TL:DR Bf has way lower sex drive how can I get over it/ make him more into having sex again?

Okay so, my boyfriend has a much lower libido than I do, I was wondering if you ladies had any good advice with how to deal with this/make the situation better for him.

I have subscribed to the rpw way of life for a while now, but know that I am with a guy who is not as ‘masculine’ as I would always want him to be. He has the potential to be, but currently lets his life kinda just stagnate: he doesn’t have a good sleep routine, doesn’t eat as well as he could (though perhaps that’s my fault as I cook), doesn’t exercise, smokes, drinks and does some drugs.

I also indulge in some vices (not very rpw of me but I am working on it). But have my shit together in general.

I feel like these habits are affecting his sex drive adversely, but can’t really do anything about it. I love him very very deeply regardless.

Also, we had broken up last September for two months but I simply could not live without him I love him so much. When we got back together the sex was great and more frequent than it had ever been. Now, it’s been a week and a half since we had sex.

He has also started a job with long hours and is fatigued because of it

I have mentioned the whole sex thing but I genuinely don’t want to mention it again because it just makes him feel pressured and therefore less likely to want to have sex.

SO I want your wonderful opinions, how can I move on from this and learn to bask in the wonderful person he is again? It’s not that I resent him, I just want to not have this weighing on my mind so I can enjoy him to his full and therefore not pressure him.

Also, I do take care of myself but any other aesthetic, practical advice would be welcome! Also any advice on how to act to let him lead and reclaim his sexuality.

Please no ‘there’s no hope’ sort of advice - been there done that. This is my man regardless of this issue.