As everyone knows, there are many RPW tips, some are complex to implement yet others are surprisingly simple. A few months ago lurking on this sub, I found an easy tip repeating from girls and mods in field report: "Ask him what he wants to eat for dinner, then make it."

Personally, this tip saves me SO much time because I now don't need to browse recipes that might risk my palate, or spend excess money on foods that I might end up not using, or worry myself about whether my boyfriend is going to like what I'm making.

Previously, I would announce ahead of time to my boyfriend what I am planning to cook. He would respond, "I can't wait to eat it! I love your cooking." Which is sincere and very nice! Sidenote, we do not live together, but we visit eachothers' apartments 1-2 times a week during which the host will cook for the guest. But when I read this RPW tip and heard that it improves how the man feels about you, I started to implement it.

When I first started asking him what he wants for dinner, he would say "Anything you want to cook, babe" or "I love everything you cook." Which is sweet! But I was worried he will think I am starting to be lazy for not planning ahead. But I kept slowly trying out this tip, and eventually he started getting comfortable to answer. Another easy way to ask a man this is "What are you craving today?/What have you been craving recently?" He even started to do this to me as well!

The surprising thing that happened was that after a while, he became more comfortable to answer my question directly. Now whenever I ask, he tells me what he wants, everything even down to side dishes and drinks! And because he knows what I'm going to cook ahead of time, often times he even goes to the grocery store and buys the ingredients for me first!

Once I overheard him telling his friend that I am willing to cook for him anything he wants to eat, and that makes me 'so wifey material',! So thanks, RPW!!

Today he is coming over for dinner, and I asked him what he wants to eat/drink. He then sent me a drink recipe LOL! I am so happy he has become more comfortable to be decisive around me, calls me wifey material, and being sent a recipe just makes this evening so much simpler for me.