tips and tricks on how to make Christmas special for little ones!The special Christmas Eve present was always one of my favourite parts <3 Thanks for reminding me! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Tips on being a better housewife?I am not a SAH-anything so having less time to do things in a day makes it harder. I get home at 6pm, and try to be in bed by 930pm, and once you account for the time it takes to actually get ready for the next day and do normal things....I'm looking at ~2 free hours of time a day. It's hard to want to spend that time cleaning or doing anything after being at work all day....I really just want to play video games or talk to you guys in the IRC or comment on the sub or whatever. Now at least for … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/16 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionIt's really painful watching these videos. The idiocy of the interviewees is palpable but there's no justice because they lack the cognitive ability to understand how little sense they make. I'm paraphrasing another similar interaction as the one you linked (from the Vancouver SlutWalk) but it was equally obnoxious: "Are you going to be using these videos?" "Well it's a public space, so yes." "But you interviewed specific individuals." "Yes but all of them consented to be interviewed." "Okay wel… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Why Millennials Should Embrace TraditionWatched it, loved it, been binge watching her videos for over an hour now. I love this lady. SJW Response to Lauren at a Slut Walk: "I vomited all last night I was so triggered. Many other women were experiencing fallout symptoms as well." Lauren: "These people are acting like it was fucking Chernobyl." BRB DEAD. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016HAHA I know!!! - it was extra funny too because the day we woke up and realized it was raining on our move, I told R you wished that . I even said outloud "You know when she said that, my first thought was 'it will be fine, it hasn't even been raining lately!" ....our luck lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 06:52 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayI'm grateful to all our friends who went out of their way to help us move. R's best friend helped him carry furniture and my best friend helped me pack (not move, pack..aka the shitty part haha) everything at our old place. Best surprise? R's best friend and my best friend turned out to be neighbors. I'm talking they share a fence that we now jump back and forth over to go from one backyard to the other. Now we all hang out!! I'm grateful to my mom and stepdad, who helped us unpack and put away … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 28, 2016Good: R and I are done moving!!!! His office needs some attention and we have 3 miscellaneous "fuck it" boxes with small things sitting in a corner, but other than those things we are completely done. We started on Saturday of last week and finished Friday of this week. R never gets a proper weekend off, but by some miracle did the last two days, and he told me he wanted the house done before Saturday so we could sit around and watch movies guilt-free in our new place. We accomplished that goal … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Field Report: LDR Reunions, Joan from Mad Men, and Bye to Birth ControlWelcome back!!!! <3 It sounds like everything is going wonderfully for you, congrats! That bc anecdote is a trip. I can't say I know anything about it, but I have heard of this modern phenomenon (it may be an urban myth lol) where woman are taking hormonal bc at young ages, meeting their SOs, getting married, deciding to have babies, stopping bc.....and finding out it changed their hormones and moods so completely that they aren't even attracted to their partner anymore! Again, could be total ho… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 04:32 AM |
| 2 | TRPs fear of marriage isn't rationalJoking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 08:48 AM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?I can't imagine saying any of those flirty comments though. And maybe that's the problem. I'd just feel awkward saying any of those things. I think that is a problem. Imagine feeling awkward about that your entire life, which is what you are heading for without correcting the issue. One, that won't feel good for you. And two, it already doesn't feel good for your SO; he's let you know that. 'Awkwardness' isn't a good feeling in relationships. I try to attack it like a virus lest it spread. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Describe the perfect Match.com/Okcupid first dateI've only been on one online dating date and I would rate it 10/10. I had a great time and I think he did as well. We talked for a day or two before meeting, long enough to have a small sense of each other and short enough that we weren't wasting time. We decided to meet at a vintage arcade bar, that was an awesome idea. I walked in and he started texting me comically creepy things "I see you", "Nice shoes" and it turned into a game of warmer/colder while I tried to find him in the venue. By the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?Tinted gave some great advice, so for inspiration here is a list of things I regularly say to my man: "Mmmm. Is that mine?" (Casually indicating to all of him lol) "Do you have to try hard to be this sexy or does it just come naturally to you?" (Usually said while sitting on the couch playing with his hair) "Hey, that's a really flattering shirt. I like it a lot." (sometimes followed up with, "You're wearing it wrong though" and then I'll take it off and drop it on the floor "There we go, much b… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 25, 20163/19, ouch | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016It's after Thanksgiving which means it's Christmas. Happy Holidays! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - November 25, 2016Post back when you finish! This is amazing (: | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Self-Care or Surrender?Good question | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 07:15 PM |
| 9 | Self-Care or Surrender?This is definitely advice. Five years is a long time, any particular reason why? I wouldn't say it's going to be a red flag when dating per se...but I think it'll raise some questions and the answers to those questions are going to dictate the colour of the flag. You say you are finding yourself reluctant to completely surrender............surrender to whom? You are single, you don't just surrender to the first thing with a penis that asks you out. You VET. Heavily. The entire relationship is ve… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Nag-Jar: Come update us on your JarHey! Late to the game but I actually wrote a post about that very topic...hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWives | 25/11/16 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Thanksgiving Megathread!I mean.........I think we all want to know d: | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Thanksgiving Megathread!I just died, the onion gratin looks mouthwatering! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Thanksgiving Megathread!Eh who knows haha. Thank you!! I think they are pretty great and I'm really ready for some downtime with them after the insanity of moving <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Thanksgiving Megathread!She is great haha, my mom and I are super close, and R and her get along so well it warms my heart. The last time she was in town he was like "your mom does so much for us...let's do something for her" and cooked the most AMAZING steak and prepared appetizers and all kinds of treats. My mom is now obsessed with him (most specifically his cooking, they bond over kitchen things haha). I'm really excited for the holidays this year (: (: | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Struggling to find contentmentYou don't want to be stuck inside with kids all day, everyday, so stop it! I see your point but I feel like it's unfair to chastise when she's already explained why that's happening (kids are sick, not uncommon for new environments especially this time of year). It's also unclear as to whether or not she's the sole caretaker (she seems to be at least a vast vast majority of the time). Just "stop it" is a really simplistic thing to say to all that. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Struggling to find contentmentThat sounds really overwhelming and I think as far as what is reasonably human, you're doing quite well. And good on you for seeking to improve what needs improving. As far as advice goes, I think it's important to note I'm an unmarried 24 year old without children. Ultimately...it would be dishonest for me to even pretend to understand what you're going through or how it must feel (Pregnant or breastfeeding since 09? My goodness!) I think what you need is some time. Time for you, scheduled time… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Thanksgiving Megathread!This year we are going back to our family roots on the meal, and I owe my mom a big "I love you so much hug". The hug part: R's parents are...objectively bad parents. They have two sons, R is youngest. For whatever reason (I have theories but we will never know)....they don't like R very much..at all. So for Thanksgiving they already flew to NY where his brother lives to spend the holidays with him and his wife. R was not invited. R was 'invited' to stay home alone and take care of the dog. My m… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How many Friends do you have?People who would really go out of their way for me? A fair few, I would say. Best Friends K, we met working in a tanning salon when I was 17 (I'm 24 now). We are mutually each other's #1 go-to friend. A, my college roommate. We also worked together in college. C, my boss from the aforementioned job. Also best friends with A. N, she was my ex's best friend...I got her in the divorce lol. I also got her a job at the same place, so the 4 of us are mutually very close. A(2), my best friend since I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 02:46 AM |
| 2 | gifts for your manI WANT TO DO THIS TOO!!! Wth this is such a great idea, it would work perfectly this year because we just spent a lot of money moving so we agreed on a $30 gift limit. I'm not sure if I can scrap it together in a week though....ugh I guess we shall see. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] "I'm sorry. I was wrong."THIS IS AMAZING! Way to go. I actually had my own similar light switch moment, not worth a full FR but germane enough that I'll share below. I hope you feel now as great as I did (: We are in the throes of moving, and have actually handled it as well as we usually handle things, but of course..stress happens. We had a big miscommunication over some plans for a night/morning, and the end result was him sleeping at his parents (dog sitting, not a fight lol) and me at our old apartment...sans car, … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016EVERYTHING YOU ARE SAYING IS ME!!! I love that you make him potions and things, omg...this is so great. I'm 100% down to play a game together like actually. As long as it's cool if we play like, ridiculously inconsistently because life and stuff (I miss being 14 and having nothing to do). We should legit actually explore this idea. I am an excite. I looked up the mounts and awwed all over them! Ugh, this is amazing hahaha. It sounds like you play a fair few games! Any fun suggestions, specifical… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/16 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The "Have Great Sex Every Day" Challenge!Hahahaha don't sell it too hard! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Favourite movie twins and username twins!?? | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016LAWL! That is hilarious. You have to appreciate the comedy haha. At least you work to be a formidable opponent and strong ally haha. R and I want to pick a game to start playing together (I like video games but I'm in no way a gamer), and he said I would really like Skyrim. I asked him to describe it and I replied "So...like Runescape but better?" That turned into me: "OMG I LOVE THOSE GAMES. Can I fish? Can I garden? You won't make me fight anything right? DO WE GET A SKYRIM DOG? Or would it be… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016HAHA! Those feelings happen and you feel so justified until you take a step back and have a "what is actually wrong with me" moment | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – November 21, 2016After assembling our 9th bookshelf, we finally have no double parked books. That seems unreal. 9 bookshelves? This is like porn to me | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?YAY! Seriously tell me when you watch, I think it's great. R showed it to me and I've already re-watched several times. I hope you like it or I'll sound a little fanatic haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Ideal Male Characters in the Media?Napoleon Solo in 'The Man from UNCLE'. Also Illya Kuryakin from the same movie. Basically that entire movie was just me fanning myself. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The SMV ChallengeHahahaha we can do this, together <3 But seriously so here is my process: Shower, Shampoo/Condition/Etc While still in shower and hair is soaking, add a dollop of this and comb through (I just find it conditioning and nice). Put hair up in an old graphic t-shirt (less frizz than a towel!) When 50-60% dry, take out and add a dollop of this - It's like a gel but way more forgiving and it smells like cake. (It doesn't taste like cake. Don't ask.) Do my 6 tentacle braids...yours probably looks infin… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: SMV Challenge Check In - The Perks of Being a WomanHahahaha you are great. This is great. Bottoms up love! (I see CQ and I are playing a game of devils/angels whispering in your ear...) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?YES PRECISELY. I looked once and started screaming while he calmly cleaned up and told me to pipe down. Let's talk about which gender is more level-headed about feminine problems now hm? Hahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: How often do you lie about your number? In what situations do you usually lie about it and why?My soul is cringing reading this hamster "logic". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: How often do you lie about your number? In what situations do you usually lie about it and why?Perhaps not but being a liar does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Did you Grow up Believing Looks Don't Matter?I grew up believing "it's what's on the inside that counts" but that isn't the same as saying "looks don't matter". If your SMV is 4/10, but you're a kind and giving and quality person, you will also find a quality partner. That doesn't mean that partner will be an SMV 8/10 because "looks don't matter"; it means that person will probably also be SMV 4/10 but that's okay because "it's what's on the inside that counts". A higher SMV person will always have more options though. An objectively bad p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: When you leave the house or are coming home late, do you tell your spouse?I let my SO know anything that might affect him. If I'm not going to be home at my normal hour, I let him know (plus where I will be, with whom, and for how long); If I'm leaving at an irregular time, I let him know (plus where I will be, with whom, and for how long). I also call him about irregular purchases - our finances aren't combined but he out-earns me and pays for more things than I do, so my money isn't really my money...if it wasn't for him, I would have less spending money. Also if I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Paying for datesHaha that gave me a good laugh. "Well at this point I think social conventions are long out the window..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Paying for datesI always offer to split, and mean it very sincerely. I would not think less of a man that took me up on the offer. After all, I offered. That being said, I do appreciate it when he declines my offer and pays. As for your questions, Um, can you cite that? The last 3 relationships I've been in, I've made less than my SOs (all my same age). In one case, the discrepancy was 30k (me) to 100k-200k (him). What you're saying doesn't resonate with me in the slightest. If I (hypothetically) made more, I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Good gosh woman! You're evil and I love it! Some of these will be tricky, because we have cubicle half-walls and an open floor plan (so everyone can see everyone at all times...annoying for many reason she /: ). But my best friend works there and our target's goes head-to-head with mine, and my friend often leans over her wall to talk to me when target is out...so we could probably engineer some sneaky swaps and item rotations. All yours work pretty well to create lasting confusion (except for t… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Good point! I do work in an office setting. Typical cubicle farm except half walls and open spaces so any deviant behavior has to be subtle. I've heard of the keyboard key rearranging prank where you take off a few and switch their places, a good typist would go nuts with this. I've toyed with this idea actually, but problem is that will turn into a "Who did this?" (since the keys can't switch themselves)...and my office doesn't have a great sense of humor. Also, nobody likes the girl so I think… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Okay I do have one question, that I need my coniving little RPWs in on. I have a coworker that is awful in every way. I won't get into it because details details. But she is just horrible to have to work with and she is 1 of 3 people in my department. I've assigned myself a mission...I need to drive her slowly insane. But I need pranking inspiration. It needs to be something that doesn't affect the whole office, and I don't ever want there to be a "come clean" moment on the prank. I don't want t… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The SMV ChallengeI use the silkening gloss suggested by /u/QueenBee126! The man crack portion of this thread d: I am still convinced she has stocks in all those companies.... | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016Definitely /r/watchpeopledie (pretty sure that's the right sub name). It's exactly what it sounds like. Don't click unless you're ready for some NSFL stuff. On the other hand, /r/dadreflexes - it's impossible for your ovaries not to glow while watching. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - November 18, 2016I'm commenting to announce I AM UPSET. I had an off-topic question I really wanted female opinion on, I was saving it for Free Friday...and now I can't remember. It's driving me insane. I almost logged into the IRC to ask and then thought "nah Friday is tomorrow, I'll wait". IDIOT! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?This one is funny to me, I've been asked before and my answer is: Depends on the man. I can't really rate facial hair in a vacuum because it's always attached to a face, and I like what complements the particular face most. If I had a hypothetical man that rocked every look...I think I would prefer a short to full beard. But again, I like it all depending. R for example rocks the short beard - I absolutely love it. He looks professional and well-groomed, but it's still a great beard (: It looks … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?My SO has absolutely no ick factor or weird stigma when it comes to my period...I'm not really sure why because he was raised in a highly masculine household (3 men, 1 woman) and no very serious LTRs prior to our relationship. My best guess as to why he's so open is that he's a pretty non-emotional person and incredibly rational. I think from his perspective, it's a biological fact of life and reacting emotionally (being grossed out or whatever) wouldn't make sense to him. I'm completely specula… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The SMV ChallengeWait until it's mostly dry, french braid it into pigtails, and sleep on it. Wake up with fantastic bouncy texture! I always get compliments when I do this. This is what I do every day! My twin! Except I can't French so I section off 6 small chunks and braid normally d: Bless R for loving me despite my tentacle head hahahaha. But seriously this is my #1 do. It requires 0 heat for styling which I love, and then idk about you but I can get 3 good days out of this hair which means I only wash 2-3 ti… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/16 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Anxious About Meeting FamilyFudge is my go-to! My mom taught me that, when in doubt or if it's a last-second invite somewhere: make fudge. It's not complicated at all, dietary restrictions aside there will always be fans, and it's nice to say that it's homemade (: | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/16 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Anxious About Meeting FamilyNot Sunhappy and perhaps she will offer a better elaboration, but my interpretation is to avoid false flattery or laying it on too thick - either case is going to come across as insincere or brown-nosey. If you're going to their place, I think it's always appropriate to say "oh my goodness, your home is lovely!" (Unless it's clearly a crack den in which case refer to 'false flattery' point and then question your dating preferences lol). After that as far as specific compliments, do not overdo it… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/11/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOORIGHT?! It's so unfortunately backwards | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | User Shoutouts (:I've been not at all active in the IRC! I'm looking forward to life calming down so that changes (: R and I move in 3 days!! :D | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | User Shoutouts (:Also, I am of the opinion that there are several ways of conveying a message. I personally prefer to go for the calm one, since it's the easiest in my mind. Getting all worked up requires waaaaaay too much energy to my liking. :P I wish I had this much self-control. My emotions rule me far too often. My saving grace is that I can usually avoid acting on them...but I really aspire to work on controlling the attitude in the first place, and having a level head like yours. See! That's exactly why I… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPAlthough I will say that I've seen men all over reddit, even in subs where you think they'd know better, where it's clear that their idea of women is 100% based on porn. Would you speculate these high SMV men? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Technology And The SMPI love it! Do you feel like social media and the internet in general increases the sense of competition among women? Without a doubt. It has never been easier to compare ourselves to other, more idealized, women. All I have to do to scout my competition is click #GirlsWhoLift or #MUA on Instagram and bam, instant inadequacy or validation - all at my fingertips. How are male expectations of women being altered in this digital age? Heavily. I think the only evidence you need is icons of generation… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI'm pro-choice but think people like that who use it as birth control are fucking scum | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOHahaha one, totally love Bon Qui Qui. Two, I was at my cousin's - who is big into exercise and pretty fit - and he was telling his other fit roommate about R and was like "you have to see Bella's bf...whatever your lifting goals are, he's it" (which made me laugh because guys don't usually give other guys props cuz egos and stuff). Anyway the Rock walks across the TV for a preview and my cousin points and goes "Like that, he looks like that". I just about died. I told R and he looked surprised a… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOWHAT?! What on earth was the motivation for that?!?! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOOMG I saw a post like that on Tumblr and just about died. Freaking for real?? This is what we are doing now? | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOHAHA I love that gif so much!!!! Omg so great, I'm honoured. But it's true! I wish I could share somehow like the light he has in his eyes about it. He loves helping people reach their goals and earn the privilege of feeling good about themselves. He will come home and literally dance as he tells me about a client who was obese and failing in convincing themselves they are "fat and happy", and then share a turning point they had that day where they realize they are falling in love with their imp… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOWhat a novel effing concept haha. You go Glen Coco. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOORight! I think it's because we've been given too much control. I don't think there's anything wrong with the control in itself...but it's gone to the head of society. Thanks to advances in birth control (and I don't mean that sarcastically lol, thank you birth control!) women can choose exactly when they will not be having children. And unfortunately thanks to methods like in vitro fertilization and freezing eggs/sperm...there is choice over exactly when they will be having children. Problem is,… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayHe likes to send me screenshots of airplane ticket prices from here to any of the numerous places we've talked about, and he just sent me Vegas tickets - but I think we're actually going to go spend NYE (our anniversary!) in Vegas! I've never been there, so I am SOOOO excited! That's so awesome and cute!!!!! You'll have to tell us about it <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOBless you sweet pepe lady <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOORape is bad, and it's traumatic. That's how I lost my virginity (hello baggage!). But you can get over it. It's not some cross to carry around with you for the rest of your life, and it's no excuse to be pissy to someone because they "triggered" you or because they made a crude joke. Get. Over. It. You'll be fine. Life goes on. That's awful. I feel so much for you but seriously respect your position (and agree). Two of my closest friends have been victims of rape/assault (both incest actually), … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThat's me too. I would be personally hardpressed to get an abortion, but I see no need to impose my morals on hundreds of thousands or millions of other women. Especially those in situations I could never relate to. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI believe in nature vs. nurture. There are absolutely some people who are just born to be bad people. Some people, despite having perfectly loving, happy homes, turn out to be horrible. My cousin is a great example of this - her parents were fantastic, and her brother is super successful. She's a heroin addict who has been in and out of prison. She won't change, either. Ugh can I direct you to this discussion in the thread? I can't even. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThis is what led to helicopter parenting. Right? And technological trends make it easier than ever to do so. Those kids turn out effed up. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOOh noes it's an echo chamber! Quick everyone evacuate!! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOWhat are you talking about? I have no damn clue what makes people "bad" at birth, and who really gives a shit what causes it. Maybe it happens at birth, maybe it happens later - either is completely irrelevant to the point I am making. BAD PEOPLE DO BAD THINGS. Bad people will always exist. As long as that happens, people can stop fantasizing about a utopian society where you can do whatever you want and nobody will take advantage of you. Until then, get a freaking reality check. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOODoes he want kids himself? And have you talked about how that would turn out in reality. Then it's not something you "make him feel" but something he can weigh and decide for himself Yeah what I said is kind of our collective position. He's said he's 60/40 in favour of kids, and I'm probably more 80/20 in favour, excpet my 20 days are like "wtffff there's no way this could ever work!!!!!" and then the next day I'm like "babies, yes to babies." To me there's also an element of 'protection', in wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOUnfortunately, the loudest voices aren't always are rarely fucking ever the most conscious. ftfy | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | User Shoutouts (:me_irl | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOODo not complain to me about how hungover you are and do not use it as an excuse to blow off obligations. You are an adult. You chose to drink, and you know the consequences. Ugh right. This right here....why I rarely ever drink. Almost. Never. Worth it. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:34 PM |
