Quick Questions

chairman_mau5 · 2016-07-24T00:51:16+00:00

My BF is coming home from work in Iraq in 25 days! He'll be back for two weeks before heading back over for another six months. Any suggestions for projects to keep me busy while I count down the days?

I've been already doing tons of cleaning/getting the house ready, making appointments to get myself ready (hair trim, waxing, facial), and trying to figure what on earth to wear when I pick him up.

Also, because we haven't been together since Valentine's Day and I've been holding down the fort stateside, should I keep up with my responsibilities while he's home for two weeks? Or become the more submissive First Mate? Of course he gets to pick out meals and things to do because it's his time home, but what about things like lawn work? I know he loves doing lawn and home projects. Not sure if he'd love a honey do list or if he just wants to chill and I keep doing what I've been doing.

PantheraTigris95 · 2016-07-24T05:02:37+00:00

Keeping it short: I'm at a large university - large class sizes, busy schedules etc.

I have little to no problem striking up casual conversation with guys, I'm good with witty humour so that seems to help in the 'hey, you're sitting next to me' type of small talk.

My problem is with bringing anything further than that, so the guys become acquaintances and nothing more.

How do I turn these guys into 'prospects' or make myself more interesting than a one/two/three time casual conversation? I feel like there's a step I'm missing.

Passerby6 · 2016-07-23T21:21:41+00:00

Sadie should help with this one. What do I get my pregnant BFF as a gift? I'd like it to be sentimental, she's having a boy. She lives on another continent!!

wham-pow · 2016-07-24T23:06:19+00:00

Has anyone taken the Understanding Men course that The Feminine Woman advertises? It sounds interesting, but I'm not yet convinced on dropping $200 for it. I don't want to pay for info I can find for free (like on RPW or blogs).

snuflufagus · 2016-07-27T17:32:48+00:00

I'm having my first baby in a few weeks, how can I make sure that my husband still feels important/loved? We've already agreed to do a low carb diet together so that I lose the baby weight quickly but I'm worried since you are not supposed to have sex for over a month and I'll be distracted from our relationship.

violet_wall_flower · 2016-07-27T17:28:43+00:00

I've read that a general advice you give here is to grow long hair. Could you define "long hair"? Maybe using this chart as a reference so it's clear what we're talking about?

My hair has now a lenght midway between waist and hips, I'm afraid I'm growing it too much out of the idea that the longer it is, the more attractive I am. I'm 5 1' so it is now 1/3 of my height, that looks weird rather than attractive I think.

Last time I cut it midway between shoulders and armpit lenght, I got a lot of compliments from guys, who told me I look better with this lenght than with my usual lenght (before cutting, it was around mid-back lenght). That's why I'm skeptical that long hair is 100% of times attractive and I'm thinking about cutting it again, if that makes me really more attractive as it seems.

EDIT: grammar.

Passerby6 · 2016-07-29T10:39:31+00:00

Just wanted to share a rare RPW commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RI1r_pqHGFM.

meming_yo · 2016-08-05T22:06:41+00:00

How do I make a girl take the red pill?

If the guys are	Then maybe you're	You might try
Walking away embarrassed but interested later	Attractive to shy inexperienced guys which is good for both parties when you're inexperienced yourself	Give them a little nudge to get started. "Don't you have a girlfriend? You should ask a girl out."
Walking away neutrally but not interested later	Giving friends only vibe	Work on your flirting and nonverbal communication skills: eye contact, body language, IOI behaviors etc
Always ending the interaction early, acting bored	Not a scintillating conversationalist	Examine your listening and engaging skills, ask open questions, mutual self disclosure
Ending interaction coldly, disinterested later	Giving an aloof or superior vibe	Check yourself for shyness defense mechanisms, get feedback from a wingwoman observer.

Title	Quick Questions
Author	theScarlettWoman
Upvotes	9
Comments	33
Date	July 23, 2016 7:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4u9on7/quick_questions/
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