RPW flirting tips?

jmottram08 · 2014-03-16T16:52:45+00:00

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ejtnjin · 2014-03-16T18:51:08+00:00

If I'm trying to flirt, I try to be an engaged listener instead of talking about myself. So if he mentions a hobby or shared interest, I will mention I like it but then try to direct it back to him immediately, such as saying, "When did you get into that?" Only elaborate about yourself if he asks you. Smile with your eyes as he talks and say things like "Oh!" and "Wow!" to let him know you're really paying attention.

I generally try to laugh whenever it's appropriate and cover my mouth with my hand when I laugh really hard. No, I'm not Asian and I'm not sure why I do this but it does make me feel a little bit more feminine.

I blush extremely easily as part of an anxiety disorder that I used to see a therapist for. It made it hard for me to talk to men because I was concerned about my whole face lighting up red until my therapist pointed out that many men find this flattering, even if it's only subconscious. When I was flirting with my boyfriend before we were dating, I blushed like crazy. After a while I asked him about it and he said he never even noticed it. But I think subconsciously men notice it and like it, so if it happens to you, don't worry about it.

SirNemesis · 2014-03-16T20:30:44+00:00

Kino. And more kino. Plus smiling, eye contact, and acting coy. And don't forget kino.

MrsStrom · 2014-03-16T21:37:07+00:00

Smile! And be conscious of resting bitch face. You want to be approachable.

After that, laughing at his jokes and blushing at the appropriate time should come naturally if you're sufficiently attracted to him.

When you feel comfortable enough, stand within kissing distance. Though, you'll probably do this without noticing. It was mentioned elsewhere, but touch him. Even laying your hand on his arm should give him sufficient encouragement to all for your number or kiss you.

Above all else, have fun!

0ringer · 2014-03-17T01:13:50+00:00

Check out the art of seduction by robert greene

SweetPinkCuntCake · 2014-03-17T04:46:55+00:00

My tip is a subtle change, but really makes a difference: articulate your words, speak clearly, and through your throat so your voice doesn't sound nasally. I took a voice class for theater in college, and afterwards I noticed an increase in compliments from people, mostly men, about my voice. I work as a receptionist so I encounter a lot of people daily, and interact with them and use my charms to make them feel good (I work for a doctor, people are usually in pain when they come in). Be clear, resonant, but not shrill :)

stiletto_vodka · 2014-03-17T07:22:50+00:00

Be careful with compliments. Ones that don't sound genuine turn people off, too many about one thing in particular makes you look easily impressed, too many in general gives your positive opinion less power.

Use them as positive reinforcement for positive behavior. If he tells you he has a job, cool, we're adults, good for you. If he tells you he's been saving x much to buy a house in y years, compliment him-- that's something noteworthy and something you want him to know impresses you so he will continue to do it. Compliment him on his looks but obliquely:

"I love your eye color." - He has probably heard this before if he actually has nice eyes and therefore has a way to maneuver this without much effort into a sexual come-on. Make it harder for him. -> "You should wear more blue, it brings out those fantastic eyes of yours."

"You're so tall." - This is an observation. Voice inflection will make this sound like a compliment but it technically isn't positive or negative. Contextualize. -> He's walking you home at night: "I love how big and strong you are, it makes me feel so safe with you."

My favorite compliment is a silent one. I'll do this one with a date or a boyfriend or a bartender or my father; it works on all men, really. He'll be doing something and handling business. I'll sit quietly and tilt my head, watching him do what he's doing. I'll kind of smile dreamily like I'm not really there and he'll look at me, mirroring and smiling back, and I just kind of pop up like I woke up out of a dream and smile at him and say "You're so great." Then I keep things moving along so it isn't anything but a brief interruption for appreciation. It's an immersive admiration of who a person is at their most candid and it's honestly the deepest compliment any person can give.

j0hnan0n · 2014-03-16T18:26:29+00:00

Half in jest: engage in more boner-inspiring actions. for tips (although I personally think a graduate degree wouldn't hurt...) maybe consider reading this: http://www.rooshv.com/its-the-boner-stupid

and have an upvote!

Blatant-Ballsack · 2014-03-19T07:45:51+00:00

If you are attractive, then just grab his pecker. Simple as that.

Title	RPW flirting tips?
Author	carrotcake4
Upvotes	15
Comments	19
Date	March 16, 2014 4:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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