I'm not entirely sure what im looking for here. Maybe just some kind words. Last month my engagement ended. It's been rough but we aren't on bad terms or anything. I've tried to put my energy into saving up to get out of my parents. Don't have much money saved but that should change by spring. Which is my goal. I've also tried to put more energy into my friendships. Not really looking hard for a relationship. I'm on a few online dating sites. Got asked out on a date but to be honest I'm not at all interested in him. So I turned him down. There will be other guys so not overly worried. Most I've ran into just want to hook up. Is it weird to not want to immediately run out and date? My ex and I were together for almost three and a half years. We dated for like three months before that too. My friends say I should take my time. Other people ask why I'm not dating yet.