| 10 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI think childfree (by choice, not infertility or other health issues) women are a plague to society, selfish, and something is medically and mentally wrong with them. Childfree people also tend to be incredibly immature, irresponsible, and self-centered - typical millennial garbage. These women can't think of anything but themselves and are too lazy to be mothers. Ok I want to actually respond too haha. I somewhat/mostly agree with you but want to add a very important caveat: I think it's the ch… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI think childfree (by choice, not infertility or other health issues) women are a plague to society, selfish, and something is medically and mentally wrong with them. Childfree people also tend to be incredibly immature, irresponsible, and self-centered - typical millennial garbage. These women can't think of anything but themselves and are too lazy to be mothers. Oooooooo now fight | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThere is this gross and bougie undercurrent of thought among some in the female RP universe where women are moralizing female nature and saying there is a CORRECT way to behave as a woman and I believe that is totally not the point of RP. The point is to understand male/female nature and then LIVE based on how YOU want to live within that understanding and accept what comes out of that understanding of human nature. Totally agree with this. I think it's plenty RP to get tatted up, ride the CC, a… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOOh I'm so sorry! Please, allow me to show myself out :3 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI'm saying it's a stupid thing to say. Saying "People shouldn't rape" is the same as saying "Humans shouldn't be born bad". There will always be people who are born bad. Some people are just deranged or mentally ill or make bad choices, I don't know. But if you think people shouldn't rape, then I agree but it's a pipedream. People will always rape and murder and steal and do bad things. It's a part of humanity, so society needs to not act like if you're passed out drunk in whore clothes in a bac… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOAt least you know your opinions are unpopular.....but I'm upset. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOPirating books makes you an asshole. hmm brb laughing too hard | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | The SMV ChallengeWe all kinds of synced girl ): | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:16 PM |
| 6 | User Shoutouts (:Lol when you have to put a family member in awkward obligatory parenthesis I think that's like your first, second, and third sign they are like the hunchbacked step-sister....ah well, OWNING IT! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:08 PM |
| 16 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI'm really excited Trump and Ivanka's childcare policy doesn't extend to men, talk about a great way to fiscally encourage reverting to traditional domestic dynamics. Privileged white males are yum. After this whole election fiasco I've started endearingly referring to R as my privileged white male scum. Having kids after 35 is borderline irresponsible. The potential for health problems rise and the older the parents the worse of a position the kid will be in growing up, and be preventably force… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 04:42 PM |
| 2 | User Shoutouts (:( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:Last but certainly not least /u/BellaScarletta. What can I say to a woman who is like the devil on my shoulder? LOL. I know I can always count on your for some juicy controversy but more than that, I can count on you for a laugh. Your posts are always thoughtful and honest to the core. Your absence was felt by me when you went away for a little bit. NEVER LEAVE ME AGAIN WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!! lol Hahaha oh god I won't - I felt like a crazy person for how much I missed my internet friends...dark days … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 04:25 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:Well you rubbed me the wrong way and then you rubbed me....the right way? Hm. Yeah okay, I'll stick with that. You rub me the right way Cooch (oh god what is happening). Okay you're crying at work and now I'm stifling laughter at mine. Boss: "Y u laugh?" Me: "Cooch rubs me the right way sir" | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 04:20 PM |
| 3 | User Shoutouts (:Hahahaha I love that analogy so much!! We love like family and we fight like family from time to time (; but most importantly heaven forbid an outsider come disrespectfully into our home...muahaha. You know the guns rights signs on houses? We need one like "this sub is protected by the 2nd amendment" d: | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | User Shoutouts (:Oh hey thanks!!! :D Gosh I haven't posted an FR in forever, I haven't even thought about it. R and I are moving in together this Friday though so I'm sure I can drum something up d: Haha I'm glad to know you like the Tumblr humour though cuz like....it's Tumblr lmfao. I won't be surprised when y'all are sick of that noise (even though I still have to read it every day!) | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 03:16 AM |
| 2 | User Shoutouts (:/u/CoochQuarantine - I actually thought of this post idea long before you became a mod, and what I had to stay then still stands. When you first started posting regularly I can completely admit I had a mistrust of you. I think it was the bits and pieces you dropped about your pre-RPW life, and sometimes I felt you came off way too strong with that background considered. But the more you posted, the more you demonstrated such a willingness to own your shortcomings and mistakes, and it was that st… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 02:49 AM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!Ugh. So much yes. But that's the BP narrative infused into our culture, most particularly media and all that. Anti-men jokes are the accepted narrative. I do my best to never make them or respond positively to them. I don't try to shame other women who do (because so often it's done thoughtlessly, which therein lies the problem but there's no need to make someone feel needlessly bad) -- but I do usually respond with a small smile and something to the effect of "haha I can't say I really relate t… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!This just came up on my newsfeed. I'm about it. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!Haha no I'm sure I'm the one that's lost. I don't frequent twitter often but I saw the blatant RP reference and was a little surprised. It may be a completely typical thing. I just thought it was exposure like that you were referencing. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!Hahaha I loved that. I can only hope it's legitimate but I love when companies break the script of what is and isn't appropriate to say d: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday!Still a little confused..like this post? Cuz I thought that one was odd. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post Saturday!LET'S GET READY TO TUMBLLEEEEEEE Installments One, Two, and Three - for the uninitiated I think we will start here today Well this is just beautiful. Art, really. I have a personal interest in this one. Wait, I just read the account name. Please excuse me for 5 hours. Ok, I can think of at least a few ladies who will love this I think we've all been here. Hahahaha the judgement is real I feel like this is not satire and Cosmo has done this article...stop me if I'm wrong. My favourite was Carly, … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Trump's child-care policy: Influenced by his daughter, Ivanka"This is a family issue," said Rep. Marsha Blackburn (R-Tenn.). "We know men always want more money. What do women want? More time. And we are thrilled to finally have a president of the United States who is going to put the focus on working with women to make certain you can achieve your American dream." Ridiculously accurate. I love this. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 08:30 AM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!I generally don't love the heavier (albeit flawlessly done) make up looks. One Two Three I mean, I can admit these woman are very talented and I can only wish I can do that....but in general my mind goes to "ick" when I can tell she's completely recreated her skin and bone structure and everything else. It almost falls into a sort of uncanny valley genre. This and this are far more attractive to me, and they're still a pretty full face. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/16 06:36 AM |
| 4 | FREE FRIDAY!Oh my gosh I'm so happy for you. Im sure this has been such a journey and you deserve the relief! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/11/16 06:26 PM |
| 7 | How can a wife be responsible for decision making while still giving her husband honor and respect?For example, what if one's husband has a life history of poor judgment and bad decision making? That should have been accounted for in the vetting process. By marriage, you know what you are getting..it's not a surprise. It may be easy to be a "red pill" wife if one has a perfect husband, but not everybody does. Yeah it's super easy when you just have a perfect husband ..../s Nobody is perfect. But we all find perfect for us by vetting, which is not easy or magical. If you neglected to do this, … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?At that time, I see a gradual warming to traditional male/female roles. Nothing crazy, but the feminists might quit railing against women who would rather raise a family than have a career. I hope your predictions are accurate. There are no words for how badly I hope your predictions are accurate. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 01:54 AM |
| 7 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?I typed out this really great and eloquent (take my word for it lol) response to how much I agreed with the point about illegal aliens...then my page refreshed. I'm really sad haha. But TL;Dr I am so bothered by how pro-illegal immigration people can be. It isn't even a matter of racism AT ALL. I'm white as hell and if I tried to live in another white as hell country without going through any legal process....I would face consequences. Immigration isn't some whimsical concept evil racist white A… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 01:47 AM |
| 5 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?How much of Trump’s speeches have you watched yourself, in full? How much of his original writing have you read, in full? Truthfully, the same amount as I have Hillary's...not much. I don't consider myself the most educated voter, but I do consider myself someone who gives their best effort to understand both sides - not that they are synonymous, but I make a concerted effort to consume media on both sides of any issue. I disagree completely with your characterization of him. There is a HUGE gap… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!So much agreement to this whole comment. Yes. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 3 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?You know, I just fleshed this out fairly crudely with a friend...but here is where I think Trump has the potential to do astoundingly well. The Republicans made the catch-22 decision to ally themselves fully with the Christian population; now, for better or worse...that's their base. The problem is Christianity now has golden handcuffs on their influence and presence. With Christian support, that's a lot of voting power. If they piss off that base..they're doomed. I've worked in politics for sev… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?No no that's quite fine, I'd like to think you and I get along quite well (..at least I can't recall any spats right now d: ). And what is this sub if not a place for pushing each other a little farther on opinions, particularly controversial ones? As for my answer...I have a difficult time believing it, but it does make a degree of sense. It strikes me as the sort of thing where one of us is very correct on paper, and then in application it will be just a mess. I don't know which one, because i… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Then I would probably not disagree, but also respond that unless he can be part of the solution...the chicken/egg semantics don't really matter to me. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:29 PM |
| 6 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?However, he will tilt the supreme court right, so that is still going to affect culture. I would expect feminism to become even louder as more 'anti-women' cases could generate support for their cause. I'll admit my bias as a social liberal to preface my thoughts on this...but I think this is very correct. I'm not sure if my next statement is what you were intending to get at, but I very much feel if he spends time fighting Roe v. Wade or Same-Sex Marriage or any of the social progress we've mad… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:10 PM |
| 4 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?Do you genuinely think a matriarchal state is inevitable? I haven't ever thought about it like that but I'm inclined to (kneejerk) disagree. I'm genuinely interested in hearing your reasoning. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 08:06 PM |
| 11 | How will Donald Trump's election affect inter-sexual dynamics and mainstream American culture?I don’t claim to be any authority on the nuances of politics or the complexity of its cause and effects..that being said, I’ll give this a shot with my personal thoughts. How do you think Donald Trump's election will affect inter-sexual dynamics? I’m concerned it won’t change at all. I think an anti-establishment candidate should have a positive effect on the overly-PC culture, but I think Trump is just too much. I am very anti-Hillary, but I am also not pro-Trump in the slightest. I really want… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/11/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Would you get an abortion?If you failed to take precautions, you deal with the consequences of your actions. Adoption is a thing. I'm uncomfortable with the idea of abortion being used as birth control... My personal views precisely. For this reason I never lapse on my use of contraceptives. People act like you can get pregnant at any second by tripping and falling on a condomless dick. Then they abort. If I screwed up that bad and created life...yeah, adoption seems like the more responsible and moral option if I really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Would you get an abortion?Are you prolife or prochoice? Pro-choice Would you personally get an abortion if you found yourself pregnant today? Probably not today, being that I'm in a stable relationship with someone I trust to co-parent with despite not being wed. I am pro-choice because I don't feel the need to push my moral agenda on others, but personally, if I had an unwanted pregnancy I would make every effort to see it through and not terminate life. But, if the conditions really weren't right..then abortion is an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 06:54 AM |
| 3 | The Lamentations of “Fun Single Girl” in the CityI've got to admit though, as the mother of a son I totally do this. I say to him daily "Son, brush your teeth, wash behind your ears and when you go to bars just stand there like a lamppost and wait for a women to appear on your arm." THIS IS WHY WE CAN'T HAVE NICE THINGS | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!Thank you for answering, as much as it would be nice to hear it's all in your power and every day can be perfect...it's better to hear the realistic expectations but that with commitment and effort they are surmountable. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!I've actually heard the same thing and had the same reaction - the negativity didn't really bother me because the take away was "this too shall pass". It can't be perfect all the time but it won't be bad forever either (: | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!What are the other two C's? (: I'm guessing being that it's Christianity, perhaps 'Christ' is one of them. Maybe 'Cooperation' is the third? Haha I'm sure I'm way off but I am genuinely curious! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Women Who Have Been Married For 5 Years Or Longer, Share Your Story!Oh I love this!! I do have a question. By virtue of the fact we all frequent this sub, we all share the similar mission of investing fully in our relationships and sharing as satisfying partnerships as possible. That being said, nobody is perfect all the time, and it would be naive to not expect challenges - especially over a lifetime. They say long-term commitment is valleys and hills, valleys and hills. I would think the goal would be as consistently happy as possible, rather than having unsus… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/11/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Simple Questions!Insecurity does not usually manifest itself attractively. This whole anecdote is one example of that. Now, personally I think some insecurity expressed healthily is actually endearing to a man and not at all inherently negative. That being said if you're insecure (as an example) about your weight. There's nothing cute about hearing a woman incessantly whine about a thing like that. That is something very well within your power to alter, and your insecurity likely stems from guilt that is not und… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Simple Questions!I think writing letters back and forth like pen pals is strange and childish behaviour for partners, particularly of that many years. If I'm understanding, her boyfriend spoke directly to her about what his friends said about her? So it was just the two partners speaking? (Wasn't clear if his friends were the ones speaking to her). I don't know. I think it's a remarkably stupid situation. Why would he say that to her in the first place? What was he trying to accomplish besides being hurtful? As … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Simple Questions!Yeah I do think there is a culture change on that. I think men approach less but ask for a date far less often than even that. I get approached a decent amount (standard compliments or whatever), but the number of times I've been plainly asked out? I'd be hard pressed to think of even a few. I think a good chunk of it has to do with online dating like LKF brought up...but I think another chunk is just the times. I can't really explain it. It's (sadly) very rare to formally request a date - I'm a… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/11/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingThat sounds gorgeous, both rings - but his sounds amazing for a man's ring. Call me weird but honestly I fantasize more about his future ring than mine. I don't care about anything fancy in general, but I could fan myself imagining his hand with a clean looking "yeah, he's taken" token on it haha, it's just plain sexy d: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/11/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Fruit Friday: Post all fruit related food recipes, crafts, memes and jokes here.Yes. Yes it is. R and I both are total wine lovers. However we've both had to take an extended hiatus. When we first started spending time together we defaulted to "come over for a glass of wine" and used it as the most thinly veiled excuse to hang out ever. We ended up going through 1-2 bottles a night 3 or 4 nights a week. By the time we stopped blaming the wine for visits we were both completely burnt out. I haven't been able to look at a glass in quite some time. That being said..we've total… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/11/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I'm 8 minutes in, have 20 minutes left of my work day, and have the strong suspicion I'll get to 28 minutes. Goodbye to the last shred of Friday productivity I had haha. Also, trying not to laugh out loud at all this is a bonus challenge! Thanks for sending hahaha, this is great | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I just found this guy today and do not ask me why but I LOVE HIM (watch until 1:10 or you can't even appreciate). This really silly video was viral on Facebook (that tongue cluck singing though...wut??) and I clicked some more links. I'm dying. This guy is so silly but clearly talented and I just don't know what to think. Sharing with everyone haha. Edit: Also because I know you were all wondering, there is a music video for that first song. He is an eccentric lonely man with gills who wanders a… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 10:49 PM |
| 4 | RPW & Social MediaHere's why happy couples post less about their relationships on social media. I definitely see a lot more "man crush Monday" and "so in love!" posts from friends who are constantly spatting with their SOs. Agree with this fully and I feel like it's something I've always intuitively noticed and known. There such an element of "SEE?? See how happy we are?! We are SUPER HAPPY!" I really think they are usually trying to convince themselves more than others. Whereas the couples who are actually happy… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 10:10 PM |
