Quick engagement

The_Gilded_orchid · 2025-04-11T09:57:38+00:00

Find someone emotionally mature, that is open, honest,and shares your values and beliefs. I was engaged within a year, the wedding has only been postponed due to me returning to university and not wanting added stress during that time. My husband and I match and compliment each other, and we established that very early on.

Dionne005 · 2025-04-11T13:32:58+00:00

I would address that I’m only dating for marriage and I don’t believe in dating forever to get married. I’d address that in the first 3 dates after realizing he’s not a catfish.

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Title: Quick engagement

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Full text: I’d love advice on the following. What do you think are ways to get to engagement quickly? I don’t want to date for years before getting engaged. I’m older 40, know myself well, and want to settle down.

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Ill_Coffee_6821 · 2025-04-11T14:31:45+00:00

Honestly you will probably know if you can have this with a man you meet within a few dates based on how they uplevel the relationship. It’s a filtering process. But I’m not sure you can do more to find the person other than widening the top of your funnel as much as possible and filtering quickly. Usually you know within a few dates if a man is interested in getting serious with you. You can use that info to ask better questions to understand what they’re looking for.

In terms of speed, some men are more cautious than others but you can filter the best you can.

Abject-Parking3161 · 2025-04-11T15:19:51+00:00

When you understand the laws of the Universe. I can tell you your energy is repelling that from you. You operate out of lack and desperation so you will only attract that. Start loving yourself and settle with yourself to the point you no longer care and see what happens. I know because I’ve been there.

MadMax777g · 2025-04-11T14:23:09+00:00

Get someone that needs a green card, you will be married in no time

Title	Quick engagement
Author	smartblackbeauty
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	April 11, 2025 7:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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