Waiting for label

ArdentBandicoot · 2025-05-12T05:24:13+00:00

This post is locked. OP, you need to include all relevant information in your post, including whether you are still married to another man. Not telling us this isn't going to change the veracity of the advice you got last time you asked about this. Deleting posts is also against our subreddit rules. This is a warning.

OldBook649 · 2025-05-12T03:36:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1jzqerf/would_you_stick_around/

Has your divorce been finalized yet?

RedPillDad · 2025-05-11T15:06:53+00:00

A man is vetted to determine if he's worthy of sex and a potential relationship. A woman is vetted to determine if she's worthy of a ring and being the mother to future children. Congrats, you're being seriously considered.

OP, you said "puts a lot of effort into our relationship", which is an awesome green flag. Are you putting in equal or more effort? Do you show up every day eager to contribute more?

Looking like a princess is a green flag. Acting like one in an entitled manner is a glaring red flag. Men who are lower tier chumps will put up with all kinds of nonsense that a man of higher value won't.

YoyoPeaches · 2025-05-11T15:31:34+00:00

If you don’t have a label you are free to date others imo. He may be amazing but how amazing is he if he won’t add a label. 3 months is plenty of time to determine if he wants to make you his girlfriend.

If he can’t add a label now, imagine how difficult it may be when it come times to propose

serene_brutality · 2025-05-12T03:48:59+00:00

I’d give it another month or two, and then have a serious talk. Chances are you’re right on the cusp and you’re going to need to make him shit or get off the pot. Likely you’re good but don’t match his expectations. He might be waiting for you to do something, or you’re just not quite right for one another.

AutoModerator · 2025-05-11T14:42:15+00:00

Title: Waiting for label

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Full text: I started dating what appears to be an amazing man 3 months ago. He is a good man for a lot of reasons and has characteristics that are hard to find. We both are looking to settle down. He puts a lot of effort into our relationship.

One thing that’s come up is that he isn’t ready to label me his girlfriend. He seems extremely serious about vetting and taking his time to get to each other. I’m used to and like having a label by this stage. Should this bother me? Anyone have a solid marriage after waiting a while for a label?

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Title	Waiting for label
Author	smartblackbeauty
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	May 11, 2025 2:42 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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