| 5 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingYeah see that honestly breaks my heart /: Like you know how we talk about how rejecting a man for sex can be very demoralizing (so avoid doing it), and then many of us even have admitted to feeling personally crushed when our man isn't in the mood - even if it's 100% for reasons not pertaining to us? I can't even imagine the amount of hurt a person would feel hearing from someone they just asked to spend their lives with that...I don't know..they didn't ask good enough. Like he can never do it a… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingHAHA! I love your updated version. We should send this in response as a readers suggestion. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 3 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingAlso for your amusement, there is a feature on the website it takes you to if you click to see their ring suggestions. It has a button called "Give Him a Hint!" and will send an email with the subject "hint" and the body just says "try this". Wondering how using that feature would play out....any volunteers? (kidding). | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 08:11 PM |
| 8 | 5 Mistakes Men Make When ProposingThis article was suggested to me on my Facebook Newsfeed. I'm assuming it's because I'm a woman of a certain age demographic lol. I'll admit it, I clicked for the entertainment of what they might possibly suggest. Let's Play: Spot The Cringiest Parts! My submission is: But women like things to be special. They don’t want what everyone else has. And what’s so special about being proposed to on the most popular day of the year to be proposed to? That Monday when she goes to work and show off her e… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/11/16 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Lol is that a suggestion to vote for Trump? Likely not going to happen. I didn't vote for Hillary or Trump in the primaries, and I don't think I can do so now either. I dislike them both greatly. If I wrote in, it would be for the candidate I voted for in the primaries. I know them winning it won't ever happen...but I dislike resigning myself to vote for people who categorically do not represent me. Some compromise will always be necessary but neither of our candidates do in the slightest. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch?(: | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 02:03 PM |
| 3 | GratituesdayI'm infinitely grateful to R for being so understanding of our living situation and taking my brother in. It means even more that he has his firm boundaries and he's never shied away from laying down the law. It's a bit of a gift given, when a man can be firm about his expectations and desires. Sometimes you pay a bit of upfront hurt if they express something isn't proper. But what you gain is long term confidence when they say 'all is well' that you can truly believe it. This is been wordlessly… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 04:40 AM |
| 7 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Every time Hillary says "As women..." "For women..." "Women need to..." I oscillate between wanting to put a fork in my eye or through the television so I don't have to watch anymore. Nothing has ever sounded less authentic. She viscerally disgusts me. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!But if you were genuinely asking, I suggest you try graphic tees and winged eyeliner. Send pics. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Lol there are viable routes to take that aren't signaling being an "edgy cool kids crowd" that are no less grown up than voting for a candidate that doesn't represent you. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Well surely you don't truly think I'll be writing in Darth Vador. This is banter. A write-in option can still be a grown up choice. I'm undecided if that's the route I'll take or not, but it's on the table. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:33 AM |
| 7 | How do I comfort my captain during a rough patch?Try focussing on his effort rather than the external markers of it, perhaps. There are dozens of reasons a person can fail at an objective, even after justly putting in all the work. This is a very difficult situation and yet attitude and heart truly seem to be in the right place. I think praising the vehicle rather than the finish line could be of some use. Praise his focus. His discipline. His dedication. His constructive habits. His work ethic. His drive. His motivation. His vision. His willi… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!Ooooo things just got interesting. I was not being nearly creative enough with my write-in considerations. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!...do you think he can ration out tax-free GAINZ?? If so, I think my decision is made. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Hillary Clinton's Emailgate Is an Attack on Women? Unbelievable!My ballot has been sitting on my counter for weeks. I don't know what I'm supposed to do with it. I'm torn between writing in another candidate or using it for a paper boat race /: Decisions decisions. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption GamePOWERBROWS OR GTFO | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 06:50 PM |
| 5 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption GameGame over | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 04:16 PM |
| 5 | 3RD installment of the Monthly Caption Game"...but I did everything just the way Cosmo said..." | /r/RedPillWives | 01/11/16 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionI can relate to this so much. It's amazing the things our men will take leadership over given the space to, and how infrequently they let us down. That's a lot of why I take qualm with that nonsense above about deflecting blame and "not being able to respect a man like that"....a man will step up take responsibility for his entire world. Then just because he isn't snivelling apologies to his partner (who is usually playing some role in the situation as well), that isn't the same as neglecting to… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionIt's a silly comment in general. I can attribute credit to /u/CoochQuarantine to noting this user is a certain person who keeps stirring up trouble in the sub. History search confirms - since CQ already knew, I was going to leave it to a mod to decide how to proceed. I just responded to her in good faith above rather than calling out myself. I like her quickness to demonize and suggest her elite standing though, especially given what we know about her relationship and her Husband's interactions … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionIf my partner wronged me, I assume he would take responsibility. That being said, unideal situations are usually the culmination of 2 people's actions. My partner has never blatantly wronged me in any significant way, most especially in a way I did not also play part in. It also does no good for him to apologize for things he cannot change. It also does not allow me to take accountability for my contributions to the situation. Apologizing for the situation allows us to acknowledge our roles and … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Sushi disaster (a bit melodramatic, but whatever)Time to push up the intervention timeline /: | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionNo she's definitely not. Then again, when they were going through the drama and I wasn't sure if it would last my friend asked "Don't you want them to break up? She doesn't sound great.." And I told her "Well she's not, but you get what you deserve. So I don't want them to break up - I want him to improve. If he doesn't, the next one will be trouble too. So as long as there is improvement, I don't care if they do it together or if he begins anew. But he won't get better than he has now until he … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionOoooo I've never been there but I'm sure you're right and I can't wait to hear about her adventures (you can see I'm banking on you sharing :D ) | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionI loathe cats so this has been quite the challenge for me...seeing how much confidence it gave him to have a moment like this though has made it worth it. But damn if I can't wait for that creature to be out of my space lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionWow that's wonderful! I had a university friend who studied there and he loved loved loved it. Hong Kong? I've been there - she will be completely swept away. I went to Argentina myself and the whole thing was such an educational experience. She's going to be amazed (: | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionExchange program?? Where is she going? That's so great!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionYeah that's been my attitude and so far I've been really pleasantly surprised with how we've all been doing. I know R was struggling with being over-stimulated and crowded this weekend, but I devoted yesterday to clearing space and doing housework that would make the environment feel better and he was really grateful when he got home from work. The better news is R and I have that new apartment coming up on November 18, at which point we will be nearly doubling our square footage. So the extreme… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionYeah it was really good to hear him say (: I'm going to give him some reading material (The Rational Male, etc) that can be more helpful than I can as a female. R has been great so far, he's been delivering more RP wisdom to my brother than I could even think of myself (back to the whole being a girl thing lol) which is especially cool to hear being that R has absolutely 0 RP knowledge, it's just sort of his natural disposition. My brother (and R) are bodybuilders, so I know the discipline is th… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/31/2016 Sexy Ghost editionThis week my good and bad kind of go together. My younger brother and his gf broke up due to general immature fuckwittery. She had been pressuring him to move in with her (and her 2 bastard children..), and his prior living situation got rough so he caved due to circumstance. That of course, came back to bite him in the ass. My family is all over the map, so it fell on me and R to set him up with us (500 sqft apartment..3 people...yup). Fortunately R and my brother are best friends (that's how I… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Halloween Para-share!When I was 19 my then-bf and I drove about an hour from our college town to housesit for his parents. From the moment we went to their house, I was just uneasy. I'd been to their house in the past, but they had just moved and it was my first night in new house. We have a vaguely odd evening (nothing specific) and head to bed. The way the house was, you entered front door and looked down a long hallway. Doors on each side had bedrooms/closests/etc, and door at end was his parents bedroom. So from… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/10/16 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Is my mindset too controlling here? Not sure I want to necessarily pick this battle but I thought I'd pick your brains to see if there is anything I can do other than bottling it upHahaha this is great. You're all great. Happy Halloween. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/10/16 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Free FridayTAMAGOTCHI. I'm searching internet now to acquire one. This is the happiest thing to be reminded exists. There's probably an app but that won't do. I'm irrationally excited. Edit: They're all like $20-$40!!! This is not right. It's not right at all. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayLOL. That is me all the way also. Uh, what is the slang these days? Can we just speak using expressly language in the dictionary? I hear it's pretty inclusive...we don't need extra words. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Free FridayHmph. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Free FridayHahahaha that's me. I only use the app, and work is a pretty common time for me to be on. If I remember though you're east coast and I'm west? Sometimes when I get home and on magical days when I have nothing to do...I flop on the couch and just chat lol | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayFuck. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayHahaha noooo...we haven't done that... looks around nervously... Idk I vary so much. I've actually not been on for a minute, but I think I'm always on at different times lol. PM me when you go in sometimes and if I see I'll hop on! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayWhich online test?? I want to do the same one you did and see what I get haha | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayBrb dead ahaha. That is beautiful. The llama. The most graceful of all the furred quadrupeds. If we are ever in IRC at same time we can do the same test my friend and I did (: Plot twist..you get a llama again. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayWe had such a blast - She's a tattoo model also so she brought a serious element of badassness to the design process d: | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayHAHA yes!! Franco the mug giraffe <3 All part of the same sick obsession lolol | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayOh three blow torch for sure. But it would be amazing...I've been tempted also....ugh haha | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayGiraffe is correct d: | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayHahaha psychic giraffe! It's a crazy inside thing with my BFF and I. She and an ex of hers met some hippie dippy chick on a vacation and the girl was like "I can tell you your spirit animal!" We aren't really into the mumbo jumbo but she thought it would be fun. She comes home and says she wants me to do it cuz it's cool and the animal you get doesn't end up being your favourite animal like every other test usually does. She does the whole thing whole thing with me and at the end I go "uh, it wa… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayOoooohhhh I see! Yeah, oh man, that would hurt like a b!tc# lol. My friends is underneath so different area. But both are bony as all hell which is what kills, that's why my feet were death too. Bony areas + Tattoo needles = Much sadness lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:28 PM |
| 10 | You Know What You AreI was always fond of The Husband Store parable. It's an unfortunately poignant demonstration of what you get when you neglect to be grateful. It is easy for us to rationalize an entitlement to more, more, more. It's much harder for us to truly take stock of the many wonderful things right in front of our face - especially when it's our partner we are taking for granted. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayUffff you did the sternum?? My friend and I did the giraffe tats together - she has a fat piece across her sternum and said it was the worst thing she's ever felt /: Wayyy too metal for me lol | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayWhich part of your body was the worst for you?? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayHahahahahahaha way too accurate. Well in my experience, both of my feet was like getting hit with a blowtorch thrice, my inner arm and back were like getting it once, and my leg was yesterday was like one plus an extra love tap for good measure d: | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Free FridayLOVE! I think it's so cool how you have that clean line dividing the patterns!? Seriously awesome. And this one was about 3.5 hours! I thought due to it being on my thigh it would be a walk in the park but it wasn't lol. It wasn't my worst tattoo either but it was way rougher than expected lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Free FridayGot a new tattoo yesterday!!! First one in 3+ years. Freaking obsessed :D | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A lot of men prefer low-N women because they find high partner count women grossWas more just referring to "gross and ashamed" aspect but yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 02:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A lot of men prefer low-N women because they find high partner count women grossMy dad calls them "mopeds". It'll get you home but you'd prefer your friends not know you rode it lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Had the ultrasound!Congratulations Kitten, I'm soooo happy for you and can't wait to hear about your adventures in parenting (: | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/16 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meWith few exceptions, women are notorious for encouraging their friends' dissatisfaction in their relationships. I think it's supposed to come off as "support" (fanning the flames of whatever feeling is expressed), and I also think there's an element of projection and not being able to stand anyone else's marriage succeeding, but I have watched my (conservative, pro-marriage, pro-traditional-gender-roles) friend circle "support" woman after woman all the way into a divorce by pouncing on small is… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.apparently in an attempt to discredit the movement as a whole. Still focused on this thing I said was not the point I was making? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Biggest FearsHaha I'm just wordlessly impressed with your forethought! Trust me, I need these instructions implemented into every official document with every contingency for my healthcare while incapacitated...and into the casket if necessary. Without you, I would have unwittingly been buried with a mustache. Bless you, bless you. Ps come into IRC and hang out!! | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/16 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.I'm not judging the legitimacy of it here. I'm not even offering it as a critique of feminism in the slightest. I'm criticizing your liberal use of generalizations when you're speaking for a group that you recognize disagrees....WILDLY. No, RP would not pass that test, but I'm not pretending to be a spokeswoman for the lot either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?The very one indeed <3 His voice sounds like dark chocolate, just saying d: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Biggest FearsIn this year, someone please help me with eyebrow and upper lip threading I'm dying, who are you and can we be bffs now??? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 07:31 PM |
| 12 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meShe doesn't accept that I don't want to talk about it with her and even says, that she will talk to my husband about how I do everything for him and he doesn't do anything for me. NO. I need bigger and bolder type for how LOUD AND CLEAR I want my thoughts on this to come through. This is beyond inappropriate and if someone said that to me my vision would have gone red on the spot. I wasn't going to comment because I think /u/hostwithmost gave you a great response and I didn't have more to add. B… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Talked to my friend about relationship issues and now she won't stop pestering meWhat has happened is you gave your nice family car keys to your friend, she's taken it for a joy ride through the desert, revved up your engine, you came home with it, your husband cleaned it as best as he could in his limited time and then she has gotten a hold of the keys again Hahaha I love this analogy so much. Giving family car keys to people for joy rides. A mistake we've likely all made to at least a lesser degree. You'll catch me extending this metaphor later I'm sure (: | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Biggest FearsI have had this irrational fear that I will somehow get a paper-cut right across my eye. This fear, and your accompanying story..is terrifying. I guess that will go on my list of eye-related fears. Eyes are just so sensitive and vulnerable. It's kind of scary to think how easily they can get injured and how impacting that would be on your life. Ugh, I completely have the heebyjeebies thinking about it now, haha. I'm also very adverse to risk, and abnormally cautious. Occam is actually one of the… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?Josh Turner Colin O'Donoghue Jason Momoa Henry Cavill Chris Hemsworth Jensen Ackles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.Again, you are absolutely incorrect. By and large feminism isn't about anything other than "woman = man". Put 1,000 feminists in a room and pull 1 out, that woman could not speak for the rest of the group. Or half the group. Or a quarter of the group. Or maybe even 10 members of the group. Some are going to be pro-sex work sans exploitation. Some are going to argue the desire to participate under any conditions is exploitation and that desire can only be born of The Patriarchy. Some will take it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.You said "feminists are those that fight for legal prostitution" with no qualifier or acknowledgement of the MANY other factions of feminism that would happily throw tomatoes at you for saying that. Get your story straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.Wrong. There are entire factions of FEMINISTS that insist the only reason a woman would engage in prostitution/porn (or even makeup) would be suffering false consciousness. Saying "feminists are those that [fill in the blank]" is most of the time blatantly incorrect out the gate. There are too many contradictory factions of feminism. Learn more about feminism before trying to educate us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.You're not wrong. But there are other parts that insist that the only reason a woman would choose to engage in those activities is due to false consciousness. And some go further to say porn/prostitution should be criminalized for that exact reason. It's all a mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Miley Cyrus lets random men at concerts touch her vagina.Lol you fundamentally misunderstand feminism if you think the converse of what you are saying is also not 100% feminism. Liberal feminism. Marxist feminism. Radical feminism. "I saw this shit on Tumblr so why the fuck not" feminism. All feminism. Some branches of feminism want to legalize prostitution for reasons you are saying. Some want to criminalize porn for the reasons the previous comment stated. They all disagree with one another. Don't call other groups ignorant when you have half a piec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Question For All: In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?In my world as it currently is, but just perfect as it relates to sex..perfect to me would be 3-4 times per week (with my SO, answer would change otherwise). In my actual perfect world (ie no job, etc)..probably once a day with a few days break every so often (again, with my SO). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Updates!Congrats lady (: It's good to see things looking more official, cheers to your health! What FAQ topics still need covering? I'm more than happy to help on those if desired. Let me know! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Biggest FearsOh goodness. This one is a "where do I start" for me. I'm such an anxious/stressed person, and I don't know why. I seem to have a complete lack of coping mechanisms, but I usually find that's true or people who haven't met much adversity...anecdotally anyway. I have though, but I feel like I "get through" rather than actually "manage" hardships, small but important distinction IMO. Anyway... Fears Scarcity. I'm terrified of scarcity. It drives a lot of my decisions for better or worse. It's not … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/16 05:24 AM |
| 3 | A Hypothetical Match.com profile: Is she asking for "too much?"You get to be picky about areas where you're strong, not where you're weak Agreed. Woman wants man with bulging biceps and a 6 pack? If she herself is a "curvy" couch potato, lol okay. If she's at the gym hitting it just as hard...reasonable expectation. That being said, what about "complementary" strengths, so to speak? Take a classic corporate wife (for our hypothetical, a quality one). She has income expectations, but she herself can bring domestic skills, run social calendars that augment hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/16 03:29 AM |
