Hi all, I have been a follower of redpill for 2 years as is the length of my relationship. We do not live together, but due to a safety situation we moved in together for 2 month. Now for work I have now moved abroad, apart from him, for an additional 2 months.

I noticed that when we lived together we got along harmoniously, we became warmer, but he started admitting how much he likes to 'follow' me, and he stopped exercising. I know of the natural betafication of men in a long term relationship. Even so, I am trying to understand what I did wrong that put him into more of that follower position. He wasn't like that in the begining.

What would be the antidote to this? I have two months to live alone, in which only long distance/opposite time zone communication is available to us.