Struggling

whitebunny87 · 2017-11-27T06:51:40+00:00

Hello, there's no detail here at all for members to respond to. From the sidebar:

Please copy and paste the questions listed below into the submission box and type your answers. If something doesn’t apply, just put “N/A.” Remember to use neutral phrasing and include the full story- not just the parts that are easy to share.

How old are you and how familiar are you with RPW?

What is your relationship status?

What is the problem? (Don’t badmouth your SO!)

How have you contributed to the problem?

How long has this been an issue?

What have you done to resolve this problem?

If married or in a committed, monogamous relationship:

How long have you been together?

Is your relationship long-distance?

Do you have an active bedroom life?

Please also include any other information that is relevant in your post.

GratefulWifeandMama · 2017-11-27T17:17:08+00:00

Feeling like people are better off without you is often indicative of depression.

StepfordInTexas · 2017-11-28T22:30:36+00:00

I felt this way once upon a time. I read some books and found a good counselor and I’m in a much better place now. It was all about me and my mindset.

Maybe start with Codependent No More and then read The Surrendered Wife.

reddishrobin · 2017-12-04T19:54:15+00:00

Let your husband decide if he wants to be with you or not. Sounds like he hasn't said he doesn't, so believe that. Keep trying the red pill and allow yourself to fail as long as you pick yourself back up and try again. Changing the habits of a lifetime won't happen overnight. Plus its easy to understand the theory but a whole other ball game to remember to put them in practice, especially in times of high emotion. Keep practicing in times of low emotion, you'll get there if you don't give up.

StillTraveling · 2017-11-27T05:12:34+00:00

Edited to add: I know I'm not doing it correctly here in terms of formatting/tagging my post... This is my first time posting on a tablet as opposed to a PC and I'm not sure how to do all of that!

Title	Struggling
Author	StillTraveling
Upvotes	9
Comments	7
Date	November 27, 2017 5:11 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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