| 4 | A Hypothetical Match.com profile: Is she asking for "too much?"I agree with this fully. Requirements =\= entitlement, if two adults want to swap and are capable of swapping requirements like that...more power to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/16 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Why You Should Wear Your Wedding Dress EVERY Anniversary!Hahahaha fat insurance. I love it. I totally want to do this. Especially because when the time comes I want to do more of a cocktail dress like /u/sunfloweries shared with a modest budget - just a touch too nice for common occasions but very wearable for things like this. Also seriously, fat insurance. That's just great. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsMost female-male relationships cannot escape a sexual agenda, or the potential for one. It does not matter what your intentions are. If there are intentions... There are very few exceptions If you believe you have a friendship that is an exception, well there you go. It is an exception. Do you think that makes any of this advice less accurate for the rest of everyone else, who are by definition, not exceptions? | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Welcome our new moderator: /u/CoochQuarantine!Snaps for CQ! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionI highly suggest you start with this thread, if you haven't already done so. We've been physically together about 8 out of 21 months, so about 60% LDR. My response to this is essentially parts of that first thread: "Many women here are under the misconception that during their LDR’s their relationship is growing. In reality your relationship is holding at best, and deteriorating at worst. So if you’ve been in a relationship for only 6 months, and then been long distance for 6 months, you should … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Date Night Megathread!Please do! It's such a non-production for how lovely it is (: | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/16 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Date Night Megathread!I surprised R one day (some of you were in the IRC with me helping me plan out details!) with an indoor picnic. He. Loved. It. He talks about it to this day as the best date he ever had, it means a lot to me he loved it so much and we are just about due for a repeat (: I just spread out a giant comforter on the floor, killed the lights and placed candles everywhere, and got a ton of finger food spread out on little plates. Also wine. Of course. We sat and talked for hours and laughed and whateve… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/16 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionI wrote a whole long response and it went away ): TLDR our decorating styles sound similar, practicality over appearance sounds like a total man thing, I love the things compromising produces, I'm sad my thoughtful reply is gone hahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/10/16 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionUgly: I'm considering whether I should stay in the relationship because we'll have even less time together after I graduate (no more summer holidays for me), and I'm not sure if he'll want to marry me after his PhD is done in 3 years (definitely isn't going to happen before that). We need to have a serious discussion about where the relationship is going this holiday, I think, because we haven't discussed marriage at all other than that he eventually wants to be married (not necessarily to me) b… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi: 10/17/2016 The Movie EditionGood: The closer R and I get to our move-in date the more everything seems to fall together. We have very different decorating/living approaches and were a bit wary of how they would combine; he is all about functionality and practicality with little regard for how it looks, and I love making sure my place looks and feels homey and pleasant. This week we came up with the solution to ask of all our disagreements "what does it need to do, and how can we make it aesthetic?" Example problems we solv… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!HAHA! It's the black and white that really takes it to the next level. When you talk make sure to keep mouthing words long after you're finished speaking d: | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I go for costumes that are more...abstract I guess is the word. Like if I have the elements that make them identifiable then I would rather look cute than be accurate - hope that makes sense lol. Anyway for mine I have (most ridiculous thrift store find ever...) leather overall booty shorts hahahaha. Overalls. That are booty shorts. Made of leather. Marinate on the ridiculousness for a moment. Last year I used them for a Spice Girls costume. This year since they are plain black, I'm going to wea… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesHere is the book I was referring to -- I highly recommend. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 05:41 AM |
| 2 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesWoo! Thanks, super helpful (: | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 05:41 AM |
| 5 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI think most of us get obsessive with our readership when we first get started. I know I did. Day and night I went through the top posts as far back as I could go. If you want to improve, and it sounds like you do...it takes time. Lots of it. 6 months is the metric I use. That's not based on any science and it's no guarantee...but it's a good benchmark to look forward to for internalizing new behaviour. Read posts if you can find them about your man resisting change. Very normal. If you've been … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:24 PM |
| 6 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesAlso, look - I don't want to shame you based on your post history. But here: I'd go through his email, constantly. A few months after we moved in, I found out he was flirting and talking sexually to some girl like the week we moved in together. I literally still can't move past this. Every time I think about it I want to die. He didn't have sex with her, but I feel so awful. Just thinking about this I want to tear apart his computer and find proof that he's being untrue. I need some kind of proo… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 11:07 PM |
| 6 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesI guess what I meant was that I want to submit to my partner, but he doesn't want me to submit to him. Why would he not want someone who trusts him and his decisions? Asking him permission to cut your sandwiches diagonally isn't submission if that's what you mean he doesn't like. For the first year of our relationship I submitted to him mainly because I had no choice- we did not have a healthy relationship. That doesn't sound like willful submission which won't work. I can't speculate beyond tha… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:49 PM |
| 4 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesCooch judging Cunt >.< I can die happy. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 10:36 PM |
| 15 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesWhat is "this life" you want so badly? We all lead very different lives. There's no commonality we share aside from submitting to our partners - which it sounds like you do not do...at all. He isn't "becoming less dominant" as if it's some passive occurance like age. You are suffocating his masculinity. If you both identify as feminists, "this life" doesn't sound like it will suit either of you. he is no longer controlling, my emotional needs and trust issues have started to come out and he's be… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/10/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Hmmm what are your workout 'musts'? Like I have to wear a sleeveless top lol. I can't do anything with sleeves. But I know some people have to wear shorts or tight clothes or loose clothes or what have you. Then we can find something fitting and comfortable (: | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:16 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Hahaha if you don't end up winning for opportunism and authenticity..I'll give up. Just in general. Give up. That is just awesome haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!I saw that picture whilst conducting my preliminary research! I love how into it she is hahaha | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 07:13 PM |
| 2 | FREE FRIDAY!Thanks we are super stoked!! :D :D Our second place choice was Bugs and Lola from Space Jam hahaha | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | FREE FRIDAY!Omg Krieger would be amazing - I've seen some awesome renditions of that done. That would be a blast. The Delenn costume has crazy cool potential but I can't even imagine putting that together lol. I would be impressed. I did Harley several years ago and it was fun - I didn't have a Deadpool or Joker though so I went rogue haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!R and I are being Cruella DeVille and a Dalmatian....except I'm going to be the Dalmatian! We're genderbending, not drag hahaha. He's going to wear a super clean three-piece suit, and then his hair looks like this and I'm going to use that temporary white hair color spray on the small side of the part. He is even open to doing a light smokey eye à la Khal Drogo to make it more sinister. I'm undecided because I'm not confident in my ability to do it well and not draggy /: I'm so excited. Definite… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | FREE FRIDAY!WHAT IS EVERYONE BEING FOR HALLOWEEN?? I love Halloween and I love couple's costumes!! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 04:12 PM |
| 7 | It feels impossible to NOT be swept up by my feelings.I do this. Part of it is R being accommodating to the fact I process slowly. I let him know when I need some time, and I do what I can to process as fast as I can...but I do need some time to work through what could be a bad kneejerk and get to what's actually a reasonable reaction. It can't always be an instant-fix. Example, I get home and R ripped apart our bathroom to organize it better. A very nice thing to do and a time investment. I get home and...omg mess everywhere. I have a stress-based… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsHappy cake day! I can relate to everything you are saying with my example of my friend J. In the IRC while discussing this thread, Camille indicated the category of "brotherly/sisterly" friendships which I do agree exist (though are rare). I would say yours and my examples fit in with that category, and within the more vague description I offered here You met in some other capacity that creates the prerequisite of mutual sexual disinterest, and usually also do not spend time with him alone. And … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsHonestly I wouldn't venture to advise men on how they should act. In the IRC discussing this thread Camille did indicate a category of "brotherly/sisterly" friendship which I think I touched on here You met in some other capacity that creates the prerequisite of mutual sexual disinterest, and usually also do not spend time with him alone. But she did a better job of expanding on it. I do think that concept applies, and my example for that would be R's closest female friends. He has two, who are … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/16 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Helping a female friend with serious depression/problems who rejected me and has a boyfriendI think that's a pretty balanced non-BP/non-RP metric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 01:35 AM |
| 3 | After DB he changedHaha. NO idea. It's either a very dedicated troll (but I actually don't think so because of all the posts to other unrelated subs), or a sad person with an extremely aggressive form of weird going on. If she can be respectful (which she has failed to do every time so far), I'm not personally opposed to her receiving advice - though the mods way want to outright ban her. But I've chalked her up to a waste of efforts and won't be taking the time to attempt to reason with her anymore. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 10:00 PM |
| 4 | After DB he changedGood catch! I think I missed that one completely | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 02:14 PM |
| 3 | After DB he changedHey the stories get wilder every time. Maybe if we are lucky her next alt will have tales of patriarchal vampires and feminist zombies! shudders | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:43 PM |
| 3 | After DB he changedWe could have a running directory in the side bar haha | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:38 PM |
| 5 | After DB he changed/u/MinersSweetheart, /u/Steigertochter1, /u/Babara123456789, /u/Stockrose | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:37 PM |
| 5 | After DB he changedThis woman is beyond help. I was impressed she got this far with this thread though - I noticed she even made a few intentional changes to her writing style to throw us off lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:32 PM |
| 6 | After DB he changedYupppppppp, sorry folks. Pack it up and go home. /u/wisewildwive, good try. Better luck next time. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:31 PM |
| 7 | After DB he changedThere's plenty more. Read all these histories for full details then have fun picking fact from fiction. /u/MinersSweetheart, /u/Steigertochter1, /u/Babara123456789, /u/Stockrose | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/16 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsWhat do you mean? A male approach to friendships with females? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Be the Soft Place to Land [FR]This is such a great report and approach it's hard to add anything more than thank you for sharing it (: I would be so interested in hearing more about the systems you've created in your home and how you get the most out of them! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/16 04:26 PM |
| 2 | How do you improve RMV?I remember this post when it first came out! It's a good one. Sounds like /u/Littleknownfacts will shortly have the topic just about covered, but I'll throw in a quick bullet list in the order I think a man will notice them: Your SMV, obviously - Are you in good shape? Do you wear makeup or rock a beautiful fresh face? Is your hair aesthetically done? Are you dressed presentably? Do you conduct yourself with grace? Your demeanor - Do you come off as kind? Not overbearing? Are you humble? Are you… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Simple QuestionsHahahaha this is cute. Have you read the Surrendered Single? I highly recommend. It will give you such great food for thought on all of this. I completely understand not wanting to take advantage of people, but often what we are doing instead is rejecting a gift they are offering us, which is rude. If someone offers to help you, and you don't know them or it truly seems above and beyond - I think it's appropriate to smile and say "I don't want to impose" to give them the option of retracting the… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 04:13 AM |
| 5 | Can a RedPill Wife have it all?Agree. A person can't go to school, work, raise kids, keep a clean house, and be the perfect attentive partner. Something's gotta give and wisdom is knowing which are most important to you and your household and doing the best you can. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsWell for starters, nothing is inherently "okay" or "not okay" (: What works for you and your man is what is okay. That being said, I think group dynamics are a different situation entirely - particularly being that it's for a constructive group activity. If you're not spending time interacting excessively with any specific male individually, whether in person or texting...honestly I wouldn't be overly-concerned. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsSo in my case, yes, the problem IS me. But it's not because I'm bitchy or rude, it's just that I can't conjure up the necessary social energy and strategies to keep friendships alive. I like the way you approach the situation here, and that makes perfect sense. I can especially relate to the simplicity of male friendships that isn't there with females. I'm a huge extrovert and can get along with anybody. But to open up to someone in the way required for a true bond? That's very difficult and his… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/10/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsPlease do! If it's monogamous I have more advice to give than if it were open. Bear in mind again, anything I say will be my own personal two cents and not sub-endorsed in any way. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Male-Female FriendshipsLove-Bank is a good point, the sub doesn't have any official positions on the dynamic she is describing. And I did see Bi thing but I also saw Married - so my advice would no different (no friends there can be a sexual agenda with). Unless it's an open marriage, in which case I have no advice and neither does the sub. If individual users want to give their personal two cents, I'd be interested to read (love-bank is a very good one). | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Male-Female FriendshipsIt is admittedly strict. It's also a strategy developed with a monogamous heteronormative dynamic in mind. As a sub we don't have any position against alternative dynamics, but we also don't design our advice around them. If your marriage is monogamous, I think the advice should apply as-is, except replace "male" with "sexually oriented toward you". So a "safe" friendship for you would likely be a heterosexual female or a homosexual male. If your marriage is open, I have no advice for that and w… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsI don't understand. Why would the advice I offer you be different than what I posted to everyone else? Please elaborate. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Male-Female FriendshipsNow, that all being said, I provided a small list of exceptions. My personal story had no place in the main post, but I would like to add: I was absolutely the female who couldn't foster friendships with women. In high school and college my friend group was largely male. I not-so-quickly realized: If you are one of the many women who have said something similar to "I just get along better with men, women are so [fillintheblank]" - All other women are not the problem in this equation; the problem… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!I agree with most of this. His entire conduct is what I don't respect, but how he speaks to other men in private conversation doesn't make the list of things I care about. I don't find him to be alpha, and I do find his behaviour validation-seeking and generally cringeworthy. But I also don't think it makes him all the things he's being accused of. As far as the woman being in positions where they didn't have space to dissent (professional, fear for their jobs or similar)....I just don't feel I … | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!These are my feelings. If it did happen - A rich and powerful man has woman that will fall all over him? Noooooo, you don't say. If it didn't happen - A man made sexual comments in a private conversation? Noooooo, you don't say. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 05:01 PM |
| 2 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!Agree fully. Both parties just push whichever agenda is most convenient for them at that specific moment, with no regard for hypocrisy. Even look at The Obama/Cruz birth certificate controversies. Now I think both those events were idiotic in the first place, but it goes to show it's all about what benefits your party most right then and there. The democrats don't care they have no room to talk on this issue. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 05:00 PM |
| -1 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!Right? It was clearly hyperbolic and even if it wasn't, something something about consenting adults. I seriously doubt he meant he actually grabbed an unwilling woman by the pussy, and the people making out this talk as evidence are pushing a paper thin agenda. I've said far more lewd comments in private company. It was just banter. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 04:56 PM |
| 2 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!This pretty much sums up my feelings. I find neither of them presidential in the slightest. I think Hillary does understand the arena better but trusting her to navigate within it is a different story. Trump I wouldn't trust with a butter knife. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | "Trump's lewd comments about women" - Chime in!Lol wise words. I don't understand the outburst. Well, I do...but it's the same reactions that fuel the whole age of offendedness business. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 04:52 PM |
| 8 | So frustrated...My problem is my EXTREMELY passive personality. I WANT to be able to tell her that she treats her man like crap, but all that comes out is, "Well... maybe... what if..." namby-pamby passive nonsense. That's not a problem; not inserting yourself into other people's business isn't a problem. I never recommend giving advice to others. That being said, I will do so if I can do so with the confidence it isn't coming off as self-righteous, pushy, or anything other than a suggestion that may be ignored… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!I saw this on my Facebook feed. I almost vomited. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!I can totally do that! I was worried it would actually be in bad taste, I'm not sure why. Probably because I don't talk politics too often, though this is more of an isolated issue. Cool (: | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!Here is my actual "free topic" post. I just had this discussion with a co-worker right now. To be clear, I'm not starting a political debate. I do not support Trump. I do not like Trump. I do not support Hillary. I do not like Hillary. That being said, this article/video is going around on Mr. Trump, and everyone is up in arms. As much as I dislike the man, this video isn't upsetting to me at all. This is the following discussion and I think the points I'm making are very RP and wondering if oth… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday!!That's actually the most fantastic anti-book argument ever. BUT I CARE NOT. I shall continue to educate myself (cough read harry potter cough) DESPITE the decimation of forests and breathing fuel! Muahahahahahahaha!! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!I NEED HIM | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!I've got raw cookie dough and all the fixings for a kahlua milkshake in my work's fridge right now.....so I understand. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday!!I've never seen that before, but I'd like to thank all my amazing fans for showing me such dank memes... | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday!!Well, usually I stick this on Shit Post Saturday, but because my fans have been asking...okay one fan...just /u/whistling_dixie....but still, that pretty much makes me RPW-famous....Anyway, here is the next installment of: LET'S GET READY TO TUMBLLEEEEEEE (Installments One and Two, for the uninitiated) u sound like a treat Tumblr...Occasionally RP There's a lot of text here - I'm actually interested in your thoughts? Comment! #MiniCaseStudy pssst, no, no he does not I'm not sure what's happening… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" PostThey definitely don't mean well. Their official position is that they are a satire sub, and the entire purpose of the community is to mock us for who we are and our beliefs. That's not untrue. I suppose my hesitance to brand a group of people is well..the same way I hate when they cast generalizations about us. I haven't had many, but there have been at least a few positive interactions with individual TBP posters. On the whole...you're right, their words are usually very intentionally hurtful. … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | SolipsismThis phenomenon in women is best described as relating everything around her to her own experiences and feelings. Anything that a woman has not experienced herself, or at least been witness to, is far more difficult to comprehend or even believe. We hear something and we immediately go inside the file box in our brains to consider if we can empathize or sympathize with it (it also manifests in how any given situations will affect us personally, which in relating to the men in our lives, conflate… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/10/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" PostI'm sorry you felt that way but I completely understand. TBP, I would like to believe, genuinely means well in its existence...but sometimes the cruelty of their words and judgements passed is an irony lost on many. In particular, I found myself offended at the TBP comments to my "Importance of Sex" post I made. Despite it being a clear celebration of intimacy, I was reading dozens of comments about how my "alpha RP boyfriend" just "jackhammers away" and of course that's why sex is so unpleasant… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 11:13 PM |
| 12 | He doesn’t say ‘thank you’ anymoreDamn. sits back and reflects on everything I've done this month to make sure it's sincere. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" PostThat's a great choice - I feel like you selected the secret option of wisdom itself haha | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 06:30 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" PostThe best was the TBP post about it. The title was like "RPW are getting dreaded by furniture. I quit." Hilarious. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | "Your Favourite Post" PostMeta is fun. We like to have fun around here, Cooch. But for real, you want my favourite FR series ever? Boom Boom And boom #GoTeam #NeverForget | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" PostM'lady.... Great choice! She sure has a way with telling it like it is d: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 05:32 PM |
