I've read some of the wiki sidebar and, from what I understand, one of the ways men feel loved is when there is a healthy sex life in a relationship. How does a rpw handle the sexual part of the relationship? Is it to be more sexually available even if you're not in the mood? Barring illness or other such similiar circumstances, should it be generally considered whenever he wants? How do you handle this part of your relationships?

EDIT: Wow! I did not expect this to lead to such a deep discussion! Thank you everyone who responded and gave fascinating and varied perspectives unique to their situations. I learned quite a bit so thank you again!