How to be not bitter?

pinkflowerprincessx · 2024-03-25T22:00:31+00:00

Thanks for this post I needed this, I do this too with loved ones at times when I get irritated :( but acknowledging it is good news, we can fix this girlie 👏 some people don't even see this as an issue when they behave this way, (not to put others down!) but some people genuinely see nothing wrong with it, they don't even notice, maybe it doesn't rly affect their loved ones though. Atleast we're acknowledging our wrongs and working to change ❤️

Deliaallmylife · 2024-03-25T18:22:53+00:00

Could you give a concrete example of what you feel bitter about? This is vague. It sounds like you are saying that you get upset and know that it's things that might not be his fault but you are getting bitter at him anyway which is a bit confusing.

AutoModerator · 2024-03-25T18:05:14+00:00

Title: How to be not bitter?

Author meltilen

Full text: Hi ladies,

I am sometimes very annoyed by everything, of course not 'just like that' but because of unseen reasons, some little things that go wrong in daily life, hormones or a full moon... I can't classify directly. (It doesn't last too long though) So, I aspire to STFU when I am annoyed like that. But I just can't shut myself off to my partner so of course there is some interaction between us, but then I am bitter towards him. I just don't want to be cute or understanding or polite, I just don't. How can I avoid being bitter in such situations?

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itsokman111 · 2024-03-26T06:25:26+00:00

Hello!! I am same lol. Whenever I feel like I’m easy annoyed mood I give him heads up “hey, my period is coming or I didn’t sleep well and I feel bit on the edge today, so if I say or do something not so nice it’s because of that- just ignore me” I don’t do or say any awful stuff but if explain to him that I’m irritable he will know that isn’t personal but cuz I’m crazy that day. So I’d advice you just tell him when you feel irritable, you will be more at ease not having to pretend you’re ok, and he will know it’s nothing to do with him!

Title	How to be not bitter?
Author	meltilen
Upvotes	14
Comments	14
Date	March 25, 2024 6:05 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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