| 2 | "Your Favourite Post" PostHahaha hey that's mine! First one of the thread, I'm honoured d: (Some may not realize I was also /u/BeautifulSpaceCadet lol). But thank you, I've really found having a less abrasive mindset improves my quality of life, as well as for those around me (: Ageee fully with the the Essential Post comment, they're obviously chosen with great care and I can never recommend them enough to all users, new or old! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 04:51 PM |
| 3 | "Your Favourite Post" PostSo for mine, This is my all time favourite post. I really appreciate how clear it is and what excellent methods it offers for qualifying some very abstract concepts - it's just amazing language to work with and I can't explain how often I catch myself referring to it when drafting posts or comments. That being said, choosing off the Essentials list is basically cheating which is why I included it in the thread (: As far as non-essential posts go, here are my real responses: This is one of my fav… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 04:29 PM |
| 1 | October 2016 EventsHahaha yeah I suppose I have to imagine I'm not. Get a group of 1,500 women together and that would be a serious act of snowflaking to think I'm the only one d: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 02:59 PM |
| 1 | October 2016 EventsI feel confident knowing you're backing me and you know, might light them on fire or something d: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyThe reason women are attracted to their BB in the beginning, is because the newness of the relationship, the new relationship energy, provides the excitement, and the beta's social proof is also exciting at first: the woman is meeting all sorts of new people and friends of his. The problem is that, because the excitement didn't originate with the beta, that excitement wanes after a period, although the social proof will still be an attractive quality. I really like this clear explanation on how … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating Strategybut you don't need your boyfriend to be affectionate with you when you have a hundred guys complimenting you on Instagram. I 100% deleted my social media for this reason. It's so true. It was even years before I found RPW, just something I intuitively felt. I noticed I wasn't motivated to find a partner when I could outsource compliments to IG and conversation to Tinder or OKC, despite the fact I never had any intention of meeting anyone (read: online emotional tampons). I don't understand what … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3This is awesome. You are awesome. I love it. The thing too is, it's not as if 100% of the women agree on 100% of the issues here either. But this is a sub dedicated to a line of thinking, and if your opinion goes against the grain this isn't the place to express it (I don't think any of us would go into a Christianity sub and post things like "weeeeelllll the atheists really have a point...." lol). So that being said I hope you participate! Stepford brainwashing not required (; | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Inspirational womenThank you for sharing. I lived in Buenos Aires and regularly used the Plaza de Mayo subte (subway) station. The signs are still there every day begging the president for more information about the desaparecidos ("the disappeared"). The mothers are a tragic, but powerful example of female strength and camaraderie - particularly when it threatens their community. My example I'll use is Teachers. Depending on your country, their status may be for better or worse, but their power and dedication is c… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 04:07 AM |
| 7 | Littleknownfacts Presents: The Female Dual Mating StrategyGreat post!!! I wrote "A Case Against Male Friends" post - when it gets edited/approved (paging /u/Camille11325) for our FAQ material I feel it could seriously complement the Beta Orbiter segment of this. I think in terms of the dual mating strategy, you're right about it not being as common as it's discussed for women to consciously go for an AF then BB. That being said, Whether or not that time then turns into sex is dependent on the man. Women rarely get into relationships with people they ar… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 03:43 AM |
| 3 | October 2016 EventsAs one of the crazy most anxious people around...I'm really looking forward to the Biggest Fears thread. Most of my fears are very reality-based (aka no fictional monsters...mostly). I'm very interested to take the time for an honest assessment, hearing from people who may have the same fears, have overcome the same fears, or have overcome the actual situations themselves. Hopefully nobody makes fun of the internal strife I'm talented enough to spur completely out of place lol, or maybe it will … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/16 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Gratitude TuesdayRight! I'm just counting down the days (: | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Gratitude TuesdayThanks!! November 18 - I can't wait :D | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What's In Your Bag?!My purse is usually quite organized. Right now it's a little lacking...but I have Main Compartment Full-sized bulky wallet with everything I may need (I rarely use it) Small wristlet wallet with my every day cards and needs. It's amazing because it has a slot for my phone and a wrist strap, so often I lock my purse in the trunk or something and grab the small one to go. A crappy wallet with every gift card or coupon ever (Why do I have so many wallets) Whatever book I'm reading Toothbrush/toothp… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Gratitude TuesdayR and I got approved for an apartment today!! Our move-in date isn't for a couple months but I am over the moon. I've never lived with an SO before and somehow I'm not nervous at all. It feel so perfect and I'm so excited. Also (and I'm never usually this lucky) - we got approved for the apartment we loved the most, which ended up being the most affordable. It's under our designated budget. IM SO EXCITED. I was in a car accident where the other driver was at fault, and it's taken over a month to… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 10:25 PM |
| 4 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Hey Lollie - That's a great chunk of time you've enjoyed with your man so far! I can't wait to read more from you in the sub and hear all about it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 02:56 PM |
| 7 | RPW HAS 1500+ SUBSCRIBERS! LURKERS AND NEW WOMEN INTRODUCE YOURSELVES, EVERYONE COME CHAT <3Lurkers determined to lurk :| we will find you | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/16 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenHahaha! You are completely correct - I've watched this video a dozen times and never noticed. Shame shame HIMYM. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/10/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.I'm glad you found it helpful. Again, I actually don't advocate for male-female friendships, but not because females make bad friends. Rather, the genders make better friends for each other. Focus on fostering male companionship, as I have done female. You'll probably make a few female ones by proxy, but there's no need to go looking for them. Above, I listed that I largely have 7 best friends (I actually forgot one I made through work, so make it 8).. Of those 8 people, 6 of them are female, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!We all love you anyway (: | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Let's Celebrate Female Beauty!I'm not going to lie it's been there a few days and I've been stalking your comment history waiting for you to notice.. #StalkerButAHarmlessOne | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 06:47 AM |
| 3 | A bit overwhelmed and struggling to meet the feminine idealHonestly I'm not going to say much because you have more going on here than I could ever understand. I hope someone in a more comparable position can chime in. That being said, I think the answer is really just learning to triage, and your husband understanding that and helping you choose your family's priorities. I don't see how you can take a magic pill and accomplish all this at 100% across the board. From what you're saying here, an example response would be prioritize homeschooling, then co… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/16 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Caption Challenge #2"MY FUR IS NOT AS SOFT AS WHOSE?!?? HOW WOULD YOU KNOW HOW SOFT NALA'S FUR IS? YOU HAVE NO ROOM TO BE TALKING ABOUT THE SUPPLENESS OF MY FUR OR ANYONE ELSE'S BUT I'LL BE DAMNED IF YOU DON'T HAVE SOME EXPLAINING TO DO --DON'T YOU BACK UP WHILE IM TALKING TO YOU, I THOUGHT I MARRIED THE LEADER OF THE PACK NOT THE COWARDLY LION--DONT YOU INTERRUPT ME!!! ILL BE DAMNED IF I DIDNT KNOW THE OTHER LIONNESS BE PREYING ON MY MAN. BUT LORD IF I EVER THOUGHT HE'D LET THEM!! NOW YOURE INSULTING MY MANE? GOD … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/10/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.And here is my expansion to you on what I said above: Are my friends the norm? I don't know. There are a lot of good people in the world but also a lot of bad ones. But they are my norm. You find amazing friends by being an amazing friend, which takes time and effort. Over the years I have met and befriended many people like what you are describing - that's life. The difference is choosing to sink to that quality or rise above it. Every failed friendship is a learning experience. What did you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.I did when I was younger but I've spent years honing my friendgroup. My friends and I were just talking about this last night. A friend i have (E) has been going through a rough time. I've been synpathetic but finally it got to the point where all she did was complain complain complain and it was just killing me. I was nervous but finally told her "I love you, I want to listen to your problems, I will always help you find solutions.....but all the negativity has to stop. It's making things worse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Smug alert!That is a perfect Saturday morning! Sounds so magical - Well done (: | /r/RedPillWives | 01/10/16 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Starting a little early, Welcome Rollo Tomassi Everyone!I don't have children yet. Obviously involvement is invaluable, but it can certainly be daunting to think the influence teachers and other figures have in a child's life, and mitigate male feminization without inadvertently micromanaging or being a "helicopter parent". Perhaps it's more intuitive once you're there but as a non-parent it can seem insurmountable the views society impose...most of us have been affected. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/16 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Starting a little early, Welcome Rollo Tomassi Everyone!Do you have any actionable suggestions for how the individual family can nurture the masculinity of their children, and offset the damage you describe above? Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/16 11:02 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenYou. Are. Welcome. I quote this whole thing way too often. "And I'm not just talking about you hemorrhoidal ladies (; " | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:40 PM |
| 3 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenPlease tell me this is what you're referring to... (and if it isn't...watch!) | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:29 PM |
| 6 | The Hot/Crazy Matrix - A Man's Guide to WomenThe Vicki Mendoza Diagonal! HIMYM anyone?? I love it. This version is way more hilarious though. I'll show R the unabridged version but we've talked about the VMD before (I hereby propose this acronym be accepted in the sub repertoire). I asked where I was and he said "oh you're riding the upper end of the diagonal hard, you've got no room for error dear." Many laughs were had but then I plotted his demise for making such a joke. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.Okay to start, I don't advocate for male-female friendships under the vast majority of circumstances. So I'm not trying to convince anyone to do that. That being said...your reasoning is well, not based on reason at all. It's dumb. You clearly know only a very specific demographic of women, and if they're able to treat their male friends this way, then also a very specific demographic of men. Who makes these "demands"? What kind of guy gives into them? And they must be vapid as all hell to consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.Lollll I'm getting on IRC I hope you're there | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.Haha shush you, in my imagination you are never messing up...just petting your taxodermied squirrels compulsively d: | /r/RedPillWives | 30/09/16 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.If you tie a brick around a child's head at birth, in 10 years he's going to say "what brick?" If you remove it, he'll realize how much extra weight he's been carrying. If I inexplicably became a man...I suspect I'd realize what a massive headache I've had all my life. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Navigating my marriage via the cesspit that is my brain aka - look deeply into your feelings before you get cross with your husband.Great reflection - It's a lot harder to share areas we've failed rather than Field Reports espousing how wonderfully we are doing, but honestly I think we learn more from the former. That hamstering you're describing is so easy to appear in situations big and small. I get home to a sink full of dishes when I cleaned everything that morning? After a minute I realize "hey, he hasn't been home doing nothing all day", but my initial reaction is sometimes based on that false thinking. I think 80/20 i… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi, AMA, Friday at MRP. Come join!Thanks!! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women make bad friends and should be avoided in general.Can you say a few reasons why? Give us something to work with here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/16 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Shave your face!If it helps once a long time ago I bit the bullet and did it, but then never followed up. It wasn't a really big deal to try it and then decide against it. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Shave your face!Threading! Praise Jesus I love it so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 03:53 AM |
| 2 | ..."he is a creature of the feminists’ own self-righteous making."Haha! Not right now but I can get a good list going in a few short days if the demand is there d: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/16 12:08 AM |
| 2 | A ConfessionHahaha I can vouch for slip ups. I goofed bad twice this week. Twice. Grand scheme were they big mess ups? Not really. Were they immature behavior and completely out of line? Definitely. I felt like total crap. I apologized for each immediately after. But then I sat down again and acknowledged that despite hearing my apologies on each incident, I really needed to emphasize how unacceptable my attitude was and how little he deserved it. He was very matter-of-fact "Yes. You acted like a brat. Woul… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 11:26 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It's really never advantageous for a woman to reveal she has a high N-countYeah, I would never lie about N-count to an LTR (or potential one). Or even lie by omission. I'm with /u/Sardonis70 - it's going to come out sooner or later, somehow. My N-count isn't crazy high, but it isn't low either (10-15 range). That's something I'm very intentionally upfront about. It's not first date material but it should be discussed before exclusivity. What if it doesn't come up organically, but he has a fundamental problem with it? One, why waste his and my time and get invested. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Ladies: How soon after you give a guy your number do you expect him to text/contact you?IMO good call if you're even moderately high SMV (which you describe yourself as and I'm inclined to believe because why not). A few hours after makes me think he knows what he wants and isn't shy or intimidated. Two days later and I assume he sat there and thought "I'll wait two days so I don't seem desperate"...which makes him seem desperate. That being said, I think the key is really context. If it was an awkward beta (though not sure why I would give my number to someone I describe poorly bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Ladies: How soon after you give a guy your number do you expect him to text/contact you?I see it the opposite lol (though your reasons also make sense to me). A few hours after makes me think he knows what he wants and isn't shy or intimidated. Two days later and I assume he sat there and thought "I'll wait two days so I don't seem desperate"...which makes him seem desperate. That being said, I think the key is really context. If it was an awkward beta (though not sure why I would give my number to someone I describe poorly but hypotethically anyway), then an immediate text would s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/16 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Shave your face!Oh my god I love her. Best demeanor - the soft but 'I'm not kidding' deadpan was a hardcore sell. Brb heading to Amazon. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Parenting in the NudeI also think it depends on comfort of child. Like with my brother my mom was initially cavalier, but then I think as he passed a threshold she backed off a bit and made sure to cover up. But he kept barging into her room without being phased at all so she stopped caring to censor if he wasn't even playing ball. At a certain age he naturally started avoiding closed doors or knocking and it all found it's own equilibrium lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 06:04 AM |
| 5 | Parenting in the NudeYeah my mom never just walked around nude, but if I was in the room and she needed to change or shower? Yeah no my presence wasn't going to change her agenda. It still doesn't. I never thought any way about it. My parents were really Catholic growing up and actually had a very conservative/aggressive position on sex (or lack thereof). But then they grew away from the church and now my mom is way more modern with her attitudes. But as far as family nudity goes I don't think anyone ever thought tw… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Parenting in the NudeSee I had the opposite experience. I never cared or thought any way about it. My mom never just walked around nude ever, but changing or showering? My presence wasn't going change her agenda. I wonder if it's a personality thing or other variables in family dynamic or what. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 05:48 AM |
| 6 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Right? It reminds me of that saying - which I try to bare in mind: "We judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intentions." Of course you were trying to help. Of course he was trying to help. What else are you going to do when your partner is suffering, even if it's mild? I'm glad I talked to him about it because it saved him the effort of attempting things he didn't even care to do...but I feel guilty for snapping when I can only guess the times I've been similarly annoying and he ga… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Completely the same situation hahaha. It was really sweet that he tried and I know he wanted to be loving so I would feel good. I think he was relieved when I was like "babe you love me every day and I love that - do that!" There's just something not right about a 6' 220lb body builder using a baby voice, and I'm guessing it's right in the same line as your girlfriend accidentally acting like your mom - whoops d: | /r/RedPillWives | 26/09/16 02:12 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?Edit: He said no. A lot of times. And then I talked a lot. And he kept saying no a lot. I don't have bubbles ): | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 11:36 PM |
| 5 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?I feel like R is going to get some pictures of oxen soon. But you know, without the context. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 11:21 PM |
| 5 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?This isn't an ongoing thing but it just happened and made me laugh so hard. This last week I was ridiculously sick. Nothing crazy, just a common cold on steroids. But it was rough - out of work for way too many days, no 'adult activities', just generally miserable. So the first few days were fine, but as it continued R got more and more annoying. I couldn't figure out what was going on. Were we just spending too much time together? What did this mean? What was the problem?? Finally I realized he… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:33 PM |
| 7 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?R and I are coincidentally about to go grocery shopping. Me sees him dealing with a bubble gum tantrum in the next hour d: First, he's going to say it's a waste of money. Then, he's going to get a lecture on the lost opportunity cost if we do not partake in the joys bubble making, and how that far outweighs the economics of the initial purchase. Finally, I'm going to talk for so long he realizes he would rather spend a dollar than lose more life minutes listening to me filibuster. Results: glori… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:09 PM |
| 4 | What Are Some Silly Things You Do With Your SO?YAAAAS. Except the accuracy behind the lack of flavour longevity is plain melancholic ): It's so amazing for 186 seconds and then it's gone /: | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/16 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Advice on dating a med student^ This is great advice. It will definitely behoove you to adopt this mentality and do your very best to realize you shouldn't take it personally because it isn't personal. I haven't dated a med student, but I did date someone who owned his own consulting startup and I'm sure there are many overlaps in challenges. I am worried that with him being in med school it might put a weight on our relationship, or I might put strain on him. It will, and you will. There's just a big element there that's un… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Wedding Megathread!With the exception of some cousins we had a rule, my SO will not meet you for the first time at our wedding. Friends, who R had not met did not make the cut. This is a really simple yet quality policy. Will definitely be borrowing it some distant day - Thanks for writing this! A lot of things I never thought of prior (: | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 07:37 AM |
| 8 | digesting RPW, feel like a noob (despite being married for 11 years!)No joke, this is all very poignant and beautifully said. I can't relate at all but it was very vividly described. Welcome OP! Looking forward to reading more of your posts (: | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 11:05 PM |
| 5 | When your SO is being a jerk?I love it - I missed that thread when it first got posted so thanks for the link. I do that without thinking about it, but on a way smaller scale. Looking forward to actually being purposeful with it (: The one I do most is a "pouty voice" and say "you're just a bully!" and then run away - it usually ends in a chase d: | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Why I returned to work (the long version)I had that same section highlighted and ready to comment on - that's just perfect. I think it would have been great advice for this thread. I'm definitely going to quote that in the future. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!Using a wide net yields all types of fish as well as plants, rocks, trash, insects, and other unwanted items. Preach, haha that's so great because it's way too true. It just doesn't afford any level of accuracy or discretion. TRP would probably love this metaphor lolol. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 07:26 AM |
