So my boyfriend (22) and I (19) have been dating for over a year and 8 months. He's a genuinely good person and I love him and so does my family. I think he has a lot of potential but for the first year of our relationship he wasn't that serious, and I was very serious. This wasn't really a problem til i discovered at a year of dating a plethora of girls on his snapchat and him liking girls facebook posts that were particularly slutty. We had a huge fight and he eventually apologized and we have moved on. This was extremely hard for me to get past because I have plenty of body image problems and those facebook girls looks nothing like me... So after dealing with the emotional rollercoaster of my emotions we got on track again as a happy couple but it was very bumpy dealing with random fights and I feel like some I was very unfair and just being irrational because of my fears of him cheating or these other mystery girls. I've never found anything about cheating and I trust he hasn't and won't but 8 months since finding out about all those girls on his social media accounts, again today I discovered a video in his camera roll from years ago of him and a ex having sex. he says he had no idea it was there and hasn't been through those photo albums in forever he just redownloaded his old phones pictures when he got his new one. I love him and we have been through a lot together. I want to trust him but he's honestly just a dumb lazy boy who doesn't understand the respect id appreciate him having by keeping his social media and phone clean. Is there like any advice you'd give me if you were in my situation? I told him this is his last chance but i feel like I treat him like he's 5 and parent him I want an equal partner is it me being nuts? like someone talk to me about this lol