| 5 | Random RP Thoughts!To me, that is the point you go ahead and throw your all in - even if you're not married yet. I agree, but I did answer above what (I think) may have been the intention of the statement. Rather than boyfriend/husband privileges - which no, I wouldn't dangle anything like a carrot - I think there are very fair boyfriend/husband boundaries. The two big examples I gave were purchasing a home, or having children. I'm sure there are a host of similar situations though. No matter my level of emotional… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Random RP Thoughts!Eh, something about that sentence strikes me the wrong way. If you have personal beliefs that certain actions are reserved solely for marriage, that's one thing, but it shouldn't be dangled like a carrot on a stick in front of your man. I see your issue, but let me offer a more charitable interpretation that's a bit less calculated and not with the immature attitude of "you give me this then I'll give you that." To me, there are privileges afforded to husband that a boyfriend would not get - at … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Random RP Thoughts!Haha I don't want your apologies, this is great material for brainstorming and thank you so much for pitching it! I especially like this point: but both sport and relationships are ultimately assessed on final outcome It's true. It's hard to quantify your metaphor because it's hard to quantify the principle I'm trying to draw an analogy to describe. It only makes sense that this is the issue we are grappling with. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Random RP Thoughts!Two scales could make sense to me! And rather than each balancing they more have to match one another? So if positive (+) traits are on the left, and negative (-) on the right both scales are 50/50 - that's a perfect neutrality balance and a perfect match between partner. If both scales are 60/40, both partners contribute more + than -, and again both are balanced. If female is 40/60 but male is 60/40, the male is either going to next or be dominated. Pick that apart while you are thinking! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Random RP Thoughts!I think that would fall into the purview of niche dating? I.e., We advise against excessive tattoos and piercings because it limits your market potential, but if you have a man that loves them - be our guest. Similarly in a ComiCon-loving type environment, those might even be a pro. But with a more white collar fellow, you may end up a secret girlfriend. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Why is Angelina Jolie insane for getting her breasts removed?Thank you - fwiw I'm actually not too worried about the odds of developing breast cancer. If they're high, I'll do the preventative mastectomy. Ovarian on the other hand...that's a scary bitch. I appreciate the time you took to read, but yeah. There's a lot of misunderstanding flying about regarding why someone would choose the way Angelina did. Makes perfect sense to me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Why is Angelina Jolie insane for getting her breasts removed?Don't ask me how genetic testing works. My doctor simply told me I qualified for insurance coverage to have my DNA analyzed and it would give me a reasonably accurate range for the odds of lifetime contraction. Circumstantially, I'm already sitting at a confirmed 30%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Random RP Thoughts!Okay I don't like this metaphor because it's super 3 dimensional - for example, how do you weigh one injury vs another vs other variables x/y/z. Just hard to quantify things as opposed to the scale or bucket (things go up, things go down). I DO like this metaphor because it might (for all its complexity) actually get the job done best. Here's a realistic scenario (I'll me side her hypothetical RMV in parenthesis as I go): Girl A: Natural beauty, excellent self-care, high fitness, etc (10). Funny… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!I like that a lot! I think it works well because it's a metaphor that offers space to both the male and female - which is what a relationship is. So in that line - if your side of the scale weighs enough that it hits the table...your either getting a 'next' or not even getting a chance to try (i.e. Approaching a high SMV man and getting rejected outright). If the man's hits the table, he's either nexted, rejected, or not respected by his partner? The part I want to reconcile, and maybe it's all … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/16 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!I think one of the ones you are thinking of is by /u/_wingnut_ I'll go look too Edit: This thread? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Wedding Megathread!That makes sense..I feel like it was you who posted a thread about attitudes on rings once?? I could totally be making that up of course...but that situation sounds like one of the women from that article. Let me see if I can find! Edit: Okay I searched "ring" and didn't find it (which is all I remember). But I found this similar thread which is by you and probably explains my confusion. But yeah I don't like that attitude /: | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Random RP Thoughts!I've been wanting to do a post on this, but this is very raw and I'm super open to suggestions. But I want to discuss the "strikes" one can have against their RMV, and fully detail what they mean. And how a person is not ruined forever by derogatory marks, but simultaneously also has to accept the reality of them and navigate accordingly. The way I would like to convey this would be with a visual metaphor. My two inclinations currently are either a bucket filling up (and the breaking point being… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Wedding Megathread!Yeah I'm not sure where that figure got created because I've heard it but never known anyone personally who's stuck to it, and anyone who did IMO would be a questionable partner to ask that of their man. "Impractical for any salary" is the understatement of the year. I couldn't wear that with a clear conscience. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 07:29 PM |
| 15 | Q4RP: Why is Angelina Jolie insane for getting her breasts removed?My mom got a particularly aggressive form of breast cancer at an outrageously young age (40s) - she is/was one of the healthiest people I know and even then looked early 30s tops. She did chemo and everything as she's fine. There's a strong chance it was due to the BRCA mutation, which means I now have a 50/50 chance of having it. If I do, it's possible I could have an 80% to 90% chance of contracting that same cancer in my lifetime. Again, my mom was only in her 40s when it happened to her. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?Tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?I mean I will grant the same can be said of a non-feminine woman who works on that trait. Never as good as a natural, but better than someone not making an effort at all. But also TRP has varying degrees of naturals and wannabes, as do their female counterpart subs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Redditor exposed as being a cheater and bad wife.What are you trying to accomplish here? All I'm reading is comments by you attacking an Internet stranger. The removed comments in "Exhibit B" are also you. Well done, you sure showed her. So an Internet stranger somewhere in the world cheated. Oooooooo. The only lesson I'm learning here is for you to go feed your weird superiority complex in ways other than posting trash in this sub. Congrats on not being a cheating slut? Thanks for the lesson. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/16 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?Which is why I did not say "and each man should stay strictly within the bracket he found himself in and never make any attempt to better himself". To not attempt self-improvement is ludicrous. To say it is unideal to date either man/woman who requires SMP improvement (as opposed to a natural) in the first place is fair. Easy boy, easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 12:51 AM |
| 11 | Q4Women: With your privileged knowledge of TRP's existence, do you now avoid all men who lift on the off chance they learned it from TRP?Attractive men do not need Red Pill. I would add "naturally masculine" men as a qualifier, but otherwise I fully agree. A naturally high SMP guy is infinitely better than a wannabe in training. That said, I don't think it's a crime for lesser SMP guys to try and improve their position. But I wouldn't want to date someone who needed TRP to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: What advantage or benefit does a woman 25+ have over a girl that is 18?I agree with you there. I'm 24 and (so far) feel like each year I only get better looking. Now to be fair I'm fully expecting that gravy train to stop any birthday now - but me now compared to me at 18 or even 20 is a real joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The importance of how we dressHahaha well thanks for the kind words - I think what your husband said to you is a sign of maturity on both your parts. Yes he is acknowledging your growth, but additionally I'm sure in the days of your first meeting, he didn't sit around and think "damn I want me a matronly woman who's refined as hellll" haha. It's important to never stop being his girlfriend, but learning the value of a wife is (I can only imagine) an interesting transition for him too, and one he gets to share with you (: | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?But very attractive men (as I thought this was about) sleep with attractive to very attractive women. No 9/10 is banging a 4/10. It just doesn't happen. He doesn't need to -- there are girls blowing up his phone who are pretty, so why fuck the 4? Hm yeah I agree with that. I'm not sure what the answer here is. Maybe a female of that low quality - as far as SMV goes, is already so far down the totem pole she's almost at incel status and may as well be the equivalent of being ran through by a few … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?Well while I obviously subscribe to male/female differences - for this particular point I think we can cast them aside. I think he's just referring to boring people or entitled people or incompatible people or arrogant people etc etc etc. Basically he's saying he wouldn't LTR girls because either they aren't good looking enough (but are just enough to sleep with them), they are good looking enough (but one of the above), or some combination thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | The importance of how we dressYup. Just reported her because I caught that. Here /u/Stockrose, this is for you. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 5 | The importance of how we dressOne, /u/LittleKnownFacts said it - you're looking for reasons to be insulted. Let us know how that attitude works out for you. Two, you're right - he didn't always see her as his wife. That's what, you know, vetting/dating/all that is for? Any marriage has to start as just a girl and then transition into something more. His acknowledgment of her doing so is a huge compliment. I'm curious as to how you would have responded in the same situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?Eh. I haven't seen much of very attractive men sleeping with unattractive women Lol they absolutely do. Most men I know are happy to have sex with a woman they would never dream of granting LTR status to. I just asked my SO how many of the women he's slept with he would consider actually dating and he made a face and said "uh, less than an eighth?" This is out of an n-count of around 30 girls or a little higher. To be fair, I didn't ask him why he wouldn't LTR them, so I'm speculating that it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?Actually, I bet 3-4 is an accurate average. Because I just had the thought "well I'm sure there are communities, like say Mormons or similar, where the average is much lower". I bet the averages of 1-2 throughout communities like that would be enough to drag the whole team average down. But if you separate it into "did slut around" and "did not slut around", I bet it looks very similar to the numbers I just provided. By the way the friends I listed are all mid to late twenties - I think that's i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?Okay, what is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?The averages of my friend group is an n-count of 7. Or it was 1.25 for the ones who didn't slut around, and an average of 10 for the ones that did. My friend group doesn't represent the entire population but it was a decent sample size and a pretty big departure from the 3.5-4.5 number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?I averaged the n-count of all the women I know who have shared theirs with me, and it is slightly higher than 7. And there's a few girls who married their first in their bringing the number down otherwise it would be a bit higher. Actually looking at the numbers, let's cut the camps into "girls who did slut around" and "girls who did not" to get more meaningful numbers. I'll throw the girl who had 3 into the 'did not' camp, so let's give them an average n-count of 1.25. The slut camp now has an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Does RP have any analysis for the lower 80% in their 80/20 principle?Yeah if I think of the n-count of most of my friends - so, I mean this anecdotally and not as 80/20 canon but still.. It goes something like: 8, 18, 1, 7, 13, 11, 1, 3, 5, 12, 1, 6. That's all the people who have made me privy to their number anyway. And for some of them I might be 1-2 off from the last time we spoke or me misremembering (like the girl who had 18 said it was between 15-20 so I rounded)...but it's a pretty accurate jumping off point for at least my demographic - I don't feel like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Women: Do you believe that women should be submissive to their male partners?One of the best pieces of relationship advice I ever got was from a friend doing the customary church counseling right before her marriage to her husband. She's not RP in anyway, and at the time I was so feminist the things I read in our sub would have made my hair curl. She said her pastor explained that "men need to feel respected first and foremost in their relationships, and then loved; women need to feel loved first and foremost, and then respected." The respect and the love is both there f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/16 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Just spreading my wingsSpot on - I couldn't have (and didn't) say it better myself. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Just spreading my wingsI mean even your own example. You list a hobby, and then a way you make sure it is a positive and not a negative in your relationship - great. But then you say having hobbies is doing more harm than good. There should be balance, just as you described in your own life. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Just spreading my wingsI agree. You can have the house sparkling, dinner made, the kids pristine, and a brand new freshly laquered set of patio furniture you just made - but if you aren't contributing to the relationship, he won't give a shit and it all has 0 value and you will end up alone. But on the opposite side women as plain as oatmeal are not stimulating partners. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Just spreading my wingsWhy do you see "having your own identity" and hobbies as so mutually exclusive? You haven't said what your hobbies are but unless it's dancing in drag by night I don't see why this should be so hard | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Just spreading my wingsAre you looking for that future relationship to be RP in dynamic? As /u/SexistFlyingPig queried - Do you want to be lead? To put energy into a partnership? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:58 AM |
| 5 | Just spreading my wingsThat's a fair assessment but I really felt like the question was more "I lost my marriage because I lost myself, how can I not make the same mistake twice?" We aren't interesting people or good contributors to a relationship if we have no sense of identity or activities that bring us meaning and joy. We also can't be so obsessed with underwater basket weaving that we fail to water the grass of our relationship. I can see where you're coming from and how you interpreted, but her comments seem to … | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 05:56 AM |
| 5 | Just spreading my wingsFirst question is very fair and will help us offer better response, but for the second part - if she's posting for advice here then why the incredulous tone? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/09/16 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Volunteers Needed For A Special Project!I have way too many thoughts on the wall, PM me if you want any pondering material (: | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/16 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Volunteers Needed For A Special Project!I did the same yesterday which is what brought it to mind d: Awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Volunteers Needed For A Special Project!I can do "A case against friends of the opposite sex" maybe? I'm down to do that or something else, or that and something else? This sounds great! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/16 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Volunteers Needed For A Special Project!I volunteer as tribute (: I need a topic inspiration though...pondering | /r/RedPillWives | 16/09/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | minor impromptu RP man surveyI swear it changes based on the speaker's agenda. That's more common than just ethnic discussions lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/16 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Tales from the crypt: A post from /u/L261. "Alpha Women, Beta Men"Example of what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. I wonder what she would say has the roles been reversed! Not only her, imagine what HE would say. I bet her whole salary he would never have that attitude toward her and would cherish her contributions in the home. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Tales from the crypt: A post from /u/L261. "Alpha Women, Beta Men"Daaaaamnnnn this some real talk. My favourite two are Emily and Barbara, who conveniently are written right next to each other. Barbara is the only example of a maybe-RPW in this whole thread, and Emily certainly drives a few truths home in the worst way: Barbara Sometimes it’s the Alpha woman who needs reassurance that she’s still feminine. “When you’re a big money earner and your husband isn’t, it makes you question how feminine you are,” says Barbara Corcoran, the ubiquitous real-estate broke… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.Hey an EC I don't think I've ever met before! Ships in the night? Nice to meet you (: And your situation sounds rough, and just horrible. I'm not sure I would be able to continue a relationship with someone like that either - it sounds like you did what needed to be done and you, your dad, and your husband are better off for it. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 03:03 PM |
| 2 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.but do not enable her by staying silent. You should not call her out on her attitude, but if your mother makes fun of your dad in front of you and looks at you in order to get your approval, I would definitely not advise you to smile and nod, because it would only reinforce the pattern. This is a good point, as my mom has the same habit - she looks to her audience to make sure their amused by her "humor" (condescension). You can handle it by staying silent, but just make sure your silence commun… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 01:39 AM |
| 8 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.But you can't change your mom and you can't make your dad see how he is contributing to this problem, either. Thanks for addressing the other piece of the pie. One of the most important lines in this thread. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/09/16 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessNETFLIX FROM THE TUB OMG MY LIFE IS CHANGED! considers burning just one book | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 10:12 PM |
| 4 | My heart's broken for my blue pill parents.Similarly, my mom is also an alpha dominating bitch. My parents aren't married anymore, partially for that reason, but also for other reasons (for instance, in spite of that fact I have more good things to say about my mother than my father - unlike you). Like /u/LittleKnownFacts said...do nothing. Learn from them. My parents' dysunctionalities are what fueled my own mission to unlearn the bad habits they taught me, and what brought me here. Instead of focusing on your parents - who you do not h… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessCQ nailed it with the lack of stimulus issue. If I felt like I was occupied then I think I would enjoy more but just sitting there gives me an existential crisis lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessThat's 100% my issue is stimulus -- reading the bath sounds perfect but I get so fidgety it turns into read, whoops hands are wet, wipe on towel, read, how did my hands get wet again, towel, read, shit water on book seriously, wipe, read, wipe, wait there wasn't water that time, read, HOW DID I GET MORE WATER ON BOOK. I think I want one of those bath boards to make a table - have you seen or used one?? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Routine HappinessLove I love going to the gym every morning with R. It's not just the gym, and it's not just him..it's really the killer combo. We wake up at 5a, make coffee and smoothies and sit around and enjoy for a few and then show up to the gym just before 6a. I workout for an hour and then get ready for work while he finishes his routine. At 730a he drives me to work and drops me off. I hate my job a lot so having all that time beforehand doing fun things with him, and even just getting a goodbye kiss bef… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.I did a similar challenge as it related to my relationship a while back - it's a bit of a saga but I hope you consider doing something similar. Part One Part Two | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill and Popular MusicThis is casually my favorite comment ever. I think it's because the tone is identical to "I just don't know that much about football...my bad!" | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Why I decided to go back to work and what I have learned in the process.It's great to hear you're excited about this new chapter in your life, and have seen positive effects in your marriage! I look forward to reading the long version (: | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and the sexesOh that is hilarious; I'm glad you 'fessed up because I made a mental note to respond (was busy earlier) and I just spent way too long scrolling and tracking every comment chain in that thread trying to find it. Shame on you for deleting it because I actually didn't understand what you meant in this edit but then your other comment clarified perfectly. Ironically as I was scrolling to find and link that comment, I caught this bit too: Okay my comment is super long so I'll shut up now haha You to… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and the sexesOkay I hallucinated a comment from you that I can't find in my inbox nor in the thread (and I feel like I'm either space cadeting hard or losing my mind)... But anyway, I completely agree with your description as vulnerability being a consequence and not its own inherent state or trait. Something must cause vulnerability. Conversely would you say being weak is a state/characteristic? I think it can be. I think that's another way the two can be distinct. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayDidn't we sync calendars at the bi-quarterly Stepford meeting??? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill and Popular MusicOh god, it gets so awful listening to music. Some common songs: Alpha Widowed, track 1 White Knight, track 1 Waaaaa I lost my unicorn ):, track 1 Alpha Widowed, track 2 The list goes on and on and on and on.... But yeah. Enjoy mainstream everything being tainted and sad now. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayYup. Here is my imagining of TBP 'expectation vs reality' as it relates to a day in the RP Wife Life: Expectation 0800: Wake up. Perform blowjob for the alpha. 0820: Cry in bathroom 0823: Make breakfast. He likes his eggs runny but fully cooked. If I do not achieve this I am beaten. But I deserve it. The alpha needs his eggs to feed the GAINZ. 0835: Hand the alpha his plate with shaking hands. He approves. This time. 0900: Kiss the alpha goodbye. Not his face you vile female, his feet - better t… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayI forgot to tell you how much I love it but I love it a lot | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesThey are smiles of the patriarchy so GOOD (: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability and the sexesI feel triggered ),: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesSo then does the vulnerability stem from the trust that you won't take advantage of them in a weakened state and not necessarily that they got into that weakened state? I think that is what I'm getting at, yes. I'm completely open to disagreement but I think vulnerability =\= weakness but instead vulnerability = POTENTIAL for weakness (and trusting the one you are being vulnerable with to not exploit or extract that weakness). So in my example with R, me exploiting his vulnerability (thus weaken… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesRead above my reply to Camille's reply to you (phew inception!) - I kind of expand on that thought in a way that I hope makes sense, would love to hear your thoughts (: | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability and the sexesBut I think that vulnerability is distinct from weakness, although of course you can be weak if you are too vulnerable, or if you choose the wrong person to be vulnerable with. It's easy to conflate vulnerability with other traits, and I'm trying to think of where we can draw the line between an expression of vulnerability and vulnerability itself. Dependency makes you more vulnerable but vulnerability doesn't automatically mean dependency. Good example at the end - maybe it would be more accura… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesI don't think that vulnerability = weakness but it's not far from it and a less disciplined man could easily become too dependent and weak and cause his woman to lose attraction. This point in particular I like. It's a very fine line to walk but also an important one, as I agree with male vulnerability being a prerequisite to an intimate relationship, within reason. I may make the case that male vulnerability is calculated and temporary weakness done as an investment for long-term strength. Men … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesOkay we are totally on the same page -- I wasn't sure if you meant that or "it not being necessary to be someone's rock" which I don't agree with, any man worth his salt wants to be a source of strength (to some degree). I'm also in full accord with requiring degrees of softness -- I wonder if it's an inverse relationship (i.e. The harder the man, the softer he needs for balance), or if it's proportional (i.e. The harder the man, the more thick-skinned he requires), or if it's not related in tha… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesJust to clarify, you mean men aren't looking for someone to be their rock? Because that I fully agree with. I think it's more important to them to have someone soft and light to motivate them to be the rock they need to be. Like as an example, he had a hellish time at work a while back, and he came home looking pretty defeated and just said "let's lay down." He didn't talk about any of it, but he just laid there for a while before saying "thank you for being my soft place" (because I frequently … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Vulnerability and the sexesI'm not sure I can offer a quality definition for male vulnerability without marinating more, but I can share one specific way I know R practices it and means a lot to him. We've actually talked about it directly, so I'm not speculating on his thoughts - he told me all this. Essentially he feels very strongly about the man being the rock, and what it means to carry the world on your shoulders to provide for your woman/family. He absolutely subscribes to a woman's role as being a "soft space", wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:50 PM |
| 4 | What's in a Name?Sure hope so d: He actually said "So you really didn't go on a second date because of a last name?" I admitted "Well, partly..but I had also already met you d:" Hahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Oh man that just made my heart so happy, bless you...bless you | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Bait, Bid, and Bite - Everyday affections.Great way to put it. The whole is more than the sum of the caterpillar. Errr...something like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 01:36 PM |
| 6 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!BellaScarletta attempts to twerk | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 01:31 PM |
| 4 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Just to make the beginning of your post crystal clear: we know /u/MinersSweetheart is your other account, /u/Steigertochter1. And we also know you are /u/Babara123456789. If you want to be in this community - which you clearly do because you keep making awful alts and keep coming back: then be here. But stop making excuses, whining, being argumentative, playing the martyr, wasting our time with garbage posts like this. Stop. It's childish, so add that to the laundry list of problems you have to … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 01:28 PM |
| 3 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Lol!!!!! Please. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 01:16 PM |
| 3 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!my Husband went ballistic after seeing the dresses. He hurled a string of Insults at me and stormed out. Since yesterday he has told me how the wedding is not about me, how my behavior makes him distrust me, that I should expect to never be treated like a princess ever again, that I should be grateful for him, that if he catches me being ungrateful on the phone again he would be most displeased etc. Either that's your idea of RPWi bait or you have the worst vetting skills ever. He also refused t… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:57 PM |
| 2 | My SO sees me as Bridezilla!Troll. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Bait, Bid, and Bite - Everyday affections.I've read this study. I think it's really helpful to have in mind so you can be more aware of when your partner is making a bid and respond positively when possible. That being said, the hyper-awareness can be a little demoralizing when you make a bid and your partner doesn't respond...and you can end up slightly hurt...until you realize you're literally upset he didn't give a shit about a silly caterpillar you noticed. I don't think that's any longterm thing but I remember shortly after I read … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayWoah woah woah...links? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayOooooh I don't know.... Because your husband must be an abusive TRP asshole (no matter how many times we say it they don't seem to get we don't partner poach from TRP, and our partners are just normal guys). Because you mussstt have crippling self-esteem issues if you actually want to defer to your husband. And I think he is thought to be evil too for letting you - the bastard! Because they enjoy sitting around and feeling sorry for those poor, pathetic Submissive girls who have no idea what the… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:22 PM |
| 5 | What's in a Name?I HAD THIS DISCUSSION WITH R TODAY!!! Seriously. This is wild. We pulled up to the grocery store earlier and I said "You know, you have a very marriageable last name." He of course asks wtf that meant. I explained "Well the first date I went on post-HB, the guy's last name was Butterfield...do I look like Mrs. Butterfield to you? No. There was no date two" (not exact last name obviously but it was equally ridiculous). Anyway R's last name is very "last namey". It's on par with any name that isn'… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:13 AM |
| 1 | My other half is returning home in 10 days - what can I do to make his return special?how dare u | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayYeaaah TBP are our biggest fans d: | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayHahaha one is happy to be of service d: | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayI KNOW I NEED ONE AND R KEEPS SAYING NO SO I CRY ): | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayHaha no a Red Piller from /r/TheRedPill - TRP user = terper. Check out /r/TheBluePill and you'll see the phrase everywhereee. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayPICS OR GTFO | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayLet's get ready to TUMBLEEEE! (Part II) Back by popular demand....Tumblr posts are here for your comedic judgement and head shaking! Enjoy the trainwrecks of SJW-dome I literally get paid to stare at! :D (Check out Part I here!) This is good, this is good. I totally feel like this all the time...wait, no I have never felt like this. literully evry womyn is beautiful #endsocialconstructs I mean, sometimes this is true. But for your run-of-the-mill Tumblrista? eeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Ok, I can't … | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Let's get ready to TUMBLEEEE!Hahahahaha I don't "tumble" for my job, but basically we do medical marketing and provide Internet services for medical practices (build/host websites, offer SEO, social media management, etc). I create Tumblr accts for our clients not for the purpose of being viewed, but because backlinking/posting/etc boosts their websites value on the interwebz. But yeah, I end up scrolling a lot d: | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy HeinThey have some great lunch bags that are designed for all-day insulation. You may shell out a bit for one, but if you can fit it in your budget then it's a good investment. I think there are cheaper brands than the one I linked as well. If you have one of those then I think most meals will be fine for the day. If not, there are still some good food options that I don't think should be too problematic if they get a bit warm. Quinoa/bean mix or similar - you can marinade a little medley and add so… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 11:27 PM |
| 2 | New and ScaredAnd here I am explaining how to use Reddit... | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 10:02 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredThis is a collection of some of the best content we've had posted to date. Things get added all the time though! If you're looking for a place to start I highly suggest there (: | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredYeah! So every reply to you, or a comment that mentions your name, will go to your inbox. Once you've opened your inbox they all automatically get marked as read -- so if you have multiple messages, respond to one and then click out...you'll want to go back in and click "all" to show the remainder of them. In a thread like this for example, if you leave a comment then I reply, you'll get a notification. But then if someone else replies to me, I will get the notification and you won't. But in som… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredIt's a really fun place!! A wee addicting.. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | New and ScaredI just saw this - it seems like a reply to my comment but I think you responded to your own post on accident (: you will get the hang of it! Discussion is probably a fine flair, I was mostly clarifying I wasn't missing a point you wanted responded to - no worries at all. Take a read through the wiki and enjoy all the material! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 06:56 PM |
| 2 | "we fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"Another interview with Camille Paglia drawing this exact analogy. Watch until 33:50 if you can (2 minutes). The whole interview is great though. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 04:42 PM |
| 3 | "we fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"I love this. Actually this clip is one of the favourite I've seen on the topic. This post reminded me of it so I went to find it again...which is when I discovered it's also Camille Paglia. If you happen to know what it's an excerpt from I would love to see the rest. Edit: Found the whole clip and watched it. She's great. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 3 | New and ScaredWelcome (: I think you'll find a lot you enjoy here. I'm not sure what the point of your post is beyond a "hello" (it's flaired as discussion). If I'm missing something please guide me, and if you end up looking for advice make sure to check this post out, as well as the rest of the wiki. I suggest reading through the top posts if you haven't already - there is some amazing stuff! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 02:41 PM |
| 7 | "we fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"Why would anyone want revealing outfits to not titillate onlookers? Why take away the power of cleavage, midriffs, bare legs, etc.? I'm in no way "sex positive" but I think the female form is beautiful and inherently sexual and this is great! We should be mindful of this and use it strategically. Not walk around half naked in a casual way and ask that people don't feel anything when they look at you. Brilliant. And imagine if we all woke up tomorrow and men were emotionless bots who didn't respo… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Keep your goals to yourselfThis is great material that also reminded me how happy I am to be beyond this stage. This just gave me a 'nam flashback to how unpleasant it was lolol. Worth it though (: It's nice sometimes to reflect on all the progress made. I hope this encourages someone to get started or keep swimming! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouSo glad you enjoyed (: | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.My mom had the Euro approach to alcohol and it was never a huge deal in my world. I actually liked the taste and would get small dixie cups of wine with dinner when I was 9+ years old. It definitely helped remove the taboo element and I was always a lot more controlled with substances compared to my peers raised in stricter households. She had a similar view toward partying as well, best not to try and prevent what she couldn't stop, and instead handle it pragmatic and help me view it as a respo… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.Re: the friends thing, I think not being friends with your kid is what enables you to do it later in life. From 0 to twenties, my mom was not my fucking friend. My mom was scary, and she was my mom, and I repeat: SHE WAS SCARY. Once I moved out, took care of most life things myself..yes she will always be my adviser but she entirely respects my decisions. Even when she doesn't agree with me she usually just says "I raised you to think for yourself and learn from your mistakes, you can do this" a… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I'm pro-routine/schedule and a little on the old-school/strict side with rules. There will be no child lawyering to weasel around the rules (and honestly, staying consistent and predictable tends to help bypass much of that nonsense being attempted whereas the opposite tends to encourage it). I have no issue explaining the "why" of a rule, but it's not a negotiation. If we're having X for dinner, you're eating X. Naptime is naptime; if you're not sleepy, it's still quiet rest time (if in the rar… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I think it'll be a lot easier to follow my husband's lead if I don't fill my head with "the right way" Super self-aware of you and a really good point! I love more..hm, not sure how to phrase. I love parenting things that are less "to accomplish X, do Y" and more "this is a great idea!" Example, I used to troll /r/parenting a lot. I haven't been on in years but there was a time that was a favourite of mine. One woman shared an activity her and her infant developed: She held the baby sitting on h… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouCite where I even tenuously suggest men are "sex-driven blah blah blahs". | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouShame ): | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I'm fascinated by parenting in general and love reading strategies and critically thinking about their pros/cons. I'm not sure where I adopted this hobby. TLDR I'm going to buy this book like now despite being nowhere near the babymaking benchmark lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I detest seeing 8 year old kids out at the mall on a Tuesday night at 8:30 pm. You and me both, that's like beyond me. It's not good for the parents either. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.but then after she grows a bit, what used to work doesn't any more. Ugh sounds like my skincare products but louder (can you tell I'm not maternal yet? haha). But honestly that makes sense as they age. As much as we'd like to think "they'll do it because I said it!, I can't imagine how much farther that thinking is from reality lol. I read some things that suggested that being entertained passively is not good for little ones, as it removes the need for them to create their own entertainment. Ag… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | RP musicRight?? If I remember correctly, they did that song even before her diagnosis. Which makes it that much more beautiful and sad. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.I think way too many parents revolve their lives around their children, where they should be revolving their children's lives around theirs. Completely agree. I touched on that in my comment as well but I think it's such a huge contributor to this era of entitlement we see nowadays. Children are humans, and no human gets the whole world to revolve around them. They need to get used to the pecking order of the universe, which they are quite low on until otherwise earned. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.My actions as a wife to my husband is JUST as important to their upbringing as my actions as their mother. Amen! More important even. One "ends" at a certain age, not even that old in life. The other will carry into their personal relationship dynamics forever. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.You're usually so tired at bedtime as a parent that it's tough to be strict about eliminating the sleep crutches because...they work! Oooo I can totally see this being a "but I don't waaannnnaaa" experience for the parents haha. Is your 19 month old your oldest? I didn't really think about infants/toddlers to be honest - I'm sure that's an entire beast unto itself. My thought when commenting was more school-aged children who want to fight bedtime for more fun. Infants/toddlers sound like even le… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | RP musicRight? I've consumed way too much media on the topic. In a different interview after her sickness, Rory says something like "It's hard to believe this is happening to us..it's the kind of thing that happens to someone else. But I guess it is, because to someone else...we're someone else." More tears. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | RP musicIf you're into complete masochism, watch this video of them. She clearly adores him. It's so painful watching how beautiful they are together. They are my dream couple. If you make it through that, watch this music video. Your day will be 100% over if you do this, fair warning. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.Non-Mother thoughts: Bedtime is a strict, no-fuss experience. Not to say I can prevent child from fussing, but it won't be given a reaction. Bedtime is important because it ensures the child is consistently given ample time to rest and recharge, it reinforces positive structures and routines, and (perhaps most importantly) then mom and dad can count on that evening time to be husband and wife instead of parents. My kids won't know that sweets or junk food exist until they are old enough to under… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | RP musicAlso anything by Joey + Rory is crazy RP. But don't google them unless you literally want to spend the entire day crying. I've done it. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | RP musicOh man that is bad haha. I was a little worried to watch d: Try the version I sent you! Different group that I love (which is why I didn't write the name since its been done a thousand times). It's a couple and I really love some of their stuff. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | RP musicStand By Your Man - Tammy Wynette Would You Go With Me** - Josh Turner By Your Side** - CocoRosie Where You Lead - Carole King If I Needed You - Joey + Rory Born To Be Your Woman** - Joey + Rory Loving Her Was Easier - Kris Kristofferson 500 Miles Give Her The World - Adam Eckersley Band I'm Gonna Miss Her - Brad Paisley (opposite side of the RP Coin lol) I cheated because I already have an RPW playlist set up on my Spotify d: ** = A favourite of mine | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Back To School Megathread!These primarily relate to college, but some can be applied to high school as well. Take or leave what you will. ACADEMICS Sit in the same seat every lecture. You want your professor to know who you are. Also, ask one question or make one comment every day, from that seat. You want them to know who you are, and remember that you participated. Backtracking: go to class every day. It isn't hard. Don't skip "just because you can" or because there isn't attendance. Be an adult. You're not ever going … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4WOMEN: Are you considering voting for Hillary or Trump and why?I don't know. I'm miserable. I hate them both passionately. Debating voting Johnson because he's at least more conservative than Stein, and it's not like he will win anyway - more just a third party message. That being said, as much as I would like to get away from the two-party system, I'm unconvinced my "third party message" will carry any actual weight, and wonder if it wouldn't just be better to resign choosing between the lesser of two evils. I miss Rubio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | First-Reactions to RPWOh god. I'm ready. Thank you for suggestion! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 2 | "I Love You"That's really sweet for him to call you on what you meant and run with it like that. He sounds confident (: | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/16 12:25 AM |
| 2 | What Is Love?Thanks for replying some 3 odd days later d: Yeah that distinction makes perfect sense. And the different cases you give at the bottom are kind of what fueled my curiousity on the subject (and lead to the subsequent post). I know there is 0 normal or not normal and some really strange situations can absolutely pan out well in terms of this particular topic. Also Kitten made a good point in that thread in favour of the woman saying it first - how sensitive of a man do you want bursting at the sea… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 09:35 PM |
| 3 | "I Love You"Omg fabulous. Yes I agree so much. That scene is the absolutely cringiest. Such a BP fantasy d: | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | "I Love You""Ted Mosby style" - that's hilarious how telling of an analogy that is. And that's really sweet on his part, do you guys still ever say it like that?? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | "I Love You"I can't open that right this moment, but I'm going to take a stab in the dark that it's Brendan Fraizer in Bedazzled...? Let me know hahahaha, if not I will totally watch in a bit (: | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | "I Love You"Hahaha that's unconventional but kind of sweet it couldn't wait for him to say it (: | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:15 PM |
| 2 | "I Love You"Hahaha wow that's great - how long have you been together now?? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | "I Love You"That's a hard but good thing to be honest with yourself about; I think there are righteous reasons to avoid going first (not wanting to pressure, letting him lead, feeling genuinely scared) and then there are bad reasons (wanting to "win", forcing it, etc). That sounds like a really positive experience you had this go around (: I feel like I'm similarly hovering around the "we both know we feel it" but nobody is quite there yet. I have no predictions for how this goes but it sounds like yours en… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 08:00 PM |
| 3 | "I Love You"Haha! Sex can be such a hard time to avoid saying it for the first time, so many hormones flying everywhere and if the feelz be realz then it can be sooo difficult to resist. I've been on both sides of who says it first, and maybe in my perfect world the man would say it first. But Camille made this comment in favour of the woman saying it first and raises good points. As rationally as I am on the side of letting him go first and lead that aspect, R and I are right around that 8-9 week mark (of … | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | "I Love You"That is really really cute, and how great for you to share that experience exclusively with him (: | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | "I Love You"Yeah I'm in accord there. I've said it first twice and heard it first once. But those were all not really the result of any thought on my part, as all were pre-RP. Now, I think given the choice I would let the man set the pace there and avoid feeling as if I'm pressuring him to feel a certain way. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | "I Love You"I wasn't going to answer since I'm not "there" in my current relationship, but I do still have some thoughts so why not. I think in my experience 2-3 months is usually when the feelings start coming. The first semi-serious relationship I was in, I said it first around that time. In the second, he said it first. For me at least, the L-word feelings start as small blips and moments, and then begin to come in more extended surges that eventually blend together. I wouldn't feel comfortable saying it… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What Is Love?I just read this comment chain and wanted to add some thoughts/get your thoughts on some things. No right/wrong answer stuff, but just all pretty pertinent to where I'm at. R and I are definitely getting to the point where I can tell the words are both on our mind, but we're not quite at the threshold of when it's time to say it. In my opinion (and I talked about this in I think last weeks reflections thread) I don't feel comfortable saying it until the feeling is a constant as opposed to the in… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Simple Questions!Most morbidly, the loss of a child. I couldn't even imagine. More likely, managing difficult family/in-laws diplomatically. I've seen some couples struggle so much with family; it always seems like a black/white situation where boundaries are the answer, but that rabbit hole can be so complex for outsiders. I think couples tend to do well once they navigate that smoothly and together and put their marriage/future family before their birth family. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Goodbye ?!Thank god. That was a close one. Good work team. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Goodbye ?!Hide yo kids, hide yo wife! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Goodbye ?!QUICK! Agree and amplify!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Goodbye ?!Because we are supposed to beg her to stay with us ): | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:22 PM |
| 15 | Goodbye ?!We are not less than men. We are different. We also discuss our flaws and be honest with each other to improve. We do not discuss the flaws of men as those are not within our power to change. You do not seem like you agree with our philosophies here. Perhaps you would do better in /r/relationships or /r/thebluepill. Maybe /r/twoxchromosomes as well. Enjoy. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Only positive things about Women! (Just for a Day)Give it time, I'm sure she didn't start measuring up to her either until she was more experienced in life - you will get there too. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Only positive things about Women! (Just for a Day)That's really amazing that you shared that bond with her. I'm so sorry it ended too soon but I can only imagine how much it meant to your husband and to hers as well. It sounds like everyone in the situation was very fortunate. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Niche Dating: Just Don'tI was going to cite that point as well; I can't caution enough against the pussy worshipping. For me in particular it's such a turn off...but it can be a big ego stroke and easy to get distracted by, most particularly for those who don't know what to look for. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulI'm not sure if you are looking for anything specific, but we have a "Girl Game" flair category -- here are some of the top posts. Hopefully that keeps you busy for a little (: | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI actually had a feeling it was that one. That is a belief I have long held. I feel there are so many powerful emotions you can express through the intimacy of sex. I don't mean using sex to accomplish things (i.e. Manipulative makeup sex or similar), but rather to convey your authentic emotions. You can turn to sex to say "I love you", "I need you", "I'm sorry", "we did it", to celebrate, to forgive, to be comforted, to give comfort -- and so many more. It's a seriously beautiful act that I don… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What Is Love?First off, I'll admit I haven't read the essay - I fully intend to, but I don't have a moment to do so now. Do you agree with Nozick's definition of love as the formation of a "we"? If not, what do you think is the defining characteristic of love? Based on your bullet points, yes, there is nothing there I disagree with. Particularly the point on voluntarily limited autonomy. I don't see how you can be a successful "we" without being a limited "me"; that being said, I think 'voluntary' is the key… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouPssssst, which line? (: | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 12:58 AM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWMy reservations are more related to discussion of facts vs feels. I do have my feels on the situation, but the mods are so much more informed than myself regarding the objective facts and historical implications of 1st, 2nd, and 3rd wave feminism, etc. Learning more history and theory is definitely something I'm working on - both related to RP as well as other subjects. But (and this is something I've already mulled over with Camille) in general, I struggle with comprehension on these things and… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWYou don't sound argumentative (: I'm going to tag in /u/Camille11325 here to respond, as it's not my place to speak on behalf of the community. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Inaugural Caption Challenge!!!!"We make our family proud and follow God's way by practicing abstinence!" "This isn't their grandma he he he." | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 12:53 PM |
| 5 | First-Reactions to RPWHahaha hats off for 'fessing up to the ban d: | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Fall Fashion MegathreadOh god so cute and would look so not cute on me hahaha. Wistfully stares. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 11:20 PM |
| 4 | First-Reactions to RPWYou are not a dumbass for maintaining whatever your beliefs are by any stretch, and always feel to pick and choose what works best for your relationship - as long as you don't proselytize to the rest of us. That being said, this space is categorically anti-feminist, full stop. There are so many other users, most specifically the mods, that can comprehensively break down the historical happenings/nuances/implications of feminism better than myself. As far as a top-soil response goes, we find femi… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 09:08 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWNoowwww! Then? Eh, not so much d: | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?I will officially be disappointed if you don't :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?I thought it was super cute as well. I've never even met her sister (or any of the other invitees) but we all had so much fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:53 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWI've been told by soooo many people irl I should do stand up hahaha. I told R and he said exactly what I've always thought about it "I don't know, you're one of the funniest people I know but I just don't see you being able to turn it on and off like that. It would probably end very badly. If we could convince an audience to just follow you around for a day...then we've got something." | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?I will have an imaginary birthday party with you whenever you want <3 And I don't know when your birthday is so it can be whenever you decide! Plus cake. So I am willing to look the other way if you announce multiple birthdays a year d: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?Hahaha my life is silly :3 But really my best friend is originally from across the country and couldn't be with her sister on her birthday. She was sad so she invited everyone she knew to celebrate with cake wherever they were in the world. We all posted pictures of us blowing out candles in honor of the bday girl! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, what was the last perk you got for being a hot chick?I went to the bakery to get a single slice of cake to celebrate an imaginary birthday party. Yes really. Guy working gave me cake for free :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWConcern trolling is basically when a person comes to a space already opposing what the place is about, but acting like they're genuinely curious and "just asking questions". But in their approach they are trying to introduce their own ideology (by "opening a dialogue"). Good clarification and actually I don't think I would have been able to define it. I was 100% not doing this but I can basically guarantee it sounded as if I was - ah, so naive d: | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Fall Fashion MegathreadCan you send an inspo pic of your boot/skirt combo look?? I can never nail that one... | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:44 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWNo I definitely wasn't trolling, I didn't know enough to even form the idea the community worth trolling or anything of that sort. I was just like "wow this could be so much more inclusive without getting silly politics involved!" -- almost funnier than trolling. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:57 PM |
| 6 | First-Reactions to RPWUr all welcome. Here is ur pink manic panic and combat boots. Thank you come again. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWHahahaha if only it still existed, I could TRY and find it but I habitually delete my general Reddit acct handles for just safety reasons (after a time so many small details about yourself can add up) and I don't think that acct would exist anymore. One day I'll go on the hunt because the thread should exist, it would just say "by [deleted]". We would all get a really good laugh out of it hahaha. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:14 PM |
| 6 | First-Reactions to RPWOh it was SO cringe now in hindsight. My only saving grace (in my own mind haha) is how much I didn't understand the community and not like I was actually trying to proselytize anyone out of their beliefs but still, uuggghhhh. Shame. Shame. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:12 PM |
| 9 | First-Reactions to RPWOooooohhhh fun! I unintentionally started a bit of a brawl lol. I did NOT come in swinging like some people do because I didn't have enough knowledge to hate/love/know anything about the reputation. But obviously now I understand you guys are used to defending our space so I was immediately perceived as trolling/being a general dumbass. I think I was searching for relationship stuff in general, which lead me to a post in this sub. I read a bunch of stuff and was very taken aback by the anti-femi… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Is being a male virgin really such a weird, strange thing? {Male, 26}Agree with virgin by choice, particularly if for religious or moral reasons. Agree with virgin "not by choice", and will add the comparison that a male virgin is social equivalent to female slut. Girl who has slept around = slut Guy who has slept around = player Girl who is virgin = chaste, virtuous Guy who is virgin = weird, awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?How old were these guys? Mid-twenties, so you know, same age you just described as the last year of hypothetical girl's sexcapades. I will note one of them specifically said "it depends on her age, 15 partners by 30 is much more understandable than 10 by 19." What young, single women do you know that only have sex with 2 guys a year?? Let's just be honest, if you're a single and sexually active for longer than 5 years in your life, you're going to have a partner count much much higher than 10. C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsGod can we just repost that thread? Reread it now reminded me how great it is. Succinct too, as is WingN's gift. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsI think you could definitely do it, absolutely without sounding BP. It's not that RPW only works if you've found the right man, it's just that not every man is a captain (or the right captain for you). That's not RPW's problem, that's his (or yours). It's why we preach so heavily about vetting, and why it's so silly we are often mocked for surrendering to anything with a dick - which is so far from the truth. Really I think the post would be in essence "yet another way to hammer home the importa… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Random RP ThoughtsLike really TL;DR: You're a feminist until you find the right man. Classic "Team Womyn" vs "Team My Man" | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?I have asked several men, none of which have any knowledge of TRP, what n-count in a potential partner means to them. All of them said it was important. None of them gave an RP "more than 1 is too much" answer. Most of them said more partners than them would be a red flag. Most of them said 10-15 would be the absolute upward range of their comfort zone, and beyond that they would be disconcerted. Their answers weren't in line with any maxims or philosophies, it was just them pondering what they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsWomen are constantly using gestures, facial expressions, tones, etc. to indicate the state of our relationship with whoever we are engaging with. Even if we aren't aware of it, we give off subtle signals to reassure others that everything is fine, and we also constantly look for these signals in return. Men on the other hand don't engage in this behaviour at the same rate, their non verbal communication speed is lower (both in sending and searching for signs). I think that this difference contri… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsHaha! No problem and thanks for clarifying, it makes perfect sense in context now. My original read-through I thought I was the bankruptee giving you financially responsible folks advice. I thought "eh..I'll just uh, clarify..you know, in case.." Hahahaha. It's the difference between meeting the minimum requirements for a project, and really going all out to make a lasting impression. The entire post (boiled down in my mind) has a very clear message that centers around enthusiasm, being proactiv… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsLack of bad experiences (dating mishaps/relationships etc) is not the same as "lack of knowledge" or insight. There's often this idea...it's not generally expressed in an overt way...just a general assumption that "if a person has been through the ringer [had lots of bad dating experiences etc] then they have insights and perceptions that are going to be valuable and useful." At the same time, someone that has only ever really had positive, trouble-free, relationships can be viewed as 'lacking' … | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsThat's so interesting that your new man reverted back to old behaviour, the muscle memory theory totally makes sense Yeah that was just my take on it but I think it made sense, if it's been 5+ years since his last relationship, I can see a lot of masculine development taking place in the those specific years (late teens to mid twenties) and I'm glad you guys sorted everything Yeah it was seriously as simple as me pointing it out and him looking completely horrified lol. Re: dominance levels, you… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsThis is half-formed as all hell, and there really is no point of conclusion or even a real question either, so bear with me or skip (: I've been noticing the "equalizer factor" (not sure what else to call it) more in relationship dynamics, and how men/women will rise or fall in terms of alpha/beta traits to "equalize" with (or more ideally, complement) one another. I hope that makes sense. Now this isn't at all a novel concept, as we constantly preach that practicing submissiveness will bring ou… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouThanks Jade! It means a lot that you enjoyed (: | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionTotes. McGoats. You know. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 08:45 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionGood: Haven't missed a gym date with R yet! Feeling super duper proud and being that he is a personal trainer, I can see how happy it makes him that I share his passion with him. And it's a passion that makes me feel good so woo! Bad: Diet not on point, but we've agreed baby steps so I'm not feeling too beat up about it, I'm seeing it improve. Ugly: Nothing really (: Bonus: Not single but also not really there yet with R. I will say this is my idea of love as it relates to new relationships; . .… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI feel so much better. This is exactly the bit of warm and fuzzies I needed to emotionally get me through until my next raping. sobs. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouIf we look at the act in more detail (skip this parag if you can’t take it), PIV is a man mounting on a woman to thrust a large member of himself into her most intimate parts, often forcing her to be entirely naked, banging himself against her with the whole weight of his body and hips, shaking her like he would stuff a corpse, then using her insides as a receptacle for his penile dejection. How is this a normal civilised, respectful way to treat anyone? I don't think she's doing it right.....? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Small reminders of your SOHis name is Franco and I ruv him <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Small reminders of your SONot inaccurate d: On a cuter note, yesterday I left coffee sitting in there too long so I decided to let it soak before washing it. As I poured dish soap in the soak water and it bubbled up I totally giggled because he was taking a little giraffe bubble bath! I made sure to not fill it over his head so he looked really cute as he got pampered (: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Small reminders of your SOOMG YES.You didn't say that nearly as excited as I feel about it...schedules therapy appt. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Small reminders of your SOI may have whispered "yes, yes, drown, drown" as I first filled it up. R looked like he may have been second-guessing things. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Small reminders of your SOI'm obsessed with giraffes. It started out as an silly inside joke between my best friend and I and it's completely gotten out of control. The first day R took me to meet his best friend and his wife, we had to stop to pick up wine. We were in such a rush I waited in the car, when he jumps back in he pops a mug under my nose...a mug painted like a giraffe with a figurine giraffe inside the mug (so he kind of drowns every time you fill it but whatever...) Literally started squealing. Such a simpl… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouThey've added more. I like the part where I tolerate starfish misery sex - I'm going to have to tell R...he'll be so disappointed ): | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Let's get ready to TUMBLEEEE!Hahahaha so glad you enjoyed - more to come! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouBut I think keeping your man sexually satisfied is critical. It's easier to sustain a feeling of "that was fun. i enjoy sex with you" vs "that was the best sex ever" EVERY SINGLE TIME. Great distinction between the two, one is realistic and the other is a complete fantasy. which is why I'm not a huge fan of waiting a long period of time until you're super invested in him before engaging in sex. This may be somewhat controversial but I'm in moderate agreement. I do think it's important (at least … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouAgreed whole-heartedly, and edited the OP to add some other related threads you may want to check out (: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI responded to the other comment but I think between both that should at least cover the general question you had. Any more specifics and perhaps you want to make an advice post (: Also I edited the OP to add some more threads on the subject you may want to check out! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI added a few related threads posted by other users on the subject, you may particularly like the one on denying your SO sex (: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouMaergery had a great post on the subject of saying "no" - you should read if you haven't seen yet (: Edit: Just added that and a few more related threads to the OP! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouThanks! There are actually a lot of other great posts including yours and another from Maergery that I should have linked to - I think I'll go back and do that. Edit: Just edited OP to add your thread and a few more! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouWhy would he be curious?? He's a MAN. Of course he's curious. He's always curious. He's curious even if he doesn't tell you. All men, poor or rich, fat or built, lazy or active, want to cheat while in relationships. They want all the women. It's in their DNA. That doesn't just go away because he said he loves you, or "I do" or you have a family together. I don't disagree with you at all at all. Phrasing is unideal and it definitely spurred a good discussion in the IRC, but I'll leave the text as… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouCQ said it, but no. In addition to the inherent challenge of monogamy, having a neglectful romantic partner, or a low quality one (manipulative, etc) - there are plenty of rational reasons a man would cheat. It is our responsibility to be as loving and fulfilling as we possibly can be to minimize that risk. If your man cheats, your first job is to look in the mirror and ask if you could have done more. Sometimes the answer is "no", but most often the answer is "yes". In either case, there are pl… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouI agree 100% but would only add: do be sure it's because he is vanilla in the sack. If he is, and you can commit to a lifetime of that..then you're doing it right! But if he's sexually embarrassed, either because of a past experience or religious upbringing or something of that sort, then maybe slowly building up his comfort and moving away from that shame could be in order. You will definitely know your man better than we will but that would be my caveat. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouOh wow, very cool! I hope you keep reading and stick around, we are a pretty tight knit community and always love meeting new people who empathize with our relationship goals of being the best partner possible (: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouOk Leraine, this comment is crazy amazing haha. Well done! I really wanted to go through and quote it point by point because there is just so much great stuff happening here. But alas, I'm on mobile and don't think I have the stamina for that d: I would honestly encourage you to make a whole post out of this - you break down so well what sex means to men that we can't truly understand as women, but that denying them it is so hurtful and degrading - particularly from the woman that is supposed to… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Sex, RPW, Your Man, and YouAre you a regular visitor of RPW or did you stumble upon it elsewhere? Either way, it sounds like you had a wonderful marriage to your husband and made him very happy. I'm sorry you didn't get to enjoy it for longer, but I'm glad you both got the most out of your union (: | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/16 02:31 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.No, I really won't - respectfully said, as to not waste your time. I identified as a feminist from as soon as I learned "what some people think we aren't as good as boys??" until my early/mid-twenties. No, I was not the loud angry version of feminists we are speaking about. I was probably the exact kind of feminist you have in mind. I do agree that the feminazis are a minority, but that minority is not my problem with feminism (well they are, but only one small one of the many problems on a very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 11:24 PM |
| 6 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.Oh okay fair enough - well on that point I do completely agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 11:19 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.Like what is this? He didn't send her a "thanks for the easy sex" card and now he's sexist? This guy didn't even lie and is somehow sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 09:23 PM |
| 6 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.Complaining about sexism or misogyny isn't inherently misandry either though. Where do I say that?? I did not suggest complaining about misogyny is misandry. I did suggest feminists deem everything they dislike as "sexism" or "misogyny" if they can find even the most tenuous relation to gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.Lol it isn't fringe at all though. It isn't retarded 'reasoning', it's being annoyed feminism is just a bunch of angry Scotts sitting around playing bagpipes and complaining about how each is no true Scottsman. Tell me more about what real feminism is like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 08:50 PM |
| 8 | [CMV] /r/tbp is not a "satire" subreddit. It is a place where feminists gather to engage in Misandry.It would be like a feminist claiming that lying to women about your career to get laid is misogyny. No. Its just lying. They do complain about that. All the time. Anytime a man does anything they don't like it's instantly sexism or misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 04:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP comes from mommy issuesShhhh shh shh, the RPWi harem is here for you now...you're okay, you're okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/16 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadSend pics if you don't eat it all first (: | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Happy Women's Equality Day!Lol, what? Read Phantom's comment. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/16 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Being Rational As Opposed To Rationalizing.If I (or someone) could master all this...I don't know where I'm going with this, it would be incredible. Insightful post and a novel approach to a great topic. I hope one day I can think of it and actually say no to cake as a result maybe one day(: | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/16 06:06 AM |
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